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What the heck! Trans women get periods apparently

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charcoalandsugar · 21/11/2025 12:42

https://eu.modibodi.com/blogs/womens/transwomen-period

AIBU that this is the most ridiculous thing for a company to claim.

"Can a transgender woman have a period? Absolutely. Many trans and gender-diverse people menstruate. Whether you’re a woman, a man, non-binary or agender, your body may menstruate too."

How some trans women get their period

How some trans women get their period – Modibodi EU

Menstruation is a part of many people’s lives. Find out how some trans women get their period and how you can be a supportive friend.

https://eu.modibodi.com/blogs/womens/transwomen-period

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Ihatetomatoes · 22/11/2025 09:02

AnSolas · 22/11/2025 08:35

They do understand

They are choosing to market their women only product as fetish gear to men.

Not imo a good brand idea as most women would not wish to buy male fetish gear for themselves or their girls.

So the idea of marketing a male wank aid to a girl of 8 to 10 has Pedophilia vibes. And giving young girls sex aids is non-contact child sex abuse via grooming.

Why the brand management dont see the pedophilia association as brand risk as problem is beyond me.

Yuck that is vomit inducing.

Ihatetomatoes · 22/11/2025 09:27

tommyhoundmum · 21/11/2025 19:58

I agree but some do have uteruses

No trans 'women' or Trans identified men ie biological men have uteruses - not happened ever!

Some of these men who identify as women have a cosmetic opening they call their 'vagina' although it's not a real organ since fashioned from old scrota tissue or colon tissue and is rather 'problematic' due to what it was intended for originally. It's not a vagina and it's not a uterus.

@tommyhoundmum you have been misinformed go check and you will see that the person told you lies!

AnSolas · 22/11/2025 10:12

Ihatetomatoes · 22/11/2025 09:02

Yuck that is vomit inducing.

Yep and why the brand managers are not seeing that when their core growth market is young girls????

charcoalandsugar · 22/11/2025 10:36

In any case we will be avoiding this company from now on

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TheKeatingFive · 22/11/2025 10:40

AnSolas · 22/11/2025 10:12

Yep and why the brand managers are not seeing that when their core growth market is young girls????

They're not stupid.

They're making a choice to go after this rather than their core base.

MagpiePi · 22/11/2025 11:02

Ihatetomatoes · 21/11/2025 18:38

They are very much the 'I'm a lady you know' caricature of Little Britain ... that strange looking over the top male version of what a woman is. Again they got it wrong.

I was going for the stereotypical ways that women are portrayed to behave when they have a period.

They could also do:
The Sleepover Kit

  • skimpy nighties
  • face masks
  • mani/pedi equipment
  • feather pillows that explode at the slightest touch
The Break Up with your Boyfriend Kit
  • comfy pyjamas
  • fluffy socks
  • tissues
  • ice cream
  • soppy romantic films
  • gaggle of girlfriends to moan about how awful he was with
AnSolas · 22/11/2025 11:12

TheKeatingFive · 22/11/2025 10:40

They're not stupid.

They're making a choice to go after this rather than their core base.

Its not a good financial decision.

Men with a fetish are a niche market.

Branding into a fetish market as a "male" underwere brand disrupts their core market

So it is a stupid long term choice 🤷‍♀️

TheKeatingFive · 22/11/2025 11:19

AnSolas · 22/11/2025 11:12

Its not a good financial decision.

Men with a fetish are a niche market.

Branding into a fetish market as a "male" underwere brand disrupts their core market

So it is a stupid long term choice 🤷‍♀️

I totally agree and there are already examples of companies who have lived to regret this.

But they've chosen the 'progressive' social credit points over common sense sound business decisions.

TheKeatingFive · 22/11/2025 11:31

I work in a consultancy role which is an off shoot of marketing. I work with marketeers all the time.

There are many very smart people in marketing, but a very notable characteristic in the industry is the desire for the new and the shiny. This can actually hamper good marketing in a much broader sense than this example, but I won't get into that now.

