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To be frustrated that DD is struggling to find a job in her desired field while her friends on skilled worker visas aren’t

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Andiessock · 08/01/2026 21:58

My DD is in her mid 20s, she graduated with a masters in philosophy over 2 years ago now from a top university in London, she has a BA from a top university as well. Her two closest friends during her masters weren’t British.
DD struggled to find a job directly related to philosophy or even culture in general, she did manage to get a job in the civil service but she doesn’t enjoy it at all.
Her two friends both managed to get jobs in the field they desired originally on graduate visas, now both are sponsored on skilled worker visas.
One works at cultural institute associated with her home country in programme coordination so planning and running events that promote her countries culture etc. specifically in literature and philosophy.
The other works at a non-profit cultural institution in a similar role to her other friend but a little more research heavy less events centred.

First of all I’m not entirely sure how either of these roles fall under “skilled workers”, they must be making around 40k to even qualify and whilst I understand the first friend being preferred over a British national since it’s a cultural institution, I don’t understand why non-Brits are being given roles in an industry Brits are struggling to get a foot in the door at.

Im all for migrants for what it’s worth, this is not intended to be slanderous to migrants, especially in industries which need the talent from abroad; but I don’t see how that applies here and in this case it does feel like “foreigners are stealing British jobs” (not a sentiment I typically agree with or would use any other time). That’s not to mention that I’m not even sure how these roles qualify as skilled workers in the first place.

AIBU to find this incredibly frustrating?

OP posts:
TempestTost · 09/01/2026 11:03

WiggyPig · 09/01/2026 10:43

Okay, so the relevant parts of the immigration law would have been

  • student visa
  • graduate visa - that allows you to stay in the UK for 18 months - 2 years and work, with no recourse to public funds. After that you must either switch to a skilled worker route (or find another route) or leave the UK

Both of those are expensive applications, even without the overseas tuition fees factored in.

  • Skilled worker visa - to be eligible they would have had to show that they had sufficient English (evidenced by getting a Masters taught at an English university) and that they had a job, from an employer who is a licensed sponsor, and that they will be paid the "going rate" for the job (and no less than £41,700).
  • The 'skilled worker' part relates to how skilled the job is, not to how many people want to do it. A graduate level job is a skilled worker job; working in Pret is not.
  • If French friend is an "events director" then her occupation code is 1139 and she would have to show a salary of over £70k.
  • If Scandi friend is a "researcher otherwise unspecified" then her occupation code is 2162 and she would have to show a salary of over £43k.
  • Neither of them are eligible for the "immigration salary list" which is what we used to call shortage occupations, in which we agree that it's okay to pay migrants 80% of the going rate because nobody local will do these jobs.
  • However, if they are under the age of 26, and are recent graduates, then they can be paid 70% of the going rate, to reflect that they are an entry level salary (otherwise we expect a far higher salary for a recent foreign graduate than a recent British graduate, which would be grossly unfair to a recent British graduate).

I think what you might be recalling is the Resident Labour Market Test, where an employer had to show that they couldn't find a local applicant to take a job if they wanted to employ a foreign worker. That was applied to Tier 2 visas (workers) and was abolished when the Tier 2 visa was replaced by the Skilled Worker visa. The employer now has to show that there is a 'genuine vacancy' instead.

The abolition of the RLMT was partly because it was ineffective, and partly because with skilled workers the idea is that we want to attract the brightest into these positions. That has had the effect of pushing the competition up to the university-educated middle classes, but that was the effect that the government in power at the time intended.

The idea, enthusiastically supported on these pages IIRC, is that we only want vetted skilled migrants taking competitive well paid and highly taxed jobs, not unskilled migrants willing to undercut the local population by a considerable amount, topping up their poor pay with benefits and putting local unskilled people out of work.

