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Is USA safe to visit?

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perellonuts · 02/01/2026 06:06

I can’t even believe I’m asking this but is it safe to visit USA now? I’m concerned about the social media issue, I’m pretty sure I’ve liked one or two anti-trump posts each time I’ve doom scrolled since his first term. Could this be used against me? I definitely feel free speech is not tolerated there now. I’d be travelling with my neuro diverse son, age 7. He is perfectly capable with full autonomy and we travel a lot but being separated with no due process would be a disaster and scares the hell out of me. We’ve been invited to go to collect a prestigious award and they put you in a hotel for a few days etc. We have American friends and family and the first hand ICE stories are horrific.

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Stravaig · 03/01/2026 12:58

Stravaig · 02/01/2026 13:39

There is no valid security argument to any of this. If Americans want to be safe within their own borders, then they should get their rapacious imperialistic jackboots out of every country where they - or their proxies - currently occupy land, wage wars, control governments and corporations, or rape and pillage resources for their own profit. It really is that simple.

A point vividly illustrated by multiple different headlines this morning.

ilovelamp82 · 03/01/2026 12:59

SeekOIt · 02/01/2026 11:00

So despite your many anti Trump posts, and general sentiment, was everything ok?

I've not been back since they announced they were going to be looking into social media.

DdraigGoch · 03/01/2026 14:10

shuggles · 03/01/2026 10:16

You were literally just given an example of this:

@Lisacuddy1 "I had a friend recently tell me she wouldn’t set foot in America due to lgbt rights. She recently went to Dubai 😂😂"

So one person that someone online says that they know went to Dubai. Not exactly indicative of widespread "I'm boycotting the US due to human rights so I'll send you a postcard from the UAE/China/El Salvador instead"

DdraigGoch · 03/01/2026 14:18

shuggles · 03/01/2026 10:18

The reason why this draconian approach exists is because too many people have abused the system for too long.

If people were respectful and respected the borders and laws of other countries, the harsh approach that ICE is currently taking would not be necessary.

That is utter bollocks. The draconian approach exists because populists often declare groups of people to be common enemies in order to cement their grip upon power.

The human rights violations are egregious and in breach of both US and international law. There is no excuse for it. ICE resources were removed from complex investigations (the sort that actually snare criminals) and redeployed to pick on easy targets (like brown people minding their own business) in order to make the numbers look better and achieve the massive deportation targets.

I look forward to the day when Pam Bondi, Greg Bovino, Kristy Noem etc., plus the hired thugs on the ground see their day in court.

DdraigGoch · 03/01/2026 15:24

nOlives · 03/01/2026 11:52

It sounds like that would be a good idea.
Using people whilst not allowing them any rights has a lot in common with slavery, or dare I say it prostitution in settings where it is the prostitute rather than the punter who is criminalised.
Some honesty and enlightenment might result.

Maybe the authorities should try prosecuting those who employ people without confirming their right to work in the country - targetting the pimps in your analogy. It's much more effective than just lifting brown people from the streets at random, detaining them indefinitely and then either being forced to release them once things go public and ICE have to admit in court that they've no actual grounds, or just sticking them on a plane regardless of what a judge ordered.

DdraigGoch · 03/01/2026 15:35

Sparron · 03/01/2026 12:08

And there it is. Always comes down to the inverse racism of "who will pick our fruit?"

No different to the "who will serve my coffee in Pret" snob from Question Time during Brexit debates, or even Zack Polanski with his "who will wipe my arse?"

I will never understand how the left seem to get away with such obvious racism, expecting migrants to be little more than an underpaid servant class designed to prop up failing economies.

Somehow this kind of racism is progressive and acceptable.

If you'd like to see the US economy implodes overnight as the effect of worker shortages, tariffs and corruption hits, you're likely to get your wish.

If you didn't want to impoverish everyone then I'd recommend a phased reform to change the US economy from an oligarchy to something that is of benefit to everyone. You won't get that from Trump though.

shuggles · 03/01/2026 15:52

DdraigGoch · 03/01/2026 14:10

So one person that someone online says that they know went to Dubai. Not exactly indicative of widespread "I'm boycotting the US due to human rights so I'll send you a postcard from the UAE/China/El Salvador instead"

You're being disingenuous if you think that one response in this thread is the only example of that.

shuggles · 03/01/2026 15:55

@MrsTerryPratchett And OJ would cost $50 a carton

If orange juice would be unaffordable if businesses were forced to pay their workforce a fair wage and adhere to employment legislation, then perhaps you should reflect on the ethics of consuming orange juice that could only be made by immigrants working in substandard conditions.

