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What are Hamas playing at?

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elprup · 15/10/2025 08:13

It’s deeply worrying that Hamas haven’t returned all the dead hostages as agreed. I’ve seen comments saying it’s an impossible task given how Gaza has been reduced to rubble. But if that’s the case, they would have known they had lost the bodies. So why did they agree to return them if they knew they weren’t able to do so?

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Namelessnelly · 21/10/2025 17:15

Cheeks4970 · 21/10/2025 13:56

If you were living under siege, what would you do? The years of total horror that the Palestinians have been living under is beyond anything we can imagine in our privileged world.

do raping and killing innocent people is ok by you then? Wow!!! That says a lot.

camomilelawns · 21/10/2025 17:20

PevenseygirlQQ · 21/10/2025 16:56

I don’t for one second think Hamas should be anywhere near power, I think they have terrorised Palestinians and Israelis for decades they are truly evil, however Israel aren’t innocent in this, they commit atrocities also, however much you want to deny it, both are terrible terrible “leaders”, and who suffers, innocent Palestinians and Israelis!

Palestinians are brought up with Israel as the enemy, they live in an open air prison, homes and land get taken in the west bank, they get arrested with no fair trials. Their homes have been destroyed, their children dead. They have no chance to prosper, so of course they hate Israel and want to fight back!

Israelis are brought up hating Palestinians, they have rockets launched at them and terrorist attacks committed in their communities, and obviously October 7th so of course they hate Palestine and want to fight back!

Hamas need to be gone, jailed for life, Netanyahu needs to be gone and also jailed for life. When both states get some genuine leadership who have good intentions then there will be peace, however sadly I don’t think the day will ever come.

Can you admit both states are at fault?

I don't like the word "fault"

Both sides have been drawn into a situation not of their own making. Sadly the situation has become polarised.

Hamas taking control of Gaza with a charter that promoted the anihilation of the State of Israel was to say the least 'unhelpful'.
As long as Hamas is nearby the Israelis will be 'twitchy' - what a surprise - not.

Israel have a homicidal anti-semetic terrorist group living next door.

However, I don't think the Palestinians have taken the opportunities offered to them.
Years ago I worked with a chap whose grandfather (now deceased ) was a GP in UK. He was a Palestinian from Gaza who took advantage of the scholarships offered by Nasser's Egypt in 1950 and went to medical school in Cairo. Later he moved to UK.
(In fact the Palestinians got quite a good deal under Nasser.)

The Palestinians had a chance to vote for a moderate government but because of a flawed voting system Hamas claimed victory in 2007. Maybe if they had voted overwhelmingly for a moderate candidate this wouldn't have happened ?

Who knows.

We are where we are.

PevenseygirlQQ · 21/10/2025 17:27

camomilelawns · 21/10/2025 17:20

I don't like the word "fault"

Both sides have been drawn into a situation not of their own making. Sadly the situation has become polarised.

Hamas taking control of Gaza with a charter that promoted the anihilation of the State of Israel was to say the least 'unhelpful'.
As long as Hamas is nearby the Israelis will be 'twitchy' - what a surprise - not.

Israel have a homicidal anti-semetic terrorist group living next door.

However, I don't think the Palestinians have taken the opportunities offered to them.
Years ago I worked with a chap whose grandfather (now deceased ) was a GP in UK. He was a Palestinian from Gaza who took advantage of the scholarships offered by Nasser's Egypt in 1950 and went to medical school in Cairo. Later he moved to UK.
(In fact the Palestinians got quite a good deal under Nasser.)

The Palestinians had a chance to vote for a moderate government but because of a flawed voting system Hamas claimed victory in 2007. Maybe if they had voted overwhelmingly for a moderate candidate this wouldn't have happened ?

Who knows.

We are where we are.

It saddens me that all though your points are valid you see no wrong doings of Israel, as I said they are not innocent in all of this.

Cheeks4970 · 21/10/2025 17:30

camomilelawns · 21/10/2025 16:43

Maybe if you adjusted your tone and you might get a reply ?

You're hilarious.

Cheeks4970 · 21/10/2025 17:32

Namelessnelly · 21/10/2025 17:15

do raping and killing innocent people is ok by you then? Wow!!! That says a lot.