In this case, the marketing team will have been excited by this direction, probably strongly championed by younger members of the team. They will have sold it in and it may be that some key people across the business like the so called 'progressive' angle. They'll also be excited about a new consumer base.

The impact on the core consumer base may be investigated, but probably in a very superficial way. The echo chambers of the team will mean they don't take this seriously, or don't actually probe for insight. Finance will ask questions, but they will easily be batted back.

So I see exactly how this happened. Other companies have shown us how it might end.

Brefugee · 22/11/2025 11:54

But are companies like this losing money? I have heard that Snag tights are really good and that is why people buy them. For sure the marketing puts a lot of people off, but i am sure that the CFO at Snag (and all the other companies who do this) pulls more clout than the marketing team if it starts to hit their bottom line?

TheKeatingFive · 22/11/2025 12:03

Brefugee · 22/11/2025 11:54

But are companies like this losing money? I have heard that Snag tights are really good and that is why people buy them. For sure the marketing puts a lot of people off, but i am sure that the CFO at Snag (and all the other companies who do this) pulls more clout than the marketing team if it starts to hit their bottom line?

Hard to know. There are examples of companies going under after taking a turn towards gender ideology - body shop, a surf brand that I can't remember the name of, bud lite obviously. Nike has taken a big hit too.

But in most cases, it could be one of multiple factors, so hard to isolate the gender stuff as a sole cause. They'd need good market research to identify the reasons and they may not be inclined to commission it.

WearyAuldWumman · 22/11/2025 12:07

Brefugee · 22/11/2025 11:54

But are companies like this losing money? I have heard that Snag tights are really good and that is why people buy them. For sure the marketing puts a lot of people off, but i am sure that the CFO at Snag (and all the other companies who do this) pulls more clout than the marketing team if it starts to hit their bottom line?

Snag tights are good if you’re tall and heavy.

I’ve stopped buying them. Their products are now leaning more and more towards fetish wear.

Brefugee · 22/11/2025 12:15

it is really difficult right now to tell why companies are going under. But if the CFOs think it's due to the direction their marketing is taking them, that would change sharp-ish.

If they were getting lots of correspondence saying "meh, not any more because of this" they might arrive at the conclusion more quickly (absent an uptick in orders)

TheKeatingFive · 22/11/2025 12:28

Brefugee · 22/11/2025 12:15

it is really difficult right now to tell why companies are going under. But if the CFOs think it's due to the direction their marketing is taking them, that would change sharp-ish.

If they were getting lots of correspondence saying "meh, not any more because of this" they might arrive at the conclusion more quickly (absent an uptick in orders)

I think people generally don't inform companies why they have stopped buying from them, unless there are full scale demonstrations or whatever.

When emails come in, it's hard to tell if they're indicative of the tip of the ice berg or just a few cranks. High ups in finance will never see that correspondence anyway, or not directly.

They'll need sustained commercial evidence (sales) and good feedback collection (market research and so on) to pin this on their gender policies

We've seen companies make changes based on this. Disney for example has backed away from a very 'progressive' / right on position when it became clear this was losing money for them. But it took a long time.

FuckRealityBringMeABook · 22/11/2025 12:33

Thing is, period pants probably are useful for transwomen who've had surgery because it often leaves them with urinary incontinence. But they don't use that for marketing, I wonder why ?

Sometimeswinning · 22/11/2025 12:39

catontheironingboard · 21/11/2025 12:50

FFS. However, as I was just poised to buy some new period pants for DD, this is very useful as I will definitely buy from a different brand. Thanks, Modibodi, for clarifying my decision not to buy from you! 👍

[Honestly, do they not know their market? How many “gender diverse” customers do they have compared to mums buying pants for themselves and their daughters? Go woke go broke as they say.]

Came on to say this!

