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Reform voters may not be racist but they are at least dangerously naive

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ChocolateMagnum · 29/09/2025 08:00

AIBU to accept that some Reform voters may not actually be racist, but to be pretty certain that, if they're not, they are at the very least dangerously naive?

I thought we all got taught at school about how fascism took over in 1939s Germany? And there's so much out there at the moment showing why we are at a dangerous turning point in history again.

Why is it that the so-called non-racist Reform voters not see that they are aligning themselves with a covertly racist and fascist-leaning party and that their support risks tipping the balance towards a fascist dictatorship in the UK?

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Goldenbear · 29/09/2025 14:21

Swiftie1878 · 29/09/2025 13:19

When we were members, open borders were compulsory, so there were no equivalent ’cross-border problems’. Germany, unilaterally, was openly welcoming millions of migrants from across North Africa, documenting them, and then they had the freedom to travel anywhere in the EU. The EU didn’t consider this a problem. We did (remember David Cameron’s attempts to achieve some concessions?), and asked to be allowed to be exempt from it. The EU said No. We left the EU.

Sharing data doesn’t stop boats. And additional administrative demands don’t make working with the EU impossible. The EU doesn’t want to work with us. They never have. That’s why we left.

The economic damage that your "additional administrative demands" have inflicted on the UK are not a small inconvenience, they ensured hugely obstructive trading barriers with our closest trading partner, there was no plan for economic growth, something that is evidently still taking its toll today and we left because people fell for the disruptive, reactionary message of Farage when he lead one of his other parties - UKIP!

Digdongdoo · 29/09/2025 14:21

EasternStandard · 29/09/2025 14:18

Why not? Does it not concern you. Or is it more the politics here that is taking up your interest

Are we all supposed to pick just one thing to be interested in?

Bumblebee72 · 29/09/2025 14:21

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 14:19

No I mean good luck with forcing the very small number of unemployed people in the UK to do jobs they don't want to do and are not qualified to do.

They will be forced to because of the three jobs offers and then no benefits rule.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 14:22

Bumblebee72 · 29/09/2025 14:21

They will be forced to because of the three jobs offers and then no benefits rule.

And how does it benefit the UK to have important jobs done by unqualified British people rather than qualified immigrants?

HelloClouds · 29/09/2025 14:22

Reform control quite a few councils now, don’t they? I’d be interested to know how that’s going.

Perhaps anyone who lives in a Reform-controlled area could let us know?

Almostwelsh · 29/09/2025 14:23

YABU to assume everyone learned about 1930s fascism at school. The national curriculum didn't come in until 2002, so anyone older than about mid thirties may not have done history at all, or if they did it may not have been that era.

I didn't do history at school.

EasternStandard · 29/09/2025 14:24

Digdongdoo · 29/09/2025 14:21

Are we all supposed to pick just one thing to be interested in?

Whatever you want. Someone in France that’s sure they’re doing well, fine crack on.

PhuckTrump · 29/09/2025 14:25

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 14:19

No I mean good luck with forcing the very small number of unemployed people in the UK to do jobs they don't want to do and are not qualified to do.

What’s wrong with Granny having her intimate areas cleaned by a spice-addicted layabout who’s never worked a day in his life (unless you count shoplifting)?

Gruffporcupine · 29/09/2025 14:25

ChocolateMagnum · 29/09/2025 08:29

  1. I'm not saying people can't have an opinion
  2. I also haven't said that they are necessarily wrong in worrying about immigration
  3. I also haven't said that the main political parties are getting it right

What I've said is that Reform and all that goes along with it, is a slippery slope and I think people who trust that they are the answer are dangerously naive.

Can you explain, using specific examples, the parallels between requiring those who choose to migrate to England to learn English, integrate with the communities they've chosen to move into and support themselves financially without recourse to the welfare state – policies that are pretty mild compared with many countries on earth, e.g. China – and 1930s Germany?

Goldenbear · 29/09/2025 14:26

Almostwelsh · 29/09/2025 14:23

YABU to assume everyone learned about 1930s fascism at school. The national curriculum didn't come in until 2002, so anyone older than about mid thirties may not have done history at all, or if they did it may not have been that era.

I didn't do history at school.

I'm mid 40s and I can't recall anyone not studying History at school, I had friends and siblings that went to different schools in different boroughs, were all in London but I can't imagine History never been taught at school. Or do you just mean the history of the rise of the Nazis?

Digdongdoo · 29/09/2025 14:26

PhuckTrump · 29/09/2025 14:25

What’s wrong with Granny having her intimate areas cleaned by a spice-addicted layabout who’s never worked a day in his life (unless you count shoplifting)?

Rather that than a Muslim I guess.

rwalker · 29/09/2025 14:26

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 13:53

That's not an answer to the question that was asked.

I think we all know removing ltr would be a disaster
but that isn’t what we are on about

we absolutely need immigration and allow people to to settle

but we need control of it that’s the point

Marshmallow4545 · 29/09/2025 14:27

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 14:19

No I mean good luck with forcing the very small number of unemployed people in the UK to do jobs they don't want to do and are not qualified to do.

Since when was 1.5 million people a 'very small' number of unemployed people?

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 14:28

Gruffporcupine · 29/09/2025 14:25

Can you explain, using specific examples, the parallels between requiring those who choose to migrate to England to learn English, integrate with the communities they've chosen to move into and support themselves financially without recourse to the welfare state – policies that are pretty mild compared with many countries on earth, e.g. China – and 1930s Germany?

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What does this have to do with Reform's plan to retrospectively remove people's ILR?

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 14:28

Marshmallow4545 · 29/09/2025 14:27

Since when was 1.5 million people a 'very small' number of unemployed people?

