Full-body shapewear like [[https://www.marksandspencer.com/firm-control-cool-comfort-shaping-body/p/clp60533931?color=ROSEQUARTZ&_gl=1*fdde2f*_up*MQ..*_gs*MQ..&gclid=Cj0KCQiAiebIBhDmARIsAE8PGNIrJJ3bX7rNxTn2sbUkCJsL_xFbGvzEvnS0OhwT8Z1UQGVbmAx8B4MaAm1lEALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds&gbraid=0AAAAAD7g6bTrcM3niFlVNfGuF35XLqCPf this]]. Can't figure this out. Knickers underneath give VPL (especially with satin skirts/dresses) ... but no knickers plus the lower hook & eye situation is, well, hurty?! Or am I being a wuss?! What do you do?