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To think the Manchester terrorist attack today shows the growing Anti-Semitism

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Longingdreamer · 02/10/2025 21:17

... and how Jews are not protected in this country.

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CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 11:25

HepzibahGreen · 03/10/2025 11:24

The uncomfortable truth, and I’m sorry I have to say this as I don’t want to fuel hate:
I grew up in one of those communities in the UK, where maybe 40% of my schoolmates were from the Pakistani diaspora. I too am from immigrants, from another place. After 9/11 one of my oldest friends (secular, professional job, born in the UK) made comments about how America deserved it.
There IS a deep seated attitude among many many British Pakistanis regarding the West, Israel and Jews which is different to the attitude of other UK citizens and immigrants both.
Thats an anecdote, yes. But it’s my experience. The 7/7 bombers came from Leeds and I’m not surprised by that. Another old friend tried to work with his Imam to tackle the growing radicalism among the young. Not sure how far he got with it. It’s becoming so entrenched, and social media is growing this hate and misinformation exponentially. You can see this by the confident way people re-write the history of the Middle East to fit their own prejudices.
We must deal in truth, not talk as if the world is how we would like it to be.

Thank you. That is what I fear. Who knows what goes on behind closed doors...? This must be a priority.

LemondrizzleShark · 03/10/2025 11:26

ThatCyanCat · 03/10/2025 11:24

I thought we knew that? He rammed a car at people then stabbed them, and police shot him because he appeared to be about to detonate an explosive belt? (Later found to be non viable.)

The police shot two innocent Jewish people, one of whom has died. It was not known before this morning.

samthepigeon · 03/10/2025 11:26

Honish · 03/10/2025 10:47

Islam is, generally speaking, largely incompatible with western values and society. It is possible to blend the two, and some have managed to do so very well, but not a large enough percentage to prevent the serious damage to our society. And it isnt a case of giving it more time, the problem is becoming demonstrably worse as time goes on. The experiment has failed. To speak this truth is NOT any kind of 'ism' or 'phobia' and those words have been weaponised and used to silence for far too long.

Wow! Incompatible with western values! Just wow!
What are western values, exactly?

Honish · 03/10/2025 11:26

Juniperberry55 · 03/10/2025 11:16

There is a difference between nationality and ethnicity. I could have a baby in Pakistan and raise them there and they could be Pakistani as far as nationality is concerned, ethnicity would obviously be white, because of genetics.
Do you think a black person could never consider themselves English if they are born and raised here? How many generations need to be in a country before you consider them that nationality
If I had a child in Germany , I would imagine they would consider themselves German. I'm guessing that would be okay with you as Germans are also white, even though I have no German ancestry as far back as I can see?

But of course you used Germany for your example. Swap Germany with Somalia, Egypt, Pakistan, India. I expect you suddenly feel quite differently on how entitled you are to claim that you are of one of them. Because its recognised that their race, culture and heritage is more than just a legal document.

WestwardHo1 · 03/10/2025 11:26

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Someone has probably said this, but we have had Islamist extremism against Western targets on a large scale since the days when Israel was actively pursuing a more peaceful conciliatory stance in Gaza and the West Bank. I don't remember any Jewish target particularly in the 9/11 or 7th July attacks, or the ones at Manchester Arena or London Bridge or countless others. They just wanted to kill and maim and get to heaven with their virgins.

Blaming it on "Zionism" simply gives an element legitimacy to their general murderous agenda, and also smacks of victim blaming. "Oh you wouldn't be killed at synagogue if only a government in a different country pursued a different path". If the Israeli government stopped it's current hideous path, you're saying that Islamic terrorism would suddenly stop too, are you? These "people" who have actively been seeking to kill Westerners for decades? And the women of Afghanistan would be free and safe, for example? The savage regime that runs their country would just stop?They would stop their radicalising agenda everywhere?

This comment actually made me feel a bit ill.

RingoJuice · 03/10/2025 11:26

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 11:24

Hmm? That's not how I'd see it..

I know you're American. What gives you the authority to pronounce on what English is...

