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Reform voters may not be racist but they are at least dangerously naive

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ChocolateMagnum · 29/09/2025 08:00

AIBU to accept that some Reform voters may not actually be racist, but to be pretty certain that, if they're not, they are at the very least dangerously naive?

I thought we all got taught at school about how fascism took over in 1939s Germany? And there's so much out there at the moment showing why we are at a dangerous turning point in history again.

Why is it that the so-called non-racist Reform voters not see that they are aligning themselves with a covertly racist and fascist-leaning party and that their support risks tipping the balance towards a fascist dictatorship in the UK?

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Toastandbutterand · 29/09/2025 15:14

rwalker · 29/09/2025 15:06

I doubt very much that would happen
look At what labour and tories said they’d do
how much of that happened

They have said they will do it.

That very fact confirms they are racist. Please do not vote for an openly racist party if you are not racist.

hamstersarse · 29/09/2025 15:18

Goldenbear · 29/09/2025 14:56

Labour won the 2024 election with a massive majority this would be the case all over the country, are you honestly arguing that Labour voters were/are all naive.

Quite a lot of people pointed out how utterly vacuous, ineffective and dishonest Kier Starmer was priort to the election, but so many people naively assumed that he was just a 'nice guy'

It was extreme naivity to think that just because he looks like a geek, he was one. He is monstrous, much worse than Farage will ever be.

StandFirm · 29/09/2025 15:19

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 29/09/2025 15:12

I don’t want to be rude but I don’t think you understand what she has written.
You are coming from a place of having a choice and laws and civility which is naive if you believe that against this person’s words.

I don't think you understood what I wrote. We are in the UK, not Turkey. I know what happened in Turkey, which has a completely different culture and history. I believe the poster is concerned about the influence of Islamism however my points still stand. We have to keep religion out of politics.

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 29/09/2025 15:19

Goldenbear · 29/09/2025 15:13

It's the system we had/have though, just because Reform were a bit crap and like to play victim, it doesn't mean they have a valid point, they don't.

They don't in your opinion. Your opinion is shared among others. But as the saying goes; opinions are like armpits, everyone has them and they all stink.

If Reform wins, which is likely given how far ahead they are in the polls, then it is what it is. I might well be wrong and they lose miserably. Let's see what happens. I personally don't like Reform, especially after how they treated Rupert Lowe. They should have had the integrity to sack him but instead they shopped him to the police like the petulant, gutless idiots that they are.

Marshmallow4545 · 29/09/2025 15:19

Unrulyscrumptious · 29/09/2025 15:04

And if they're not? You have a really naive worldview if you think that the gaps in industries are going to be filled by everyone that's economically inactive. @MissScarletInTheBallroom made a relevant point that many women stay at home to look after their children, partly driven by the costs of childcare. Most of these women aren't claiming benefits or if they are it's to keep their NI contributions up, they're not going to suddenly go back to full time work just because they can't claim child benefit anymore. Most of the jobs we need filling aren't ones that can work around school hours so your school aged children point doesn't make any sense. Even if they were forced back into work by your genius plan, people can't do jobs they aren't qualified or trained for. Unless you have some stats about the % of our of work people that have their care certificate sitting idle, you have no point.

This is such a strange post.

Lots of mothers work and raise children. The childcare argument is normally only relevant for the first 5 years of a child's life, even less if you're eligible for free hours.

Why are you so desperate to write millions of people off? People can retrain and upskill, especially in sectors like care. We can look at making work more flexible and accessible. We don't need to jump to the assumption that millions upon millions of British people are completely incapable of working and we need to import labour from elsewhere.

Goldenbear · 29/09/2025 15:21

Gruffporcupine · 29/09/2025 15:08

It's not so hard to review policies on their own merit and detatch them from spats grounded in nothing but left/right purity politics. Not on anyone's team.

Labour have literally announced an almost identical set of policies about ILTR. Are they proto-fascist too now? It's just hysterical

I don't think Labour should copy Reform and I think Starmer finally made a good decision to state what they actually thought of Reform. Reform are dangerous in a way that the Labour party are never going to be, it is disingenuous to suggest they are of equal merit.

hamstersarse · 29/09/2025 15:22

Reform want to retrospectively change the law on immigration. They are openly saying they will do it and that they can.
This leaves every single resident of the UK open to having their human rights removed. It is deathly serious.

Why are Reform haters so dramatic?

Every single resident of the UK? And then to go on about misinformation in the next breath. It's comical.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 15:23

Marshmallow4545 · 29/09/2025 15:19

This is such a strange post.

Lots of mothers work and raise children. The childcare argument is normally only relevant for the first 5 years of a child's life, even less if you're eligible for free hours.

Why are you so desperate to write millions of people off? People can retrain and upskill, especially in sectors like care. We can look at making work more flexible and accessible. We don't need to jump to the assumption that millions upon millions of British people are completely incapable of working and we need to import labour from elsewhere.

