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To think the Manchester terrorist attack today shows the growing Anti-Semitism

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Longingdreamer · 02/10/2025 21:17

... and how Jews are not protected in this country.

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PraisebetoGod · 03/10/2025 11:16

What did people think "globalise the intifada", what did they think that meant? When the head of Palestine Action said about turning the al-Asqa flood (the 7th Oct massacres) into a global tsunami, what the fuck did they expect?
This is what they dream of. This is the intifada being globalised.

EXPECT MORE OF YESTERDAY GOING FORWARDS PEOPLE!

ukathleticscoach · 03/10/2025 11:17

'the islamophobia is WAY worse than the anti-Semitism.'

FR

Onmytod24 · 03/10/2025 11:17

EsmaCannonball · 03/10/2025 11:04

All the propagandist lies about Israel have been to soften the west up for attacks like this. Turns out, sadly, that we are still surrounded by people with a barely-suppressed desire to lynch Jews.

What is this rubbish that you’ve been taught? Who is telling you this? Whoever it is block them. This is absolute rubbish.

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 11:17

Juniperberry55 · 03/10/2025 11:16

There is a difference between nationality and ethnicity. I could have a baby in Pakistan and raise them there and they could be Pakistani as far as nationality is concerned, ethnicity would obviously be white, because of genetics.
Do you think a black person could never consider themselves English if they are born and raised here? How many generations need to be in a country before you consider them that nationality
If I had a child in Germany , I would imagine they would consider themselves German. I'm guessing that would be okay with you as Germans are also white, even though I have no German ancestry as far back as I can see?

Yes that poster was making some unpleasant comments..

samthepigeon · 03/10/2025 11:18

knitnerd90 · 03/10/2025 10:52

I remember Jewish children on their way home from school having trouble well before 2023. It’s not just events in Gaza.

It isn't a competition.
But I was horrified at the open comments made in the Panorama document about police racism. They openly said they hated Muslims.

Mihrimah · 03/10/2025 11:18

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 11:05

Do most Muslims go to secular schools then?

Yes of course they do!

they attend nursery, schools, colleges, universities, the doctors surgery
they go to the vets when their pets are sick
they go to Asda, Sainsbury’s, Aldi,

They are doctors, lecturers, bus drivers, lawyers, taxi drivers, chefs, house husbands and wives

they are everywhere

like normal people I guess!

Honish · 03/10/2025 11:18

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 11:08

Hang on. Are you saying a child of immigrant parents who integrates and grows up here from birth can never be British?

Pakistan is ofc not a very accepting country...that should change, but little chance the way it is now.

Oh I think they absolutely can be British. But 'child of immigrant parents' and 'integrates' can mean all kinds of things can't it? The spectrum of those two is massive. I don't think it applies to all automatically, which is perhaps not something you are willing admit.

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 11:18

nomas · 03/10/2025 11:14

Yes, Google says over 95% of British Muslim children are educated in state-funded secular schools.

Thank you. I am sorry for the misunderstanding. Will investigate this further.

cordialzempy · 03/10/2025 11:19

MidnightMusing5 · 03/10/2025 09:55

Genuine question:- how do the Jewish community try to integrate to all areas of society? Any out reach etc to break down stereotypes? I don’t mean just going and making a speech, but actually having friends and making friendships with those from all other communities? (I don’t live in a city where there is a large Jewish community, so I wouldn’t know) I would love to know anyone responding, how many friends you have of Muslim faith? What have you ever done to try and make friends?

I think it’s important to mix and make friendship’s from all communities to help break down these negative stereotypes. Do you post a card through your neighbours doors to wish them a happy Eid etc? (I post Diwali card and Christmas cards . I’m lucky to live in a mixed community. I don’t know anyone openly Jewish. If I did, I would do exactly the same. ) Do your faith leaders work with other faith leaders? I think it’s important ALL people of faith and none should make an effort to have friendships from all communities. It’s a small but significant step all of us could take.

As a Muslim myself, I was deeply saddened by what happened. It was unislamic and pointless. You don’t improve relationships by killing each other! He did no favours for our community either and I will now receive hate because of it (!)

I dont view all Jewish people as bad. Why? Because of an experience I had as a child. (I didn’t at the time realise how significant it was at the time, but as an adult I do and it has stuck with me)
when I was younger, there was a girl in our class from Israel named Dana. (I was 10 and my parents had never said anything horrible about Israel and Jews so , to me she was just another girl - with a lovely tan)
anyway, she had a sister called Noah (younger than her) her dad I think was over studying at the local uni. She played with us in the playgrounds, taught us how to play “five stone”. Showed us pictures of her family mango farm in Israel.
one day my mum forgot to pick me up (something happened at home)
I was alone in the playground (this was from a time when there were no school gates. And Dana parents waited with me until someone came to collect me. (I wore ethnic clothing I was the only girl in my class that was brown) No one else. Just Dana parents. That act has stuck with me for life and I refuse to hate all Jewish people for what is happening in the Middle East. This is what I mean by those small acts that we all can do in communities to break down stereotypes and build relationships.
Changing things at grass roots level.

