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To wonder where the left has gone?

299 replies

KenAdams · 28/10/2025 17:54

Ironically, this is somewhat of a rant.

Is everyone too scared to stand up to the constant hate filled rants for fear of being called "woke"?

Is the constant inference that VAWG is only perpetrated by brown men not worth standing up to?

Is the rhetoric that all of our problems are caused only by small boats and not legal migration or billionaires not problematic? For the record, I believe it is a problem, but not the only problem and not even the biggest problem. I believe the system is the problem.

The increasingly hostile movement against anyone that is non white is making people fearful of going about their every day lives and people seem to just want to sit on the sidelines and refuse to call it out.

Where is everyone?

I feel like this post might turn into a gaslighting shit show, but fuck it, I've had enough.

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JHound · 28/10/2025 19:33

Duechristmas · 28/10/2025 19:27

I live in a city where white supremacy is now being voiced and non-white adults, teens and kids are fearful at school and at home. My own kids are choosing to not going out when they know the protests are on. These kids can trace their history back four generations in this city but necessary their skin is brown they are experiencing abuse in their home town.

I am so sorry that you have to experience that.

Gruffporcupine · 28/10/2025 19:33

FOJN · 28/10/2025 18:11

This might help OP. A privileged left leaning man explains how his experience of living 200m from a migrant hotel changed his perspective from one aligned with yours to him becoming a single issue voter. I don't live near a migrant hotel but I'm not arrogant enough to smear and insult the people who do when they raise legitimate concerns. Perhaps you could start listening.

Reform are going to win the next election

BurntBroccoli · 28/10/2025 19:33

Duechristmas · 28/10/2025 19:27

I live in a city where white supremacy is now being voiced and non-white adults, teens and kids are fearful at school and at home. My own kids are choosing to not going out when they know the protests are on. These kids can trace their history back four generations in this city but necessary their skin is brown they are experiencing abuse in their home town.

Is this in the UK?

JHound · 28/10/2025 19:35

5128gap · 28/10/2025 19:24

Its also arrogant and disrespectful to wheel out the WC experience to strengthen the conservative arguments of the privileged. Most of whom couldn't give a damn about WC people unless their enhanced victim status can be harnessed for a cause.
A good example being the anti DEI threads, when suddenly everyone cares about the poor WC boys from sink estates they'd normally cross the road to avoid, just because they can be used as an example of white people missing out.
Whenever something is inconvenient, risky, unpleasant or undesirable, WC people will be first in line to take the flak. That goes without saying. Anyone who really cares about this needs to be addressing the root cause, rather than manipulating disadvantaged people into thinking if we just get rid of this or that scapegoat all will be well.
Because it won't. Remove every last immigrant from the UK and the improvement to the lives of low income WC people will be negligible. Because its not asylum seekers who are keeping them poor and ill housed and leaving their neighbourhoods ill policed and neglected.

They are highly selective when they want to support working class people.

When it supports their political stances they will weaponise them.

When it inconveniences them (such as strike action) they are a lot less supportive….

JHound · 28/10/2025 19:36

Winter2020 · 28/10/2025 19:26

Can you?

It’s your reference to a majority view. Can you please provide a source for your statement.

Duechristmas · 28/10/2025 19:39

BurntBroccoli · 28/10/2025 19:33

Is this in the UK?

Very much so.
Incidences of racism have massively increased in the school I work at too. No kid deserves that.

crackofdoom · 28/10/2025 19:45

HedwigEliza · 28/10/2025 18:28

People are so tired of events like this happening day after day, and no meaningful action ever being taken. Another day, another tragedy.

https://www.thetimes.com/uk/crime/article/uxbridge-stabbing-afghan-22-arrested-after-fatal-attack-mj35wxmb0

Britain needs to get over the idea that we can protect the world from itself. A man like this won't be sent back to Afghanistan because we consider the country dangerous - but Britain is now dangerous, and British lives at risk, because of men like this. How is this sustainable?

Oh yeah, we had a mass shooting in Plymouth. A guy got hold of a machine gun (I think it was) and killed his mum, a dad and his toddler daughter and another two or three passers by.

Weirdly though, the papers just used his name, rather than leading with "Local white English man commits terrible massacre".