Yes but some of them don't want to.

How do you plan to force them?

PandoraSocks · 29/09/2025 15:25

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 29/09/2025 15:06

In 2024 Labour 'won' on 20% of the vote share. More precisely 20% of the eligible voting population. They won on 9.7 million votes.

Let's add some perspective:

Starmer 'won' on 500,000 fewer votes than Jeremy Corbyn got in 2019 and 3 million fewer votes than Jeremy Corbyn got in 2017, and both of those years Corbyn lost.

I think what I'm trying to get at here is that the First Past The Post system doesn't work anymore. Yet for some reason, nobody wants to change it. I wonder why that is.

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I agree we need PR for Westminster elections.

It would be a big change as I think most countries with PR end up with coalitions as it is almost impossible for one party to have a majority (happy to be corrected though as am not an expert!).

I am in Wales and we have PR for our elections in 2026. At the moment PC and Reform are neck and neck and a PC/Labour coalition is looking likely. PC won't work with Reform, and a Reform/Tory coalition wouldn't have a majority.

I am not sure Reform would want to switch to PR for this reason. It could probably only govern within a coalition and that would negate its claims to not be part of the political establishment etc.

Toastandbutterand · 29/09/2025 15:26

hamstersarse · 29/09/2025 15:22

Reform want to retrospectively change the law on immigration. They are openly saying they will do it and that they can.
This leaves every single resident of the UK open to having their human rights removed. It is deathly serious.

Why are Reform haters so dramatic?

Every single resident of the UK? And then to go on about misinformation in the next breath. It's comical.

They have openly said they will retrospectively change the law on people's preestablished legal rights.

What makes you think you aren't next?

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 29/09/2025 15:27

PandoraSocks · 29/09/2025 15:25

I agree we need PR for Westminster elections.

It would be a big change as I think most countries with PR end up with coalitions as it is almost impossible for one party to have a majority (happy to be corrected though as am not an expert!).

I am in Wales and we have PR for our elections in 2026. At the moment PC and Reform are neck and neck and a PC/Labour coalition is looking likely. PC won't work with Reform, and a Reform/Tory coalition wouldn't have a majority.

I am not sure Reform would want to switch to PR for this reason. It could probably only govern within a coalition and that would negate its claims to not be part of the political establishment etc.

Hasn't Wales always been Labour? I don't recall any other party ever winning there.

Goldenbear · 29/09/2025 15:28

hamstersarse · 29/09/2025 15:22

Reform want to retrospectively change the law on immigration. They are openly saying they will do it and that they can.
This leaves every single resident of the UK open to having their human rights removed. It is deathly serious.

Why are Reform haters so dramatic?

Every single resident of the UK? And then to go on about misinformation in the next breath. It's comical.

States the poster who literally just made out Starmer, in all seriousness, to be as sinister as Lex Luthor!

hamstersarse · 29/09/2025 15:31

Toastandbutterand · 29/09/2025 15:26

They have openly said they will retrospectively change the law on people's preestablished legal rights.

What makes you think you aren't next?

Like I said, so dramatic

Why do you feel the need to dramatise everything?

If you think Nigel Farage is the same as Hitler, I can't help you

PandoraSocks · 29/09/2025 15:32

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 29/09/2025 15:27

Hasn't Wales always been Labour? I don't recall any other party ever winning there.

Yes. But as I said, we have full PR coming in from 2026, which will change things. The current system is a mix of PR and FPTP and will cease to exist.

Unrulyscrumptious · 29/09/2025 15:35

Marshmallow4545 · 29/09/2025 15:19

This is such a strange post.

Lots of mothers work and raise children. The childcare argument is normally only relevant for the first 5 years of a child's life, even less if you're eligible for free hours.

Why are you so desperate to write millions of people off? People can retrain and upskill, especially in sectors like care. We can look at making work more flexible and accessible. We don't need to jump to the assumption that millions upon millions of British people are completely incapable of working and we need to import labour from elsewhere.

I'm not writing them off because I'm not sitting here being naive that everyone out of work is sitting on their arse. Many are already engaged in caring for the children or family members, they do not have the time to work. Others have disabilities that prevent them from being able to do a lot of jobs. Others can afford not to work so good luck forcing them to do work they don't need to do. Are there a minority of able bodied people with no responsibilities sitting on their arse? Probably, but they aren't actually entitled to many benefits if that's the case. Who's going to pay for them to be trained and upskilled? I'm sure you're also aware that care wages are so low that many working in the care industries and the NHS have to claim benefits on top of their wages. I'm all for people being encouraged towards employment but into positions caring for vulnerable people? No

Lots of mothers work and raise children. The childcare argument is normally only relevant for the first 5 years of a child's life, even less if you're eligible for free hours

My mind is boggling at you typing this. You know working mothers pay for childcare right...? What exactly do you think a 5 year old does when school is finished at 3.30 and their parents are at work? They go into childcare, silly. Otherwise a parent needs a flexible school hours job, of which care work doesn't provide much of!

