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To wonder if past trauma was a factor in the Renee Nicole Good murder and that, while not absolving agent, it shows ICE should select agents more carefully?

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Carla786 · 11/01/2026 20:58

Reading this from the BBC, I wonder if the agent was suffering from previous trauma. They had earlier been in the Iraq War and then had huge number of stitches after being dragged by a car while arresting apparently a 'child sex offender' illicit migrant last March.

Thus I wonder if, because Renee Good clipped them with the car earlier(as The Times indicates), shooting at her car as she drove past was less a rational decision borne from evil and more an instinctive reaction from recent trauma with cars on the job?

This is NOT an excuse. But I wonder if it also shows that ICE are selecting traumatised agents who are too dangerous, due to this, to be in that position?

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cdx4qd4d16no

Person wearing tactical vest leans toward a car with shattered rear window, broken glass visible, trees and houses in background.

ICE agent in Minnesota shooting was dragged by car in June

The officer was injured in a separate case that also involved a car pulling away during an investigation.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cdx4qd4d16no

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DdraigGoch · 13/01/2026 16:19

RingoJuice · 13/01/2026 16:09

Sounds reasonable, right? Every word is carefully chosen to normalise actions that would otherwise seem shocking, hiding human suffering and trauma, violence and coercion, moral controversy and ultimately accountability

Deportation is normal.

If you don’t leave after you’ve been given a deportation order, then the consequences are on you.

UK Border Force manage to conduct immigration raids relatively peacefully, without compromising detainees' right to due process.

FuckRealityBringMeABook · 13/01/2026 16:19

autodex · 13/01/2026 15:03

No, watch the video. He pulls his gun as the car is moving forward towards him. She reverses, then he comes into frame and her wheels briefly straighten and she moves forward, and when he sees the car move forward towards him, he pulls his gun.

Its seems extremely likely that her intention was to drive away. But that is us sitting here calmly watching videos in our living rooms with nothing threatening us. He is in a situation of high tension, been opposed by people who spout the sort of rhetoric and abuse we have seen on this thread about ICE agents, there is a lot of shouting and raised emotion, the driver has repeatedly refused an order to stop and get out of the car and has also failed to open the car door to her wife who is trying to get in ( which you'd expect her to do if they were just going home now), and has now turned her car towards him and accelerated. That's the situation he is making a split second decision in.

Nonsense. He strolls around the car calmly just before. If that[s high tension, he should try teaching a physics class to a class of fifteen-year-olds on the last Friday before Christmas 🙄and if he can[t handle a little mid-morning backchat from a pair of suburban moms, he shouldn[t be out on the streets with a gun.

GoodGriefCharlie · 13/01/2026 16:21

AhBiscuits · 11/01/2026 21:02

He killed her because she belittled and emasculated him. He wasn't prepared to let a woman, a lesbian no less, talk down to him. So he shot her in the face and called her a fucking bitch.

Yep. And they’re not going to be more careful recruiting ICE agents because they’re encouraging these behaviours. Violence has ramped up in Minneapolis since the shooting, not calmed down. They’re emboldened.

There are videos of ICE agents asking women haven’t they learned yet?

FuckRealityBringMeABook · 13/01/2026 16:22

deargen · 13/01/2026 15:53

Such neat, detached, reasoned, dutiful and irrefutable framing of controversial actions and policies. ICE are only following orders it's just a job. CE arrests and deports people. That is their assigned job. Their job reflects decisions made democratically. Therefore ICE actions are justified and reasonable.

Sounds reasonable, right? Every word is carefully chosen to normalise actions that would otherwise seem shocking, hiding human suffering and trauma, violence and coercion, moral controversy and ultimately accountability.

Victor Klemperer called

LTI – Lingua Tertii Imperii - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/LTI_%E2%80%93_Lingua_Tertii_Imperii

GoodGriefCharlie · 13/01/2026 16:23

FuckRealityBringMeABook · 13/01/2026 16:19

Nonsense. He strolls around the car calmly just before. If that[s high tension, he should try teaching a physics class to a class of fifteen-year-olds on the last Friday before Christmas 🙄and if he can[t handle a little mid-morning backchat from a pair of suburban moms, he shouldn[t be out on the streets with a gun.

This is so clearly the truth that the vast comments online coming up with every possibility about why it’s OK to shoot a woman in the face make me despair. They’re rife on here too along with pro-Trump rhetoric.

beAsensible1 · 13/01/2026 16:24

If you are so traumatised you are unable to not shoot people in face or desalted a situation you shouldn’t be in job where you manage people in fraught situations or have access to a gun. It’s not complicated

RingoJuice · 13/01/2026 16:26

They drop tear gas canisters outside elementary schools

No they didn’t.

