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Ice agent shoots a woman in the face part 3

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Moontan · 09/01/2026 15:35

Donald Trump has now said its okay to murder a woman. Because they are doing it for people's 'safety'

It is interesting how far humans will let themselves be abused by bad people.

I was watching a documentary about jonestown the cult.

Some people left the cult

They said that the leader beat people, raped people, starved people. He made them do physical labour for many hours a day. He demanded that they give him all of their money.

And yet still hundreds of people followed him.

People seem to keep supporting a person and staying there. Rather than saying "maybe i was wrong and this guy is actually a bad person"

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MrsTerryPratchett · 10/01/2026 00:17

I’m curious. If you’re one of the people who think protest is stupid and you’re asking for violence, how do you feel when you see things like the man vs tank in Tiananmen, the singing revolution in Estonia, Latvia and Lithuania, anti-Apartheid marches and protests, the fall of the Berlin Wall?

Do you sit and think, “well that’s just asking for trouble”? Or do you admire and respect the people fighting for freedom and democracy?

Because ICE are hauling people off the streets of America and some are bound for torture prisons in El Salvador, with documented brutality and murder. That warrants protest.

MrsTerryPratchett · 10/01/2026 00:18

Frequency · 10/01/2026 00:14

I'm not victim-blaming, I'm just pointing out that maybe, if you don't want to be raped, you shouldn't go out wearing a short skirt.

Maybe, just maybe, if you're drinking with a man all night, you probably shouldn't wear short skirts and flirt. I'm not saying it was her fault she was raped and beaten. I'm just saying she made the wrong decision in wearing that.

Ignore this. I’m an idiot.

MrsTerryPratchett · 10/01/2026 00:19

MrsTerryPratchett · 10/01/2026 00:18

Ignore this. I’m an idiot.

Edited

Shit sorry I think you might have been being sarcastic.

In which case my utter and complete apology!!!

Soontobesingles · 10/01/2026 00:19

1dayatatime · 09/01/2026 23:55

I agree that the new footage doesn't really add anything new other than:

Disproving a previous poster that claimed she was simply reversing off her drive. (She lived several blocks away).

That there was no ICE officer stood in front of the vehicle (there clearly is).

He calls her a ‘fcking bith’ after he has shot her in the face. I think that adds context that this was a spiteful, vindictive murder - he didn’t like being goaded and reacted with violence - and not a lawful killing done rationally under genuine fear for safety. I am reading that the ICE officer has a conviction for sexually abusing his stepchild so…you know…as usual
with violent gun nuts, he was an abuser of women. Someone like that should never be given a gun. If you cannot act rationally in the face of provocation, you shouldn’t be an officer, full stop.

Seeing Trump supporters and the online right who love to talk about ‘small government’ and ‘freedom’ celebrate and defend the cold blooded murder of a civilian is quite something though. The cognitive dissonance is real.

SheilaFentiman · 10/01/2026 00:19

Frequency · 10/01/2026 00:14

I'm not victim-blaming, I'm just pointing out that maybe, if you don't want to be raped, you shouldn't go out wearing a short skirt.

Maybe, just maybe, if you're drinking with a man all night, you probably shouldn't wear short skirts and flirt. I'm not saying it was her fault she was raped and beaten. I'm just saying she made the wrong decision in wearing that.

Rapists cause rape. Not flirting, short skirts or anything else.

sbaproject.org/what-were-you-wearing/

TheIrritatingGentleman · 10/01/2026 00:21

MrsTerryPratchett · 10/01/2026 00:18

Ignore this. I’m an idiot.

Edited

I think the poster was trying to show how ridiculous the argument from PP was that Renee made the wrong decision by not staying at home.

That's how I took it, apologies if I'm wrong.

SheilaFentiman · 10/01/2026 00:22

TheIrritatingGentleman · 10/01/2026 00:21

I think the poster was trying to show how ridiculous the argument from PP was that Renee made the wrong decision by not staying at home.

That's how I took it, apologies if I'm wrong.

Ah!!

Sorry, @Frequency

Frequency · 10/01/2026 00:22

SheilaFentiman · 10/01/2026 00:19

Rapists cause rape. Not flirting, short skirts or anything else.

sbaproject.org/what-were-you-wearing/

And murderers cause murder, not protestors.

