Parent messaged me to complain about DH

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This is a strange one. DS had his friend round on Tuesday, they were mainly just playing video games upstairs. They came downstairs and DS started to moan that the Wi-Fi was down.

DH said he’d need to ‘go for the old school approach and grab a top shelf magazine from the corner shop’ and DS just laughed it off.

The next day, his friends mum has messaged me to say she doesn’t appreciate DH making inappropriate comments in front of her son.

I’ve ignored it…but am now overthinking whether I should have replied to clarify nothing was said to her son?

Edited to add both 17yo

You seem to have a nun obsession 😂

You are not wrong.
Fortunately whilst I know it exists, it doesn't happen in all homes.
There definitely are both women and men who wouldn't dream of modelling such behaviour, and simply wouldn't tolerate it.

We would be ambitious professionally for our children and such views would be historically anathema in our own backgrounds, so definitely not condoned in serious careers where such views expressed could find a promising career cut short.

Yes, they absolutely do. Does this fact need to be used by a random adult to mock them and embarrass them though? No.

And I find it shocking how so many women on here seem ok with the fact another woman has complained to OP because, as the woman, she is responsible for her husbands behaviour. We all have different standards and I think that’s really misogynistic. That’s the only shocking thing here.

Kind of gross.

She may not have had contact details for ops husband and may have felt uncomfortable going to ops husband given his inappropriateness. Which given his response is kind of a fair call.

I'd have rolled my eyes and thought he was a bit of a perv but I absolutely would not have messaged you about it, they're practically adults.

They’re everywhere just lately. It’s like Sister Act. 2 on here sometimes 😂

17 year old boys watching porn is not the issue, older men making inappropriate comments to 17 year old boys is the issue.

The boy probably didn’t understand, went home and asked his mum what it meant.

Yeah it’s not a big deal but wanking jokes from a middle aged man to teen boys is weird and seedy. Not every teenager is sex obsessed.

Also just noticed that he is insinuating that they were watching porn upstairs together so now the wifis gone break out the porno mags. Yeah it’s weird.

Weird and unfunny thing to say but at 17 the mums response was crazy.

Some men just never grow out of the stupid comment phase. Years back DH and I were staying at a B&B. The breakfast wasn't great, so the second day we decided not to bother, stay in bed a while and then go out for breakfast. The landlord made seedy comments about why we'd stayed in bed. Why I didn't just say "no, your breakfast was rubbish with sawdust sausages" I don't know but I was a lot younger then!

17 year old boy running back to mummy and reporting - wtaf!

Not really if he was the offended.

It’s a weird comment to make to two teenage boys.

Bloody hell! The other mum seriously needs to get a grip! Are they going to run to mummy every time they hear some naughty words when they're in the work place? Snowflakes!

She's been ridiculous 🙄