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Reform voters may not be racist but they are at least dangerously naive

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ChocolateMagnum · 29/09/2025 08:00

AIBU to accept that some Reform voters may not actually be racist, but to be pretty certain that, if they're not, they are at the very least dangerously naive?

I thought we all got taught at school about how fascism took over in 1939s Germany? And there's so much out there at the moment showing why we are at a dangerous turning point in history again.

Why is it that the so-called non-racist Reform voters not see that they are aligning themselves with a covertly racist and fascist-leaning party and that their support risks tipping the balance towards a fascist dictatorship in the UK?

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InsectsMatter · 29/09/2025 11:29

Another patronising, goady and snobbish post from a very superior person.

OP, when can we anticipate a post from you insisting that “diversity is our strength”?

EasternStandard · 29/09/2025 11:29

Bumblebee72 · 29/09/2025 11:24

Women on MN say others lack critical thinking, rather than saying they think they are stupid purely as MNHQ remove the later as personal attacks.

It’s nonsense anyway. Most western countries are mid tussle over immigration. Politicians might not like it but voters are putting on pressure. All the lack of critical thinking / populism stuff is the status quo concern against pushback.

Bumblebee72 · 29/09/2025 11:29

Here4the · 29/09/2025 11:27

Glad to see a few other people on this thread who are just politically homeless and deeply concerned too.

I don't plan to vote reform because I think there are too many parallels with the rise of various deeply unpleasant dictators. I'm also deeply worried about the current state of the country, including the kind of immigration I am seeing and the country we are creating for our children. I'm actually pro immigration provided those immigrating hold key values (democracy, womens' and LGBT rights, education, etc.), integrate, and contribute to the community whether through taxes mostly or pillar of the community type behaviour.

Which party can I vote for? Because so far all of them stand against one of my key concerns.

Love it! Your pro immigration as long as they are people like you.

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 29/09/2025 11:30

snughugs · 29/09/2025 08:44

I think a lot of people don’t love Reform, but they have the common sense to realise we can’t be importing the third world and paying for them to be housed and on benefits. That’s the reality, we have either been importing cheap Eastern European labour, who did work but the vast majority were paid top off of tax credits or universal credit or their rent, they were not net contributors once their top benefits were added. Now we are importing from poor from backward countries. Don’t be so complacent to think this won’t seriously cause damage to our country. The poor will be affected the most. A huge amount of Muslims have been imported you won’t be so virtual signalling when women’s rights get eroded in the next 30 years and we become like Iran. What do you think will happen in 20/30 years if we continue like this? Don’t give me they’ll be working my friends work in benefits the women don’t work, have lots of kids and the men do uber for just 16 hours a week they can maximise their benefits. Please tell me where your naivety thinks this will end if nothing is done?

I don’t think those that are in the left/labour are listening to this and understanding this is what is concerning people.
I could be mean and say they don’t care because they think it won’t affect them, but they really need to understand this instead of just trying to criticise anyone who is unhappy with immigration and/or is going to vote reform.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 11:32

EasternStandard · 29/09/2025 11:24

Are you sure? Why are other countries still in the EU facing the same pressures? Which of those countries have lowered the numbers, take a look at borders

The difference is that we can now no longer count on any cooperation from France at all to stop people crossing the channel in small boats.

HedwigEliza · 29/09/2025 11:33

PandoraSocks · 29/09/2025 11:28

Oh. OK. So FB post I found was wrong. But even so, no evidence that he planned to eat it as per Farage's rhetoric.

Thank you for clarifying that the man was not, in fact, rescuing the swan.

‘Today a Cambridgeshire Police spokesperson said a man in his 30s from Peterborough has been given a community resolution in relation to this, with conditions to donate £100 to the Swan Sanctuary charity and participate in a Thinking Skills course.’

Swiftie1878 · 29/09/2025 11:34

ChocolateMagnum · 29/09/2025 08:29

  1. I'm not saying people can't have an opinion
  2. I also haven't said that they are necessarily wrong in worrying about immigration
  3. I also haven't said that the main political parties are getting it right

What I've said is that Reform and all that goes along with it, is a slippery slope and I think people who trust that they are the answer are dangerously naive.

Yet you don’t see that this sort of rhetoric is what is driving people into Reform’s arms?

No one is debating them. No one is picking apart their arguments and thought processes.
All anyone is doing is calling them racist, fascist, naive, stupid, uneducated, violent, thugs, rapists, wife-beaters, the list goes on.

