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To think the Manchester terrorist attack today shows the growing Anti-Semitism

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Longingdreamer · 02/10/2025 21:17

... and how Jews are not protected in this country.

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PraisebetoGod · 03/10/2025 11:36

verybighouseinthecountry · 03/10/2025 11:26

One person said something, so now you know they all think like this?

Well 1 in 5 British Muslims sympathise with Islamic terrorists. So probably more than one Muslim, yeah.

RingoJuice · 03/10/2025 11:37

verybighouseinthecountry · 03/10/2025 11:29

The government, who talk about "British values" have yet been able to give a definition of what it even means. Fitting in with who?

The whole ‘British values’ thing is very strange.

I suspect it came from the ‘American values’ concept, where we (until recently) forced immigrants to adhere to American values, which we outlined as free speech, freedom of conscious, private property rights, freedom of religion, etc etc etc. We had to do this to assimilate the heavily Catholic (and Jewish) immigrant communities—and did this forced assimilation in a period of rock bottom immigration rates.

Britain is facing the same dilemma so trying to crib ‘British values’ but I doubt anyone can conceptualize them beyond ‘fair play’ or whatever. I don’t think it’s going to work tbh

Juniperberry55 · 03/10/2025 11:38

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 11:31

So you think...

So you think we should keep a strictly ethnic definition of English? Interesting....

Why?

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Probably because they're American and they like to say things like 'I'm Irish ' whilst claiming their great great great great great grandfather was Irish. They are an American citizen with some Irish blood, they tend to ignore that they may be a mix of other ancestry and cling onto that one ancestor. They are probably a white mix from various regions. There have an American nationality, but yet refuse to believe that someone with a different skin colour could move to England and has British nationality because that doesn't count for whatever reason because they aren't 'indigenous british' whilst ignoring the fact white people weren't indigenous to America either

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 11:38

RingoJuice · 03/10/2025 11:37

The whole ‘British values’ thing is very strange.

I suspect it came from the ‘American values’ concept, where we (until recently) forced immigrants to adhere to American values, which we outlined as free speech, freedom of conscious, private property rights, freedom of religion, etc etc etc. We had to do this to assimilate the heavily Catholic (and Jewish) immigrant communities—and did this forced assimilation in a period of rock bottom immigration rates.

Britain is facing the same dilemma so trying to crib ‘British values’ but I doubt anyone can conceptualize them beyond ‘fair play’ or whatever. I don’t think it’s going to work tbh

Interesting an American like you can't define British values, mores etc

Doesn't mean they don't exist or aren't important..

samthepigeon · 03/10/2025 11:39

MaturingCheeseball · 03/10/2025 10:17

I wonder where this Islamophobia proposed bill is now.

Something’s gone very wrong in this country with the fox being welcomed into the hen house. Someone said on another thread to watch out, Jews are the canary in the coal mine. I foresee this country being Balkanised as now we have a significant proportion of the population who do not just reject Western values, but seek to obliterate them and destroy practitioners of other religions into the bargain.

It is a shame some people are feeling so worried.

There is still Islamophobia, institutionally in eg the police force (cf Panorama's programme about the Met where officers openly stated they hated Muslims).
I think such rhetoric needs to calm down. It will do nothing to help the current situation.

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 11:39

Juniperberry55 · 03/10/2025 11:38

Probably because they're American and they like to say things like 'I'm Irish ' whilst claiming their great great great great great grandfather was Irish. They are an American citizen with some Irish blood, they tend to ignore that they may be a mix of other ancestry and cling onto that one ancestor. They are probably a white mix from various regions. There have an American nationality, but yet refuse to believe that someone with a different skin colour could move to England and has British nationality because that doesn't count for whatever reason because they aren't 'indigenous british' whilst ignoring the fact white people weren't indigenous to America either

It's certainly odd for an American to try & tell us how we should define English & British...🤔

verybighouseinthecountry · 03/10/2025 11:40

Araminta1003 · 03/10/2025 11:33

Also the Security Services - why are they not checking on someone who has the name Jihad from birth. Is that not alarm bell 101?
Generally speaking our security services are excellent, but this one I do not understand.

Jihad means struggle, of any type. It's common for premature babies to be named Jihad.

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 11:41

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 11:38

Interesting an American like you can't define British values, mores etc

Doesn't mean they don't exist or aren't important..

Especially as the 'American' values you outlined are long established and key to Britain...

RingoJuice · 03/10/2025 11:41

Yeah, probably the same cohort believe that a man can become a woman too. Don’t care. Truth does not lie in opinion polls.

samthepigeon · 03/10/2025 11:41

Willyoujustbequiet · 03/10/2025 10:17

Agreed.

I'm disgusted that the planned protest for Saturday is going ahead, even after an appeal from the police to cancel it.

Arguably, as the Jewish community here say what is happening in Gaza is nothing to do with them, the march isn't relevant to British Jews, so can go ahead.
(Not saying how I feel one way or the other on this. Just pointing out a logical argument.)

ilod · 03/10/2025 11:42

one of yesterdays worshippers was shot dead by the police. And another injured. So tragic.

