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Reform voters may not be racist but they are at least dangerously naive

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ChocolateMagnum · 29/09/2025 08:00

AIBU to accept that some Reform voters may not actually be racist, but to be pretty certain that, if they're not, they are at the very least dangerously naive?

I thought we all got taught at school about how fascism took over in 1939s Germany? And there's so much out there at the moment showing why we are at a dangerous turning point in history again.

Why is it that the so-called non-racist Reform voters not see that they are aligning themselves with a covertly racist and fascist-leaning party and that their support risks tipping the balance towards a fascist dictatorship in the UK?

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MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 14:53

1dayatatime · 29/09/2025 14:51

So there are 9.12 million economically inactive people in the UK aged 16-64 or 21.1% of the working population.

Breaking this down by reason:

Long-term sickness: 31% (~2.83 million people; this remains the leading reason and is near record highs.

• Students: 26% (~2.37 million; concentrated among younger age groups).

• Looking after family/home: ~13% (~1.19 million; down significantly since pre-pandemic levels).

• Early Retirement: ~10% (~0.91 million; mostly in the 50-64 group).

• Other reasons (e.g., temporary sickness, discouraged workers): ~20% (~1.82 million)

So in answer to your point very few of the economically inactive are stay at home mothers, because the 13% figure also includes stay at home carers for elderly relatives etc.

Where on earth are you getting those figures from?

Swiftie1878 · 29/09/2025 14:53

Goldenbear · 29/09/2025 14:48

data, facts, the truth not "dat"!

Unfortunately the data is obscured by a worldwide pandemic and a war on European soil. I work in a business that trades significantly with the EU. Additional admin (at the beginning a real pain, but now just part of the routine, similar to trading with the U.S.) has been the only impact.

Uggbootsforever · 29/09/2025 14:54

Marshmallow4545 · 29/09/2025 14:47

Of course there is a prospect of that happening in the UK. When it happens might be up for debate but if current trajectories and population trends continue then over time this will absolutely happen. It is also important to remember that where certain cultures are concentrated in specific areas then this will lead to changes at local level before the national picture changes. This will be particularly relevant to if more powers are devolved from Westminster to regions, cities and towns.

You don't have to sign up to any conspiracy theory to acknowledge this. I find it bizarre how you seem determined to undermine quite legitimate fears and imply that racism must be the underlying sentiment behind people simply pointing out that massive demographic changes will impact a democratic society eventually.

Why do they think this isn’t happening? Are they so entrenched in their privilege of believing this country will always be democratic and equal ‘because it just will’ that they can’t face up to it? Makes me wants to put my head in my hands and weep. No doubt one day they’ll wonder ‘why nobody saw this coming, the numbers were obvious’

Marshmallow4545 · 29/09/2025 14:54

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 14:39

A lot of those economically inactive people are stay at home mums. Would you force them back into work?

This is a small minority in the statistics. If the SAHMs are mums of school aged children then yes, ideally they should work. Why not? This is especially true if they are relying on state support to stay at home

Unrulyscrumptious · 29/09/2025 14:55

Bumblebee72 · 29/09/2025 14:14

With the people who do not currently work. It is not that difficult. We do not need to import labour in order for Brits to sit at home.

I think we all remember the absolutely disaster of pick for Britain. You can't force our of work people into jobs they aren't qualified or capable for. Caring for vulnerable people isn't a role we should be talking about so blithely.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 14:56

Marshmallow4545 · 29/09/2025 14:54

This is a small minority in the statistics. If the SAHMs are mums of school aged children then yes, ideally they should work. Why not? This is especially true if they are relying on state support to stay at home

Right, but there are people who choose to stay at home because they don't want to work and they don't need to work because their partner earns enough to support the family.

How do you plan to force them to wipe people's bums?

Goldenbear · 29/09/2025 14:56

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 29/09/2025 14:47

Can't anyone just let people vote how they want? No, because then there might be a glimpse of democracy. Have to bully others into voting a certain way.

If Reform voters are naive, then what the sodding hell are Labour voters or Tory voters after everything that's happened? Goodness me!

