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To be utterly disgusted by the woman cutting down yellow ribbons commemorating the October 7th victims in Muswell Hill yesterday morning

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AngeloMysterioso · 07/10/2025 09:43

When Jewish people are being attacked and murdered on their way to synagogue on Yom Kippur

When you literally can’t move or look in any direction without Palestine Palestine Palestine in our faces

On the eve of the anniversary of the worst atrocity committed against Jewish people since the Holocaust, a small, unobtrusive memorial for the victims of that unthinkable, barbaric attack was destroyed yesterday by a despicable woman who turned up with scissors and cut the ribbons down, one by one.

Ribbons for women and girls who were raped and murdered.
Ribbons for babies ripped from their parents’ arms and slaughtered.
Ribbons for men beaten to death.
Ribbons for the hostages still suffering every moment.

And this disgusting individual took it upon herself to come along with a pair of scissors and cut each one away. Her excuse? They “condone genocide”.

Let’s not pretend for a moment that that was her true motivation. It was a revolting demonstration of the antisemitism that has become so shamefully rife in this country that it sickens me.

This woman needs to be named and shamed for the loathsome person she is.

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2025/10/07/woman-filmed-cutting-ribbons-commemorating-israeli-hostages/

https://www.standard.co.uk/news/crime/met-police-woman-ribbons-israel-hostages-london-manchester-synagogue-b1251594.html

https://www.lbc.co.uk/article/woman-filmed-cutting-down-ribbons-commemorating-israeli-hostages-in-north-london-5HjdF2y2/

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15167737/amp/woman-cuts-yellow-ribbons-israeli-hostages-london.html

https://inews.co.uk/news/anger-woman-filmed-cutting-down-ribbons-london-memorial-israeli-hostages-3961369

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SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice · 10/10/2025 19:43

It then follows that if Jews, and only Jews, can commit hate crimes against their own demographic that we then have a case of a gentle justice system imposing their view of Good Jew/ Bad Jew on the Jewish community within their national borders. We all know where that has led to in the past.

SpaceRaccoon · 10/10/2025 19:46

I don’t think it would be a good precedent to allow any gentile justice system to decide which Jews are ‘bad Jews’.

Nonsense. Everyone in the UK is subject to the same laws, including hate crime offenses, should they be commited. Utterly bizarre calling it a "gentile" justice system, talk about othering.

HaimishaPickle · 10/10/2025 20:13

SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice · 10/10/2025 19:35

Ok, I apologise as I misunderstood what you meant about the ribbon cutter being Jewish and asserting her heritage. I was only saying what I said was similar to just that one sentence of yours I quoted.

No, I am not suggesting what you think. I suppose you have completely misunderstood me as it was all a “word salad” and “makes zero sense” to you.

I will try and explain why I am concerned:

A hate crime requires that the perpetrator be of a different and more privileged demographic than the victim and their intention must include hostility or prejudice towards that less privileged demographic. So a White British man can commit a hate crime against an Asian British man. A Christian can commit a hate crime against a Muslim. You can’t have anyone committing a hate crime against their own demographic. That isn’t how hate crime legislation is written or how the courts apply it.

If this Jewish woman is charged with an antisemitic hate crime, it would represent a harsher, different standard being applied to only Jews compared to how everyone else is treated by the justice system.

I don't know where you got that information from but it's incorrect. There's no statement on the Crown Prosecution Service definition and process for hate crimes about privileged or less privileged demographics. It's the demographic of the victim that counts, not the perpetrator and people can absolutely be found to have committed a hate crime against their own demographic.

The police and the CPS have agreed the following definition for identifying and flagging hate crimes:
"Any criminal offence which is perceived by the victim or any other person, to be motivated by hostility or prejudice, based on a person's disability or perceived disability; race or perceived race; or religion or perceived religion; or sexual orientation or perceived sexual orientation or transgender identity or perceived transgender identity."
There is no legal definition of hostility so we use the everyday understanding of the word which includes ill-will, spite, contempt, prejudice, unfriendliness, antagonism, resentment and dislike.

I'm not really interested in quibbling over whether it was a hate crime or not. It was a trashy, harmful thing to do and her intention was hateful and divisive.

HaimishaPickle · 10/10/2025 20:14

SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice · 10/10/2025 19:43

It then follows that if Jews, and only Jews, can commit hate crimes against their own demographic that we then have a case of a gentle justice system imposing their view of Good Jew/ Bad Jew on the Jewish community within their national borders. We all know where that has led to in the past.

I find your efforts at conflation with a previous catastrophic persecution of Jews really misleading and distasteful.

Clavinova · 10/10/2025 20:22

SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice · 08/10/2025 22:21

Both the woman cutting the ribbons and the woman who filmed her and reported it as a antisemitic hate crime were Jewish.

The yellow ribbon originally stood for support our troops.

Families with a member serving in the IDF would tie them outside their homes while they were serving in a conflict.

They were also used in prior conflicts to represent hostages when the hostages were IDF troops kidnapped by Hamas.

Only since 7 Oct have they been also used to represent civilian Israelis held hostage by Hamas.

