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To think it is not at all sad that the Women's Institute is now only for actual women?

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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 03/12/2025 11:36

“Incredibly sadly, we will have to restrict our membership on the basis of biological sex from April next year,” Green said. “But the message we really want to get across is that it remains our firm belief that transgender women are women, and that doesn’t change.”

https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2025/dec/03/womens-institute-no-longer-accept-trans-women-members-april

Tellingly - they still think women can have a penis.

Women’s Institute will no longer accept trans women as members from April

Exclusive: CEO says decision taken with ‘utmost regret and sadness’ after supreme court ruling on definition of a woman

https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2025/dec/03/womens-institute-no-longer-accept-trans-women-members-april

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ThatCyanCat · 06/12/2025 19:57

Why do these people have no tears for the women and girls who can't tolerate mixed sex spaces and would be cut out of public life without single sex options? Why am I supposed to sob for the boy who has to confront the reality that he's a boy, but the girl who can't use the toilet, go swimming or join a youth club can just go fuck herself, the nasty vile mean girl bully?

Bedheadbeachbum · 06/12/2025 19:58

climbintheback · 06/12/2025 19:42

JK Rowling is a hero - if you want someone to blame it’s the vile men in skirts wanking in the ladies and putting pics up on the internet or mooching around the lingerie department with a hard on - that’s who started this backlash that has ended up in the SC - thankyou JKR ‘The women who wouldn’t ‘wheesht’ Dr Hilary Cass, Sandie Peggie the Darlington nurses, Graham Linehan and every woman in every staff room and factory floor who have stood up and been counted - thankyou x

Absolutely.

This directness might offend many on here but this is part of the situation - what you call an 'overplayed hand'.

The notion that part or full time fetishists could be entitled to use women's facilities and be regarded as a woman because of uttering some 'magic words'.

Yes there are creeps and weirdos trying it on everywhere, but in this case organisations like Stonewall stood up for those creeps against the wishes of respectable women and tried to destroy them which is completely unforgivable.

And here we have the SC ruling so to all the posters who are upset - what did you bloody think was going to happen?!

The people you should be angry at are Stonewall and their ilk for taking trans activism to an unacceptable extreme.

Nanny0gg · 06/12/2025 20:17

ArabellaSaurus · 06/12/2025 07:42

. I do think there will be a drop in membership

Hmm. I wonder.

Be interesting to see how that goes.

I'm not sure how many and as there are already rumblings about the cost for next year (£54) that will confuse the issue.

But there are also many WIs who are not affected, have no idea what the issue is and want to carry on doing what they've always done.

ArabellaSaurus · 06/12/2025 20:18

S1ngS1ng · 06/12/2025 19:26

Oh the drama to cover blatant nastiness.

🤔

ArabellaSaurus · 06/12/2025 20:20

Nanny0gg · 06/12/2025 20:17

I'm not sure how many and as there are already rumblings about the cost for next year (£54) that will confuse the issue.

But there are also many WIs who are not affected, have no idea what the issue is and want to carry on doing what they've always done.

We know from polls that the majority of women are loosely what is often called 'gender critical', and dont want men in single sex spaces. I'd be very surprised if the WI didnt reflect societal attitudes.

ArabellaSaurus · 06/12/2025 20:21

Imagine if the WI did the unthinkable, and surveyed members!

ThatCyanCat · 06/12/2025 20:23

The WI in the UK began in 1915. That's 110 years, during almost all of which it was single sex and successful.

If it really does completely collapse because that many members are so invested in it becoming a validation tool for men, which is really the only non predatory reason a man would want to join, then it's probably run its course anyway.

TheKeatingFive · 06/12/2025 20:25

ThatCyanCat · 06/12/2025 19:57

Why do these people have no tears for the women and girls who can't tolerate mixed sex spaces and would be cut out of public life without single sex options? Why am I supposed to sob for the boy who has to confront the reality that he's a boy, but the girl who can't use the toilet, go swimming or join a youth club can just go fuck herself, the nasty vile mean girl bully?

Edited

A great question.

Boys matter (a lot) more than girls to these posters is the only conclusion I can draw.

GailBlancheViola · 06/12/2025 20:35

ThatCyanCat · 06/12/2025 20:23

The WI in the UK began in 1915. That's 110 years, during almost all of which it was single sex and successful.

If it really does completely collapse because that many members are so invested in it becoming a validation tool for men, which is really the only non predatory reason a man would want to join, then it's probably run its course anyway.

Agree. The WI and the Girl Guides were once well respected organisations and now they look utterly ridiculous. Politicians used to fear the WI - remember the slow hand-clapping of Tony Blair when he addressed the WI? - both organisations have totally betrayed their founding principles and core mission, the founders must be spinning in their graves.

DonicaLewinsky · 06/12/2025 20:45

ThatCyanCat · 06/12/2025 19:57

Why do these people have no tears for the women and girls who can't tolerate mixed sex spaces and would be cut out of public life without single sex options? Why am I supposed to sob for the boy who has to confront the reality that he's a boy, but the girl who can't use the toilet, go swimming or join a youth club can just go fuck herself, the nasty vile mean girl bully?

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Penis people matter more.

medievalpenny · 06/12/2025 20:47

GailBlancheViola · 06/12/2025 20:35

Agree. The WI and the Girl Guides were once well respected organisations and now they look utterly ridiculous. Politicians used to fear the WI - remember the slow hand-clapping of Tony Blair when he addressed the WI? - both organisations have totally betrayed their founding principles and core mission, the founders must be spinning in their graves.

