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Another day, another clown show - Epping asylum seeker and rapist released from Prison ‘by mistake’

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WildLimePoet · 24/10/2025 18:12

You literally couldn’t make this shit up.

This country is broken.

Reform should send David Lamey a big thankyou note for this gift.

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Seymour5 · 26/10/2025 09:20

Swiftasthewind · 26/10/2025 08:14

The only people on this planet that I hate are racists. They are the lowest of the low, the worst of the worst, and every day society is making more and more of them because the government does not have the fortitude to tell its citizens that expressing hateful rhetoric on social media is not a right.

And now look what has happened. We have an immigrant woman on this very thread feeling threatened. Is this what you people wanted?

You don't hate paedophiles, or rapists? Murderers and violent abusers? Just racists?

Some strange views here. There have been murders and other violent and sexual crimes committed by people who are abusing a system to the detriment of genuine refugees. It isn't racist to want these men, coming via many safe countries to be refused leave to stay here. Its common sense.

Iheartmysmart · 26/10/2025 09:24

I really couldn’t care if people are sky blue pink with yellow dots as long as they are decent human beings. And, if they have entered our country, are prepared to integrate and obey our laws. So I’m a bit surprised to find out that according to certain posters, I’m racist for not wanting an asylum seeker to attempt to get into my car while I’m sat waiting to pass the bus at the stop opposite where they are being housed.

As is the father of a 12 year old girl who called the police because she was being harassed by one of them in a shop. And the crowd of people who prevented an asylum seeker abducting a young girl in the town centre when she was just going home from work. And the people who stepped in outside a nightclub locally to prevent a woman being sexually assaulted by yet another asylum seeker.

And all the parents who were collecting their teenage daughters from the local comprehensive due to the level of abuse they were getting from the crowd of young men who were congregating outside the school at home time.

How terribly racist of us all to put our safety and that of our children above a group of men who entered our country illegally and have no intention of adapting to our way of life.

WildLimePoet · 26/10/2025 09:28

Now that they’ve found the guy, maybe the weirdo incel on this thread can turn up to the detention removal centre and protest against him being deported.

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IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 26/10/2025 09:29

Swiftasthewind · 26/10/2025 08:31

Don’t think you can just reverse uno your way out of your racism by deflecting it all on to me. I am a vociferous advocate for open borders in my community and have undergone many philanthropic exercises to help disenfranchised people from communities across the globe. Always at personal cost without asking anything in return. My credentials speak for themselves, so it is laughable you want to hurl such an accusation against me.

You are above contempt.

And I find your views racist and misogynistic as well.

WigglywagglyWanda · 26/10/2025 09:38

Iheartmysmart · 26/10/2025 09:24

I really couldn’t care if people are sky blue pink with yellow dots as long as they are decent human beings. And, if they have entered our country, are prepared to integrate and obey our laws. So I’m a bit surprised to find out that according to certain posters, I’m racist for not wanting an asylum seeker to attempt to get into my car while I’m sat waiting to pass the bus at the stop opposite where they are being housed.

As is the father of a 12 year old girl who called the police because she was being harassed by one of them in a shop. And the crowd of people who prevented an asylum seeker abducting a young girl in the town centre when she was just going home from work. And the people who stepped in outside a nightclub locally to prevent a woman being sexually assaulted by yet another asylum seeker.

And all the parents who were collecting their teenage daughters from the local comprehensive due to the level of abuse they were getting from the crowd of young men who were congregating outside the school at home time.

How terribly racist of us all to put our safety and that of our children above a group of men who entered our country illegally and have no intention of adapting to our way of life.

Fantastic post.

I think it explains what certainly i feel...Im not against immigration at all. The medical and caring professions for one, certainly in Ireland here, have a very high percentage of overseas staff. Philippines, Eastern Europe, the list is long.

They to a fault are lovely hardworking people and before I retired I absolutely loved the diversity and it was so interesting to see the little differences in cultures, mannerisms, all in a very positive way.