The historic context of the yellow ribbons mean they have a dual context of supporting the war and wanting a loved one to return home safely.

I don’t think a Jewish woman can be guilty of an antisemitic hate crime. I think this incident shows how deeply divided Jewish society is on the conflict.

Families with a member serving in the IDF would tie them outside their homes while they were serving in a conflict.

Do you have a reference or link please?

The yellow ribbon originally stood for support our troops

"Support our Troops" yellow ribbon appears to be a US initiative rather than Israeli, started during the Gulf War, although prior to that yellow ribbons were used as a symbol of support for the hostages held at the US embassy in Tehran.

Only since 7 Oct have they been also used to represent civilian Israelis held hostage by Hamas

Civilians and soldiers were taken hostage on 7 October.

1dayatatime · 10/10/2025 22:08

I think a significant minority of protesters share the same opinion as this, especially if you look at the number of supporting comments.

https://youtube.com/shorts/1arz3VaOaFU?si=jhdta-EmgQqzvxHp

LeftieRightsHoarder · 10/10/2025 22:32

AngeloMysterioso · 07/10/2025 09:58

Everyone should be saying Fuck Hamas. Including those who are pro-Palestine. Including the people in Palestine who are suffering as a direct result of the attack.

But no. The people of Palestine that you feel so sorry for cheered in the street when they saw footage of the attacks. They crowded around the truck carrying Shani Louk’s beautiful, broken body and spat on her corpse.

But yellow ribbons and “Fuck Hamas” stickers make you uncomfortable. Ok.

They crowded around the truck carrying Shani Louk’s beautiful, broken body and spat on her corpse.

I remember that and will never forget it. It burnt my eyes. That was the first I heard of the pogrom, early on 7 October two years ago. The 'heroic' men parading her body, with her head smashed in and her clothes ripped off, were laughing. The crowds were cheering and spitting at her. It wasn't certain at the time whether she was still alive and possibly even conscious. I was hoping to god she was safely dead.

And yes, that and the other Hamas atrocities affected my view of the entire conflict.

I hate wars, with whole cities being bombed and thousands of civilians killed. But abducting, torturing, raping and mutilating is a whole different level of evil.

SpaceRaccoon · 10/10/2025 23:43

@LeftieRightsHoarder it was the first thing I saw too - just idly scrolling X and there was this horror, like the body of a deer with a hunting party, a man's booted foot resting on her. Throngs of men and young boys excitedly jeering at and trying to hit her. Her leg at a sickening, unnatural angle.
Like you, I hoped she was beyond suffering.

I'd been a vocal critic of Israel for many years, and at that point a switch just flipped in my brain.

sabababa · 11/10/2025 01:24

Skodacool · 10/10/2025 16:23

You do have a very odd way of thinking. You know perfectly well that isn’t what I’m saying.
Do you actually deny that Jewish people expelled non-Jewish people from the homes and land where they had lived for generations?

I really dont care what an anti semite has to say about anything related to Jews to be honest

70sMuuMuu · 11/10/2025 07:17

Nestingbirds · 10/10/2025 18:33

The above post was replying to any earlier post which was anti semitic. The above post was pointing out that the AS post should stand so that it could raise awareness as to how anti semitic some people can be.

It has since been deleted.

The post in this chain that I was referring to was still there, the one from yesterday at 04.57?

Skodacool · 11/10/2025 07:18

HaimishaPickle · 10/10/2025 18:05

Also, some acknowledgement, reparations and land back would be nice. No? Why not? How far back do you think we should go in these cases? What level of oppression, dispossession and eradication meets the criteria when it's Jewish people?

Someone's helpfully compiled a list of the expulsions of Jews throughout the ages, both big and small. It's 28 pages long.
https://ia801502.us.archive.org/6/items/900jewishexpulsions/900jewishexpulsions.pdf

To circle back to the thread topic, maybe if it bothers you that Jewish people in one land where they haven't always been made welcome might like to make a small display symbolising hope for Jewish and non-Jewish hostages in another land where they haven't always been made welcome (despite originating from there) you could consider the bigger picture of why some displaced diasporic Jews feel part of a worldwide tribe and show a little more understanding. The ribbon-cutter is obviously taking ownership of both her Jewish and Palestinian heritage and lands so how would you criticise her for that?

Pardon? You might make more sense if you put in a bit of punctuation. This thread is close to 1000 so will close, probably just as well.

sabababa · 11/10/2025 08:14

Skodacool · 11/10/2025 07:18

Pardon? You might make more sense if you put in a bit of punctuation. This thread is close to 1000 so will close, probably just as well.

Anti semite complains about lack of punctuation.
Its incomprehensible why the Jews would do such a thing when they are meant to be the people of the book

Thegreyhound · 11/10/2025 10:51

LeftieRightsHoarder · 10/10/2025 22:32

They crowded around the truck carrying Shani Louk’s beautiful, broken body and spat on her corpse.

I remember that and will never forget it. It burnt my eyes. That was the first I heard of the pogrom, early on 7 October two years ago. The 'heroic' men parading her body, with her head smashed in and her clothes ripped off, were laughing. The crowds were cheering and spitting at her. It wasn't certain at the time whether she was still alive and possibly even conscious. I was hoping to god she was safely dead.