Your daughter's friends will have a) interviewed well, because if they are from privileged enough backgrounds to study a Masters at overseas rates then they probably have done various unpaid internships AND they speak at least two languages AND they have global experience, and b) been highly motivated to get the jobs because their graduate visas would turn into pumpkins after a relatively short time.

You're not wrong to recognise that your daughter as a Masters educated woman seeking graduate work is competing at a global not a local level. You are wrong to think the answer is to blame her friends though.

I don't think the OP is blaming her daughters friends, she is blaming the policies. The friends are simply what made the effects of the policies clear to her.

I think you are right that this effectivly takes all the problems with allowing a free for all of unskilled workers, and moves it up to the middle classes. I would be really interested if this is very much at the root of why the UK is now seeing so much more of the population concerned about immigration. It's one thing when the working classes complain about being pushed out of jobs, training, and having their wages suppressed - they can just be accused of being racists.

When that begins to happen to the middle classes however, well, people can try as we see in this thread, but sheer numbers of people being affected are going to start to be a factor.

BadgernTheGarden · 09/01/2026 11:06

Andiessock · 08/01/2026 22:46

I think DD would much rather be financially impoverished than intellectually under-stimulated. She isn’t fussed about earning loads and would never touch law or consulting. Obviously I’d be less worried if she were willing to pursue a high earning career but she isn’t interested.

She could write a very academic book in her spare time from her under stimulating civil service day job.

LeonMccogh · 09/01/2026 11:06

ChattyCatty25 · 09/01/2026 09:37

You’re getting flamed by politically correct, permanently outraged people but it’s true. British people are at a disadvantage and seen as inferior to foreigners.

That’s because many of the foreigners are often legitimately better! 🤭

TempestTost · 09/01/2026 11:07

How so? The OP is factually correct, there is nothing preventing an employer for hiring a foreign candidate over a completely qualified British one.

cyclamen14 · 09/01/2026 11:10

It's fascinating the ways in which xenophobia manages to inveigle its way into people's thinking.

YABVVU

HTH

AnnaFrith · 09/01/2026 11:10

ramonaquimby · 09/01/2026 10:48

Is that you Donald?

but seriously. I'm aware of the issues re training posts for doctors but I don't really care if I have shared cultural understanding with a doctor treating me. I just need them to be good at their job. Vast majority of foreign trained doctors will have excellent English. The rest will be anecdotal stories that don't amount to much

I am a doctor, and I know many patients prefer British trained doctors, and often struggle to understand foreign trained doctors, because they tell me. Constantly.

BlueJuniper94 · 09/01/2026 11:11

TempestTost · 09/01/2026 11:03

I don't think the OP is blaming her daughters friends, she is blaming the policies. The friends are simply what made the effects of the policies clear to her.

I think you are right that this effectivly takes all the problems with allowing a free for all of unskilled workers, and moves it up to the middle classes. I would be really interested if this is very much at the root of why the UK is now seeing so much more of the population concerned about immigration. It's one thing when the working classes complain about being pushed out of jobs, training, and having their wages suppressed - they can just be accused of being racists.

When that begins to happen to the middle classes however, well, people can try as we see in this thread, but sheer numbers of people being affected are going to start to be a factor.

It's interesting as the middle classes are significantly more propagandised into accepting it

KatsPJs · 09/01/2026 11:12

Lucelulu · 08/01/2026 22:27

Maybe she’s not as strong as her friends academically (and the same grade doesn’t necessarily mean she is).
Maybe you being just a tiny bit racist.

Absolutely this. Maybe your daughter doesn’t interview well OP? Maybe the other candidates are more intelligent/skilled/personable/interesting? Maybe they have better CVs? Or maybe, unlike you, the organisations that gave them these jobs focused on finding the right person for the job rather than taking nationality or ethnicity into account? Your daughter is not owed a job because she’s British - she needs to fight for it like anybody else.