I was pointing out how easily the victim-blaming can be spotted if you swap murder for rape and protesting for flirting. It's exactly the same sentence as the "not victim blaming but..." used to defend the murder of Renee.

Soontobesingles · 10/01/2026 00:24

Livelovebehappy · 10/01/2026 00:06

You choose your battles. As a mother with a child who had lost his father, it would be madness to choose to walk into this situation, whatever your feelings on the issue. There are other ways to show your support without putting yourself in danger. It could have been anything kicking off - fights breaking out between the different factions, and being caught up in that. The situation is totally unpredictable. That’s why a vast majority of people don’t enter into these types of protests, because you have no idea what’s going to happen.

She didn’t expect to get shot in the face, because she lives in a country where she has the freedom to protest - she should no more have been shot in the face for protesting than for doing her shopping. I can’t believe posters on here somehow fine with the idea that we should all lay down and give up our rights because now there are men who will shoot us in the face for exercising them! If you accept this it may well get to the point you are not permitted to leave home to shop freely down the line.

MrsTerryPratchett · 10/01/2026 00:24

Frequency · 10/01/2026 00:22

And murderers cause murder, not protestors.

I was pointing out how easily the victim-blaming can be spotted if you swap murder for rape and protesting for flirting. It's exactly the same sentence as the "not victim blaming but..." used to defend the murder of Renee.

Sorry! I reported the post before I saw you were making a point. Deepest apologies. Let me know if you want me to email MNHQ and tell them!

LlttledrummergirI · 10/01/2026 00:25

SheilaFentiman · 10/01/2026 00:19

Rapists cause rape. Not flirting, short skirts or anything else.

sbaproject.org/what-were-you-wearing/

The poster was saying that this is victim blaming in the same way as the posters on this thread stating that she shouldn't have been there, or that she hould have got out of the car and not doing so is why she was killed.

She was killed because a man was violent, or she was raped because the mn was a rapist. Anything else is just noise.

Frequency · 10/01/2026 00:27

MrsTerryPratchett · 10/01/2026 00:24

Sorry! I reported the post before I saw you were making a point. Deepest apologies. Let me know if you want me to email MNHQ and tell them!

It's all good, I understood that you misread/misinterpeted and to be completely fair, it is an utterly abhorrent sentence to read. It is also utterly abhorrent when the same argument is used to defend the unlawful killing of a woman engaging in her right to protest.

Livelovebehappy · 10/01/2026 00:27

Walkaround · 10/01/2026 00:12

Aww, yes. Women should stay home with their babies and leave the men to get on with running the country for them. Iranians should stop protesting against the regime and let their rulers get on with oppressing them. Women should stop provoking men. It’s madness to pretend you can stand up to anyone physically stronger than you, let alone someone with a gun- you have no right to expect they have been trained only to use it in extremis and not simply because you have pissed them off.

Yes, she should have stayed home. What was her end goal here? What was she hoping to achieve? She wasn’t marching. She just chose to drive up to the situation, shouting stuff. It was just pointless antagonisation with no real end result, yet at the same time putting herself amongst other antagonists about whom she knew nothing. I’m saying that, imo, you don’t insert yourself into volatile situations, especially when what you’re doing is not going to make any difference whatsoever, but may end up endangering your life from the threat of others around you, whether that was going to be the ICE agents, or the other protestors.. I repeat she shouldn’t have been shot, but the majority of rational people would not have even been there.

1dayatatime · 10/01/2026 00:28

Walkaround · 10/01/2026 00:06

In what way is stating she made the wrong decision not victim blaming?! Surely the wrong decision was the one made by the man with the gun?!

Well let's say I walked into an airport carrying a pipe or an umbrella wrapped in a blanket and found myself quickly surrounded by armed police shouting at me to put down the weapon then the right decision is to do as they say. Would you agree that the wrong decision would be to raise the umbrella to my shoulder point it at the armed police whilst shouting "ney copper's going to get me alive".

You see it is possible to make the right or wrong decisions without it being "victim blaming ".