Yes. I saw a comment from Tanya de Grunwald on LI making that point in response to a daft handwringing/angry post about GG's announcement:

A lot of charities are about to discover that they've torched their reputation over this issue - especially those who have failed to safeguard women, children, and other vulnerable people. IMO their credibility has collapsed, and the trust has gone.

To think it is not at all sad that the Women's Institute is now only for actual women?
ScotiaCat · 06/12/2025 20:50

What about trans men? What is going to happen if they start joining?

ThatCyanCat · 06/12/2025 20:52

ScotiaCat · 06/12/2025 20:50

What about trans men? What is going to happen if they start joining?

They can already join. They're women.

Oh my God. Are you going to do the Transman Gotcha? The SC ruling covered this. Do we have to explain AGAIN????

ScotiaCat · 06/12/2025 20:53

ThatCyanCat · 06/12/2025 20:52

They can already join. They're women.

Oh my God. Are you going to do the Transman Gotcha? The SC ruling covered this. Do we have to explain AGAIN????

Aye. Go for it.

TheKeatingFive · 06/12/2025 20:57

ScotiaCat · 06/12/2025 20:53

Aye. Go for it.

Being women, they can be part of a women only organisation.

Is that what you needed explained?

ThatCyanCat · 06/12/2025 20:58

ScotiaCat · 06/12/2025 20:53

Aye. Go for it.

Oh good God, not again. How do so many of you spend time in these discussions and not see the same gotchas and answers 50000000 times?

Fine. According to the ruling, if a woman really does pass that convincingly as a man, she can legally be excluded from a single sex space. That's because she will be perceived as a man and cause the same distress, alarm and self exclusion as if she really were one. It's also an acceptable cost in maintaining single sex spaces. In all safeguards, you sometimes keep out the wrong person, but that's how it has to be to keep out the right people.

That does present a problem for the TM but that's their problem and their doctors and surgeons should ensure they are fully informed.

However, a woman needs to do much, much, much more than have short hair and no makeup to actually pass as a man.

If I had a pound for every time someone's done the Transman Gotcha and this had to be explained, I could buy the WI myself. Why don't you lot read the SC ruling? It's pretty good.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 06/12/2025 20:59

ScotiaCat · 06/12/2025 20:50

What about trans men? What is going to happen if they start joining?

They are women so they can join

it's really not that hard to understand

ThatCyanCat · 06/12/2025 21:01

Theeyeballsinthesky · 06/12/2025 20:59

They are women so they can join

it's really not that hard to understand

I assume this person is talking about the mythical Trans Man Who Is Indistinguishable From A Real Man How Will You Know Genital Inspections blah blah. If not, I've just wasted my time but oh well.

If she just meant transmen in general, yeah, they're women so they can join. Not hard.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 06/12/2025 21:03

ThatCyanCat · 06/12/2025 21:01

I assume this person is talking about the mythical Trans Man Who Is Indistinguishable From A Real Man How Will You Know Genital Inspections blah blah. If not, I've just wasted my time but oh well.

If she just meant transmen in general, yeah, they're women so they can join. Not hard.

Ahhhh I assume there be the usual incoming photos of TM posing alone as opposed to next to actual men when it becomes obvious that they really really are not men despite the catastrophic effect of testosterone on the female body

Hoppinggreen · 06/12/2025 21:04

FuckRealityBringMeABook · 06/12/2025 18:21

You may also have passed transwomen that you did not clock because you thought they were women.

Don't be daft

threescoops · 06/12/2025 21:10

LighthouseLED · 03/12/2025 11:54

I feel sorry for the 80 year old mentioned in the article who has been a member for years.

I think it’s fair enough to restrict membership in the future, but there ought to be an exemption for those transwomen who have been going for years without any issues. These are not activists - they are people just trying to live their own lives.

I don’t. He’s an activist even though many women cut him slack for old granny vibes. He only transitioned a few years ago and was instantly made WI cover star and elevated to the membership committee. He has form for scaremongering that the puberty blocker ban would mean menopausal WI members would not be able to get their HRT. Don’t be taken in like so many other trans handmaidens who like to virtue signal by fawning over him. What about his poor wife?

Hoppinggreen · 06/12/2025 21:11

S1ngS1ng · 06/12/2025 19:23

Oh don’t be ridiculous. WI meetings are held in town halls with an array of facilities as regards toilets. There is no reason to ban trans women from brownies, guides or any other social meeting.

there is though, they are men and men cannot access spaces or organisations that are women only
If not being able to join Guides or WI makes a man or boy want to kill themselves I would suggest that they are pretty fragile and need some help.

Hoppinggreen · 06/12/2025 21:14

ArabellaSaurus · 06/12/2025 20:21

Imagine if the WI did the unthinkable, and surveyed members!

If they do the question should be "Do you want to allow mn to join the WI?"

SabrinaThwaite · 06/12/2025 21:17

S1ngS1ng · 06/12/2025 19:08

And so it goes on, just vile.

That’s not ‘vile’, it’s honest.

Save your ire for the people that peddled lies to unhappy children that they could ‘change sex’ and everything would be magically better.

DisabledDemon · 06/12/2025 21:21

Good. I'm sorry if you feel that you were born into the wrong body and need to transition but I've no sympathy with men who want to keep all their bits but still call themselves women.

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