No, that's what's getting mixed up here by, certainly one person here. Its not those here to have a better life by working hard and integrating into life here. Its not those fleeing in fear of their lives.

Its those young men arriving here from countries where women are treated like meat. Where are the women arriving? I dont see many. Why?

Thers a hotel a few miles from me that houses these men. In the houses opposite the girls have to get lifts to and from school as these men standing outside catcall and shout obscene things, they have been pawed while waiting at the bus stop and now can't go out and about freely in their own county.

If that makes me racist by that klampet posting shite on here then thanks I will take that hat and wear it gladly.

Lalgarh · 26/10/2025 09:48

Swiftasthewind · 26/10/2025 08:31

Don’t think you can just reverse uno your way out of your racism by deflecting it all on to me. I am a vociferous advocate for open borders in my community and have undergone many philanthropic exercises to help disenfranchised people from communities across the globe. Always at personal cost without asking anything in return. My credentials speak for themselves, so it is laughable you want to hurl such an accusation against me.

You are above contempt.

Surely it's "beneath contempt"?

So you're a sort of benign people smuggler ? Good oh. What do they give you in return? Have you got a big shed where they're all hiding and doing menial work for you whilst you charge them rent

ChicoryChina · 26/10/2025 10:03

Kendodd · 24/10/2025 22:31

I think we should stop taking male asylum seekers and take as many women as we can, get them safe away from the awful men in their countries.
We took tens of thousands of women and children from Ukraine, any of them rape anyone?

Interestingly, it transpired that many Ukrainian women were taking advantage of asylum and leaving their violent partners for good when they arrived here. Another example of international male violence.

Mamalasira · 26/10/2025 10:04

ChicoryChina · 26/10/2025 10:03

Interestingly, it transpired that many Ukrainian women were taking advantage of asylum and leaving their violent partners for good when they arrived here. Another example of international male violence.

Good, that's an excellent outcome.

Lalgarh · 26/10/2025 10:06

Likewise, Afghan women refugees.

EasternStandard · 26/10/2025 10:20

Kendodd · 24/10/2025 22:31

I think we should stop taking male asylum seekers and take as many women as we can, get them safe away from the awful men in their countries.
We took tens of thousands of women and children from Ukraine, any of them rape anyone?

Everyone was vetted before entry which doesn’t happen with the asylum system.

Labour have made it almost impossible for women and children btw

CoffeeCantata · 26/10/2025 10:20

Swiftasthewind · 26/10/2025 08:36

Rubbish. The man who murdered her will be tried and go to prison, for however long he needs to be there. They will get justice.

That doesn’t mean you can use that scenario to further your own ethno-nationalist agenda and boot out every person who can’t trace their ancestory back to Alfred the Great.

Asylum seekers are not a danger to society.

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I’m sorry - I know MN frowns on this kind of comment - but I cannot believe you’re not working for Reform!

Your posts are so irrational and extreme. You claim to love asylum seekers as if they are a homogeneous group. You are so blunt- minded that you shout ‘racism’ when that’s clearly not the problem being discussed here.

To quote John McEnroe: you cannot be serious!

Blue764 · 26/10/2025 10:21

rolloverbeethoven · 26/10/2025 09:07

A bit off topic, but I stopped going to church because the vicar proclaimed that Jesus was a racist...

Wait what?!😯 Did they say why they thought so? So the vicar was saying they worship someone they think is racist?!

CoffeeCantata · 26/10/2025 10:26

Starconundrum · 26/10/2025 07:15

You are threatening me, an immigrant women.

Vomiting in disgust at that isn't violence.

Where are people threatening you on here?

You called pps a vile name which I won’t repeat but it was frankly hate speech, as well as misogynistic. And you’re a bit presumptuous to assume everyone on here is a woman…unless you call men by the ‘b’ word too.

WildLimePoet · 26/10/2025 10:38

CoffeeCantata · 26/10/2025 10:26

Where are people threatening you on here?