I’ve read umpteen threads on here about Reform, and not a single one of them has put forward counter-arguments. They’ve all just expressed fear and loathing. Way to go, MN!

Marshmallow4545 · 29/09/2025 11:35

Bumblebee72 · 29/09/2025 11:29

Love it! Your pro immigration as long as they are people like you.

What is wrong with that? We have to live together as a cohesive and collaborative society. How can this be done with people that fundamentally oppose our core values? If we fir example fundamentally believe that men and women are equal and shouldn't be denied opportunities on the basis of their sex then how is this compatible in anyway with someone that believes women are inferior and should be denied the most basic of rights. How do we deal with children born into families with these beliefs when we would view the treatment of their daughters as child abuse?

BundleBoogie · 29/09/2025 11:36

ChocolateMagnum · 29/09/2025 10:56

Hang on, this is good. Opposition is a vital part of democracy and I support it wholeheartedly. But I have seen no evidence to suggest that Reform, if in power, wouldn't move away from that model and move closer to fascism. In fact, all the evidence suggests they would.

I agree that talking and a strong opposition is good. That’s partly how we’re in this mess - the Conservatives obviously didn’t do well but they desperately needed a good opposition and Labour were terrible at it. Now they’re in power and finding out it’s not as easy as they thought it would be, after carping from the sidelines for years.

What actual policies that Reform have would you say are indicative of fascism?

Their biggest policy atm seems to be on the ILR and the government have just adopted much of their ideas. Do we also have a Labour government that is moving towards fascism?

charliehungerford · 29/09/2025 11:37

mugglewump · 29/09/2025 10:16

In the western world we do not have a sustainable birthrate. Our economies need an average of 2 children per family to provide suppficient working adults to support those of pensionable age. However, we are currently running somewhere between 1 and 1.5 children per family. We need immigration to keep our economy going. I don't think this is too hard to understand so why are people thinking immigrants are the problem? Even those protesting they are not racist, must be so heart to allow themselves to be so misguided.

Why do we need immigration to sustain our population? Why do we have a falling birth rate? Wouldn’t it be more sustainable to incentivise our young people to have children, this could be done by improving affordable access to childcare, or transference of full personal tax allowances between parents to support one of them to stay home until children are at school. I have two adult children in their 30’s, neither of which are ever likely to have children as they can’t get on the property ladder in London/South East as they are spending half their salaries on renting (£1800 a month for a tiny two bed house just inside the M25). They don’t feel they have the financial security to bring a child into the world. We need to think outside the box, just importing people from abroad is not a long term solution.

EasternStandard · 29/09/2025 11:37

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 11:32

The difference is that we can now no longer count on any cooperation from France at all to stop people crossing the channel in small boats.

Obviously that’s not true. Drones, surveillance, police in riot gear. The French did a few photo ops with tear gas and knifing boats but there’s no way this kind of force should fall to them.

Any EU country that has lowered numbers has used barriers at their borders. Nothing to do with the EU or Brexit, more outside that.

Here4the · 29/09/2025 11:38

Bumblebee72 · 29/09/2025 11:29

Love it! Your pro immigration as long as they are people like you.

Pretty much, yes. Not least because an awful lot of the immigrants I know and like have come here to get away from somewhere worse and bringing the problems they tried to escape would be totally counterproductive.

Absentosaur · 29/09/2025 11:38

HedwigEliza · 29/09/2025 08:09

No, they’re not all thick and uneducated. You’re not morally or intellectually superior OP. And they may have other historical reference points than the lazy comparisons to 1930’s Germany.

Yes. The ‘so-called’ bit in the OP gave you away @ChocolateMagnum

PandoraSocks · 29/09/2025 11:38

Marshmallow4545 · 29/09/2025 11:35

What is wrong with that? We have to live together as a cohesive and collaborative society. How can this be done with people that fundamentally oppose our core values? If we fir example fundamentally believe that men and women are equal and shouldn't be denied opportunities on the basis of their sex then how is this compatible in anyway with someone that believes women are inferior and should be denied the most basic of rights. How do we deal with children born into families with these beliefs when we would view the treatment of their daughters as child abuse?

How do we deal with children born into families with these beliefs when we would view the treatment of their daughters as child abuse?

That is a very strong assertion. What exactly do you mean?

ChippyDale · 29/09/2025 11:38

HedwigEliza · 29/09/2025 08:09

No, they’re not all thick and uneducated. You’re not morally or intellectually superior OP. And they may have other historical reference points than the lazy comparisons to 1930’s Germany.