They grab people from day cares

She actually was stopped in her car and then she fled into the daycare (where she worked). She shouldn’t have done that/

They lift teenage US citizens from their work at Target, beat them up and abandon them miles away

Yeah ICE shouldn’t have done that.

RingoJuice · 13/01/2026 16:28

DdraigGoch · 13/01/2026 16:19

UK Border Force manage to conduct immigration raids relatively peacefully, without compromising detainees' right to due process.

Do they even deport anyone? How many do they actually deport each year? Is anyone deterred by them?

I honestly know little about them

Hmmtheplant · 13/01/2026 16:32

RingoJuice · 13/01/2026 16:28

Do they even deport anyone? How many do they actually deport each year? Is anyone deterred by them?

I honestly know little about them

To be honest I suspect you know very little about what is actually happening in the US too, you are likely to be consuming very biased news sources, a major problem in the US.

1dayatatime · 13/01/2026 16:32

DdraigGoch · 13/01/2026 16:19

UK Border Force manage to conduct immigration raids relatively peacefully, without compromising detainees' right to due process.

You are correct in that UZk immigration raids are normally peaceful but I would add that they are also normally pointless with very few of those arrested for being illegal migrants ever being deported.

For example a November 2025 immigration raids that led to 171 arrests of delivery riders, only 60 were reportedly facing deportation by December, with the others remaining in the community pending legal reviews.

Gloriia · 13/01/2026 16:34

RingoJuice · 13/01/2026 16:28

Do they even deport anyone? How many do they actually deport each year? Is anyone deterred by them?

I honestly know little about them

Our useless Border Force probably give everyone a sarnie and a cup of tea and wave them on their way.

RedTagAlan · 13/01/2026 16:35

DdraigGoch · 13/01/2026 15:47

Not in the same numbers. 2,000 ICE officers were sent to Minneapolis. That's 10% of their entire manpower, all concentrated on one city.

Its also almost four times the number of cops there. Minneapolis has something around 580 cops.

And the Trump admin announced today that they are sending hundreds more ICE.

Hmmtheplant · 13/01/2026 16:36

Gloriia · 13/01/2026 16:34

Our useless Border Force probably give everyone a sarnie and a cup of tea and wave them on their way.

Yeah much better to err on the side of caution and shoot/intimidate/assault them or at the very least lock them up without due process.

Excuse the smart-arseness, I couldn’t help it :)

DdraigGoch · 13/01/2026 16:37

BlueJuniper94 · 13/01/2026 16:14

This dreadful, I hope it isn't true

Of course it is true.

https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/ng-interactive/2026/jan/04/ice-2025-deaths-timeline
Thirty-two people died in Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE) custody in 2025

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2025/dec/16/school-principal-ice-raids
Most years, my job is to make sure we have enough copy paper and to observe classes, such as the room I visited on Halloween when a teacher dressed like a Teletubby read aloud to eighth graders from The Tell-Tale Heart.

This year, in the same building: a student who had begun barricading his bedroom door each night, terrified agents would appear; a mom in the hallway whose eyes welled with tears when I asked: “How are you?”, and who said to me: “I’m just so scared.”

https://blockclubchicago.org/2025/11/19/feds-tear-gassed-pepper-sprayed-chicagoans-at-least-49-times-even-after-judge-said-to-stop/
Federal agents have used chemical irritants at least 30 times since a judge placed restrictions on their use of tear gas and pepper spray. Contrary to federal claims about attacks on agents, most of these incidents appear to involve nonviolent protesters or bystanders.

https://www.mprnews.org/story/2026/01/08/after-border-patrol-clash-at-roosevelt-minneapolis-schools-cancel-classes
And then they started coming on the property of the school and pushing people and tackling people and shooting pepper spray and pepper balls. And they handcuffed two of our employees.

https://www.hindustantimes.com/world-news/us-news/who-is-jonathan-garcia-alleged-ice-arrest-of-17-year-old-us-citizen-in-minnesota-sparks-fury-elon-musk-responds-101768263103791.html
In Minneapolis, MN, 17 year-old Target employee Jonathan Aguilar Garcia, a U.S. citizen, was taken by CBP while on the job because they assumed he was an immigrant. He was later dumped at a nearby Walmart parking lot crying and bleeding when they realized he really was a citizen

https://time.com/7339923/immigration-citizenship-ceremony-green-card/
Breslow emphasizes that the people whose ceremonies are canceled have already been accepted for citizenship—the ceremony is supposed to be a formality.