You called pps a vile name which I won’t repeat but it was frankly hate speech, as well as misogynistic. And you’re a bit presumptuous to assume everyone on here is a woman…unless you call men by the ‘b’ word too.

Thankfully the vile misogynistic hate comment by@Starconundrum has been deleted. These people always show themselves up to be what they are. Raging woman haters.

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TheaBrandt1 · 26/10/2025 10:45

“Racist” is the new “transphobe”
to shut up pesky women concerned about their safety. Won’t work anymore.

Mamalasira · 26/10/2025 11:06

Yes. Men will always try to shut women down on these threads, when they can't manage it through the content, they'll diminish us personally. They'll tell us that we're "spouting nonsense" or we're ignorant or racist. What's been seen from this thread is that women will not be shut down. We won't be passive in the face of exploitation and violence.
Long may we continue to do so.

TheGander · 26/10/2025 11:09

Not just men doing that. I had the piss taken out of me on mumsnet when I talked about the sexual harassment and abuse I suffered growing up in an Arab country.

EasternStandard · 26/10/2025 11:12

Mamalasira · 26/10/2025 11:06

Yes. Men will always try to shut women down on these threads, when they can't manage it through the content, they'll diminish us personally. They'll tell us that we're "spouting nonsense" or we're ignorant or racist. What's been seen from this thread is that women will not be shut down. We won't be passive in the face of exploitation and violence.
Long may we continue to do so.

Yep male anger won’t do it. We can and have pushed back on stuff. It works.

Mamalasira · 26/10/2025 11:15

TheGander · 26/10/2025 11:09

Not just men doing that. I had the piss taken out of me on mumsnet when I talked about the sexual harassment and abuse I suffered growing up in an Arab country.

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Ah, yes. The handmaidens. I've come off threads because of that, too. Ridiculous. They must be so privileged and in a bubble to think it never happens.
Like the person claiming that women are just as safe in Egypt as in the UK! 🙄

Mamalasira · 26/10/2025 11:16

EasternStandard · 26/10/2025 11:12

Yep male anger won’t do it. We can and have pushed back on stuff. It works.

I'll keep pushing back, even though they always get personal. It just shows how poor their argument is, though.

TheGander · 26/10/2025 11:18

For years I didn’t talk about what happened to me because I sensed it made
people feel uncomfortable- not just the sexual abuse, but that it was perpetrated by another , non white race. Come to think of it, similar stuff to what was/is at play with the grooming gang victims and the refusal to listen to them.

TheGander · 26/10/2025 11:20

And talking of handmaidens ( apology for the digression ) I can’t take Margaret Atwood seriously because she set the Handmaid’s tale in a proto Christian community. If women are being controlled, invisibilised and reduced to their reproductive function it’s in Muslim countries especially Afghanistan.

Blue764 · 26/10/2025 11:21

ChicoryChina · 26/10/2025 10:03

Interestingly, it transpired that many Ukrainian women were taking advantage of asylum and leaving their violent partners for good when they arrived here. Another example of international male violence.

Love that for for them! I'm past caring what happens to violent men. They should stay where they are and fight in whatever wars may be going on. They're happy enough to use violence against women and children, they can try it on someone their own size for a change.

Mamalasira · 26/10/2025 11:22

TheGander · 26/10/2025 11:18

For years I didn’t talk about what happened to me because I sensed it made
people feel uncomfortable- not just the sexual abuse, but that it was perpetrated by another , non white race. Come to think of it, similar stuff to what was/is at play with the grooming gang victims and the refusal to listen to them.

I am sorry that you went through this. I hope that your voice gets heard now. 💐
Those grooming gangs rarely get justice, imo. They're an absolute scourge.

Mamalasira · 26/10/2025 11:22

Blue764 · 26/10/2025 11:21

Love that for for them! I'm past caring what happens to violent men. They should stay where they are and fight in whatever wars may be going on. They're happy enough to use violence against women and children, they can try it on someone their own size for a change.

Absolutely!

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