1dayatatime · 29/09/2025 15:36

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 14:53

Where on earth are you getting those figures from?

Happy to provide the source:

The Office of National Statistics (ONS), dataset INAC01 SA (by reason).

What figures did you base your statement on that "a lot of the economically inactive are stay at home mothers "?

hamstersarse · 29/09/2025 15:37

Goldenbear · 29/09/2025 15:28

States the poster who literally just made out Starmer, in all seriousness, to be as sinister as Lex Luthor!

He is very very sinister - the man has no values, no honesty, and no one can really tell me what he stands for.

I didn't however say he is like Hitler - even though I probably would if I were on the left given his record in jailing people for their opinions

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 15:37

hamstersarse · 29/09/2025 15:31

Like I said, so dramatic

Why do you feel the need to dramatise everything?

If you think Nigel Farage is the same as Hitler, I can't help you

I don't think he's as clever as Hitler, but if you think Nigel Farage will safeguard your human rights just because you have the right colour passport, I'm not sure what to say.

hamstersarse · 29/09/2025 15:38

Toastandbutterand · 29/09/2025 15:26

They have openly said they will retrospectively change the law on people's preestablished legal rights.

What makes you think you aren't next?

What makes me think I won't be next?

Gee, I don't know. I'm not an immigrant. Something like that.....maybe?

IAmThePrettiestManOnMyIsland · 29/09/2025 15:39

And this dismissive attitude towards Reform voters is shared by MPs and is why the country on a knife edge.

1dayatatime · 29/09/2025 15:39

1dayatatime · 29/09/2025 15:36

Happy to provide the source:

The Office of National Statistics (ONS), dataset INAC01 SA (by reason).

What figures did you base your statement on that "a lot of the economically inactive are stay at home mothers "?

@MissScarletInTheBallroom

Look I'll make it easier for you, when the left lose the argument based on facts and figures the fail safe fall back option is to call the opposing side a racist or a fascist etc etc.

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 29/09/2025 15:43

hamstersarse · 29/09/2025 15:37

He is very very sinister - the man has no values, no honesty, and no one can really tell me what he stands for.

I didn't however say he is like Hitler - even though I probably would if I were on the left given his record in jailing people for their opinions

I think Starmer might be a psychopath. I'm not a psychologist and I have no medical credentials, however, he said before how he doesn't dream, doesn't have thoughts and there was an implication that he doesn't even have an inner monologue, like an internal voice. These are all hallmarks of a psychopath. Like when you read, there's always a voice in your head you read in (at least that is the case with me, I find it hard to get peace and quiet in my head most times). It's creepy. The man creeps me out.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 15:43

1dayatatime · 29/09/2025 15:36

Happy to provide the source:

The Office of National Statistics (ONS), dataset INAC01 SA (by reason).

What figures did you base your statement on that "a lot of the economically inactive are stay at home mothers "?

Ah, I see what has happened. At some point during the conversation the goalposts were moved from "unemployed" to "economically inactive".

The relevant figure here is "unemployed", and the number is 1.67 million, or around 4%.

It is a low figure compared to most other countries.

Although I'm sure many of those people are actively looking for work and suitably qualified to do something, that doesn't mean they are suitably qualified to fill the posts that are actually available.

The problem with setting an income threshold for immigrants is that most of the vacancies we actually need to fill do not pay £60k but do require people with specific skills.

If you want to pluck some useless twit off his mum's sofa, take away his PlayStation and force him to become a teacher or to take care of vulnerable adults, that's a bit concerning.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 15:45

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 29/09/2025 15:43

I think Starmer might be a psychopath. I'm not a psychologist and I have no medical credentials, however, he said before how he doesn't dream, doesn't have thoughts and there was an implication that he doesn't even have an inner monologue, like an internal voice. These are all hallmarks of a psychopath. Like when you read, there's always a voice in your head you read in (at least that is the case with me, I find it hard to get peace and quiet in my head most times). It's creepy. The man creeps me out.

😂

You could have stopped after the first 17 words of that post.

Unrulyscrumptious · 29/09/2025 15:48

1dayatatime · 29/09/2025 15:39

@MissScarletInTheBallroom

Look I'll make it easier for you, when the left lose the argument based on facts and figures the fail safe fall back option is to call the opposing side a racist or a fascist etc etc.

I don't see what point you think you're making. Yes there's no official breakdown of that figure between those who are SAHM and those caring for other family members, so what? I don't really see what difference it makes who they're caring for plus I think any one with a relationship.world view would know many women are caring for both their children and other family members. Neither really makes a difference about how you're going to go about forcing them back into work?

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