Fucking hell, this is one of the most insane and depressing things I’ve ever read. Great to read that us Jews are bizarre and extraordinary creatures who are rare than hen’s teeth. Thank fuck that you don’t hate us because of Dana. It’s just a shame that not all Muslims have had the opportunity to meet her parents, things could have been so different.

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 11:20

Honish · 03/10/2025 11:18

Oh I think they absolutely can be British. But 'child of immigrant parents' and 'integrates' can mean all kinds of things can't it? The spectrum of those two is massive. I don't think it applies to all automatically, which is perhaps not something you are willing admit.

What? I've literally posted lots on this thread about migrants who don't integrate.

I see what you mean now. I'm sorry, I see so many unpleasant views of all kinds these days...I interpreted too suspiciously. Thank you for clarifying.

DuskyBlueDepartingLight · 03/10/2025 11:20

LoftyRobin · 03/10/2025 04:03

Jihad refers to the inner conflict of like good and evil. It doesn't exclusively mean war.

Yes, and the German phrase 'Sieg Heil' only meant 'Hail Victory'...but the Nazi context was important, as we all know.

29Braydon · 03/10/2025 11:21

nomas · 03/10/2025 11:12

This is so bizarre. There are specific circumstances that make someone British:

  • you're born in the UK to a Brit
  • born abroad to British parents
  • naturalised as a Brit after having lived in the UK for 5 years

So no, someone 'birthing a baby' doesn't automatically make them British.

There are specific circumstances that make someone Pakistani:

  • born in Pakistan
  • born abroad to a Pakistani
  • naturalised after having resided in Pakistan for at least 5 years

Why do you think it can't be done? And what is the obsession with Pakistanis?

I love this faux confusion.

If someone is described as [country]-[country], in theory both parts should be about the same thing - either citizenship or ethnicity. They’re both just names of countries after all.

So why is it that ‘Pakistani-British’ is understood as Pakistani ethnicity and British nationality? And we’ve now got to the point where it’s considered a microaggression to even ask where someone is originally from, because it might imply they’re not ‘really British’.

verybighouseinthecountry · 03/10/2025 11:21

Mihrimah · 03/10/2025 11:18

Yes of course they do!

they attend nursery, schools, colleges, universities, the doctors surgery
they go to the vets when their pets are sick
they go to Asda, Sainsbury’s, Aldi,

They are doctors, lecturers, bus drivers, lawyers, taxi drivers, chefs, house husbands and wives

they are everywhere

like normal people I guess!

All whilst being told their whole lives they never integrate, don't pay into the system, are leeching off the taxpayer, need to make more effort to reach out to other religions, are oppressed, are terrorists.....

thecircushascometotown · 03/10/2025 11:21

AguNwaanyi · 03/10/2025 09:38

Don’t misconstrue what’s happening in Nigeria. Also, it is muslim women and girls in the north who have been the biggest victims of these attacks. The Christians being targeted are specifically from the east.

Yes, Christians and Muslims are being murdered in Nigeria by Boko Haram and other Islamist groups. At least 110,000 Christians have been murdered by Boko Haram alone according to Wikipedia.

ThatCyanCat · 03/10/2025 11:22

cordialzempy · 03/10/2025 11:19

Fucking hell, this is one of the most insane and depressing things I’ve ever read. Great to read that us Jews are bizarre and extraordinary creatures who are rare than hen’s teeth. Thank fuck that you don’t hate us because of Dana. It’s just a shame that not all Muslims have had the opportunity to meet her parents, things could have been so different.

I should warn you, I just had to play a few rounds of pigeon chess with people who told me I was a terrible person for finding this post offensive too (and I'm not Jewish).

Also, I'm sorry you and other Jewish posters had to see it. I considered reporting it, but, I don't know, it seemed very illuminating in its way.

RingoJuice · 03/10/2025 11:22

Juniperberry55 · 03/10/2025 11:16

There is a difference between nationality and ethnicity. I could have a baby in Pakistan and raise them there and they could be Pakistani as far as nationality is concerned, ethnicity would obviously be white, because of genetics.
Do you think a black person could never consider themselves English if they are born and raised here? How many generations need to be in a country before you consider them that nationality
If I had a child in Germany , I would imagine they would consider themselves German. I'm guessing that would be okay with you as Germans are also white, even though I have no German ancestry as far back as I can see?

English is not a nationality, it’s an ethnicity. So while a black person could be British, they cannot be English.