And yes, that and the other Hamas atrocities affected my view of the entire conflict.

I hate wars, with whole cities being bombed and thousands of civilians killed. But abducting, torturing, raping and mutilating is a whole different level of evil.

You think there are different levels of evil depending on whether the evil was done to an Israeli woman or not? Please clarify as that seems to be what you are saying here. How is sniping at children queuing for food less evil than another evil?

CruCru · 11/10/2025 11:43

There’s been a couple of things in the Times about her. “The Palestinian husband of a woman who was seen cutting down yellow ribbons commemorating Jewish hostages in Gaza has claimed that he and his wife have been attacked by a group of people “probably working for Mossad”, the Israeli intelligence agency”. There are a lot of comments along the lines of Mossad is a bit busy to be interested in these people.

I suspect that this couple are quite often fairly unpleasant about Israel and are now rather surprised to find that a lot of people find this distasteful.

HaimishaPickle · 11/10/2025 11:55

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OneNattyReader · 11/10/2025 12:51

SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice · 10/10/2025 19:43

It then follows that if Jews, and only Jews, can commit hate crimes against their own demographic that we then have a case of a gentle justice system imposing their view of Good Jew/ Bad Jew on the Jewish community within their national borders. We all know where that has led to in the past.

Indeed

wrongthinker · 11/10/2025 13:08

The pp who said you can only commit a hate crime against someone less privileged than you are... what? How would a court figure that out? Hmm, one person is white, and the other is black, but the white person has been in the care system, but the black person has a hidden disability, but the white person is a single mum, but the black person has a trust fund... A crude example, but how the hell would you imagine a court being able to work out who is more 'privileged' than someone else?

Of course a Jewish person can commit an antisemitic hate crime. It's very fucked up, though. I assume this person is absolutely steeped in woke bullshit like the idea of 'privilege' too.

OneNattyReader · 11/10/2025 13:13

wrongthinker · 11/10/2025 13:08

The pp who said you can only commit a hate crime against someone less privileged than you are... what? How would a court figure that out? Hmm, one person is white, and the other is black, but the white person has been in the care system, but the black person has a hidden disability, but the white person is a single mum, but the black person has a trust fund... A crude example, but how the hell would you imagine a court being able to work out who is more 'privileged' than someone else?

Of course a Jewish person can commit an antisemitic hate crime. It's very fucked up, though. I assume this person is absolutely steeped in woke bullshit like the idea of 'privilege' too.

That's not true. There was a case where some Asian guys were convicted of a hate crime against a white guy. What is true is that we don't want Gentiles deciding who the good Jews are.

When it came out that this was a Jewish woman, you had non-Jews online actually saying that she can't be Jewish because all Jewish people are pro-Israel. They had no idea that anyone could be Jewish and feel like she did. For the record, I find her actions disgusting even if we have more closely aligned views on the conflict.

I have very personal views on her actions and what they signify.

But this idea of saying that people like Michael Rosen isn't Jewish because of his political views is Antisemitism. The idea of creating a category of good Jews who support right wing politics and bad Jews who do not is a tool for white supremacy.

wrongthinker · 11/10/2025 13:36

OneNattyReader · 11/10/2025 13:13

That's not true. There was a case where some Asian guys were convicted of a hate crime against a white guy. What is true is that we don't want Gentiles deciding who the good Jews are.

When it came out that this was a Jewish woman, you had non-Jews online actually saying that she can't be Jewish because all Jewish people are pro-Israel. They had no idea that anyone could be Jewish and feel like she did. For the record, I find her actions disgusting even if we have more closely aligned views on the conflict.

I have very personal views on her actions and what they signify.

But this idea of saying that people like Michael Rosen isn't Jewish because of his political views is Antisemitism. The idea of creating a category of good Jews who support right wing politics and bad Jews who do not is a tool for white supremacy.

I never said it was true. I said it was a stupid idea.

InsectsMatter · 11/10/2025 20:20

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The failure by Hamas to distribute aid once it arrives is the cause of starvation.

Wakeuplittlebunnies · 11/10/2025 23:23

www.cbsnews.com/amp/live-updates/israel-hamas-peace-deal-live-updates-gaza-ceasefire-day-1/

“As part of the deal outlined by Mr. Trump, Israel will release hundreds of Palestinian prisoners in exchange for the Israeli hostages, and allow the immediate provision of "full aid" to Gaza, which has faced severe food shortages and has fallen into famine in some regions, according to the world's leading authority on food crises.”

Wait I thought you said Israel wasn’t blocking the aid to begin with?

sabababa · 12/10/2025 06:20

1dayatatime · 11/10/2025 20:15

One would think that with the current fragile ceasefire that Mossad might just have more important things on their "to do list":

https://www.standard.co.uk/news/london/israel-hostage-ribbon-mossad-nadia-yahlom-husband-muswell-hill-london-b1252426.html

Yep. They stopped their operations in Iran and turned their attention to a ribbon cutter from muswell Hill 😅

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