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Working families £18k worse off than benefits claimants after budget

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shoelances · 30/11/2025 23:14

This is madness. Can the last taxpayer in the UK please close the door behind them.

www.msn.com/en-gb/money/other/households-on-handouts-to-be-18-000-better-off-than-families-on-modest-wages/ar-AA1RqxlQ

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Benjithedog · 01/12/2025 15:28

phantomofthepopera · 01/12/2025 15:13

What jobs? You’re making it up. Arranging 2 weeks childcare is not a ‘doddle’ unless you have a support network. Childminders here have waiting lists for months. They wouldn’t let someone take a place on their list for two weeks if that meant rejecting a potential long-term client.

Im sorry, but you’re talking rubbish. What other childcare options are there for a 6 year old?

They could offer childcare over school holidays. As a TA people would bite her hand off if she did this.

Forgetmenot9 · 01/12/2025 15:29

BrownTroutBluesAgain · 01/12/2025 15:27

We had no support network
Family too far away, too old or/ and too ill

Moved to a new area as we couldn’t afford to buy near where we worked
so didn’t know anyone either

We both worked full time and sourced holiday and before and afterschool support without much trouble.

A waiting list for the holiday care, that’s all
Our childcare rolled over from one year to the next and we used Summer holiday camps aswell. Not cheap but we had no choice

I also have zero network to help out with free childcare. We managed by paying for it, working compressed hours where we need to. Other friends work nights in supermarkets or weekends at pubs if they don't have childcare. Another friend does cleaning from 6pm in offices.

CautiousLurker2 · 01/12/2025 15:31

But they’ve not taxed everything that can move - bicycles, scooters and horses are all up for grabs.

RedRiverShore5 · 01/12/2025 15:34

BrownTroutBluesAgain · 01/12/2025 15:21

I resorted to Google and the £10 Christmas bonus for UC claimants is all I found.
Nothing about £500

Edited

The double Christmas bonus is Ireland by the look of it. Looks like everyone on UC, pensioners, etc. gets £10 in England, don't know about rest of UK

BrownTroutBluesAgain · 01/12/2025 15:36

Forgetmenot9 · 01/12/2025 15:29

I also have zero network to help out with free childcare. We managed by paying for it, working compressed hours where we need to. Other friends work nights in supermarkets or weekends at pubs if they don't have childcare. Another friend does cleaning from 6pm in offices.

Agree
I just think there’s a different mindset at play here
Some make it work for themselves whilst some expect others to make it work for them.

Benjithedog · 01/12/2025 15:38

BrownTroutBluesAgain · 01/12/2025 15:36

Agree
I just think there’s a different mindset at play here
Some make it work for themselves whilst some expect others to make it work for them.

If some can make it work with similar circumstances why can’t others do it or is it that the will isn’t there?

Carla786 · 01/12/2025 15:38

Needingtoanewjob · 01/12/2025 11:49

You need more people to pay in than receive money.
You should encourage the very rich. They spend a lot, employ people and are generally good for the economy,

This government is insane.
Reeves spares 110 council houses worth over £2m from mansion tax
www.telegraph.co.uk/money/property/stamp-duty/110-council-houses-worth-over-2m-but-wont-pay-mansion-tax/

Thus is complex though. The house becoming high value doesn't necessarily mean they have a lot of money apart from that.

My grandmother has a high value house which skyrocketed since she bought it in the 50s, but lives on her state pension and has little savings.

SJParker · 01/12/2025 15:39

I completely understand why the taxpayer feels aggrieved.

The welfare budget is in desperate need of reform.

Carla786 · 01/12/2025 15:40

Coffeeandbooks88 · 01/12/2025 14:29

Isn't it better for the kids if one is part time? Why both full time?

Exactly

Benjithedog · 01/12/2025 15:42

Carla786 · 01/12/2025 15:40

Exactly

Only if they can afford it and not rely on benefits to do it. It is not the responsibility of the taxpayer to pay for it. It’s down to the parents to fund it.

Carla786 · 01/12/2025 15:43

Benjithedog · 01/12/2025 15:42

Only if they can afford it and not rely on benefits to do it. It is not the responsibility of the taxpayer to pay for it. It’s down to the parents to fund it.

I think we should value SAH or part time parents more.

BrownTroutBluesAgain · 01/12/2025 15:43

Benjithedog · 01/12/2025 15:42

Only if they can afford it and not rely on benefits to do it. It is not the responsibility of the taxpayer to pay for it. It’s down to the parents to fund it.

Exactly

Benjithedog · 01/12/2025 15:45

Carla786 · 01/12/2025 15:43

I think we should value SAH or part time parents more.

Yes if you can fund that yourself. It is not the responsibility of other people to pay you to do that.

BillieWiper · 01/12/2025 15:47

Well as a benefits claimants I get way less than that. So I don't really see how that's possible.

phantomofthepopera · 01/12/2025 15:49

Benjithedog · 01/12/2025 15:28

They could offer childcare over school holidays. As a TA people would bite her hand off if she did this.