Most people on this board won't understand the harm that is done by poor employment conditions, but as someone who has done a dirty, hands-on job, I can confirm that it ruins your life.

and you’d lose the almost $100 BILLION they pay in taxes.

(Putting aside the fact that I don't live in the US), I don't care.

shuggles · 03/01/2026 15:59

@DdraigGoch The human rights violations are egregious and in breach of both US and international law. There is no excuse for it.

Around 12 million people are in the US illegally each year.

How is that acceptable?

If you applied for entry to a country and were refused, would you still try to enter? Would you overstay a visa? You wouldn't do that, because for any normal and sensible person, it's unthinkable to commit such a crime in a foreign nation.

So what on earth makes you think that 12 million people being present illegally in the US is not an issue?

JHound · 03/01/2026 16:00

It depends where you are but it’s safe enough even if they have a war criminal for a president.

SerendipityJane · 03/01/2026 16:25

Possibly as a result of this thread, I happened to see this clip of a USAian being rather taken aback at shopping in Tescos.

Key points are ludicrously low prices, and food labelling.

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/HNOP72MtrZA

Before you continue to YouTube

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/HNOP72MtrZA

Lisacuddy1 · 03/01/2026 16:34

SerendipityJane · 03/01/2026 16:25

Possibly as a result of this thread, I happened to see this clip of a USAian being rather taken aback at shopping in Tescos.

Key points are ludicrously low prices, and food labelling.

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/HNOP72MtrZA

Food prices in the US are INSANE!! I don’t know if they have got better in the last year but summer 2024 I could not beleive it!! My husband wanted to spend a month in America this year visiting our family and getting a lake house but have decided the grocery bills alone would bankrupt us. One family member got a chicken because eggs were so expensive.

DdraigGoch · 03/01/2026 16:42

shuggles · 03/01/2026 15:52

You're being disingenuous if you think that one response in this thread is the only example of that.

Would you like to take a guess at what proportion of people who don't fancy the US in the current situation are people who would happily go off to a different consumerist oligarchy?

shuggles · 03/01/2026 17:12

DdraigGoch · 03/01/2026 16:42

Would you like to take a guess at what proportion of people who don't fancy the US in the current situation are people who would happily go off to a different consumerist oligarchy?

I think you are a bit confused. The issue is not "consumerism."

DdraigGoch · 03/01/2026 17:13

shuggles · 03/01/2026 15:59

@DdraigGoch The human rights violations are egregious and in breach of both US and international law. There is no excuse for it.

Around 12 million people are in the US illegally each year.

How is that acceptable?

If you applied for entry to a country and were refused, would you still try to enter? Would you overstay a visa? You wouldn't do that, because for any normal and sensible person, it's unthinkable to commit such a crime in a foreign nation.

So what on earth makes you think that 12 million people being present illegally in the US is not an issue?

Around 12 million people are in the US illegally each year.
That's a dishonest phrasing which implies that there are 12 million arriving each year. Your later phrasing is more honest:
12 million people being present illegally

How is that acceptable?
How is it fucking acceptable to kidnap random people from the streets based purely on the colour of their skin, lock them up without access to a lawyer and deport them to a country they've never been to in their lives against judical instructions that nothing should be done until a court has been satisfied that the person actually is there illegally. Either everyone has due process, or no one has due process.

ICE aren't going after the bad guys. That involves work, investigations, actually putting officers into the dodgy bits of town. They're picking people up from their citizenship ceremonies - after someone has done things properly, has been through all of the hoops (green card etc.), their citizenship application has been approved and all that is left is the oath. ICE use these as easy pickings. They have been hanging around outside the courtrooms and immigration offices where people trying to do the right thing and apply for visas, green cards and citizenship go.

because for any normal and sensible person, it's unthinkable to commit such a crime in a foreign nation.
An "unthinkable" crime would be something like inciting an insurrection, launching a missile at an unarmed person who has been shipwrecked, raping a child, or falsely imprisoning thousands of people. No normal and sensible person would do such things, but apparently 77 million Americans are quite happy to vote for that. Overstaying a visa is utterly trivial by comparison.

