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What are your thoughts on Cynthia Erico’s and Ariana Grande’s behaviour?

181 replies

Graceey · 22/11/2025 12:01

Obviously this is just light hearted gossip. They’re doing no harm.

But I absolutely fascinated by Ariana’s and Cynthia’s odd behaviour during the press tour for Wicked. They seem extremely close with one another. But I hate to say it comes across very contrived.

Ariana looks and acts like a fragile doll these days. In stark contrast to her previous pop star persona. And Cynthia has seemingly decided to play the role of her protector. It’s all very strange.

They have both lost a lot of weight. But what on Earth has happened to these two during filming?

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=nyfz2Uz9oI0&pp=ygUSY3ludGhpYSBhbmQgYXJpYW5h

This thread won’t be for everyone. But some of like to discuss the psychological aspects of behaviour. It’s obviously pure speculation

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SuzyCoo · 22/11/2025 15:55

You are being totally reasonable. The relationship is odd.

On another note I am really worried about Ariana. The world watched as Karen Carpenter faded herself away and denied any issues. I don't think that should ever happen again. Who is protecting/helping her? Can't be Cynthia because she too has entered skeletal state.

tothelefttotheleft · 22/11/2025 16:30

BatshitOutofHell · 22/11/2025 15:11

It might not be competitive anorexia. They might just have had a tough filming schedule and not eaten properly. All of them.

Are the men skinny too? I haven't seen them.

I never understand this reasoning.

They don't have to go to the shops, bring it home, prepare it, wash up etc etc.

Food will literally be put in of them to eat. Which takes a few minutes.

BatshitOutofHell · 22/11/2025 16:34

neverbeenskiing · 22/11/2025 15:24

I think that social media has completely changed the way films are promoted.
Incidentally, there are also plenty of videos of Johnathan Bailey and Jeff Goldblum fawning over each other on this press tour that I find just as contrived and weird as the footage of AG and CE, but this weirdness really isn't unique to the Wicked films either.

I've recently seen clips of Jessie Buckley and Paul Mescal gushing about one another in equally cringe worthy fashion whilst promoting Hamnet. Ditto Joe Locke and Kit Connor, Kristen Bell and Adam Brody, Margot Robbie and Ryan Gosling, Margaret Qualley and Aubrey Plaza, Olivia Coleman and Benedict Cumberbatch...the list goes on and on.

Someone whose job it is to analyse social media marketing trends or some such has obviously decided that films and TV shows do better if people are convinced there is a strong real-life connection between the leads. Unfortunately, attempts to convince the audience of this have now gone way, way over the top hence the weirdness we are currently seeing. I feel a bit sorry for the actors who have a requirement to do this nonsense in their contracts.

I reckon the actors really feel this way. They work together in a very intense way which is very different to other workplaces because it's usually for a very short amount of time. In order to be able to do what they do they usually have to tap into their own memories/deep emotions and will often share those with each other. They therefore have an emotional bond that arises from the rehearsal and film making process, which we the audience are not privy to. It's important for the film because it's one of the reasons that they can convey emotions and, perhaps more importantly, make us feel them too.

I think there is also a bit of a wanky thing that happens when their power to create lasting memories, joy and emotions for people from around the world makes them arrogant in a way that is different to other forms of arrogance - iyswim.

GingerBeverage · 22/11/2025 16:52

It’s scripted and has gained the film a tremendous amount of coverage, while steering public opinion away from AG breaking a on-set colleague’s young family.

Absolute genius and both women will snap back to normal behaviour as soon as it’s over.

Ohhhthedrama · 22/11/2025 16:59

I think it's done what ît was intended to do. Get everyone talking about them.

pictoosh · 22/11/2025 17:10

Is this not a simple case of two young women in the public eye being rather affected and silly?

They will tire of it and one another.

Meh.

Cucy · 22/11/2025 17:12

Ohhhthedrama · 22/11/2025 16:59

I think it's done what ît was intended to do. Get everyone talking about them.

Yes I think so too.

People were loving them at first but now it’s going the other way - but they’re still getting a lot of attention for it and so they’re going to keep doing it.

Didimum · 22/11/2025 17:13

Most famous people are crackers. Just leave them to it.

333FionaG · 22/11/2025 17:17

GingerBeverage · 22/11/2025 16:52

It’s scripted and has gained the film a tremendous amount of coverage, while steering public opinion away from AG breaking a on-set colleague’s young family.

Absolute genius and both women will snap back to normal behaviour as soon as it’s over.

What did Ariana do to an on set colleague's family?

Graceey · 22/11/2025 17:22

333FionaG · 22/11/2025 17:17

What did Ariana do to an on set colleague's family?

cheated with a married man whose wife had very very recently given birth. Even bet them I believe.

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popcornandpotatoes · 22/11/2025 17:27

HeBeaverandSheBeaver · 22/11/2025 13:30

Ariana has had an awful experience with the Manchester bombing and declined since. I think anyone criticising her is sick and should put themselves in her shoes. I'm not even a fan but it's dreadful the way she is gossped bout.

I saw this argument on another thread and while I agree it must have been an awful experience for her, her fame and notoritaty has only grown in the last 8 years. She has become one of the most successful people stars in the world. Why now is she suddenly so frail and traumatised she can barely walk?

I suspect we will find out what's going on eventually. Part of me wonders if it's not all some mad publicity stunt

Fellontheground · 22/11/2025 17:35

That Cynthia one is just weird. She gives me the absolute creeps. No idea what her actual talent is. The seems to have come from nowhere. Ariana Grande not a whole lot better but seems ill and vulnerable.

