To be sad husband didn’t care I’d gone to A&E

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I went to A&E last night in excruciating pain, he’d witnessed this in bed whilst I tried to manage the pain at home, I told him I was going to head to A&E at 2am and he said ok and rolled over. I went and had emergency surgery but I didn’t hear from him till the morning.

Great!

OP I felt sick reading your post. I'm so sorry you had to go through that without the support and care of your 'D'H.

I have been through similar, my abusive ex DP left me for dead when I was taken ill and never even checked up on me in hospital. Turns out he was busy with OW and he 'had to consider her feelings' and so never contacted me again.

Please please never go back to this man. You deserve so much better than such inhumane treatment.

I hope you feel better soon.

That is absolutely shocking. I hope your friend recovered well. I remember the look of hope on my abusive ex DPs face when my mental health was so poor that I was in real danger of doing something.......... He looked excited at the fact I might be out of the way of him and OW. Just inhumane.