Usernamenotfound1 · 10/01/2026 00:30

NotTerfNorCis · 10/01/2026 00:10

I get the impression that the victim and her wife were quite confident and defiant. They talked back to the ICE agents and said they would be coming back, 'with the same number plate'. They had no intention of letting themselves be bullied or arrested. I don't think they considered that they would be shot - I mean who would, even in America? The victim tried to drive away and may or may not have clipped the murderer (it seems increasingly likely she did not clip him).That in itself wasn't 'stupid', and it was only 'the wrong decision' because the ICE agent was full of rage and prepared to kill.

Thing is, you can’t even say it was the “wrong” decision.

lets say she did get out the car. And those rage filled, angry men dragged her to the floor, and sat on her neck for 10 minutes until she died while waiting for “back up”.

because that happened not too far away, not too long ago.

or she got out the car, shouted at them, or refused to get on the floor, and they shot her anyway.

we’ll never know whether her decision was right or wrong.

the ICE officer is the one who made the wrong choice.

dapsnotplimsolls · 10/01/2026 00:31

1dayatatime · 10/01/2026 00:28

Well let's say I walked into an airport carrying a pipe or an umbrella wrapped in a blanket and found myself quickly surrounded by armed police shouting at me to put down the weapon then the right decision is to do as they say. Would you agree that the wrong decision would be to raise the umbrella to my shoulder point it at the armed police whilst shouting "ney copper's going to get me alive".

You see it is possible to make the right or wrong decisions without it being "victim blaming ".

Yeah, that's the same.

Livelovebehappy · 10/01/2026 00:33

Soontobesingles · 10/01/2026 00:24

She didn’t expect to get shot in the face, because she lives in a country where she has the freedom to protest - she should no more have been shot in the face for protesting than for doing her shopping. I can’t believe posters on here somehow fine with the idea that we should all lay down and give up our rights because now there are men who will shoot us in the face for exercising them! If you accept this it may well get to the point you are not permitted to leave home to shop freely down the line.

I would imagine the odds of getting injured whilst at a shopping mall is far less than going to a a situation where there are authorities vs hyped up protestors. It’s facetious to imply otherwise.

Ihavelostthegame · 10/01/2026 00:38

Livelovebehappy · 10/01/2026 00:27

Yes, she should have stayed home. What was her end goal here? What was she hoping to achieve? She wasn’t marching. She just chose to drive up to the situation, shouting stuff. It was just pointless antagonisation with no real end result, yet at the same time putting herself amongst other antagonists about whom she knew nothing. I’m saying that, imo, you don’t insert yourself into volatile situations, especially when what you’re doing is not going to make any difference whatsoever, but may end up endangering your life from the threat of others around you, whether that was going to be the ICE agents, or the other protestors.. I repeat she shouldn’t have been shot, but the majority of rational people would not have even been there.

No! Just no! The ONLY way this stops is by people standing up to them. The only way countless people do not just disappear and be deported regardless of citizenship is if people stand united against ice.
You say vote them out at the ballot box. That’s not for years. If indeed free and fair elections take place agin in the US. 4 years is too long to wait to do anything. The game is rigged in the regime’s favour. The only way this stops is by protest and not being intimidated.

OtterlyAstounding · 10/01/2026 00:38

Teddleshon1 · 09/01/2026 20:51

Why would anyone go out of their way to insert themselves into a situation where armed officers are engaged in confronting potentially armed civilians? There’s plenty of footage of scenarios such as this which show how quickly things can escalate and how chaotic and highly charged these situations are. I just can’t imagine why a parent would do this.

This is my take. She and her wife were clearly there with intent to protest. In the newer footage, she and her wife are shown engaging with the ICE agent in a verbally provocative manner – she's smiling, her wife is grinning, and they're both being sarky. They seem to be trying to piss him off. They succeeded, sadly.

I cannot understand why someone living in the US, with three children she's responsible for, would freely choose to engage with trigger-happy, badly trained, armed law enforcement officers, especially while in control of a vehicle – technically a deadly weapon, giving them an excuse to shoot her.

I don't live in the US and even I know to stay out of the way of law enforcement, and to comply, immediately and deferentially unless you want to risk being beaten or shot. Should it be that way? No. Obviously not. But is that the reality? Yes. She voluntarily put herself in the middle of a dangerous situation and assumed she wouldn't be at risk. She taunted an armed ICE agent and drove her car towards him for some reason (panic?), either genuinely panicking him or just giving him a veneer of credibility.