FOJN · 28/10/2025 19:45

5128gap · 28/10/2025 19:24

Its also arrogant and disrespectful to wheel out the WC experience to strengthen the conservative arguments of the privileged. Most of whom couldn't give a damn about WC people unless their enhanced victim status can be harnessed for a cause.
A good example being the anti DEI threads, when suddenly everyone cares about the poor WC boys from sink estates they'd normally cross the road to avoid, just because they can be used as an example of white people missing out.
Whenever something is inconvenient, risky, unpleasant or undesirable, WC people will be first in line to take the flak. That goes without saying. Anyone who really cares about this needs to be addressing the root cause, rather than manipulating disadvantaged people into thinking if we just get rid of this or that scapegoat all will be well.
Because it won't. Remove every last immigrant from the UK and the improvement to the lives of low income WC people will be negligible. Because its not asylum seekers who are keeping them poor and ill housed and leaving their neighbourhoods ill policed and neglected.

I'm not suggesting giving conservative arguments air time. I'm suggesting listening to the people who are telling you about their own experience and treating their concerns with respect. They have been insulted, denigrated and branded as bigots and racists for speaking about the problems migrant hotels create for them in the local area. I hope you are not going to try to gaslight me by saying that is not the case.

You are part of the problem, you talk about "disadvantaged people" being easily manipulated as if they are too stupid to understand their own experiences. If you think the immigration experiment should continue then you need to offer the people who are negatively affected some solutions.

I suspect asylum hotels would be a thing of the past if they opened half a dozen in nice up market neighbourhoods.

PeonyPatch · 28/10/2025 19:47

I live in a deprived town in the SE of England and our high street is unrecognisable now compared to when I was younger. Even older family members are commenting on how it has been overrun by African people. Again I am pro-multi culturalism and I am mixed race myself, but I can see why people in this country feel angry. It seems to be that those from certain classes don’t have a choice either. I imagine if you’re wealthier, this is less likely to happen in more privileged and secluded communities in Britain. The area I live in is absolutely mobbed with Union Jack flags… not only lining the streets and roundabouts but also hanging outside peoples windows.

PeonyPatch · 28/10/2025 19:48

FOJN · 28/10/2025 19:45

I'm not suggesting giving conservative arguments air time. I'm suggesting listening to the people who are telling you about their own experience and treating their concerns with respect. They have been insulted, denigrated and branded as bigots and racists for speaking about the problems migrant hotels create for them in the local area. I hope you are not going to try to gaslight me by saying that is not the case.

You are part of the problem, you talk about "disadvantaged people" being easily manipulated as if they are too stupid to understand their own experiences. If you think the immigration experiment should continue then you need to offer the people who are negatively affected some solutions.

I suspect asylum hotels would be a thing of the past if they opened half a dozen in nice up market neighbourhoods.

I actually agree with this.

BundleBoogie · 28/10/2025 19:50

JHound · 28/10/2025 19:03

Who is “refusing to allow people to discuss” immigration issues?

Well the Labour Party has adopted a definition of Islamophobia that includes ‘targeting expressions of Muslimness’ so anyone discussing immigration issues and criticising a growing number of people with abhorrent cultural practices settling here will be guilty of being ‘Islamophobic’.

The government are looking to change the law with an updated official definition of Islamophobia.

Another ‘expression of Muslimness’ is repeated first cousin marriage which is thought to have contributed significantly to the community cover ups of the Pakistani grooming gangs (other types of grooming gangs obviously exist but those made up of mainly Pakistani men have very specific characteristics).

It would make the inquiry into the Pakistani grooming gangs impossible to run.

BurntBroccoli · 28/10/2025 19:52

PeonyPatch · 28/10/2025 19:47

I live in a deprived town in the SE of England and our high street is unrecognisable now compared to when I was younger. Even older family members are commenting on how it has been overrun by African people. Again I am pro-multi culturalism and I am mixed race myself, but I can see why people in this country feel angry. It seems to be that those from certain classes don’t have a choice either. I imagine if you’re wealthier, this is less likely to happen in more privileged and secluded communities in Britain. The area I live in is absolutely mobbed with Union Jack flags… not only lining the streets and roundabouts but also hanging outside peoples windows.

Are they angry because they haven’t got a job, housing, enough food?

JHound · 28/10/2025 19:53

PeonyPatch · 28/10/2025 19:47

I live in a deprived town in the SE of England and our high street is unrecognisable now compared to when I was younger. Even older family members are commenting on how it has been overrun by African people. Again I am pro-multi culturalism and I am mixed race myself, but I can see why people in this country feel angry. It seems to be that those from certain classes don’t have a choice either. I imagine if you’re wealthier, this is less likely to happen in more privileged and secluded communities in Britain. The area I live in is absolutely mobbed with Union Jack flags… not only lining the streets and roundabouts but also hanging outside peoples windows.