FuckRealityBringMeABook · 22/11/2025 12:45

Caplin · 21/11/2025 16:45

And can the TERFs please bugger off with their ‘biological facts matter’ crap on this board. First off, a GCSE in biology does not make you an expert. The biology of chromosomes is actually far more complex, who knew! And let’s not even start on neurodevelopment, which is also biology. The fact is trans people have existed throughout history, so there is clearly a biological reason for them existing in all nations at all points through time, even if we don’t fully understand it. Screaming that people are lying or ignoring biology is wilful ignorance.

sorry for the rant, it has been a long day and I have truly had it with this hate filled nonsense which does real damage to people I love and their families.

I’m off to drink wine. And no, I’m not getting into this with anyone.

Bit sexist and patronising to assume that no-one on Mumsnet has post-GCSE science qualifications

MO0N · 22/11/2025 12:49

FuckRealityBringMeABook · 22/11/2025 12:45

Bit sexist and patronising to assume that no-one on Mumsnet has post-GCSE science qualifications

He might be able to impersonate a woman more successfully if he was a bit more feminine and submissive?

orangemapleleaves · 22/11/2025 13:01

TheKeatingFive · 22/11/2025 11:31

I work in a consultancy role which is an off shoot of marketing. I work with marketeers all the time.

There are many very smart people in marketing, but a very notable characteristic in the industry is the desire for the new and the shiny. This can actually hamper good marketing in a much broader sense than this example, but I won't get into that now.

In this case, the marketing team will have been excited by this direction, probably strongly championed by younger members of the team. They will have sold it in and it may be that some key people across the business like the so called 'progressive' angle. They'll also be excited about a new consumer base.

The impact on the core consumer base may be investigated, but probably in a very superficial way. The echo chambers of the team will mean they don't take this seriously, or don't actually probe for insight. Finance will ask questions, but they will easily be batted back.

So I see exactly how this happened. Other companies have shown us how it might end.

This is accurate. Young and enthusiastic team member meets slightly jaded marketing manager who used to be a journalist and is only doing this job to pay the mortgage while juggling a sick dog/child/parent.

Meeting has already been going for an hour as younger team members go off on numerous tangents - fine, let's try the 'transwomen get periods too angle.'

Just get me the fuck out of here what happened to my dreams?

It's classic let's throw something at the wall and see if it sticks marketing.

Plus it was almost certainly written by ChatGPT, which is agreeable but very innaccurate, and it will as a result not rank highly on google because AI is now being used by google to spot AI generated content. So total waste of time.

Very shabby work all round.

Futurehappiness · 22/11/2025 13:23

I can imagine that many ex-customers don't admit their real reasons for abandoning 'right on' brands for fear of being labelled as TERF bigots.

Fluffsicles · 22/11/2025 13:24

@Caplin most people aren't taking issue with how someone identifies, but rather the company stating people are having periods who aren't, and then comparing hormone fluctuations to uterine bleeding, as if they are one and the same. My periods made me throw up and pass out when I was younger, I had to be medicated in various ways, one to stop womb contractions, would bleed like a tap. It's difficult to see a company saying that a period is a different thing to what we know a period is. A company trying to redefine what that is is discrimination against the people (whatever they identify as) who are actually experiencing menstruation.

Ihatetomatoes · 22/11/2025 13:47

Fluffsicles · 22/11/2025 13:24

@Caplin most people aren't taking issue with how someone identifies, but rather the company stating people are having periods who aren't, and then comparing hormone fluctuations to uterine bleeding, as if they are one and the same. My periods made me throw up and pass out when I was younger, I had to be medicated in various ways, one to stop womb contractions, would bleed like a tap. It's difficult to see a company saying that a period is a different thing to what we know a period is. A company trying to redefine what that is is discrimination against the people (whatever they identify as) who are actually experiencing menstruation.

This.

Now there are children being used as guinea pigs for hormone blockers... bloody sad 😔

ifyoulikechocolate · 22/11/2025 13:55

Everyone clicking on their website to see, and meanwhile the marketing team cheering how successful it’s been, look at all the traffic on our website.

AnSolas · 22/11/2025 14:04

The marketing staff salary/bonus contracts are as poorly designed as the branding concept 🙃

% of 5% v
% of 50%
should be a no brainer as to which market share is more important.

And page clicks mean nothing if they dont translate into actual sales

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