I disagree. I think anyone who doesn't see millionaire Farage as a big fat racist is completely thick.

MrsSkylerWhite · 29/09/2025 11:39

Midnightlove · 29/09/2025 11:22

We do.. the nhs isn't working. I'd rather pay private and actually get a decent care

And those who can’t will do what, exactly?

MrsSkylerWhite · 29/09/2025 11:40

ChippyDale · 29/09/2025 11:38

I disagree. I think anyone who doesn't see millionaire Farage as a big fat racist is completely thick.

I agree. That they believe he will actually stick around in the UK and work as PM should Reform win is laughable.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 11:41

EasternStandard · 29/09/2025 11:37

Obviously that’s not true. Drones, surveillance, police in riot gear. The French did a few photo ops with tear gas and knifing boats but there’s no way this kind of force should fall to them.

Any EU country that has lowered numbers has used barriers at their borders. Nothing to do with the EU or Brexit, more outside that.

Macron has 18 months left as President. Do you really think any of the candidates who might replace him are going to be interested in stopping migrants they don't want in France from travelling to the UK?

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 11:41

ChippyDale · 29/09/2025 11:38

I disagree. I think anyone who doesn't see millionaire Farage as a big fat racist is completely thick.

Well he's not big or fat. But otherwise, spot on.

Marshmallow4545 · 29/09/2025 11:43

PandoraSocks · 29/09/2025 11:38

How do we deal with children born into families with these beliefs when we would view the treatment of their daughters as child abuse?

That is a very strong assertion. What exactly do you mean?

If a daughter was being denied fundamental freedoms and rights in our country because they were female then this could be considered child abuse. For example, if they were forced to take part in child marriage, denied an education or even physically abused.

BundleBoogie · 29/09/2025 11:44

DoinFineIThink · 29/09/2025 10:57

having to walk past these large groups of men who state at them pointing and talking together in a foreign language as they pass by
I'm not saying that wouldn't be uncomfortable if you have to walk past a large group of men as that can sometimes be intimidating.
Why if they're not speaking English is it seen as threatening though? It's just speech. 😕
It's comments like that that people think tip over into some kind of prejudice, that they're being judged if they're just standing around and talking.

So you are trying to imply it’s racist to point out that it’s rude and intimidating especially when they are clearly talking about the teenage girls walking past? Seriously?

Some people may have lost all concept of what a successful society entails - common language, common values like not being rude to people (drastically undermined in recent years for *reasons), not hanging around as an intimidating group of men speaking a foreign language, but the rest of us haven’t.

StandFirm · 29/09/2025 11:45

CurlewKate · 29/09/2025 11:26

Can you provide any attribution to those pictures? And if so, why didn’t Farage produce them when James O’Brian asked him for evidence when he made the swan eating claim on LBC recently?

Yeah...
"They're eating the pets!" Sounds familiar...

EasternStandard · 29/09/2025 11:46

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 11:41

Macron has 18 months left as President. Do you really think any of the candidates who might replace him are going to be interested in stopping migrants they don't want in France from travelling to the UK?

Is that you realising yes the French do do a lot now. Switch to this.

And of course it could change, it probably will a fair bit, still nothing to do with Brexit or not.

PandoraSocks · 29/09/2025 11:47

Marshmallow4545 · 29/09/2025 11:43

If a daughter was being denied fundamental freedoms and rights in our country because they were female then this could be considered child abuse. For example, if they were forced to take part in child marriage, denied an education or even physically abused.

All those things are illegal here. So families coming here would and do accept living under our laws.

There will be a minority who will break those laws, but child abuse is not confined to people of one particular culture, is it?

HedwigEliza · 29/09/2025 11:47

StandFirm · 29/09/2025 11:45

Yeah...
"They're eating the pets!" Sounds familiar...

‘Today a Cambridgeshire Police spokesperson said a man in his 30s from Peterborough has been given a community resolution in relation to this, with conditions to donate £100 to the Swan Sanctuary charity and participate in a Thinking Skills course.’

The man in question, pictured in CCTV:

www.peterboroughtoday.co.uk/news/crime/man-given-community-resolution-after-reports-of-swan-attack-at-peterborough-embankment-4390669?fbclid=IwY2xjawNHPR9leHRuA2FlbQIxMQABHhA91x4YsZJIzkns0_wfmXmy0aEAZosnWKLGSP0CYcWIFXMTQBhBDu3lbL7j_aem_A5eeT2TEN0BzYEiQBT4QYQ

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