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To think the Manchester terrorist attack today shows the growing Anti-Semitism

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Longingdreamer · 02/10/2025 21:17

... and how Jews are not protected in this country.

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MaturingCheeseball · 03/10/2025 11:03

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 10:54

I think the issue is WHICH Muslims. The US has mainly westernised, and more liberal-minded ones. Whereas we have many sectarian ones from fundamentalist areas of Pakistan etc

As I said, Islam has been getting more hardline with the promotion of Salafi & Wahhabi schools, which places like Saudi are deliberately exporting here. Thus people are getting more fundamentalist, not less. If they were exporting moderate forms or sects like Sufis or Ahmaddiyas, it wouldn't be such an issue.

Ds’s friend is Muslim - we socialise with the parents - they are a thoroughly Western family. The mother said that she finds it awful to be lumped with women wearing coverings who she said are our equivalent of “chavs”.

The US is also beginning to see problems. In St Paul, Minnesota, there was just a case where a man abducted and raped a 12-year-old girl and his local Islamic Centre wrote in his defence that he had not understood cultural expectations in the US !!!!!!!!!!!!

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 11:03

Pissedoffandneedtovent · 03/10/2025 10:56

You’ll get a ton of replies asking with faux naivety what ‘indigenous Brits’ means, and the very same people will have no problem grasping the concept of ‘indigenous Palestinians’ and saying this makes them inherently entitled to ‘their’ land

There are different ethnicities indigenous to Palestine. Obvs those people are ignoring Jews...

Be careful with that blood & soil rhetoric. Plenty of people whose family arrived in the past 100 years can be just as good Brits who love our country. Many black& Asian people don't like mass immigration either : look at Shabana for one,,or many BAME Tories or Reform. Even that dreadful Unite The Kingdom had some BAME people there, they'd probs disliked TR but we're worried about mass immigration.

EsmaCannonball · 03/10/2025 11:04

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All the propagandist lies about Israel have been to soften the west up for attacks like this. Turns out, sadly, that we are still surrounded by people with a barely-suppressed desire to lynch Jews.

verybighouseinthecountry · 03/10/2025 11:04

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 10:37

Midnight, can I ask you a couple of things?

Roughly what area are you of UK (I get if prefer not to say)?

I think you are getting an unfair response but at the same time I think many Jews are on edge and fearful.

Why?

Please don't take offence at this. I understand that you and many other UK Muslims revile terror etc..

The problem is that I can see why Jews would be afraid of Muslims here. NOT because they think ALL Muslims are bad. But because they fear many Muslims hate Jews and support terror against them.

Why do they think this?

Groups like Isis hate Jews fiercely & wee have had a lot of terrorist attacks from groups like that over past 20 years.

The problem is that it often seems like a lot of the Muslim community turns a blind eye to terrorism (there have been undercover BBC programs where imams saying hateful things about non Muslims) and to grooming gangs (lots of other Muslims knew & apparently many objected to sleeping with white girls, not to sexually abusing children) and forced marriage (still happening with UK women being forced to marry back in Pakistan).

I understand that lots of Muslims oppose these things. But are many brave enough to do that? In your community, are Muslims involved in anti-terrorism & radicalisation?

My point is that Jews have an understandable reason to be scared of Muslims in general if it seems like most Muslims are not standing up to extremist narratives.

I know many Muslims probably oppose these outside the public eye, maybe it needs to be publicised more?

Maybe the Muslim community should make more of an effort to make the first move to make friends with Jews? Interfaith activities etc?

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Muslims in the UK are very active in the interfaith arena. They reach out a lot, donate a lot of money to charitable causes and give a lot of their free time and resources to worthy causes. It isn't often spoken about, which is fine as charity is not something that is meant to be public in Islam. They absolutely do not "turn a blind eye to terrorism" as it is a constant accusation and people are terrified their DC will be taken away.
Every single one of your points you said about Muslims can be said for Jews (or I'm sure for any religious group, as there are bad eggs in every one).Have you listened to what leaders of Aish have said, or read ImaMother? People openly saying they are happy babies in Gaza are dead and it's a sin to feel sorry for them?
As you and others have illustrated, there is so much misinformation about Muslims being purported as fact. Look at the above about Muslims not integrating and how problematic it is that they all "mainly go to Muslim schools". Not a single ounce of fact in it. People are bringing 'facts' out of thin air and making them causal. This is contributory towards radicalisation. Imagine you are going to school, trying to live your life, get a job and all along the way people are telling you you never integrate, only mix with your own, are violent, are terrorists etc etc. This is a daily theme that many British Muslims are growing up with.