Juniperberry55 · 03/10/2025 11:42

RingoJuice · 03/10/2025 11:41

Yeah, probably the same cohort believe that a man can become a woman too. Don’t care. Truth does not lie in opinion polls.

I'm gc and believe that people can't change sex. These two things are very separate issues

HavingYouTubeDoesntMakeYouAFilmmaker · 03/10/2025 11:42

Honish · 03/10/2025 10:53

Nothing weird about noticing we didn't have problems of this nature 70 years ago. Or that they've gone through the roof in the past 20-30 years. When did the indiginous people of Britain consent to any of this?

Nonsense. There have always been racial and religious tensions. Catholics, Protestants, black, brown, Asian, Irish, Jews, Muslims…the list of people persecuted for daring to exist is endless.

We might think it’s got worse, but I suspect it’s simply got more widely shared thanks to the ever-giving shithole that is social media.

Racists are nothing new.

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 11:42

RingoJuice · 03/10/2025 11:41

Yeah, probably the same cohort believe that a man can become a woman too. Don’t care. Truth does not lie in opinion polls.

So you think believing that English can be more than an ethnic identity is in the same league as TWAW?

Charming...

ClearUnderfoot · 03/10/2025 11:43

I think Islamic extremism is a problem for all of us

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 11:44

Juniperberry55 · 03/10/2025 11:42

I'm gc and believe that people can't change sex. These two things are very separate issues

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Exactly. There's been a lot of lecturing Americans on the boards recently with strong opinions...🥱

MyKhakiPanda · 03/10/2025 11:45

verybighouseinthecountry · 03/10/2025 11:40

Jihad means struggle, of any type. It's common for premature babies to be named Jihad.

The surname means 'The Syrian' apparently so the attacker may have used this as a nom de guerre rather than it being the actual given birth name.

samthepigeon · 03/10/2025 11:45

verybighouseinthecountry · 03/10/2025 10:19

Just need to say that Bradford does not have "mainly Muslim schools". Overwhelmingly majority of Muslim children are in state schools.
I really wish people would Google things to fact check before they declare it "a problem".

There are about 200 Muslim schools in the UK. Of those, all but 20 are private. I know the education sector very well, and Muslims go to state schools, even Church of England schools (one I was associated with had majority Muslim kids, even though it was C of E).
You are right. Muslims integrate. I work with them as colleagues, have them as friends.

nomas · 03/10/2025 11:45

29Braydon · 03/10/2025 11:21

I love this faux confusion.

If someone is described as [country]-[country], in theory both parts should be about the same thing - either citizenship or ethnicity. They’re both just names of countries after all.

So why is it that ‘Pakistani-British’ is understood as Pakistani ethnicity and British nationality? And we’ve now got to the point where it’s considered a microaggression to even ask where someone is originally from, because it might imply they’re not ‘really British’.

Whereas your post is pure confusion and makes no sense.

The poster I responded to said it was impossible for someone born in the UK to ever be Pakistani, I listed the circumstances by which one is or can be Pakistani.

You've gone off on a weird tangent.

And I don't think it's bad to ask someone where they're from, but when they answer 'London', don't ask 'No, where are you really from?' Because that is a micro-aggression.

HavingYouTubeDoesntMakeYouAFilmmaker · 03/10/2025 11:46

ThatCyanCat · 03/10/2025 10:55

I haven't got a clue what that dog whistle is supposed to be, so if you're seeing something, you're seeing it as you are, not as I am. Astonishing that you post stuff like this and think you are in a position to lecture about kindness and positivity, but there you go.

I'm sure some people didn't see the post as offensive, but others did, including the people it was about, and they're entitled to say so. You don't fool anyone with your positive and loving and kind demands that they shut up because you don't like it.

I didn’t ask you to shut up, I suggested you might consider how you interact with people if you genuinely want to stem hateful discourse.

But clearly you don’t, so as you were. I don’t feel the need to justify myself to some acerbic stranger online.

Honish · 03/10/2025 11:46

samthepigeon · 03/10/2025 11:26

Wow! Incompatible with western values! Just wow!
What are western values, exactly?

Not marrying pre pubescent girls, one spouse only, religious tolerance, women not subservient to men, eat with cutlery, use loo paper, certain attitudes towards manners/social interaction/queuing etc, love of and respect for animals, fair justice system.. no stoning for example, importance of education for all, honesty. So many aspects of values, culture etc.

samthepigeon · 03/10/2025 11:46

Jujujudo · 03/10/2025 10:47

Are you ok with Islamic terrorists killing Jews?

Why would you think this?

HarrietPierce · 03/10/2025 11:46

"Well 1 in 5 British Muslims sympathise with Islamic terrorists. So probably more than one Muslim, yeah."

Where are you getting this statistic from ?

Juniperberry55 · 03/10/2025 11:47

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 11:44

Exactly. There's been a lot of lecturing Americans on the boards recently with strong opinions...🥱

I wonder how they'd feel about being deported to their ethnic origin countries, because after all their ethnicity doesn't line up with the indigenous people of the USA and therefore shouldn't feel entitled to call themselves American at all... It's all ridiculous

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