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To think that it's about time islamic fundamentalism is dissected and challenged

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diddlysquatagain · 13/10/2025 19:58

Did anyone read the very interesting article by Matthew Syed (sorry if behind a paywall) - Sunday Times: 'One thing has been holding back the Middle East for centuries':
https://www.thetimes.com/comment/columnists/article/middle-east-religious-fanaticism-iran-kcvh5knn3

"The Middle East was once the centre of the intellectual world. Then it went into reverse. The problem then, as now, is Islamic fundamentalism. No peace or prosperity is possible until the madrassas and other machines of indoctrination are confronted"

One thing has been holding back the Middle East for centuries

Religious fanaticism has been catastrophic for a region that was once the intellectual hub of the world

https://www.thetimes.com/comment/columnists/article/middle-east-religious-fanaticism-iran-kcvh5knn3

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Pugzy · 14/10/2025 11:25

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Lobas · 14/10/2025 11:25

Inconvenient truths indeed. Why are we always talking about one group in this country? Ie the grooming gangs, terrorism etc.

You never hear people having an issue with Sikhs or Hindus.

It’s all “rAcISm”, isn’t it?

To think that it's about time islamic fundamentalism is dissected and challenged
Fifi2022 · 14/10/2025 11:28

Did the White West collect these statistics? LOL
“There are three kinds of lies: lies, damned lies, and statistics,”

SouthernFashionista · 14/10/2025 11:29

I agree with you OP but I fear we are sleepwalking into a very grim world. Look at the muted response to the ‘fun run’ which banned young teenage girls and women. Let us not dare protest because we don’t want to offend. More be kind bullshit. And it’s women who have the very most to lose, as per.

Lobas · 14/10/2025 11:33

SouthernFashionista · 14/10/2025 11:29

I agree with you OP but I fear we are sleepwalking into a very grim world. Look at the muted response to the ‘fun run’ which banned young teenage girls and women. Let us not dare protest because we don’t want to offend. More be kind bullshit. And it’s women who have the very most to lose, as per.

It’s why the raping gangs went on for so long. Officials were afraid of being seen as racist against the predominantly Pakistani, Muslim males that were destroying the lives of young, vulnerable women.

Shameful!

BlackbirdPieAndMash · 14/10/2025 11:45

AdvicePleas · 14/10/2025 09:57

I came onto Mumsnet as a Muslim professional woman — simply looking to connect with other parents, share experiences, and talk about the challenges we ALL face. Sometimes just some light hearted stuff.

But instead, I find myself reading multiple thread filled with misinformation, casual prejudice racism and outright hostility towards Muslims.

People claim to be “concerned” about so-called “radical” Islamic countries — many of which they probably couldn’t even locate on a map — or post unreferenced, distorted claims about our faith and history. I’ve seen comments describing a revered religious figure with vile and inaccurate language, and even calling Islam an “abomination.”

Some posts goingg further by trying to pit other ethnic groups against Muslims, or throwing around prison statistics as if that defines our community.

History is all connected - how lucky those people are to be born in a country that is stable but perhaps read about universities and where it came from- perhaps just google Ibn Sinha.
but you won’t.

Every person writing and allowing these comments should be deeply ashamed. This kind of rhetoric doesn’t “raise awareness” — it incites hurt, spreads ignorance, and alienates families like mine who are simply trying to belong and contribute positively to this country.
If people were truly concerned about the issues they mention, they would be spending their real lives learning, engaging, volunteering, and building bridges — not posting inflammatory comments on a parenting forum.

I’m not sad for myself. I’m sad for my children , for all children from a different background — because they don’t yet have the grounding to fully understand that they can be proud of who they are, proud of their heritage, and proud to belong here without ever having to justify themselves or answer for things happening hundreds of miles away.

Mumsnet should be ashamed that these posts are being allowed to stand. This is supposed to be a community — not a platform for hate

Oh please.

Real people being killed and oppressed is more important than your feelings, I’m so tired of everyone having to bow down someone declares that they’re offended.

And I’m sorry, but the audacity to presume all of us are white, or don’t follow current affairs, or can’t locate other countries on maps. I’m not trying to out myself, you don’t know the background of anyone here.

And yes, Muslims come from a wide variety of countries and cultures.

I know Muslims from countries like Albanian and Kurdistan who are very liberal, a few who are openly gay even. There are also Muslims who live highly conservative and segregated lives. Others who have strong faith and principles but are tolerant of others.

OP’s title specifically mentions fundemnetalist Islam, which you should be afraid of, too.