Edited

Labour won the 2024 election with a massive majority this would be the case all over the country, are you honestly arguing that Labour voters were/are all naive.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 14:56

Unrulyscrumptious · 29/09/2025 14:55

I think we all remember the absolutely disaster of pick for Britain. You can't force our of work people into jobs they aren't qualified or capable for. Caring for vulnerable people isn't a role we should be talking about so blithely.

Exactly this.

Goldenbear · 29/09/2025 14:58

Uggbootsforever · 29/09/2025 14:54

Why do they think this isn’t happening? Are they so entrenched in their privilege of believing this country will always be democratic and equal ‘because it just will’ that they can’t face up to it? Makes me wants to put my head in my hands and weep. No doubt one day they’ll wonder ‘why nobody saw this coming, the numbers were obvious’

Do you understand data. That's rhetorical by the way.

Goldenbear · 29/09/2025 15:01

Swiftie1878 · 29/09/2025 14:53

Unfortunately the data is obscured by a worldwide pandemic and a war on European soil. I work in a business that trades significantly with the EU. Additional admin (at the beginning a real pain, but now just part of the routine, similar to trading with the U.S.) has been the only impact.

Do you, that's almost unbelievable. Yes so did I as do most of my colleagues, husband and friends, sadly a bit of extra admin has not been the only detrimental impact of Brexit. Understatement of the year!!

AnotherForumUser · 29/09/2025 15:03

xSideshowAuntSallyXx · 29/09/2025 13:33

Everyone harping back to Brexit. It was 15 years ago, we should have sorted it out by now. Not still dealing with it 15 years later.

Had Remainers not dragged their feet it probably would have been sorted by now but we had various PMs trying to get things through parliament and meeting resistance. People going to court to try and get the result overturned because it didn't go their way. We had Cameron resigning like a child because he didn't get his way. All wasting time.

Instead of actually dealing with things we spent years fighting each other.

Will we still he blaming Brexit for successive government failings in 20 years time?!

Why are you lying? The referendum for Brexit took place on 23 June 2016. That's almost 9 years 3 months ago (assuming today's date is 29 September 2025). We then departed the EU on 31 January 2020. That's almost 5 years 8 months ago. In what universe are either of those dates fifteen fucking years ago? You know arguing about the merits of Brexit is one thing. Lying about when it happened when it's so fucking easy to check just makes you look desperate.

BundleBoogie · 29/09/2025 15:03

PandoraSocks · 29/09/2025 14:39

If you think about democracy, when another culture becomes the majority then it is possible that they vote in leaders that impose rules that represent their culture and not the native culture

Yes, but there is no prospect of that happening in the UK. I know there are some people who believe in the anti-semetic Great Replacement conspiracy theory, but conspiracy theories are just that.

That is a very arrogant and potentially misguided view

Some Muslim groups have clearly stated an aim to take over. Postal voting controlled by community leaders, voter apathy and block voting have given Muslims a disproportionate voice in society.

The Muslim Council of Britain works closely with the government and appears to have influence where we don’t see the same level of influence from other similar sized groups. They are even getting to define ‘Islamophobia’ in order to have a chilling effect on criticism of undesirable practices.

In the past Keir Starmer has actually acted FOR an extremist group. Is he biased? I know there is a cab rank system on cases for barristers but he seems to have gone above and beyond here.

From the article:

Sir Keir Starmer acted on behalf of an extremist Islamist group seeking to overturn a ban imposed on its activities in Germany, The Sunday Telegraph can disclose.
The Labour leader led a team of lawyers claiming that Berlin’s prohibition of Hizb ut-Tahrir breached the group’s rights to freedom of religion and expression.
The KC submitted an application to the European Court of Human Rights (ECHR) in June 2008, a year after the Conservatives first began demanding that the Labour government ban the group. David Cameron told the Commons that the group had called for Jews to be killed “wherever they are found”, and was “poisoning the minds of young people” – claims denied by Hizb ut-Tahrir.

www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2023/12/16/keir-starmer-represented-extremist-islamist-group/