So what on earth makes you think that 12 million people being present illegally in the US is not an issue?
I honestly couldn't give a shit. It's less than 4% of the population. With everything wrong with the world, do you seriously have this as your top concern? If someone commits an actual crime (being present illegally in a country is not a crime) then deal with them properly. 95% of the people picked up by ICE have no criminal past. Many of them aren't even illegal immigrants. Some are actual citizens - ICE will lift them anyway. Most are honest, hardworking, upstanding members of the community. More upstanding than the paedophile rapist-in-chief and the Proud Boys in ICE.

If you want fewer undocumented migrants arriving, how about you try not destabilising every country in Latin America? Venezuela is just the latest in a long list.

TheWytch · 03/01/2026 17:22

It's off my travel list.

My social media is pretty politics free but I have no wish to visit under the current regime and I do worry about the friends I have out there.

DdraigGoch · 03/01/2026 17:24

shuggles · 03/01/2026 17:12

I think you are a bit confused. The issue is not "consumerism."

The issue is the oppressive oligarchy. The consumerism is what draws some people to Dubai - the same sort of people who are Vegas' bread & butter.

MrsTerryPratchett · 03/01/2026 17:52

shuggles · 03/01/2026 15:55

@MrsTerryPratchett And OJ would cost $50 a carton

If orange juice would be unaffordable if businesses were forced to pay their workforce a fair wage and adhere to employment legislation, then perhaps you should reflect on the ethics of consuming orange juice that could only be made by immigrants working in substandard conditions.

Most people on this board won't understand the harm that is done by poor employment conditions, but as someone who has done a dirty, hands-on job, I can confirm that it ruins your life.

and you’d lose the almost $100 BILLION they pay in taxes.

(Putting aside the fact that I don't live in the US), I don't care.

Asked and answered.

SnoopyPajamas · 04/01/2026 00:46

perellonuts · 03/01/2026 10:30

Agree. I don’t tend to visit countries where I don’t agree with the local laws or politics. Certainly not if I intend to break them. That’s why I’m asking specifically, because I assumed America allowed free speech and I have a vested interest in the politics, am I now potentially at risk from my online negative Trump opinions now things have changed?

We’ve already stopped going for leisure, we’ve put off visiting family for now. Are we not going to collect an award? Yes, I think we are not going to go which seems more definite than just choosing another holiday destination or leaving the MIL for another year. Actively refusing to visit feels disappointing but I’m disgusted with what’s going on over there at the moment. We’ll just celebrate in a different way. We travel a lot, nobody is missing out accept for an in person clap and a few free nights in a hotel.

There never was a trip to America, was there, OP? This post was just an excuse for another Trump thread. As if we don't have enough of them.

Truth or fiction, the whole story deserves some kind of Pointless Windbaggery award. You've made yourself sound like the Queen cancelling a royal visit.

MangaKanga · 04/01/2026 01:14

The events of the last 24 hours have shown us yet again how much respect this rogue state under its orange supremo has for the law.

You genuinely couldn't pay me enough money to set foot there.

coldblueinclusion · 04/01/2026 01:40

It depends. Most tourists are likely to be fine. I'm friends with an academic who has published papers on fascism, who just cancelled a work trip for this coming spring, on the advice of their American counterparts.

It's not that the risk of being detained by ICE is huge, but that a risk of detainment now exists, where previously there was none.

I think the risk of detainment is still low, for what it's worth. That said, I completely understand anyone not traveling to the US for the foreseeable.

Greenfinch7 · 04/01/2026 03:00

65% or more of New Yorkers are non-white. If you fly into JFK, you really are not going to be racially profiled as a non-white person.

Greenfinch7 · 04/01/2026 03:03

OP, if you are genuinely concerned about the border and if you actually want to come to NYC, why haven't you responded to the people suggesting you fly from Dublin and avoid immigration in the US?

Primavera3 · 04/01/2026 05:11

SnoopyPajamas · 04/01/2026 00:46

There never was a trip to America, was there, OP? This post was just an excuse for another Trump thread. As if we don't have enough of them.

Truth or fiction, the whole story deserves some kind of Pointless Windbaggery award. You've made yourself sound like the Queen cancelling a royal visit.

Agree this thread is very odd. I'm not convinced the op is an award winning academic tbh.

SnoopyPajamas · 04/01/2026 11:00

Primavera3 · 04/01/2026 05:11

Agree this thread is very odd. I'm not convinced the op is an award winning academic tbh.

I too have my doubts 😄