How has it “being overrun with African people” caused harm? (Genuine question by the way.)

JHound · 28/10/2025 19:54

BundleBoogie · 28/10/2025 19:50

Well the Labour Party has adopted a definition of Islamophobia that includes ‘targeting expressions of Muslimness’ so anyone discussing immigration issues and criticising a growing number of people with abhorrent cultural practices settling here will be guilty of being ‘Islamophobic’.

The government are looking to change the law with an updated official definition of Islamophobia.

Another ‘expression of Muslimness’ is repeated first cousin marriage which is thought to have contributed significantly to the community cover ups of the Pakistani grooming gangs (other types of grooming gangs obviously exist but those made up of mainly Pakistani men have very specific characteristics).

It would make the inquiry into the Pakistani grooming gangs impossible to run.

You are discussing it now though? It’s regularly discussed online, in the right-wing (and even left-wing) press.i

It’s possibly one of the number one topics of public conversation so I am trying to understand how all of this is evidence of discussion being shut down.

PeonyPatch · 28/10/2025 19:54

BurntBroccoli · 28/10/2025 19:52

Are they angry because they haven’t got a job, housing, enough food?

Personally, I think it could also be to do with the lack of integration. This hasn’t been spoken about as much as the crimes asylum seekers have been committed. I wonder if people perceive it as a threat to resources as well, such as getting housing or jobs.

crackofdoom · 28/10/2025 19:54

BurntBroccoli · 28/10/2025 19:10

I’m fed up of pile-ons whenever I comment from a leftist viewpoint.

This.

The tone of the pile on is always really, really nasty as well.

In the real world, I think there's a lot going on. For example, I read that the far right wanted to stage a march in Whitechapel. They weren't allowed, and instead the council had a festival with acts from all the diverse communities that make the area up. Which is a far nicer thing to do than be ripped to bits by keyboard warriors, tbh.

Winter2020 · 28/10/2025 19:55

JHound · 28/10/2025 19:52

That link does not have any mention of what you stated was a majority view in Nigeria (kicking your child out if they were gay?)

Screenshot from the first "sage" link

To wonder where the left has gone?
PeonyPatch · 28/10/2025 19:56

JHound · 28/10/2025 19:53

How has it “being overrun with African people” caused harm? (Genuine question by the way.)

Yeah, no I understand it’s a genuine question. I don’t know - I’d have to ask my family members but they’ve lived here for years - me, my whole life, I would hazard a guess that it has just become unrecognisable as a community? I don’t know. I will ask my Grandparents the next time I see them what they think.

BundleBoogie · 28/10/2025 19:56

godlikeAI · 28/10/2025 18:59

Do we genuinely expect immigrants to commit zero crime, though? And why aren’t we questioning the agenda that keep spotlighting these incidents, to the point that crime committed by white British people seems almost to have disappeared, when in reality it is by far the greater amount?

Yes. I think that would be a reasonable expectation - it’s quite stunning that you don’t.

The government has a responsibility to protect British citizens first. Letting in people that hate us, want to murder some or lots of us and spread terror is not acceptable.

It is their problem to sort out but they need to sort it. Islamic terrorist attacks and murders by men from countries where violence reigns have cost many lives over the last 20 years.

JHound · 28/10/2025 19:57

PeonyPatch · 28/10/2025 19:54

Personally, I think it could also be to do with the lack of integration. This hasn’t been spoken about as much as the crimes asylum seekers have been committed. I wonder if people perceive it as a threat to resources as well, such as getting housing or jobs.

How have they not integrated?

JHound · 28/10/2025 19:58

Winter2020 · 28/10/2025 19:55

Screenshot from the first "sage" link

So nowhere that they would kick them out then?

BundleBoogie · 28/10/2025 19:59

sleepwouldbenice · 28/10/2025 19:00

Well yes... and when lots of people left twitter when the owner changed and allowed more right leaning ( at best..) accounts etc to be reinstated that echo chamber intensified

You’re not a fan of free speech are you.

The previous iteration of Twitter banned ordinary women for pointing out that men aren’t women. I’m guessing you would like to return to that time.

PeonyPatch · 28/10/2025 20:02

JHound · 28/10/2025 19:57

How have they not integrated?

Good questions. I’ll ask family what they think. Perceptions within communities are important I feel.

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