EasternStandard · 14/10/2025 11:49

ChainStress · 14/10/2025 11:04

I honestly don’t know why stopping Islamic fundamentalism isn’t the next big civil rights movement. It’s got it all: women’s oppression; anti- LGBTQ+; limits on joy (music, film, alcohol); limits on education…

Instead of protesting radical Islam, the liberal West are activity chanting terrorist death cult propaganda!!! They are literally paying money to see men stand on a stage with Islamic terrorist flags (kneecap gig anyone!).

Yanbu op. And this.

Bigpinksweater · 14/10/2025 12:02

AdvicePleas · 14/10/2025 09:57

I came onto Mumsnet as a Muslim professional woman — simply looking to connect with other parents, share experiences, and talk about the challenges we ALL face. Sometimes just some light hearted stuff.

But instead, I find myself reading multiple thread filled with misinformation, casual prejudice racism and outright hostility towards Muslims.

People claim to be “concerned” about so-called “radical” Islamic countries — many of which they probably couldn’t even locate on a map — or post unreferenced, distorted claims about our faith and history. I’ve seen comments describing a revered religious figure with vile and inaccurate language, and even calling Islam an “abomination.”

Some posts goingg further by trying to pit other ethnic groups against Muslims, or throwing around prison statistics as if that defines our community.

History is all connected - how lucky those people are to be born in a country that is stable but perhaps read about universities and where it came from- perhaps just google Ibn Sinha.
but you won’t.

Every person writing and allowing these comments should be deeply ashamed. This kind of rhetoric doesn’t “raise awareness” — it incites hurt, spreads ignorance, and alienates families like mine who are simply trying to belong and contribute positively to this country.
If people were truly concerned about the issues they mention, they would be spending their real lives learning, engaging, volunteering, and building bridges — not posting inflammatory comments on a parenting forum.

I’m not sad for myself. I’m sad for my children , for all children from a different background — because they don’t yet have the grounding to fully understand that they can be proud of who they are, proud of their heritage, and proud to belong here without ever having to justify themselves or answer for things happening hundreds of miles away.

Mumsnet should be ashamed that these posts are being allowed to stand. This is supposed to be a community — not a platform for hate

Thankfully we no longer have to tiptoe around a human rights issue due to accusations of bigotry. Islamism in the UK has:

  1. Been responsible for 80% of terror attacks in the UK and killed 100 people since the Millennium as well as injuring thousands
  2. Seen mobs surrounding primary schools demanding their own strict moral code should be taught within schools and threatening teachers who do anything they don’t like with regards to Islam. One teacher is in hiding
  3. Seen other people stabbed or grievously injured for exercising their right to free speech about Islam
  4. Enabled a culture whereby non-Muslim white girls were raped en masse while the perpetrators aggressively used their race and religion to scare the useless authorities into not investigating. Communities turned a blind eye.
  5. Created unsafe zones for women around asylum hotels where the majority of men are from Islamic countries where women are seen as inferior beings
  6. Forced us to accommodate non-British customs in the name of ‘tolerance’ such as barbaric animal slaughter
  7. Seen ‘our’ politicians of Muslim heritage all but abandon their constituents the moment the Gaza war broke out in favour of relentlessly campaigning for Hamas Palestine, while calling everyone else racist for not taking as much interest in the conflict as they’re white (pot kettle?).
  8. Seen similar politicians campaign for cousin marriage which is creating 5,000 disabled children a year with a low quality of life and who the British taxpayer is forced to finance, as well as trapping more women into caring duties because the men won’t be doing any of it

Need I go on?

TheWiseAmethyst · 14/10/2025 12:22

AdvicePleas · 14/10/2025 09:57

I came onto Mumsnet as a Muslim professional woman — simply looking to connect with other parents, share experiences, and talk about the challenges we ALL face. Sometimes just some light hearted stuff.

But instead, I find myself reading multiple thread filled with misinformation, casual prejudice racism and outright hostility towards Muslims.

People claim to be “concerned” about so-called “radical” Islamic countries — many of which they probably couldn’t even locate on a map — or post unreferenced, distorted claims about our faith and history. I’ve seen comments describing a revered religious figure with vile and inaccurate language, and even calling Islam an “abomination.”

Some posts goingg further by trying to pit other ethnic groups against Muslims, or throwing around prison statistics as if that defines our community.

History is all connected - how lucky those people are to be born in a country that is stable but perhaps read about universities and where it came from- perhaps just google Ibn Sinha.
but you won’t.

Every person writing and allowing these comments should be deeply ashamed. This kind of rhetoric doesn’t “raise awareness” — it incites hurt, spreads ignorance, and alienates families like mine who are simply trying to belong and contribute positively to this country.
If people were truly concerned about the issues they mention, they would be spending their real lives learning, engaging, volunteering, and building bridges — not posting inflammatory comments on a parenting forum.