LemondrizzleShark · 03/10/2025 11:23

This just came up on Guardian website - shootings were done by police, not the attacker. FFS.

www.theguardian.com/uk-news/live/2025/oct/03/manchester-synagogue-attack-victims-adrian-daulby-melvin-cravitz-attacker-jihad-al-shamie-latest-news-updates

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 11:23

cordialzempy · 03/10/2025 11:19

Fucking hell, this is one of the most insane and depressing things I’ve ever read. Great to read that us Jews are bizarre and extraordinary creatures who are rare than hen’s teeth. Thank fuck that you don’t hate us because of Dana. It’s just a shame that not all Muslims have had the opportunity to meet her parents, things could have been so different.

It was definitely a strange message...to say the least.

In terms of demography, Jews ARE numerically rare : 0.5% last census.

So credibly many UK people may never have met someone Jewish.

That is never an excuse for anti Semitism.

https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/culturalidentity/religion/articles/jewishidentityenglandandwales/census2021%23:~:text%3D1.,Wales%2520population%2520who%2520lived%2520there.&ved=2ahUKEwjl_oK-54eQAxU8U0EAHWSwA0MQzsoNegQIChAU&usg=AOvVaw1ELJBWLzxSPu50pM9ZFxFd

https://www.google.com/url?opi=89978449&rct=j&sa=t&source=web&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.ons.gov.uk%2Fpeoplepopulationandcommunity%2Fculturalidentity%2Freligion%2Farticles%2Fjewishidentityenglandandwales%2Fcensus2021%23%3A%7E%3Atext%3D1.%2CWales%2520population%2520who%2520lived%2520there.&usg=AOvVaw1ELJBWLzxSPu50pM9ZFxFd&ved=2ahUKEwjl_oK-54eQAxU8U0EAHWSwA0MQzsoNegQIChAU

charliehungerford · 03/10/2025 11:23

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Do you not understand why many people are Islamophobic? How many innocent ordinary Europeans have been murdered in cold blood by islamists whilst going about their lives, at markets, concerts, on their way to work, of course not all Muslims are extremists, but those that are carry so much hate, not just directed at the Jewish population, but at anyone they deem to have upset or not respected them. The teacher that had to go into hiding following a hate filed mob of Muslim parents threatening his life is one of many incidents. Ask yourself how many uk citizens have been murdered here in our country supposedly in the name of Islam, and how many have been murdered by people of the Jewish faith in the name of their religion ? Do you not see why many people are ‘phobic’ ?

Juniperberry55 · 03/10/2025 11:23

Honish · 03/10/2025 11:18

Oh I think they absolutely can be British. But 'child of immigrant parents' and 'integrates' can mean all kinds of things can't it? The spectrum of those two is massive. I don't think it applies to all automatically, which is perhaps not something you are willing admit.

What are the differences you are referring to?
Googling what an integrate is, didn't come up with any definition?
I am happy to admit if I am wrong but I haven't got a clue what the argument is on this one
If a Pakistani women moves here and has a baby in this country, when would you consider the baby British? Or would that not be possible for the baby to be British at any point in your opinion?

LemondrizzleShark · 03/10/2025 11:23

Doesn’t exculpate the attacker in any way, but pretty shocking nonetheless.

ThatCyanCat · 03/10/2025 11:24

LemondrizzleShark · 03/10/2025 11:23

I thought we knew that? He rammed a car at people then stabbed them, and police shot him because he appeared to be about to detonate an explosive belt? (Later found to be non viable.)

HepzibahGreen · 03/10/2025 11:24

nomas · 03/10/2025 09:33

There are 1.8m British Pakistanis in the UK, most came over in the 1950/60s at the UK’s behest to fill a labour vacuum. The vast majority live peaceful, law abiding lives.

The way you dismiss and generalise this group is racist.

The uncomfortable truth, and I’m sorry I have to say this as I don’t want to fuel hate:
I grew up in one of those communities in the UK, where maybe 40% of my schoolmates were from the Pakistani diaspora. I too am from immigrants, from another place. After 9/11 one of my oldest friends (secular, professional job, born in the UK) made comments about how America deserved it.
There IS a deep seated attitude among many many British Pakistanis regarding the West, Israel and Jews which is different to the attitude of other UK citizens and immigrants both.
Thats an anecdote, yes. But it’s my experience. The 7/7 bombers came from Leeds and I’m not surprised by that. Another old friend tried to work with his Imam to tackle the growing radicalism among the young. Not sure how far he got with it. It’s becoming so entrenched, and social media is growing this hate and misinformation exponentially. You can see this by the confident way people re-write the history of the Middle East to fit their own prejudices.
We must deal in truth, not talk as if the world is how we would like it to be.

EasternStandard · 03/10/2025 11:24

Onmytod24 · 03/10/2025 11:15

I’ll await the police’s verdict. But I’m not sure of the definition can alone actor still be a terrorist attack I don’t know.

It’s already been declared a terrorist attack and yes they can.

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 11:24

RingoJuice · 03/10/2025 11:22

English is not a nationality, it’s an ethnicity. So while a black person could be British, they cannot be English.

Hmm? That's not how I'd see it..

I know you're American. What gives you the authority to pronounce on what English is...

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