Where did I say that? If you read back over my posts I stated that I did not support the killing of innocent civilians.

Cheeks4970 · 21/10/2025 17:47

camomilelawns · 21/10/2025 16:40

Hamas came to power with the express intention of anihilating the State of Israel.
Their original Charter identified Hamas as the Muslim Brotherhood in Palestine and described its members to be god-fearing Muslims raising the banner of Jihad (armed struggle) in "the face of the oppressors". The 1988 charter defines the struggle to be against the Jews and calls for the eventual creation of an Islamic Palestinian state in all of former Mandatory Palestine, and the obliteration or dissolution of Israel.

And you blame Israel for a blockade? Really?

Maybe if Hamas hadn't started firing rockets into Israel then there would have been no need for defensive action?

Palestinian victim mentality as usual.

The first line states:

"Although from 1967 until 2005, it was clear that Gaza was effectively occupied by the Israeli army....."

Hamas was founded in 1987.

camomilelawns · 21/10/2025 18:16

Cheeks4970 · 21/10/2025 17:47

The first line states:

"Although from 1967 until 2005, it was clear that Gaza was effectively occupied by the Israeli army....."

Hamas was founded in 1987.

I'm not arguing about the timeline.

Cheeks4970 · 21/10/2025 18:25

camomilelawns · 21/10/2025 18:16

I'm not arguing about the timeline.

You seem to imply that Hamas is solely responsible for the blockade.

camomilelawns · 21/10/2025 18:39

Cheeks4970 · 21/10/2025 18:25

You seem to imply that Hamas is solely responsible for the blockade.

It was.

Hamas took control of Gaza in 2006 with a charter committing to the anihilation of the State of Israel.

Israel took defensive action to protect their civilians.

That's it.

Alittlefeedbackwouldbenice · 21/10/2025 20:47

I don't know what the answer is for the Palestinians.

'regular' armed resistance doesn't with because it's like David and Goliath, and they'd never succeed.
Terrorism is just plain wrong and also looses people's sympathy.
Non armed resistance, negotiation and trying to play the long game to statehood also doesn't work - mostly because Israel isn't willing to work towards peace, and they hold all the power. We see that in the West Bank where the government promotes land grabs, the police stand by as unarmed Palestinians are beaten and killed on a daily basis whilst the world turns a blind eye.

So whether they take the path of peace or the path of fighting, nothing seems to actually work.

I think the best option now is to use the increased publicity from Gaza for Palestinians to flood social media, anything and anyone that will listen, with the realities of their lives, and use that to put international pressure on Israel. I'm not sure it'll work, but it's at least something.

Lostmyusernametoday · 21/10/2025 21:39

NotrialNodeal · 21/10/2025 10:25

Riiiight.

If you truly believe, as you’re stating you do, that me saying Jesus Christ is worse than the Israeli government murdering 18,000 children then you are disgusting.

and the pope agrees for the record

What are Hamas playing at?
Lostmyusernametoday · 21/10/2025 21:41

Cheeks4970 · 21/10/2025 09:08

Have you lost your moral compass? Nothing, absolutely nothing, justifies what Israel has done.

Thanks for stepping in 😊. An unbelievable and deeply concerning number of people seem to agree!

Namelessnelly · 21/10/2025 21:48

Cheeks4970 · 21/10/2025 17:32

Where did I say that? If you read back over my posts I stated that I did not support the killing of innocent civilians.

But you said hamas had a reason for killing and raping innocent civilians. Do you believe they were justified in killing and raping innocent civilians? What have they achieved? Maybe if they hadn’t done that, 18000 Palestinian people might be alive?

Namelessnelly · 21/10/2025 21:48

Lostmyusernametoday · 21/10/2025 21:41

Thanks for stepping in 😊. An unbelievable and deeply concerning number of people seem to agree!

So what justifies what Hamas did?

Cheeks4970 · 21/10/2025 21:50

Namelessnelly · 21/10/2025 21:48

But you said hamas had a reason for killing and raping innocent civilians. Do you believe they were justified in killing and raping innocent civilians? What have they achieved? Maybe if they hadn’t done that, 18000 Palestinian people might be alive?