Outsiders often see things more clearly, it’s true.

verybighouseinthecountry · 03/10/2025 11:26

HepzibahGreen · 03/10/2025 11:24

The uncomfortable truth, and I’m sorry I have to say this as I don’t want to fuel hate:
I grew up in one of those communities in the UK, where maybe 40% of my schoolmates were from the Pakistani diaspora. I too am from immigrants, from another place. After 9/11 one of my oldest friends (secular, professional job, born in the UK) made comments about how America deserved it.
There IS a deep seated attitude among many many British Pakistanis regarding the West, Israel and Jews which is different to the attitude of other UK citizens and immigrants both.
Thats an anecdote, yes. But it’s my experience. The 7/7 bombers came from Leeds and I’m not surprised by that. Another old friend tried to work with his Imam to tackle the growing radicalism among the young. Not sure how far he got with it. It’s becoming so entrenched, and social media is growing this hate and misinformation exponentially. You can see this by the confident way people re-write the history of the Middle East to fit their own prejudices.
We must deal in truth, not talk as if the world is how we would like it to be.

One person said something, so now you know they all think like this?

samthepigeon · 03/10/2025 11:27

nomas · 03/10/2025 10:50

The Jews in the UK have nothing to do with the Israeli government.

I suppose we can then say that the marches supporting Palestine shouldn't affect them then...

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 11:27

Juniperberry55 · 03/10/2025 11:23

What are the differences you are referring to?
Googling what an integrate is, didn't come up with any definition?
I am happy to admit if I am wrong but I haven't got a clue what the argument is on this one
If a Pakistani women moves here and has a baby in this country, when would you consider the baby British? Or would that not be possible for the baby to be British at any point in your opinion?

Don't be silly, pp made clear she would see them as British if they actively try & fit in with the culture.

29Braydon · 03/10/2025 11:27

ThatCyanCat · 03/10/2025 11:22

I should warn you, I just had to play a few rounds of pigeon chess with people who told me I was a terrible person for finding this post offensive too (and I'm not Jewish).

Also, I'm sorry you and other Jewish posters had to see it. I considered reporting it, but, I don't know, it seemed very illuminating in its way.

I'm Jewish, with the scars to prove it, and I didn't find it at all offensive. It's human behaviour to find patterns and to judge based on that.

ThatCyanCat · 03/10/2025 11:28

29Braydon · 03/10/2025 11:27

I'm Jewish, with the scars to prove it, and I didn't find it at all offensive. It's human behaviour to find patterns and to judge based on that.

Well, fair enough. However, some people were offended and they're not wrong to say so.

29Braydon · 03/10/2025 11:28

samthepigeon · 03/10/2025 11:27

I suppose we can then say that the marches supporting Palestine shouldn't affect them then...

And yet 'Free Palestine' is only ever shouted at Jews (I'm talking when it's directed at people as opposed to plain chants at a march).

samthepigeon · 03/10/2025 11:29

AlphonsaAlpaca · 03/10/2025 10:41

And that is the same in all faiths! This pp seems to believe it of all Jews. There are many Muslim families that don’t integrate. I don’t generalise about them because I know many that do. There are many Christian families that don’t integrate. Why is it Jews who are always singled out for behaviours that exist in multiple faiths?!

I don't think they are, by any means. In fact, I have never heard it levelled against Jewish people, only against Muslims. But then I live in an area that has few Jewish people, and loads and loads of Muslims.

Juniperberry55 · 03/10/2025 11:29

Honish · 03/10/2025 11:26

But of course you used Germany for your example. Swap Germany with Somalia, Egypt, Pakistan, India. I expect you suddenly feel quite differently on how entitled you are to claim that you are of one of them. Because its recognised that their race, culture and heritage is more than just a legal document.

I think if you read the previous post, I did use Pakistan as an example. I could go to Pakistan raise a white baby there and I would consider them to have Pakistani nationality, whilst still having white ethnicity. Feel free to switch Pakistan in that example with any of the other countries you refer to.

Verv · 03/10/2025 11:29

samthepigeon · 03/10/2025 11:26

Wow! Incompatible with western values! Just wow!
What are western values, exactly?

Not treating women and girls like chattels, and not wanting to murder jews would be a good place to start.

