To send this to a married man

[IslaSkywalker]

It's been sent but I'd like to see what people say.

A man who's turned out to be married has been chatting with me and arranging to meet. Also being very flirty and sexual toned in conversation that I did not like and sent unsolicited "pictures." Guess what type.

He's been sent a moonpig postcard telling him to stop flirting and messing around in the new year and not to send pictures of his bits and pieces to women who've not asked.

I can't believe he's only done it the once. I chose a postcard because of the embarrassment factor. The postman will see it and it'd make him look a fool explaining to his wife if she picks it up from the mat.

Not bitter or jealous, he's a complete tool who I don't want. AT ALL.

A sex offender because he sent her a picture. ffs.

Yes he’s a dick, but It’s not the right way to go about it.
I just hope he doesn’t have kids.

Horrible thing to do. You don’t know his family situation and he may well have children at home. If his wife or children see this card, you will have caused huge upset and mayhem, and just before Christmas too. But I imagine that was your goal.

You sound quite unhinged - you have basically stalked him by searching for his home online and seeking out personal info about him. Presumably you reverse searched the image? And then searched the address to see who was on the electoral register? And all for someone you’ve only chatted to online. You’re obsessed and embarrassing.

You’re never even met this man, yet you’ve chosen to do something spiteful and vindictive to his wife/family. You’re a nasty piece of work.

RTFT.

A nice side effect of this sorry tale is playing Unhinged Bingo.

Literally, yes, exactly that

So go the police if you didnt want any of this if he is seriously harassing you then report it i presume you have not been enjoying the attention from the start?

But how did he get your details in the first place if all this is unwanted attention

Good for you OP. The reason these rats get away with this is because nobody puts their foot down and tries to make it stop.
If his wife leaves him that's on him and his actions and his fault, not the fault of the nasty lady who sent that card. If he hadn't done it there would be no card to be sent.
His marriage breaking up will be on him completely.

It shows a staggering lack of creativity. You'd think a man would know how to use a thesaurus.

He sent one picture that was inappropriate and I blocked him. Before that it was all look at my house, my BMW etc. That became tiresome but the tone of conversation changed so gradually. He'd also say how he'd helped out a friend who'd fallen on hard times. It was very subtle.

It's Moonpig.

And the man is the one at fault here.
You know, the vile man who thinks women enjoy seeing pictures of erect penises.
🤮

It's the accusations of jealousy that are the funniest. Jealous of what?

But how did he your details to the original contact you didnt give them out to a random man i presume? Or he hacked your phone and you have no idea who he is?

You really must not say things like that.

You sound like a stalker!! I think you should take a break from talking to men online

No! I know who he is through chatting with a view to dating but it went wrong. He'd misrepresented himself

If men did not feel entitled to send unsolicited dick pix to unsuspecting women this situation would not have arisen.

Then stop giving your details to random people you meet on the internet they cant harass you as you put it if they cant find you in the first place

Try reading the thread instead of replying to post number 4 or thereabouts.

How is it unsuspecting

Yes, I never said that wasn't the case, that's a risk he took with his family and his marriage. Op is not responsible for his behaviour in having or trying to start an affair as I've already said. But she IS responsible for how she reacts to that. Those, to me, are two separate things. If op had been a serial killing jealous stalker then she'd still be 100% responsible for stalking and killing someone irregardless of how or why she came into contact with them.

That isn't what happened at all.
You haven't read the thread properly.

He’s certainly an arsehole, but the OP’s reaction is out of all proportion to the situation. She has searched his home address, the electoral
register and even Companies House and then has gone to the trouble of sending a card with the sole intention of causing mayhem. If she was so offended by the dick pic, why didn’t she just report it to the police straight away rather than going down the stalking route?