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 11:05

MaturingCheeseball · 03/10/2025 11:03

Ds’s friend is Muslim - we socialise with the parents - they are a thoroughly Western family. The mother said that she finds it awful to be lumped with women wearing coverings who she said are our equivalent of “chavs”.

The US is also beginning to see problems. In St Paul, Minnesota, there was just a case where a man abducted and raped a 12-year-old girl and his local Islamic Centre wrote in his defence that he had not understood cultural expectations in the US !!!!!!!!!!!!

Oh no!

BTW when you say 'coverings' do you mean she looks down on women wearing a headscarf? Or on women wearing a full face veil?

I agree re 'chavs'. Apparently many urban people in Pakistan look down on the rural fundamentalists here.

Honish · 03/10/2025 11:05

Pissedoffandneedtovent · 03/10/2025 10:56

You’ll get a ton of replies asking with faux naivety what ‘indigenous Brits’ means, and the very same people will have no problem grasping the concept of ‘indigenous Palestinians’ and saying this makes them inherently entitled to ‘their’ land

Exactly. And a Pakistani woman can have arrived last year and be birthing her baby today.. and mumsnet will tell me her baby is british, some will even specify english/welsh/scottish/irish depending on specific geographical location. But if I, a white woman, had been born and raised Pakistan.. no one would ever consider me Pakistani? Britain, America, many countries of Europe are places where you can suddenly belong to race that you share no DNA or history with. And any questioning is hatred or racist. But how would I go about becoming Pakistani? How do I go about it? It can't be done. English have been conditioned to believe their entire race and heritage, as well as being oppressive colonisers with tasteless food, is nothing but legal papers and economic zones.

Jamclag · 03/10/2025 11:05

I just wanted to offer my support to the UK Jewish community at what must be a terrifying time for individuals and families who have a right to live their everyday lives without fear of random attacks.
I hate the way British Jews are being held responsible for the actions of a foreign government, especially when most surveys suggest that the Jewish population don't support Netanyahu and have much more nuanced beliefs about the Gaza/Israel conflict.

I also absolutely condemn harassment and abuse of moderate British Muslims, many of whom have lived here peacefully for three generations or more. They are no more responsible for Hamas's actions than UK Jews are for the Israeli government's war crimes.

However, I think we do have to acknowledge that the Muslim community has been a much more fertile ground for terrorism offences on British soil over the last 20 years than the Jewish community. It's not surprising then that there is a greater expectation on UK Muslims, as a group, to distance themselves from the views that promote these kinds of attacks - including the kind of protests where the hate for Jewish people, not just the Israeli government, is freely expressed in murderous chants and placards. This is not free speech, it is incitement to violence and can only make attacks like this more likely.

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 11:05

verybighouseinthecountry · 03/10/2025 11:04

Muslims in the UK are very active in the interfaith arena. They reach out a lot, donate a lot of money to charitable causes and give a lot of their free time and resources to worthy causes. It isn't often spoken about, which is fine as charity is not something that is meant to be public in Islam. They absolutely do not "turn a blind eye to terrorism" as it is a constant accusation and people are terrified their DC will be taken away.
Every single one of your points you said about Muslims can be said for Jews (or I'm sure for any religious group, as there are bad eggs in every one).Have you listened to what leaders of Aish have said, or read ImaMother? People openly saying they are happy babies in Gaza are dead and it's a sin to feel sorry for them?
As you and others have illustrated, there is so much misinformation about Muslims being purported as fact. Look at the above about Muslims not integrating and how problematic it is that they all "mainly go to Muslim schools". Not a single ounce of fact in it. People are bringing 'facts' out of thin air and making them causal. This is contributory towards radicalisation. Imagine you are going to school, trying to live your life, get a job and all along the way people are telling you you never integrate, only mix with your own, are violent, are terrorists etc etc. This is a daily theme that many British Muslims are growing up with.