Unrulyscrumptious · 29/09/2025 15:04

Marshmallow4545 · 29/09/2025 14:54

This is a small minority in the statistics. If the SAHMs are mums of school aged children then yes, ideally they should work. Why not? This is especially true if they are relying on state support to stay at home

And if they're not? You have a really naive worldview if you think that the gaps in industries are going to be filled by everyone that's economically inactive. @MissScarletInTheBallroom made a relevant point that many women stay at home to look after their children, partly driven by the costs of childcare. Most of these women aren't claiming benefits or if they are it's to keep their NI contributions up, they're not going to suddenly go back to full time work just because they can't claim child benefit anymore. Most of the jobs we need filling aren't ones that can work around school hours so your school aged children point doesn't make any sense. Even if they were forced back into work by your genius plan, people can't do jobs they aren't qualified or trained for. Unless you have some stats about the % of our of work people that have their care certificate sitting idle, you have no point.

Toastandbutterand · 29/09/2025 15:05

EasternStandard · 29/09/2025 14:37

Of course posters are real. Just because they don’t vote for Labour or whomever you do it doesn’t mean you can put them down as not real. A look at polling will show you that anyway, it’s more mn that’s giving you a skewed perception.

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None of the people my age that I know that are screaming their support for reform have ever registered to vote.

They actively live off grid. Most of them are criminal, trying to avoid child maintenance, or avoiding debt collectors.

I do know a few well to do elderly people who want to vote reform through work, but as soon as you sit down and chat with them about reforms actual policies they become confused and say Nigel would never allow that.

They have all shown me countless AI photos of hoards of storming brown men coming up the beaches. They have starting showing me videos of swans. They all love the flag.
None of these people I have spoken to seem to support reforms policies, yet they want to vote for good old Nigel. I haven't said anything to them, it would be unethical. I meet them through work. I do my job, have a chat and leave.

I find this incredibly troubling. I think reform are unethical. I think they are purposely lying to people.

As I said earlier, which everyone ignored:

Reform want to retrospectively change the law on immigration. They are openly saying they will do it and that they can.
This leaves every single resident of the UK open to having their human rights removed. It is deathly serious.

If you want a government that addresses any immigration concerns you have, please campaign for that through mps, and do not vote for a party that does not respect you.

Every argument i have seen for reform on social media is steeped in misinformation.

If you actually care, then please actually just Google it. Read a couple of sites. Don't believe the images on any social media. And I include Mumsnet in that. Have a look. Look at who funds those sites.

If you still want to vote reform, then go ahead. That is an informed decision and I respect that you have made it.

But please don't believe anyone on any form of social media. Go out and look yourselves.

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 29/09/2025 15:06

Goldenbear · 29/09/2025 14:56

Labour won the 2024 election with a massive majority this would be the case all over the country, are you honestly arguing that Labour voters were/are all naive.

In 2024 Labour 'won' on 20% of the vote share. More precisely 20% of the eligible voting population. They won on 9.7 million votes.

Let's add some perspective:

Starmer 'won' on 500,000 fewer votes than Jeremy Corbyn got in 2019 and 3 million fewer votes than Jeremy Corbyn got in 2017, and both of those years Corbyn lost.

I think what I'm trying to get at here is that the First Past The Post system doesn't work anymore. Yet for some reason, nobody wants to change it. I wonder why that is.

rwalker · 29/09/2025 15:06

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 14:29

OK but if you vote for Reform, you are voting for all their policies, which includes retrospectively removing ILR from people who have lived in the UK legally for years and thought they had rights.

I doubt very much that would happen
look At what labour and tories said they’d do
how much of that happened

Gruffporcupine · 29/09/2025 15:08

Goldenbear · 29/09/2025 14:51

I have to say, you don't sound convincing when you state that.

It's not so hard to review policies on their own merit and detatch them from spats grounded in nothing but left/right purity politics. Not on anyone's team.

