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Why would a firebrigrade carry a person in this instance

220 replies

Youwerewrong · 29/11/2025 21:50

The person obviously wasn’t fully unconscious as they remember the fire officer a bit. No pyscially injuries and no disabilities

OP posts:
Thatsalineallright · 30/11/2025 08:41

You are being massively, massively unreasonable OP.

Wordsmithery · 30/11/2025 08:42

I've just read the drip-fed extras.
Basically your question is: Could my friend be lying to me?
The actual scenario (the fire engine) is unimportant. What matters is that you don't believe her. Is this part of a pattern? Is it a healthy friendship in other ways? Are you a naturally mistrustful person?
Once you reach the stage of posting on MN to see if your friend might be lying, it's time to review the whole friendship. It may not be healthy for either of you.

SunnyViper · 30/11/2025 08:44

What a nonsense thread.

MaplePumpkin · 30/11/2025 08:46

OP. Is there any chance of you actually explaining the story in full so we have a clue what you’re talking about?

Funnywonder · 30/11/2025 08:47

This has to be the most cryptic thread I have read on here. People have tried to be really helpful OP, which isn’t always the case on Mumsnet, but you continue to provide only very sketchy details of the situation. Nobody can tell if there is any degree of unreasonableness without knowing a bit more context.

replay2025 · 30/11/2025 08:52

Context helps 🤪

Barnbrack · 30/11/2025 08:56

Youwerewrong · 30/11/2025 03:31

But if someone was looking at the person then they are awake now

When I've come round from a faint I've been very wobbly historically. Is this your girlfriend and you think she wanted a fireman holding her or something?

Invinoveritaz · 30/11/2025 08:57

Safer than a semi conscious person trying to walk. What’s the problem with that?

Imdunfer · 30/11/2025 09:01

OP do you realise that perfectly capable and apparently healthy people are wheeled to scans in wheelchairs by hospital porters for health and safety reasons?

What is your problem, because this is your problem, not your friend's?

LovesLabradors · 30/11/2025 09:02

Presumably because they made a judgment that the person may fall/faint and injure themselves if they try to walk.

DiscoBeat · 30/11/2025 09:04

Jesus op, you're answering your own questions in your tedious drip fed replies.

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 30/11/2025 09:11

Fucksake there are some weird threads on here.
Then there's this surreal one.
🤣

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 30/11/2025 09:13

I believe it is in a 'firebrigades' DNA.
If they are not carrying a person about they will be scaling a tree to get a cat.

They just can't help themselves. 🤷

SalmonOnFinnCrisp · 30/11/2025 09:13

Youwerewrong · 30/11/2025 03:31

But if someone was looking at the person then they are awake now

Baffled by this thread....

any adult can surely comprehend

  1. Conscious and able to remember a face a bit doesnt automatically mean well enough to walk.
  2. these are professionals with a responsibility to perform safety assessment and ensure she exits the house safely. They can be sued if they don't.

What if she walked herself then fell and was injured?

I'm regularly wheeled around in hospital despite being perfectly able bodied. Thousands are daily...

Whats the point of the thread?
Does your friend have an issue with being helped by a fireman when so unwell she lost consciousness?
Is she looking to sue or something?

PollyBell · 30/11/2025 09:21

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 30/11/2025 09:13

I believe it is in a 'firebrigades' DNA.
If they are not carrying a person about they will be scaling a tree to get a cat.

They just can't help themselves. 🤷

They have special lessons in it, called 'what can we do to give the bright sparks fodder for MN'

CremeEggsForBreakfast · 30/11/2025 09:22

Have you asked your friend? Why was the fire brigade called? Was an ambulance crew in attendance?

Presumably paramedics tried to rouse her and couldn't - even the noise of the crews entering her home hadn't woken her so she must have been very out of it. They then had to call and wait for the fire crew so your friend has plenty of time to wake up and move herself. She may be able to walk but clearly was unconscious and either overweight so the paramedics felt they could safely move her or her home/the environment was such they they couldn't remove her themselves and need the fire crew's assistance.

Those are the two most likely reasons. If you want more information you can either provide way more context or you can ask your friend who was there and would have had everything explained to her.

notallwhowanderare · 30/11/2025 09:26

Youwerewrong · 30/11/2025 03:31

But if someone was looking at the person then they are awake now

Stop pretending to be stupid. Or, if you are stupid, stop asking stupid questions.

TaraC25 · 30/11/2025 09:28

PatThePenguin · 29/11/2025 21:52

When people aren't fully conscious they tend to be a bit rubbish at walking.

Edited

🤣🤣🤣🤣

ChampagneCentral · 30/11/2025 09:40

Presumably they weren't compos mentis and needed to be carried for speed. Disoriented people aren't always compliant.

Not really sure what you're looking for?

Turnups · 30/11/2025 09:55

Presumably they judged that the person might not be able to walk safely unaided.

What's your issue with that?

Greggsit · 30/11/2025 09:57

PodMom · 30/11/2025 08:11

I think if a friend told me this I’d be suspicious as well to be honest. Unless there’s a threat to life, so fire, flood, getting carried away from a car accident I can’t see it’s true. If a person was medically unwell and the fire brigade turned up first they’d stay with them until the paramedics arrived, maybe recovery position, etc. but they wouldn’t be carried from a safe place if they were in a safe place.

OP, does your friend have form for a fantasy life? General embellishment?

Not strictly true. Where I live every firefighter is also a qualified paramedic so they are perfectly capable of making medical decisions, beginning treatment and deciding on whether someone can be moved themselves. If you call 999 they will dispatch whichever is closest of the fire or ambulance services to make sure you get the fastest possible treatment.

Hobnobswantshernameback · 30/11/2025 09:59

Wonder if the op has sobered up this morning

alecks · 30/11/2025 09:59

This is a cracker of a thread to wake up to

StickWars · 30/11/2025 10:06

I recall a poster earlier in the year, who was very focused on disproving that a friend had had a life threatening event.

The poster had had, they felt, a much more terrible medical event themselves and was trying to prove the friend wasn't as Ill as they had claimed to be.

Anyway, it was all very odd, never really made sense and read an awful lot like this.

PodMom · 30/11/2025 10:07

Greggsit · 30/11/2025 09:57

Not strictly true. Where I live every firefighter is also a qualified paramedic so they are perfectly capable of making medical decisions, beginning treatment and deciding on whether someone can be moved themselves. If you call 999 they will dispatch whichever is closest of the fire or ambulance services to make sure you get the fastest possible treatment.

Is that in the uk? Never heard of it.

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