WiggyPig · 09/01/2026 11:13

AnnaFrith · 09/01/2026 10:52

I don't think anyone has blamed the friends.
We are blaming an immigration system that gives visas to foreign workers (highly privileged foreign workers, who are as you say at an advantage in the job market) so they can get entry level jobs in preference to native Brits.
There is no need for recruitment at this level to be 'global', in the way that recruiting a CEO for a major corporation may need to be global.

Then campaign for the re-introduction of the RLMT. Labour were going to but ultimately didn't - there's a very interesting article on it here: https://www.smf.co.uk/commentary_podcasts/cant-live-with-it-cant-live-without-it-the-strange-case-of-the-resident-labour-market-test/

I suspect the reason they took it back off the table is that it would make the UK a far less attractive place for foreign students, and without foreign students, an awful lot of universities go bust. I doubt the govt is keen to accept either the economic knock right now or the optics of university education being pared back to the one-percenters on their watch.

BadgernTheGarden · 09/01/2026 11:14

TempestTost · 09/01/2026 11:03

I don't think the OP is blaming her daughters friends, she is blaming the policies. The friends are simply what made the effects of the policies clear to her.

I think you are right that this effectivly takes all the problems with allowing a free for all of unskilled workers, and moves it up to the middle classes. I would be really interested if this is very much at the root of why the UK is now seeing so much more of the population concerned about immigration. It's one thing when the working classes complain about being pushed out of jobs, training, and having their wages suppressed - they can just be accused of being racists.

When that begins to happen to the middle classes however, well, people can try as we see in this thread, but sheer numbers of people being affected are going to start to be a factor.

Top jobs are pretty much always internationally advertised, the middle classes are well used to having to compete against international candidates it comes as no surprise. In my field I worked in the UK with experts recruited from all over the world and I retired some time ago, nothing new about it. Same as a lot of UK people go abroad to pursue their careers.

KatsPJs · 09/01/2026 11:14

AnnaFrith · 09/01/2026 11:10

I am a doctor, and I know many patients prefer British trained doctors, and often struggle to understand foreign trained doctors, because they tell me. Constantly.

Hmm what is the ethnographic and demographic makeup of these “patients” that are “constantly” telling you this?

ParmaVioletTea · 09/01/2026 11:15

You're not wrong to recognise that your daughter as a Masters educated woman seeking graduate work is competing at a global not a local level. You are wrong to think the answer is to blame her friends though.

Brilliant answer overall @WiggyPig - thank you for taking the trouble to explain the complexity of overseas graduate employment conditions in the UK (I know some of it from my postgrad students) but your final point is also very astute.

The UK is re-entering a version of Erasmus - when we were still part of the EU, what I noticed about my UK-born undergrads & postgrads is that they were far less internationally oriented than their EU peers, who jumped at the chance to study in the UK - and not just in English language studies.

BadgernTheGarden · 09/01/2026 11:17

KatsPJs · 09/01/2026 11:14

Hmm what is the ethnographic and demographic makeup of these “patients” that are “constantly” telling you this?

Probably mainly older patients who's hearing is not perfect and find it difficult to cope with accents.

Agapornis · 09/01/2026 11:19

I'm mainland European and get jobs because/when I have relevant experience that other people don't, write a decent application, and interview well 🤷

OMGitsnotgood · 09/01/2026 11:28

Not all graduates are equal. Not all Philosophy degrees are equal. They may have studied different modules which has equipped them with the ability to demonstrate more knowledge in areas of interest to those employers. They may have had work experience which puts them at an advantage. They might write better CVs/application forms. They might interview better. They might just be better people for the jobs.
Not sure if it has changed but it used to be that employers had to sponsor and pay a significant proportion of the costs associated with skilled migrant workers’ visas. Not sure why they would do that if your DD could be hired without the expense and hassle, unless they had something more to offer…..

ramonaquimby · 09/01/2026 11:38

AnnaFrith · 09/01/2026 11:10

I am a doctor, and I know many patients prefer British trained doctors, and often struggle to understand foreign trained doctors, because they tell me. Constantly.

