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Tree fairy

235 replies

MsGinaLinetti · 11/12/2025 07:33

Every year I float the idea of a Christmas fairy to top the tree. DH and DCs all claim that a star is the ornament that should be used. We have both. AIBU to think that a fairy is THE CORRECT tree topper?

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ErrolTheDragon · 11/12/2025 14:10

randomchap · 11/12/2025 10:55

No Hogfather for you?

Obviously, but that’s in a place with no northern hemisphere so beyond the scope of my comment.Grin

MagdaLenor · 11/12/2025 14:23

dailyconniptions · 11/12/2025 14:04

I know! Years ago my parents asked me what I would like from their house as they were downsizing and passing on furniture. The only 3 things I wanted were the angel and these other two beauties. Also from the 1960s! They are so very special!

Sweet!

ArabellaSaurus · 11/12/2025 14:33

NecklessMumster · 11/12/2025 12:38

Here:

MON THE MICE

ByRealLemonFox · 11/12/2025 14:52

Sorry but I have a gonk on top of ours

Theresalittlebitofwitchinyou · 11/12/2025 15:17

Blorengia · 11/12/2025 12:10

Go with whatever you want...
How about a black cat in a cone-of-shame star?

You are officially the winner! Where does one find a black cat in a cone of shame star <asking for a friend honest>

MagdaLenor · 11/12/2025 15:30

ByRealLemonFox · 11/12/2025 14:52

Sorry but I have a gonk on top of ours

Pics please!

ByRealLemonFox · 11/12/2025 16:21

MagdaLenor · 11/12/2025 15:30

Pics please!

We love gonks so had to have the tree topper

Tree fairy
MagdaLenor · 11/12/2025 16:30

Oh I have a similar gonk, slightly different colourway. He sits by the front door.

Createausername1970 · 11/12/2025 16:39

We had an angel as a child, so I carried on the tradition and we put an angel on the very top, but we do have a star near the top.

The angel is referred to as "the fairy".

Hillarious · 11/12/2025 16:43

Mine’s a fairy - from the 60s. A bit battered, with one wing missing. I know she’s a fairy as she has a wand with a star, so I suppose she covers both options.

DressOrSkirt · 11/12/2025 16:45

I voted YABU because fairy isn't the only correct choice, not because star is.

We have a dinosaur, unicorn, and teddy bear, and put up whichever we feel like that year.

RitaFromThePitCanteen · 11/12/2025 16:58

We always had a fairy on the top of the tree in my childhood. Even when we got a new one that looked more like an angel than a fairy, we still called her a fairy.

TheWytch · 11/12/2025 17:00

I have Krampus on the top of mine

Emeraldforest · 11/12/2025 18:23

I like a fairy dressed in white (which is quite angel looking) on the top, I have star ornaments but lower down.
I suppose that's what my family always had.

RamALamADingDong2 · 11/12/2025 18:29

We have a jaunty fairy mouse at the top of ours. Don't know when or how it started, but it's a tradition now 😄

purser25 · 11/12/2025 18:32

We have a Robin on top of one of our trees

rainbowunicorn22 · 11/12/2025 18:40

i have a dove on mine just to be awkward! at home we had a fairy when i married my 1 husband we had a star then I found the dove, a Woolworths special. my girls loved it so I have kept him and used him on the top ever since

envbeckyc · 11/12/2025 19:01

Can I tell you a Christmas joke I heard 20 or so years ago?

A son asks his father, ‘why do we put a fairy on top of a Christmas tree?’

The father answered

’Well son, 100 years ago during the war, when people in British were worried about their future in the depths of WW1 Father Christmas had a great idea on how best to cheer everyone up.

He got his elf’s to cut down Christmas trees for the fairy’s to deliver at night to everyone’s home to spread some Christmas cheer.

Each fairy was assigned a tree and a house, and although their trees were very heavy, and prickly they flapped their little wings, and slowly but surely began delivering trees to homes to bring festive cheer!

sadly one fairy lost her address when a gust of wind blew it away…determined to deliver the tree she flew back to the North Pole to see Father Christmas to get the address.

she rushed to Father Christmas (who was extremely busy) holding the tree and started asking him for the address, Father Christmas explained that he was really busy, and couldn’t help, instead he suggested that she head to the correct city and go house to house to find one that didn’t have a tree!

The fairy agreed and carrying her heavy tree and flapping her wings she set off, but after hours of searching for a house without a tree, no house could be found, so she headed back to Father Christmas in the North Pole.

When she found Father Christmas she ran over to him clutching the tree, asking him to drop everything and find the address to deliver the tree too!

Again Father Christmas said he was too busy to help and suggested that she either give up or try flying around again, to see if she could find the house.

Off the fairy went, she was sad and cold… and flew across the city looking for the house to deliver her tree too! When it began to snow she couldn’t bear it anymore and went back to the North Pole to speak to Father Christmas, she again asked him for the address saying that by not helping her he would ruin Christmas for a family.

Cross as her pestering and rudeness her told the fairy she could… stick the tree right up her arse!

And that’s why we have a fairy on top of our Christmas tree!’

I as always have a star… although this year for fun we have a weeping angle from Dr Who!

But this joke is exactly why I can never have a fairy

NewBrightonEel · 11/12/2025 19:09

I bought a vintage fairy from Vinted this year - she looks gorgeous on our tree. My son has a top hat on his.

Pr1mr0se · 11/12/2025 19:09

DisplayPurposesOnly · 11/12/2025 07:39

My old Sindy in her wedding dress doubled as the Christmas tree fairy for many years.

Did that in our house too. She had a halo of golden tinsel.

Kentishbirdlife · 11/12/2025 19:16

Ours has a Santa hat 🤣

PGmicstand · 11/12/2025 19:40

I have never put a star or an angel on my tree.
I've had feathers, a boat, a rainbow, a hand puppet, opera glasses, a small golden crocodile, and various other random items.

EmbroideredGardener · 11/12/2025 19:44

Angel!

Laura95167 · 11/12/2025 19:59

Gizmo the gremlin in a santa suit

TheNinny · 11/12/2025 20:01

star