I’m not sad for myself. I’m sad for my children , for all children from a different background — because they don’t yet have the grounding to fully understand that they can be proud of who they are, proud of their heritage, and proud to belong here without ever having to justify themselves or answer for things happening hundreds of miles away.

Mumsnet should be ashamed that these posts are being allowed to stand. This is supposed to be a community — not a platform for hate

We are not deeply ashamed to be concerned for our children's future, nor are we racists, bigots or islamaphobic.

Pigeonpoodle · 14/10/2025 13:03

KimberleyClark · 14/10/2025 10:43

Yes t should be. Fundamentalist Christianity in America is anti women’s rights, anti abortion, homophobic and white supremacist.

Yes, but they don’t throw gay people off buildings do they.

And restricting abortion rights is hardly comparable with the lack of rights women have in Afghanistan, which whereas may not be as extreme here (it can’t be legally) but it’s still really oppressive for many.

And there are many fundamentalist Black and Latino Christians in the US. Only a tiny number are white suprematists

And you’re free not to adhere to fundamentalist Christianity… In Islamic countries, the punishment for leaving the religion is death, as explicitly prescribed in the Koran.

It’s an inconvenient truth, but a truth nonetheless, all religions are not the same.

HostaCentral · 14/10/2025 13:06

My SIL renounced Islam and became a Catholic. She can no longer visit her home country as she would be jailed or executed as apostate. Nice.

Lobas · 14/10/2025 13:08

Lefties on this thread.

To think that it's about time islamic fundamentalism is dissected and challenged
EasternStandard · 14/10/2025 13:16

Pigeonpoodle · 14/10/2025 13:03

Yes, but they don’t throw gay people off buildings do they.

And restricting abortion rights is hardly comparable with the lack of rights women have in Afghanistan, which whereas may not be as extreme here (it can’t be legally) but it’s still really oppressive for many.

And there are many fundamentalist Black and Latino Christians in the US. Only a tiny number are white suprematists

And you’re free not to adhere to fundamentalist Christianity… In Islamic countries, the punishment for leaving the religion is death, as explicitly prescribed in the Koran.

It’s an inconvenient truth, but a truth nonetheless, all religions are not the same.

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It does seem to be used in response a fair bit. And no they are not all the same, I agree.

Pigeonpoodle · 14/10/2025 13:25

@AdvicePleas

It’s telling that you need to refer back to the 11th century to Ibn Sinha as an example of a great Islamic thinker.

I have no issue with individual Muslims, many of whom are wonderful people, but with Islam itself. In the same way I have a big issue with the Jehovahs Witness cult or Mormonism but believe many are wonderful people trapped within it… (a couple of family members are JWs for instance).

Islam has not undergone the Reformation and Enlightenment that Christendom which allowed for genuinely free thought and exploration. Islam requires a belief in the inerrancy of the Koran, including all its fantastical elements (e.g. the flying horse/buraq) on pain of death. People can’t develop the sophisticated and innovative thinking needed for the academic development that is the bedrock of our universities if your mind is constrained by the dictates of an illiterate 7th century nomad.

And you think MN should take all posts down that dare to criticise Islam! That’s the difference… Western societies have grown and thrived based on an acceptance of debate, even fervent disagreement, and a tolerance of opposing opinions and the right of others to hold them. Islamic societies simply do not allow this.

MaturingCheeseball · 14/10/2025 13:29

I don’t understand the Muslim MNetter complaining.

Ds’s best friend is Muslim. We socialise with the parents. They do not associate themselves at all with fundamental religious Muslims who live en masse in certain towns/cities and in fact speak very scathingly about them.

MaturingCheeseball · 14/10/2025 13:29

I don’t understand the Muslim MNetter complaining.

Ds’s best friend is Muslim. We socialise with the parents. They do not associate themselves at all with fundamental religious Muslims who live en masse in certain towns/cities and in fact speak very scathingly about them.

Pigeonpoodle · 14/10/2025 13:30

HostaCentral · 14/10/2025 13:06

My SIL renounced Islam and became a Catholic. She can no longer visit her home country as she would be jailed or executed as apostate. Nice.

I wonder what would happen to a Catholic went to a Muslim country and then returned home… Nothing.

All religions are not the same. And I’m saying this from a standpoint of someone who doesn’t call myself a Christian!

Pigeonpoodle · 14/10/2025 13:36

@AdvicePleas

People claim to be “concerned” about so-called “radical” Islamic countries — many of which they probably couldn’t even locate on a map

I’m not concerned about radical Islamic countries, though I feel sickened thinking of the life of women living there….

Rather, I’m concerned about Islam gaining disproportionate influence here in the UK, all on the watch of a Labour Government who seem more concerned with getting Muslim votes than protecting wider society and values of freedom and equality.