See my second sentence.

I'm an immigrant. I know quite a few. No one is privy to personal information about one's immigration status or right to work or visa situation unless it is shared.

Good luck to the OP's daughter in finding a job that her mum thinks she is deserving of.

ParmaVioletTea · 09/01/2026 11:38

Has @Andiessock confirmed that her DD actually applied for either of these jobs????

AnnaFrith · 09/01/2026 11:38

KatsPJs · 09/01/2026 11:14

Hmm what is the ethnographic and demographic makeup of these “patients” that are “constantly” telling you this?

I suspect you have have already guessed, and for some reason don't think a preference among white, working-class, indigenous British people for doctors they can communicate with easily is valid.

KatsPJs · 09/01/2026 11:44

AnnaFrith · 09/01/2026 11:38

I suspect you have have already guessed, and for some reason don't think a preference among white, working-class, indigenous British people for doctors they can communicate with easily is valid.

And I suspect you’re a little bit racist.

OneNewUser · 09/01/2026 11:45

TempestTost · 09/01/2026 10:49

If true that's crazy and no wonder the UK is seeing people turned off immigration.

I'm curious though, does your employer consider whether these candidates are likely to demand the same salary or benefits as a local person?

It is quite hard to find good enough candidates for the grad positions I hire for, we are hiring mostly from Oxbridge/Imperial and believe it or not interview plenty who don’t meet the bar we want. We pay all grads the same (‘a lot’ for a starting salary) regardless of whether they need a visa or not.

JacknDiane · 09/01/2026 11:48

SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice · 08/01/2026 22:23

Maybe her other friend got a better grade on their BA and MA degree courses? Maybe their elective modules align more with the institute? Maybe she did a work placement or internship or did research that was in an area they are currently interested in?

Jobs are not handed out based on nationality and degree only. There are numerous factors that go into selecting an employee.

I do sympathise with your DD, but I agree with the pp, that to get a well paid job with progression in the field, it’s going to be academia which means a PhD. To go from MA to PhD, especially a funded PhD, lots of interim boxes need to be ticked.

The civil service isn’t a bad job, and they do have career brooding opportunities where you can seconded to other jobs or even sign up for cheap classes to then transfer to a different job. If she is unhappy with her current job, she could look into moving within the civil service.

@SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice, can you tell me more about the cheap courses within the civil service to broaden experience? Dc is in the CS and looking to gain more experience and i would pass this information onto them.
Thank you.

FeedingPidgeons · 09/01/2026 11:49

BlackCatDiscoClub · 08/01/2026 22:29

Oh my gosh with that background get her into data ethics!!! It will be such an important and interesting career and she sounds perfect for it!

Agreed. I have a similar educational background and now work in Data / AI.

BonneMaman77 · 09/01/2026 11:52

@Andiessock
The ignorance and bigotry do not indicate an intellectual capacity to advise your DD on this matter.

Luckily there’s been some excellent advice by posters here, maybe advise her to seek career guidance and counselling.

Grammarnut · 09/01/2026 11:54

Andiessock · 08/01/2026 22:26

Ah that is interesting, DD specialised in Epistemology/Meta-ethics. I’m not sure what her friends did.

So theory of knowledge and ethics (of moral judgements). That actually fits a job in the civil service quite well. Presumably she has joined at admin level (i.e. potentially a decision maker's role). If you do a degree in philosophy (as I did) unless you are brilliant you are unlikely to get a job in the philosophy field i.e. in academia, even with a Ph.D.. Your DD should look at opportunities in the job she actually has (which will carry with it substantial benefits like pension and meritocratic advancement) and explore which areas of the civil service would suit her interests (and apply for those jobs) rather than hoping for a job in the arts/culture where a philosophy degree is of less relevance unless you've studied aesthetics etc.

LIZS · 09/01/2026 11:57

Among dd’s graduate friends it seems as tricky a job market for those on visas as UK resident, across a range of subjects.