Wow!

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 11:29

Honish · 03/10/2025 11:26

But of course you used Germany for your example. Swap Germany with Somalia, Egypt, Pakistan, India. I expect you suddenly feel quite differently on how entitled you are to claim that you are of one of them. Because its recognised that their race, culture and heritage is more than just a legal document.

Do you think that's good? There is ethnic variation in India for one, the long running Anglo Indian minority.

Are you saying it's OK for a person to assume the nationality as long as they have grown up & integrated etc? You said you did - but now are you saying that we should be more like Somalia etc?

verybighouseinthecountry · 03/10/2025 11:29

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 11:27

Don't be silly, pp made clear she would see them as British if they actively try & fit in with the culture.

The government, who talk about "British values" have yet been able to give a definition of what it even means. Fitting in with who?

EasternStandard · 03/10/2025 11:30

LemondrizzleShark · 03/10/2025 11:23

Why ffs?

He was a terrorist threat, they acted quickly.

Lazytiger · 03/10/2025 11:30

samthepigeon · 03/10/2025 11:26

Wow! Incompatible with western values! Just wow!
What are western values, exactly?

Western values come from the (Judeo-Christian) teachings of the Bible.

EsmaCannonball · 03/10/2025 11:31

LemondrizzleShark · 03/10/2025 11:23

Well, the terrorist was trying to murder people while the police officer was trying to stop them being murdered. The terrorist was responsible for forcing the men from the synagogue to blockade the door and then making the police think he was about to detonate a suicide bomb in front of it. Poor police officer, having to live with the unintentional killing.

samthepigeon · 03/10/2025 11:31

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 10:24

Why wouldn't Hamas steal aid? They are a cruel terrorist group, dying & starving civilians are a tool for them. You seem very naive.

Yes,, I do have proof.

Do you think Hamas are some kind of heroic freedom fighters?

I an aware of Israel lobbying & Russia lobbying. I am suspicious of all lobbies but Russia is lobbying for a brutal invasion of Ukraine & Qatar etc for extremist Islam.

I have concerns about Israel lobby but it is nothing like as bad as those two.

Get some proportion.

To be fair, aid is always stolen, in any situation, anywhere in the world. The aid organisations know this. It makes their lives harder, but it doesn't stop them distributing the aid, as it gets through to many people all the same. Israel's aid distribution was far more problematic.

Araminta1003 · 03/10/2025 11:31

There are how many Jews today here? A few hundred thousand? Maybe 350k?

Versus 4 million plus Muslims.

The Government owe it to the Jewish people to protect them more. They are in the minority! Also, they cannot be seen to put votes above minority protection. Labour need to do more!

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 11:31

RingoJuice · 03/10/2025 11:26

Outsiders often see things more clearly, it’s true.

So you think...

So you think we should keep a strictly ethnic definition of English? Interesting....

Why?

Araminta1003 · 03/10/2025 11:33

Also the Security Services - why are they not checking on someone who has the name Jihad from birth. Is that not alarm bell 101?
Generally speaking our security services are excellent, but this one I do not understand.

YouveGotNoBloodyIdea · 03/10/2025 11:34

Just fuck off with the whole “Islamophobia is worse” bollocks. This is the perfect example of what the problem is. I stand with the Jewish community today. I have donated to the CST - the group that provides volunteer guards outside Jewish schools and synagogues.

Antisemitism has no place in our society - it should be robustly addressed. Anti semites use the idea of anti Zionism as a cloak to hide behind - but we can see the vitriolic hatred against Jews being spewed on marches, and the dancing and jubilation in last nights “protests”. We are not fucking blind, we see you and your hatred.

we would be idiots if we were not afraid of Islamic extremists - they are a danger to us all. We were afraid of the IRA bombings in the 70’s - I lived through them, I was evacuated from tube stations, heard bombs go off, didn’t shop with my baby dd in the west end at Christmas. Terrorists cause fear and terror, that’s the point. Our current problem is not with the IRA it’s with radical Islamists who hate all of the west, but hate Jews more.

As an Irish catholic I had no problem condemning the IRA. decent people condemn terrorism. No equivocation or whataboutery.

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