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Do most Muslims go to secular schools then?

Onmytod24 · 03/10/2025 11:06

It was atrocious act of violence, it got full coverage on the news as it should do but politicians are using it and you are being used. Right now, we know nothing about the man no police history that’s all. Is he part of a huge big plot against Jewish people or is he a man acting on it alone? We don’t know at the moment.

Onmytod24 · 03/10/2025 11:07

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 11:05

Do most Muslims go to secular schools then?

I would say yes, having worked in Tower Hamlets for six years

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 11:08

Honish · 03/10/2025 11:05

Exactly. And a Pakistani woman can have arrived last year and be birthing her baby today.. and mumsnet will tell me her baby is british, some will even specify english/welsh/scottish/irish depending on specific geographical location. But if I, a white woman, had been born and raised Pakistan.. no one would ever consider me Pakistani? Britain, America, many countries of Europe are places where you can suddenly belong to race that you share no DNA or history with. And any questioning is hatred or racist. But how would I go about becoming Pakistani? How do I go about it? It can't be done. English have been conditioned to believe their entire race and heritage, as well as being oppressive colonisers with tasteless food, is nothing but legal papers and economic zones.

Hang on. Are you saying a child of immigrant parents who integrates and grows up here from birth can never be British?

Pakistan is ofc not a very accepting country...that should change, but little chance the way it is now.

PraisebetoGod · 03/10/2025 11:08

Onmytod24 · 03/10/2025 11:06

It was atrocious act of violence, it got full coverage on the news as it should do but politicians are using it and you are being used. Right now, we know nothing about the man no police history that’s all. Is he part of a huge big plot against Jewish people or is he a man acting on it alone? We don’t know at the moment.

Oh please. We all know the full story even if people are afraid to admit it. Can we have this discussion once we do get the full story though officially. I would love to hear your thoughts on the matter then.

samthepigeon · 03/10/2025 11:09

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 08:47

Stop anti Semitically associating Jews with Israelis.

Plus the Gaza war is a war. It is NOT a genocide or terror attack. NOT comparable. Stop swallowing the Hamas narrative, awake!

I think history will give us the perspective we all need on the conflict. Sadly, people are dying now, unnecessarily, and with no means of avoiding it. History won't help them today, or tomorrow. None of us can say now what is fact and what is not. (I think we may still have difficulties with this in the future too, but once independent reporters are allowed into Gaza, it may be easier.)

YourBrickTiger · 03/10/2025 11:09

Jujujudo · 03/10/2025 10:47

Are you ok with Islamic terrorists killing Jews?

No and I didn't ever say I was?! Don't put words in my mouth.

EasternStandard · 03/10/2025 11:11

Onmytod24 · 03/10/2025 11:06

It was atrocious act of violence, it got full coverage on the news as it should do but politicians are using it and you are being used. Right now, we know nothing about the man no police history that’s all. Is he part of a huge big plot against Jewish people or is he a man acting on it alone? We don’t know at the moment.

It was a terrorist attack. This take doesn’t work.

Mihrimah · 03/10/2025 11:11

OiOiSavveloy · 02/10/2025 23:33

It’s Remembrance Day next month.
Starmer will have the gall to lay a wreath at the Cenotaph just like he did last year. When watching this year, let’s not forget how he recognises the State of Palestine.

https://m.youtube.com/shorts/Fd2vausJPzE

Free Palestine 🇵🇸

samthepigeon · 03/10/2025 11:11

Onmytod24 · 03/10/2025 11:07

I would say yes, having worked in Tower Hamlets for six years

Yes, and they go to Church of England schools too. I have plenty of direct experience in this. There are hardly any Muslim schools - about 200 - in the UK, and all but 30 of them are private, so will exclude most children. Amazing how they integrate, eh?

Honish · 03/10/2025 11:12

nomas · 03/10/2025 11:02

So your response to someone saying immigrants don't integrate is that you left when brown people moved in to your area?

I expect you are happy to defend what has happened to places like Bradford and Luton by claiming its natural and right that immigrants would seek to form their own communities (and I would agree that it is human nature to do so). But you think indigenous Britain's shouldn't mind at all when their home district becomes less than a third white over a short period of time? What about their community?

verybighouseinthecountry · 03/10/2025 11:12

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 11:05

Do most Muslims go to secular schools then?