SingingOcean · 22/11/2025 17:38

BatshitOutofHell · 22/11/2025 16:34

I reckon the actors really feel this way. They work together in a very intense way which is very different to other workplaces because it's usually for a very short amount of time. In order to be able to do what they do they usually have to tap into their own memories/deep emotions and will often share those with each other. They therefore have an emotional bond that arises from the rehearsal and film making process, which we the audience are not privy to. It's important for the film because it's one of the reasons that they can convey emotions and, perhaps more importantly, make us feel them too.

I think there is also a bit of a wanky thing that happens when their power to create lasting memories, joy and emotions for people from around the world makes them arrogant in a way that is different to other forms of arrogance - iyswim.

I think along these lines. A combination of a shared emotional experience and an industry that encourages self-indulgence and eccentricity.

RedCarded · 22/11/2025 17:39

It does make you wonder if all is well with both of them, they seem to become very upset a lot during interviews. It is bizarre how emotional they both seem to be, I haven't ever seen any other actor/actress cry so much during interviews as they both seem to.

TheaBrandt1 · 22/11/2025 17:42

When dd2 looked like that both a psychiatrist and CAHMs were extremely concerned and she was close to being hospitalised. Thank god she came to her senses and we are through it now. Seeing them I find quite triggering.

Slothisavirtue · 22/11/2025 17:48

TheaBrandt1 · 22/11/2025 17:42

When dd2 looked like that both a psychiatrist and CAHMs were extremely concerned and she was close to being hospitalised. Thank god she came to her senses and we are through it now. Seeing them I find quite triggering.

Yes, I looked like Ariana at my worst and my heart breaks for her. And I do worry.about Cynthia too

NotThatWay · 22/11/2025 17:50

GingerBeverage · 22/11/2025 16:52

It’s scripted and has gained the film a tremendous amount of coverage, while steering public opinion away from AG breaking a on-set colleague’s young family.

Absolute genius and both women will snap back to normal behaviour as soon as it’s over.

He broke up his own family. HTH.

ThatCyanCat · 22/11/2025 17:52

Fellontheground · 22/11/2025 17:35

That Cynthia one is just weird. She gives me the absolute creeps. No idea what her actual talent is. The seems to have come from nowhere. Ariana Grande not a whole lot better but seems ill and vulnerable.

You can't work out what her talent is?

I'll tell you. She juggles fire clubs while on a unicycle.

She also definitely didn't come out of nowhere, I assure you.

Ohhhthedrama · 22/11/2025 17:52

I don't know if it aired in UK but a couple of weeks ago on NBC was Wicked One Wonderful night. They both seemed totally ' normal ' during the backstage stuff and cast interviews. Maybe they just do it at press events.

Slothisavirtue · 22/11/2025 17:55

Fellontheground · 22/11/2025 17:35

That Cynthia one is just weird. She gives me the absolute creeps. No idea what her actual talent is. The seems to have come from nowhere. Ariana Grande not a whole lot better but seems ill and vulnerable.

She didn't come from nowhere. Why not at least do a quick Google before making stupid comments

NotThatWay · 22/11/2025 17:59

Ohhhthedrama · 22/11/2025 17:52

I don't know if it aired in UK but a couple of weeks ago on NBC was Wicked One Wonderful night. They both seemed totally ' normal ' during the backstage stuff and cast interviews. Maybe they just do it at press events.

I saw that. I loved it!!

333FionaG · 22/11/2025 18:01

popcornandpotatoes · 22/11/2025 17:27

I saw this argument on another thread and while I agree it must have been an awful experience for her, her fame and notoritaty has only grown in the last 8 years. She has become one of the most successful people stars in the world. Why now is she suddenly so frail and traumatised she can barely walk?

I suspect we will find out what's going on eventually. Part of me wonders if it's not all some mad publicity stunt

She looks fine in the Swarovski ad she does. Thin, sure, but not frail.

Shanghai101 · 22/11/2025 18:09

TheaBrandt1 · 22/11/2025 17:42

When dd2 looked like that both a psychiatrist and CAHMs were extremely concerned and she was close to being hospitalised. Thank god she came to her senses and we are through it now. Seeing them I find quite triggering.

I was just about to say the same. Sadly, once you have seen/experienced anorexia first hand you can spot it easily thereafter.
I hope they get effective help. Due to the denying nature of the illness, being an adult with consent makes that harder.

popcornandpotatoes · 22/11/2025 18:11

333FionaG · 22/11/2025 18:01

She looks fine in the Swarovski ad she does. Thin, sure, but not frail.

That ad was filmed ages ago, it's been on for a few years

Cucy · 22/11/2025 18:16

popcornandpotatoes · 22/11/2025 17:27

I saw this argument on another thread and while I agree it must have been an awful experience for her, her fame and notoritaty has only grown in the last 8 years. She has become one of the most successful people stars in the world. Why now is she suddenly so frail and traumatised she can barely walk?

I suspect we will find out what's going on eventually. Part of me wonders if it's not all some mad publicity stunt

I completely agree.

I mean it may have something to do with her PTSD coming out now but she hasn’t been like this before or after the terrorist and surely if it was PTSD she couldn’t be on stage either loud noises and bright lights right now.

I can’t help feel it’s done sort of PR stunt but would someone really lose so much weight just for media attention.
Its not like she’s a nobody.

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