If you didn't have kids, would you still be with your husband?

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I wouldn't. We're together for the kids. Six more years until I'm free.

Am I the only one??

Yes, he is my soul mate and having the children was a beautiful addition .

No - but that doesn't mean I think should divorce now. We get along pretty well most of the time but without the DCs I'm not sure we've got enough in common anymore. Even finding something we both enjoy on TV feels like hard work. We don't have shared interests. I'd be outside all the time or around people. He'd be on sofa watching 1% Club or at work - or listening to his radio comedian podcasts which put my teeth on edge. He's a great dad and good man and all that - but I feel like I'm in lockdown still some days.