Yes, I provided the stats above. 95+% are in secular state schools, approx 66% of Jewish children in Jewish faith schools.

nomas · 03/10/2025 11:12

Honish · 03/10/2025 11:05

Exactly. And a Pakistani woman can have arrived last year and be birthing her baby today.. and mumsnet will tell me her baby is british, some will even specify english/welsh/scottish/irish depending on specific geographical location. But if I, a white woman, had been born and raised Pakistan.. no one would ever consider me Pakistani? Britain, America, many countries of Europe are places where you can suddenly belong to race that you share no DNA or history with. And any questioning is hatred or racist. But how would I go about becoming Pakistani? How do I go about it? It can't be done. English have been conditioned to believe their entire race and heritage, as well as being oppressive colonisers with tasteless food, is nothing but legal papers and economic zones.

This is so bizarre. There are specific circumstances that make someone British:

  • you're born in the UK to a Brit
  • born abroad to British parents
  • naturalised as a Brit after having lived in the UK for 5 years

So no, someone 'birthing a baby' doesn't automatically make them British.

There are specific circumstances that make someone Pakistani:

  • born in Pakistan
  • born abroad to a Pakistani
  • naturalised after having resided in Pakistan for at least 5 years

Why do you think it can't be done? And what is the obsession with Pakistanis?

Chiaseedling · 03/10/2025 11:13

Of course it does. As a Jewish person coming back from a heavily guarded synagogue yesterday to see the news about the attack I was so sad and angry.
Antisemitism is going unchecked - pro-Palestinian marches every weekend, and even during the week, taking police away from their duties (our local area has had shop/cafe windows smashed every night and it’s a ‘nice’ area).
Personally I feel intimidated by the marches - yes I have compassion for innocent Palestinians but not those who support Hamas and who want to see 9 million Israelis washed in to the sea, why do they think the state of Israel was created? Why are people so obsessed with Jews when we are a tiny minority in the UK?

nomas · 03/10/2025 11:14

CleopatraSelene · 03/10/2025 11:05

Do most Muslims go to secular schools then?

Yes, Google says over 95% of British Muslim children are educated in state-funded secular schools.

Onmytod24 · 03/10/2025 11:15

EasternStandard · 03/10/2025 11:11

It was a terrorist attack. This take doesn’t work.

I’ll await the police’s verdict. But I’m not sure of the definition can alone actor still be a terrorist attack I don’t know.

Juniperberry55 · 03/10/2025 11:16

Honish · 03/10/2025 11:05

Exactly. And a Pakistani woman can have arrived last year and be birthing her baby today.. and mumsnet will tell me her baby is british, some will even specify english/welsh/scottish/irish depending on specific geographical location. But if I, a white woman, had been born and raised Pakistan.. no one would ever consider me Pakistani? Britain, America, many countries of Europe are places where you can suddenly belong to race that you share no DNA or history with. And any questioning is hatred or racist. But how would I go about becoming Pakistani? How do I go about it? It can't be done. English have been conditioned to believe their entire race and heritage, as well as being oppressive colonisers with tasteless food, is nothing but legal papers and economic zones.

There is a difference between nationality and ethnicity. I could have a baby in Pakistan and raise them there and they could be Pakistani as far as nationality is concerned, ethnicity would obviously be white, because of genetics.
Do you think a black person could never consider themselves English if they are born and raised here? How many generations need to be in a country before you consider them that nationality
If I had a child in Germany , I would imagine they would consider themselves German. I'm guessing that would be okay with you as Germans are also white, even though I have no German ancestry as far back as I can see?

NCReceptor · 03/10/2025 11:16

Onmytod24 · 03/10/2025 11:06

It was atrocious act of violence, it got full coverage on the news as it should do but politicians are using it and you are being used. Right now, we know nothing about the man no police history that’s all. Is he part of a huge big plot against Jewish people or is he a man acting on it alone? We don’t know at the moment.

It is difficult to know what first led people to suspect that a Syrian born man named Jihad al Shamie was likely a jihadi terrorist.

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