Labour have literally announced an almost identical set of policies about ILTR. Are they proto-fascist too now? It's just hysterical

PandoraSocks · 29/09/2025 15:08

Uggbootsforever · 29/09/2025 14:54

Why do they think this isn’t happening? Are they so entrenched in their privilege of believing this country will always be democratic and equal ‘because it just will’ that they can’t face up to it? Makes me wants to put my head in my hands and weep. No doubt one day they’ll wonder ‘why nobody saw this coming, the numbers were obvious’

A pp said that in 40 years the UK population will be 24% Muslim.

I don't know where the data is from, but even if the prediction came true I am not sure why it makes you want to weep? Why would that mean the UK ceases to be democractic and equal? What is it you fear will happen?

Libre2 · 29/09/2025 15:09

What I don’t understand is why everyone (including this dramatic- and slightly disingenuous “I’m scared, it’s another Hitler” post) is giving them airtime. The more you give it oxygen, the more it gathers momentum. We are 4 years away from a general election. A week is a long time in politics- 4 years is an eternity.

Reform love all this hand wringing, it gives them an even broader platform.

Toastandbutterand · 29/09/2025 15:10

It is also worth noting that the only democratic vote I have ever personally agreed with and been on the side of was

Boaty mcboatface.

Which I think was rejected even though it won.

So do please all do your own research that is NOT on social media.

Uggbootsforever · 29/09/2025 15:10

PandoraSocks · 29/09/2025 15:08

A pp said that in 40 years the UK population will be 24% Muslim.

I don't know where the data is from, but even if the prediction came true I am not sure why it makes you want to weep? Why would that mean the UK ceases to be democractic and equal? What is it you fear will happen?

What has happened in every other Islamic country?

Do women have equal rights? Are people spared inhumane punishment? Are people allowed to openly be LGBT?

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 15:11

rwalker · 29/09/2025 15:06

I doubt very much that would happen
look At what labour and tories said they’d do
how much of that happened

Why would you vote for a party unless you actually think they will do what they say they will?

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 29/09/2025 15:12

StandFirm · 29/09/2025 13:06

Religion has no place in politics. I think that's what poisons the well invariably. Any form of extremism is loathsome, whatever the religion. But again, Reform is not the solution, just a different poison. The real issue is that large portions of working class areas in the UK have been completely neglected so social cohesion has suffered as a result. We won't solve those issues by revoking the rights of people who are already here. We should focus on making sure society is more secular and our institutions more robust. The disgusting behaviour of the Rotherham gangs for example was handled absolutely terribly. Cowardice all round created a lot of resentment. That's more the issue. We must punish crime wherever it stems from. As for Sharia, of course it has no formal place in the UK, nor should it ever do. It's one law for all. Customs and beliefs should be personal and tolerated as long as they fall within the law of the land. All those ideas are held by mainstream parties. I can't see what Reform would do to improve on social cohesion - what I can see is how they stoke hatred and division. Finally, legal immigration is overwhelmingly from students and overseas workers that we badly need in a number of crucial areas. What should we do to fulfil our needs then? Illegal immigration is a very small % overall.

I don’t want to be rude but I don’t think you understand what she has written.
You are coming from a place of having a choice and laws and civility which is naive if you believe that against this person’s words.

PandoraSocks · 29/09/2025 15:13

Uggbootsforever · 29/09/2025 15:10

What has happened in every other Islamic country?

Do women have equal rights? Are people spared inhumane punishment? Are people allowed to openly be LGBT?

24% of the population being Muslim does not result in the UK becoming an Islamic country. How could it?

Goldenbear · 29/09/2025 15:13

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 29/09/2025 15:06

In 2024 Labour 'won' on 20% of the vote share. More precisely 20% of the eligible voting population. They won on 9.7 million votes.

Let's add some perspective:

Starmer 'won' on 500,000 fewer votes than Jeremy Corbyn got in 2019 and 3 million fewer votes than Jeremy Corbyn got in 2017, and both of those years Corbyn lost.

I think what I'm trying to get at here is that the First Past The Post system doesn't work anymore. Yet for some reason, nobody wants to change it. I wonder why that is.

Edited

It's the system we had/have though, just because Reform were a bit crap and like to play victim, it doesn't mean they have a valid point, they don't.

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