JHound · 14/10/2025 13:44

This is really novel and unique.

I have never heard of Islamic fundamentalism being discussed or challenged before.

Ever.

abracadabra1980 · 14/10/2025 13:48

I agree wholeheartedly with your post OP-it’s only recently that the ‘M’ word has been allowed to be discussed openly - no thanks to the BBC and MSM but You Tube and Podcasting has opened up the debate to those who have been silenced or afraid to air their views on this topic for decades, for fear of being seen as racist. It’s the same regarding the illegal immigrants arriving in boats. It wasn’t allowed to be discussed openly for fear of being labelled racist, until Nigel Farage made it ok to discuss publicly. There is absolutely nothing immoral or racist about wanting your government to protect its borders and put its own people first. Wokeness and fear of speaking out has now gone so far, its hopefully backfired and we can all state our opinions without hearing the ‘R’ word bandied about, or cancelled - if we have any kind of status to cancel. So; in my lifetime, I have not felt threatened by any religion, ever, apart from fundamentalist Muslims. And in my experience (my own lived experience) there are not enough of them willing to stand up and call out the fundamentalists of their own faith-they are nowhere to be heard, bar one fantastic lady I heard recently on Talk TV who actually came out and said just what I’ve mentioned here. I didn’t catch her name at the time, -possibly Luba Zaidi but it was a breath of fresh air to hear her speak. I don’t live in the South - but in a fairly affluent area further north, (think ABC1 demographic) and believe me, I am not in the minority in my opinion.

TheWiseAmethyst · 14/10/2025 13:52

Lubna. She has been threatened and harassed into leaving her home so she is indeed extremely brave and proving a point.

Ddakji · 14/10/2025 13:57

Did you read the article @AdvicePleas? Because it talks about how the Islamic world used to be the centre of the intellectual world until a cleric came along, stated this was ungodly (I paraphrase - do read the article), and hey presto, centuries of lack of education for Muslims that continues to this day.

Your children are very lucky to be living in a country with some of the world’s best universities, that has good education free for all. In a Muslim country it would seem that’s much less likely, especially if they are girls.

So maybe teach them that as well.

JHound · 14/10/2025 13:57

AdvicePleas · 14/10/2025 09:57

I came onto Mumsnet as a Muslim professional woman — simply looking to connect with other parents, share experiences, and talk about the challenges we ALL face. Sometimes just some light hearted stuff.

But instead, I find myself reading multiple thread filled with misinformation, casual prejudice racism and outright hostility towards Muslims.

People claim to be “concerned” about so-called “radical” Islamic countries — many of which they probably couldn’t even locate on a map — or post unreferenced, distorted claims about our faith and history. I’ve seen comments describing a revered religious figure with vile and inaccurate language, and even calling Islam an “abomination.”

Some posts goingg further by trying to pit other ethnic groups against Muslims, or throwing around prison statistics as if that defines our community.

History is all connected - how lucky those people are to be born in a country that is stable but perhaps read about universities and where it came from- perhaps just google Ibn Sinha.
but you won’t.

Every person writing and allowing these comments should be deeply ashamed. This kind of rhetoric doesn’t “raise awareness” — it incites hurt, spreads ignorance, and alienates families like mine who are simply trying to belong and contribute positively to this country.
If people were truly concerned about the issues they mention, they would be spending their real lives learning, engaging, volunteering, and building bridges — not posting inflammatory comments on a parenting forum.

I’m not sad for myself. I’m sad for my children , for all children from a different background — because they don’t yet have the grounding to fully understand that they can be proud of who they are, proud of their heritage, and proud to belong here without ever having to justify themselves or answer for things happening hundreds of miles away.

Mumsnet should be ashamed that these posts are being allowed to stand. This is supposed to be a community — not a platform for hate

I am so sorry you have to deal with this kind of thing here and in society as a whole.

I am exhausted by the constant Islamophobia and I am not even religious so I cannot imagine how it must feel actually being muslim. All I can say is not everybody sees Islam and muslims as this great threat to our very existence.

And nor does every subscribe to collective responsibility / viewing all muslim people as a monolith.

Not much else to add aside from that.

Ddakji · 14/10/2025 13:59

JHound · 14/10/2025 13:57

I am so sorry you have to deal with this kind of thing here and in society as a whole.

I am exhausted by the constant Islamophobia and I am not even religious so I cannot imagine how it must feel actually being muslim. All I can say is not everybody sees Islam and muslims as this great threat to our very existence.

And nor does every subscribe to collective responsibility / viewing all muslim people as a monolith.

Not much else to add aside from that.

Did you read the article?

JHound · 14/10/2025 14:00

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All muslims think this? All of them?