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To be frustrated that DD is struggling to find a job in her desired field while her friends on skilled worker visas aren’t

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Andiessock · 08/01/2026 21:58

My DD is in her mid 20s, she graduated with a masters in philosophy over 2 years ago now from a top university in London, she has a BA from a top university as well. Her two closest friends during her masters weren’t British.
DD struggled to find a job directly related to philosophy or even culture in general, she did manage to get a job in the civil service but she doesn’t enjoy it at all.
Her two friends both managed to get jobs in the field they desired originally on graduate visas, now both are sponsored on skilled worker visas.
One works at cultural institute associated with her home country in programme coordination so planning and running events that promote her countries culture etc. specifically in literature and philosophy.
The other works at a non-profit cultural institution in a similar role to her other friend but a little more research heavy less events centred.

First of all I’m not entirely sure how either of these roles fall under “skilled workers”, they must be making around 40k to even qualify and whilst I understand the first friend being preferred over a British national since it’s a cultural institution, I don’t understand why non-Brits are being given roles in an industry Brits are struggling to get a foot in the door at.

Im all for migrants for what it’s worth, this is not intended to be slanderous to migrants, especially in industries which need the talent from abroad; but I don’t see how that applies here and in this case it does feel like “foreigners are stealing British jobs” (not a sentiment I typically agree with or would use any other time). That’s not to mention that I’m not even sure how these roles qualify as skilled workers in the first place.

AIBU to find this incredibly frustrating?

OP posts:
ramonaquimby · 10/01/2026 20:55

KatsPJs · 10/01/2026 19:39

The point is, that is irrelevant to the actual argument at hand. If education and training opportunities for UK-trained doctors (or any career path for that matter) is not fit for purpose that is not the fault of “foreigners”. And those who are recruited internationally should not be made to feel like they do not “deserve” to have good jobs and good lives because of it.

I've not said anywhere that foreigners are at fault.

And agree that those who end up working for the NHS should never be made to feel as you say above.

Don't put words in my mouth please.

KatsPJs · 10/01/2026 21:10

ramonaquimby · 10/01/2026 20:55

I've not said anywhere that foreigners are at fault.

And agree that those who end up working for the NHS should never be made to feel as you say above.

Don't put words in my mouth please.

It’s literally the title of this thread - it’s not me putting words in your mouth, it’s what we are discussing.

ramonaquimby · 10/01/2026 22:50

mmmm ok

LiveLuvLaugh · 28/01/2026 07:25

GotStrands · 08/01/2026 22:31

Maybe they interviewed better than she did? It happens.

Do you think all UK jobs are open to everyone in the world and given to the applicant who does the best interview? They aren’t. The only way that the non UK applicant should get the job under the Skilled Worker visa route is if there is no UK applicant who has the skills and experience to do the job. Whilst this is possible for the job the first friend has, it seems utterly unlikely for the second job. I don’t think OP is being unreasonable.

ParmaVioletTea · 28/01/2026 08:12

Well, as @Andiessock has never returned to answer the very reasonable question:

Did your DD apply for either of these jobs?

The OP is by definition unreasonable.

whistlesandbells · 28/01/2026 10:20

You don’t take a philosophy degree because you expect a job in ‘philosophy’ - whatever that job could be 🙄. I have a philosophy degree, a 1st.
I work in Communications, the people on my course went to work for NGOs, into advertising, PR, Charity sector, the Civil Service, even Family Offices. Some chose Law conversions, many into politics. The very few continued in academia because it really is the very best and committed who can make it. Also, 💵!

There are so many career opportunities with philosophy if you are the right person for the job.

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