Show me my post where i said that.

Cheeks4970 · 21/10/2025 21:52

Namelessnelly · 21/10/2025 21:48

So what justifies what Hamas did?

so you support Israel and what they have done? You support Netanyahu and his government? You support the Israeli people who cheer on the slaughter of Palestinians?

Cheeks4970 · 21/10/2025 21:55

Lostmyusernametoday · 21/10/2025 21:41

Thanks for stepping in 😊. An unbelievable and deeply concerning number of people seem to agree!

I find it horrifying.

Namelessnelly · 21/10/2025 21:55

Cheeks4970 · 21/10/2025 21:50

Show me my post where i said that.

If you were living under siege, what would you do? The years of total horror that the Palestinians have been living under is beyond anything we can imagine in our privileged world. @Cheeks4970 you said this. So you seem to be suggesting Hamas were justified in raping abd killing innocent civilians. What do you think they have achieved with this despicable act?

NotrialNodeal · 21/10/2025 22:13

Lostmyusernametoday · 21/10/2025 21:39

If you truly believe, as you’re stating you do, that me saying Jesus Christ is worse than the Israeli government murdering 18,000 children then you are disgusting.

and the pope agrees for the record

Of course the Pope does not condone violence or rape or murder.

Your persistent and willful disrespect by using the Lord's name in vain combined with the lack of remorse is considered blasphemy against the Holy spirit. Even a murderer can be forgiven should he repent but blasphemy against the Holy spirit is the one and only unforgivable sin.

DrPrunesqualer · 21/10/2025 22:59

Lostmyusernametoday · 21/10/2025 21:41

Thanks for stepping in 😊. An unbelievable and deeply concerning number of people seem to agree!

and Starmer and many MPs are encouraging that
Shame on them and all who do

Cheeks4970 · 22/10/2025 08:48

Namelessnelly · 21/10/2025 21:55

If you were living under siege, what would you do? The years of total horror that the Palestinians have been living under is beyond anything we can imagine in our privileged world. @Cheeks4970 you said this. So you seem to be suggesting Hamas were justified in raping abd killing innocent civilians. What do you think they have achieved with this despicable act?

I believe they have a right to armed resistance against their occupier.

I do not condone the killing or raping of innocent civilians.

In my eyes, anyone defending the Israeli government and their years of occupation and brutality is despicable and I am glad the world can now see the horrors they have endured and continue to endure to this day.

Everanewbie · 22/10/2025 08:54

Cheeks4970 · 22/10/2025 08:48

I believe they have a right to armed resistance against their occupier.

I do not condone the killing or raping of innocent civilians.

In my eyes, anyone defending the Israeli government and their years of occupation and brutality is despicable and I am glad the world can now see the horrors they have endured and continue to endure to this day.

Is that your own words or a quote from Intifada online?

If you don't condone killing and raping innocent civilians, what about lining the streets to cheer the mutilated corpse of a young woman taken from a music festival? Is that armed resistance? I suppose Intifada online says that this never happened and that it is a zionist slur, or set up by Mossad and the Rothchilds.

Cheeks4970 · 22/10/2025 09:19

Everanewbie · 22/10/2025 08:54

Is that your own words or a quote from Intifada online?

If you don't condone killing and raping innocent civilians, what about lining the streets to cheer the mutilated corpse of a young woman taken from a music festival? Is that armed resistance? I suppose Intifada online says that this never happened and that it is a zionist slur, or set up by Mossad and the Rothchilds.

You keep defending the Israelis and I will continue to believe in freedom for the Palestinians.

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Namelessnelly · 22/10/2025 11:44

Cheeks4970 · 22/10/2025 08:48

I believe they have a right to armed resistance against their occupier.

I do not condone the killing or raping of innocent civilians.

In my eyes, anyone defending the Israeli government and their years of occupation and brutality is despicable and I am glad the world can now see the horrors they have endured and continue to endure to this day.

But those people they raped and killed were not armed. Are you saying it’s ok that Hamas killed and murdered innocent people? Wow!!! The only people to blame for the 18000 Palestinian deaths are Hamas. They deliberately attacked innocent people. They are evil.