He didn't follow protocol, and was either badly trained, trigger-happy and dangerous, or both, and shooting her was a murder that shouldn't have happened, and for which he should be held accountable...but 'shoulds' didn't save her from being shot dead when she chose to put herself in the middle of a volatile situation, even though she had to know it was going to achieve nothing.

If I were her kids, I'd be angry at the ICE agent, but I'd also be pretty pissed off at her for being so irresponsible with her life.

Soontobesingles · 10/01/2026 00:39

Livelovebehappy · 10/01/2026 00:33

I would imagine the odds of getting injured whilst at a shopping mall is far less than going to a a situation where there are authorities vs hyped up protestors. It’s facetious to imply otherwise.

I don't think you are understanding my point: if you can be shot in the face for doing something legal (protesting), then where is the line? The Trump regime is actively showing that there is no line — their officers have the mandate to shoot and kill because they feel offended by people exercising their rights (to free speech, to observe law enforcement). This is an erosion of rights is my point. It should not be a dangerous situation that escalates to someone getting killed.

TracyBeakerSoYeah · 10/01/2026 00:39

Soontobesingles · 10/01/2026 00:19

He calls her a ‘fcking bith’ after he has shot her in the face. I think that adds context that this was a spiteful, vindictive murder - he didn’t like being goaded and reacted with violence - and not a lawful killing done rationally under genuine fear for safety. I am reading that the ICE officer has a conviction for sexually abusing his stepchild so…you know…as usual
with violent gun nuts, he was an abuser of women. Someone like that should never be given a gun. If you cannot act rationally in the face of provocation, you shouldn’t be an officer, full stop.

Seeing Trump supporters and the online right who love to talk about ‘small government’ and ‘freedom’ celebrate and defend the cold blooded murder of a civilian is quite something though. The cognitive dissonance is real.

The ICE officer Jonathan Ross wasn't the one convicted of sexual abuse, it was the man he was apprehending at the time: Roberto Carlos Muñoz, an undocumented Mexican immigrant with an open immigration detainer and a criminal conviction for sexually assaulting his 16-year-old stepdaughter in 2022.

https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2026/jan/08/ice-agent-minneapolis-shooting

ICE agent in Minneapolis killing identified as 10-year law enforcement veteran

Court records point to Jonathan E Ross as officer in Renee Nicole Good’s death, amid protests and political fallout

https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2026/jan/08/ice-agent-minneapolis-shooting

NotTerfNorCis · 10/01/2026 00:40

If I were her kids, I'd be angry at the ICE agent, but I'd also be pretty pissed off at her for being so irresponsible with her life.

More victim blaming.

In a democracy, people have a right to protest without being murdered by the authorities.

If we have a built-in assumption that they don't, we're living in a dictatorship.

Ihavelostthegame · 10/01/2026 00:41

Livelovebehappy · 10/01/2026 00:33

I would imagine the odds of getting injured whilst at a shopping mall is far less than going to a a situation where there are authorities vs hyped up protestors. It’s facetious to imply otherwise.

You do realise we are talking about the US where shootings occur daily - including in shopping malls and schools don’t you?

Soontobesingles · 10/01/2026 00:42

TracyBeakerSoYeah · 10/01/2026 00:39

The ICE officer Jonathan Ross wasn't the one convicted of sexual abuse, it was the man he was apprehending at the time: Roberto Carlos Muñoz, an undocumented Mexican immigrant with an open immigration detainer and a criminal conviction for sexually assaulting his 16-year-old stepdaughter in 2022.

https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2026/jan/08/ice-agent-minneapolis-shooting

Ah ok, I read that wrong in a different source.

Ihavelostthegame · 10/01/2026 00:44

Soontobesingles · 10/01/2026 00:39

I don't think you are understanding my point: if you can be shot in the face for doing something legal (protesting), then where is the line? The Trump regime is actively showing that there is no line — their officers have the mandate to shoot and kill because they feel offended by people exercising their rights (to free speech, to observe law enforcement). This is an erosion of rights is my point. It should not be a dangerous situation that escalates to someone getting killed.

There is no line anymore. Trump was on record telling ice agents deployed to Minneapolis to “get rough with them” shortly before they deployed to the city.

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