Just the tip of the iceberg.

Feds Used Chemical Weapons On Chicagoans At Least 49 Times — Even After Judge Said To Stop

Contrary to federal claims about attacks on agents, most of these incidents appear to involve nonviolent protesters or bystanders.

https://blockclubchicago.org/2025/11/19/feds-tear-gassed-pepper-sprayed-chicagoans-at-least-49-times-even-after-judge-said-to-stop/

Gloriia · 13/01/2026 16:38

LlttledrummergirI · 13/01/2026 14:21

If they were removing criminals then you might have a point.

It seems to be an exercise in how to terrorise a population to force them to come to heel under facist rule.

You are clearly not an historian.

Which bit about illegal immigration don't you understand is illegal, they are breaking the law and are in fact criminals?

A pp on another thread did infact post stats to illegals who were rapists and worse too if that helps?

DdraigGoch · 13/01/2026 16:39

RingoJuice · 13/01/2026 16:28

Do they even deport anyone? How many do they actually deport each year? Is anyone deterred by them?

I honestly know little about them

You honestly know little about anything.

DdraigGoch · 13/01/2026 16:40

No they didn’t.

Yes, they did.

Gloriia · 13/01/2026 16:40

Hmmtheplant · 13/01/2026 16:36

Yeah much better to err on the side of caution and shoot/intimidate/assault them or at the very least lock them up without due process.

Excuse the smart-arseness, I couldn’t help it :)

Edited

There is a happy medium. Be effective and actually deport people? We send one person out and they're back the next day.

DdraigGoch · 13/01/2026 16:42

RedTagAlan · 13/01/2026 16:35

Its also almost four times the number of cops there. Minneapolis has something around 580 cops.

And the Trump admin announced today that they are sending hundreds more ICE.

Apparently the administration is struggling to find volunteers for the deployment. It seems that the heavy-handed tactics have backfired and the ICE agents are starting to feel the heat.

Hmmtheplant · 13/01/2026 16:43

Gloriia · 13/01/2026 16:40

There is a happy medium. Be effective and actually deport people? We send one person out and they're back the next day.

Edited

Fair enough, but I’d prefer to lean on the British side of the scale personally.

DdraigGoch · 13/01/2026 16:44

Gloriia · 13/01/2026 16:38

Which bit about illegal immigration don't you understand is illegal, they are breaking the law and are in fact criminals?

A pp on another thread did infact post stats to illegals who were rapists and worse too if that helps?

There are such things as due process and civil rights.

deargen · 13/01/2026 16:49

FuckRealityBringMeABook · 13/01/2026 16:22

Interesting, I hadn't heard of Victor Klemperer but the euphemisms, slogans and bureaucratic phrasing under Nazi rule is what we see from Trump and ICE supporters.

Klemperer says language doesn’t reflect ideology it produces it. Bureaucratic and “reasonable” phrasing is used to anaesthetise moral judgment. When violence is framed as duty, procedure or necessity people might stop asking ethical questions. Repeating these normalising phrases is to make the abnormal feel inevitable and even virtuous.

“It’s just enforcing the law”
“It’s not personal”
“Hard choices have to be made”
“That’s how the system works”
"Actions have consequences"

That is exactly how many MAGAs posts on here.

RedTagAlan · 13/01/2026 16:49

Gloriia · 13/01/2026 16:38

Which bit about illegal immigration don't you understand is illegal, they are breaking the law and are in fact criminals?

A pp on another thread did infact post stats to illegals who were rapists and worse too if that helps?

Is that the "list" of crims captured by ICE that someone posted ?

If so, I was the one who found out that the murderers and rapists listed were already in jail doing time, with deportation orders for when they finished their sentences.

ICE are taking them to the border and setting them free. ICE are commuting their sentences to boost their capture figures and give headline crimes.

Awesome.

deargen · 13/01/2026 16:55

RingoJuice · 13/01/2026 16:09

Sounds reasonable, right? Every word is carefully chosen to normalise actions that would otherwise seem shocking, hiding human suffering and trauma, violence and coercion, moral controversy and ultimately accountability

Deportation is normal.

If you don’t leave after you’ve been given a deportation order, then the consequences are on you.

Thank you for illustrating my point 🤗

Gloriia · 13/01/2026 16:56

DdraigGoch · 13/01/2026 16:44

There are such things as due process and civil rights.

Due process?! What like the due process that illegal immigrants stick to?

I don't know the details but I think due process will be adhered to once in custody. They do have a judicial system in the US.

Maybe our border control could do some work experience in the US and learn how to be effective.

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