Where? In her damp tiny flat with black mould all over the walls and a few sticks of furniture, no equipment, no TV, in an area where most local people wouldn’t even venture into? I very much doubt that people would be biting her hand off!

KittyFinlay · 01/12/2025 15:51

37 hours on the new NMW, means that the FT worker is taking home £21,126. The PT worker is therefore bringing home £6,874 a year, which would be tax free and working 10 hours a week. Their maths is way off.

Benjithedog · 01/12/2025 15:52

phantomofthepopera · 01/12/2025 15:49

Where? In her damp tiny flat with black mould all over the walls and a few sticks of furniture, no equipment, no TV, in an area where most local people wouldn’t even venture into? I very much doubt that people would be biting her hand off!

Or she could work as part of a holiday club or clean the mould off /report damp to the landlord to get it sorted.Or become a sit in nanny over the holidays. Nothing in life is easy and there are things she could do in the 16 weeks she has free. Sh change tac and get a different full time job. She has this choice

Coffeeandbooks88 · 01/12/2025 15:53

Benjithedog · 01/12/2025 15:42

Only if they can afford it and not rely on benefits to do it. It is not the responsibility of the taxpayer to pay for it. It’s down to the parents to fund it.

Cheaper for the government to provide a small top up for one parent to be part time than it is for them to pay UC childcare care. Next year my youngest is at school and there is very little in the way of wrap around care so no choice but to be part time.

JenniferBooth · 01/12/2025 15:53

phantomofthepopera · 01/12/2025 15:07

Who the hell is going to give someone a job for one week at half term, or a fortnight over Easter and Christmas? What about childcare? She has no relatives in this country.

Some people just don’t live in the real world.

Yes and they are the same absolute hypocrites who will moan like fuck when there is a lack of TAs to help with their precious darlings when TAs start leaving in droves if they havent already due to these kinds of attitudes.

Carla786 · 01/12/2025 15:54

Benjithedog · 01/12/2025 15:45

Yes if you can fund that yourself. It is not the responsibility of other people to pay you to do that.

Hmm...maybe we should value what SAH/part time work parents do as much as we value work outside the home.

Eleanor Rathbone's work on the Mother's Allowance was a long time ago but imo still relevant.

I don't like Mary Harrington much but this article summarises the issues with Eleanor Rathbone well.

https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=unherd.com/2020/09/what-if-the-feminists-had-won/&ved=2ahUKEwjr0YCp35yRAxWSVEEAHaP8JggQFnoECE8QAQ&usg=AOvVaw3GOoFUBZhYrc2aOqFa5eCj

https://www.google.com/url?opi=89978449&rct=j&sa=t&source=web&url=https%3A%2F%2Funherd.com%2F2020%2F09%2Fwhat-if-the-feminists-had-won%2F&usg=AOvVaw3GOoFUBZhYrc2aOqFa5eCj&ved=2ahUKEwjr0YCp35yRAxWSVEEAHaP8JggQFnoECE8QAQ

phantomofthepopera · 01/12/2025 15:58

Forgetmenot9 · 01/12/2025 15:29

I also have zero network to help out with free childcare. We managed by paying for it, working compressed hours where we need to. Other friends work nights in supermarkets or weekends at pubs if they don't have childcare. Another friend does cleaning from 6pm in offices.

You’d still need childcare evenings/weekends. I’m guessing your friends weren’t single mothers?

Benjithedog · 01/12/2025 15:58

Coffeeandbooks88 · 01/12/2025 15:53

Cheaper for the government to provide a small top up for one parent to be part time than it is for them to pay UC childcare care. Next year my youngest is at school and there is very little in the way of wrap around care so no choice but to be part time.

But it isn’t the government who pays it’s the taxpayer who are becoming more disillusioned by the day. You could work weekends. Also if you are working full time you are still contributing with tax and NI. It seems like we live in a time where if it’s slightly difficult then people throw their hands up in horror at having to be creative.

JenniferBooth · 01/12/2025 15:58

phantomofthepopera · 01/12/2025 15:49

Where? In her damp tiny flat with black mould all over the walls and a few sticks of furniture, no equipment, no TV, in an area where most local people wouldn’t even venture into? I very much doubt that people would be biting her hand off!

Oh i dunno A lot of parents on here seem to be happy to leave the children they claim to love to be cared for by someone they have no respect for or actively despise.

Coffeeandbooks88 · 01/12/2025 15:59

Benjithedog · 01/12/2025 15:58

But it isn’t the government who pays it’s the taxpayer who are becoming more disillusioned by the day. You could work weekends. Also if you are working full time you are still contributing with tax and NI. It seems like we live in a time where if it’s slightly difficult then people throw their hands up in horror at having to be creative.

I work weekends. I can't work more as my son has possible SEN and can only do short sessions as nursery.

Benjithedog · 01/12/2025 16:00

JenniferBooth · 01/12/2025 15:53

Yes and they are the same absolute hypocrites who will moan like fuck when there is a lack of TAs to help with their precious darlings when TAs start leaving in droves if they havent already due to these kinds of attitudes.

Well TA’s havent left yet have they because it obviously suits their circumstances.

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