Would you class this as flirting? DH with shop assistant

[Bex39]

DH is adamant I am being OTT and he was just being polite but I disagree. Please help settle this for me.

We were in a shop which sells chocolate and he was at the till with me next to him.

Shop assistant - those (the chocolates DH was buying) are my favourites

DH - I would eat so much chocolate if I worked here

SA - tell me about it, I can’t help myself with the samples

DH - you couldn’t tell by your figure

SA - you are being too kind

DH - seriously, you are in great ‘nick’

SA - laughs

🤮
Just so rotten.

Sleazy. Don’t need some random man telling me I’m in great nick. Fuck. Off. 😂

“In great nick”🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I’d think- thanks a bunch cheeky lol she can’t say much back as it’s her job.
I don’t think it’s flirting, just something an older person would say.

gross! Your husband is a creep

Grim.

How big is his ego that he thought saying something so sleazy to a stranger would 'make their day'?

Working in retail is so fucking tedious.

Ugh gross, it is horrible to have to deal with comments from men about one's figure. He was definitely flirting and/or being creepy. I bet he wouldn't say it to a male shop assistant.

Yeah, I’d be super embarrassed if someone said that to me in front of their partner.

😂😂😂

If my partner said that he would be sleeping on the couch indefinitely

If my husband said this to a shop assistant he would immediately have to leave the shop and step in front of an oncoming bus. Otherwise he could never live with the mortification.

Flirting, maybe or maybe not. However, inappropriate to comment on her body once, let alone twice. Icky that he thought her day would be made receiving male validation of her body.

He went too far with "your in great nick". Very disrespectful to you too.

Ew, he was 'flirting' (i.e being a sleaze). The poor shop assistant was just doing her job and being polite and probably feeling horribly uncomfortable 🙄

🤣🤣🤣🤣

My DH is older than this and from a “different era” there’s no way he’d be so bloody inappropriate with or without me there.

Yeah nah. 😬

That’s even worse that he spoke like that in front of her . It totally belittled the OP

Ewwww!!! This is so gross!

fuck that! Hes in his 50's he is young ehough to have been taught better.

...or with the fishes....

I said SHE wasn't flirting!

Yuk!!

Yep, you said it 👍.