For a country the size of the UK, it is.

PhuckTrump · 29/09/2025 14:28

HelloClouds · 29/09/2025 14:22

Reform control quite a few councils now, don’t they? I’d be interested to know how that’s going.

Perhaps anyone who lives in a Reform-controlled area could let us know?

They fight about LGBT flags. 🤷‍♀️

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 14:29

rwalker · 29/09/2025 14:26

I think we all know removing ltr would be a disaster
but that isn’t what we are on about

we absolutely need immigration and allow people to to settle

but we need control of it that’s the point

Edited

OK but if you vote for Reform, you are voting for all their policies, which includes retrospectively removing ILR from people who have lived in the UK legally for years and thought they had rights.

Toastandbutterand · 29/09/2025 14:29

HelloClouds · 29/09/2025 14:22

Reform control quite a few councils now, don’t they? I’d be interested to know how that’s going.

Perhaps anyone who lives in a Reform-controlled area could let us know?

Not well.

The latest one was a big announcement that they'd saved money by not taking disabled kids to school in taxis.

Now they have to sit at home instead.

Big forward thinking plans for the economy there.

Marshmallow4545 · 29/09/2025 14:30

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 14:28

For a country the size of the UK, it is.

It's almost 5% of the working population. It absolutely isn't a small number.

We do need to try and keep a grip on reality when having these debates.

Uggbootsforever · 29/09/2025 14:30

AxMxPfan · 29/09/2025 12:46

OP, I feel exactly as you do. I fear fascism, the erosion of democracy and the decline of our culture… with the twist that I 💯 agree with Reform and believe that people with opinions like yours are the ones being naive. Let me explain why.

I am from Turkey and am from a religious minority group there. In 1993, Islamists attacked and burned down Madimak hotel in Sivas province, killing 37 young intellectuals from my religion who were gathered for a special event. Turkey is a country riddled with sectarian violence and religion plays a big role in this. Christians, Jews and Alevis have managed to live side by side in peace and the Sunnis haven’t. They see us as infidels and constantly seek to gain dominance over us and they have succeeded.
In 1923, Ataturk created the Turkish Republic and one of its tenets was the separation of mosque and government. In fact, it forced modernisation on every citizen by suppressing religion in the hope that people would become secular. It worked for a while but eventually, secular families ended up having fewer children (2-3) from the 60s onwards with the introduction of the contraceptive pill and greater urbanisation. Rural extremist/conservative Muslim families had on average 7 children and their numbers ballooned. They started using democracy to gain national power and in 2002 became the ruling party after years of having Erdogan in the position of Istanbul mayor. They relentlessly pursued power by pretending to be meek and moderate when they were a political minority. When they came to power, they wooed voters with economic growth and development and intimidated secular Muslims by reminding them that they were Muslim first and foremost. They created divisions and polarised the population. When I went to live there in 2010, it was a fragile democracy/anocracy but now Erdogan has consolidated so much power that it’s not even an anocracy, it’s practically a dictatorship. With so much power, they then plundered the country and were very corrupt. Now, the economy is in tatters, with ridiculous inflation decimating people’s incomes.

I grew up in the UK and am grateful for everything in the West but I fear that it will succumb to Islamism. There are already 85
islamic Councils in the UK that ‘advise’ (in the future they would simply dictate) people based on sharia law. Sharia law states that a woman’s testimony is half of a man’s, that adulterers should be stoned, that apostates should be killed…

I don’t think western liberals or lefties can even get their heads around how unbearable it is to live in an Islamic country. Sure, it’s not as bad as North Korea in places like Saudi Arabia or Iran but it’s because people still have the freedom to visit the West and have access to media that connects them to western ideas and thoughts so it’s like having a window that opens whereas North Korea is like living in an underground bunker with an abusive family member with no hope of escape.

There is something fundamentally wrong with Islam and it can never be fixed because it is impossible to reform it due to its own blasphemy laws and customs. In the West, they seek to tie our hands and gag us with the made-up term ‘Islamophobia’. When we criticise it, we are met with anger and hatred from Muslims and a similar reaction from leftists who gaslight us. When we make very compelling, logical arguments against the religion, we’re lied to by ordinary Muslims who practice ‘taqiyya’ to further the cause of Islam. We’re dealing with a slippery eel that refuses to look you straight in the eye and instead attacks and disorients its opponent.

I am betting that this comment will get deleted.

The strange thing is, I’m not against immigration at all. I’m just against immigration from that religion. I voted for Remain because I love Europeans. I have nothing against people from the Far East, Latin America or Africa coming here in the millions and putting a strain on services or bringing their own culture with them… as long as they are not of a religion that wants to destroy the West.

Thank you for sharing your story.

Sadly it will fall on deaf or unwilling ears so far as the ‘left wing, terrified of Reform’ crowd go. They’re privileged and Western - they can’t imagine anything could be worse than Reform (by a long way) because quite simply, they’ve never had to personally experience something that is.

I think their descendants will judge them harshly for allowing hundreds of thousands of men from fascist theocracies to flood in unchecked, because their fore-bearers were so utterly spineless and desperate to prove their left wing credentials they turned a blind eye to what was clearly and blatantly a massive threat to the UK and its way of life.

I utterly judge every last person who refuses to acknowledge this risk because it’s too uncomfortable and hope when the time comes they are held responsible.

StandFirm · 29/09/2025 14:31

PhuckTrump · 29/09/2025 14:28

They fight about LGBT flags. 🤷‍♀️

And ban local press too, right?

Toastandbutterand · 29/09/2025 14:31

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 14:28

What does this have to do with Reform's plan to retrospectively remove people's ILR?

Nothing. I don't think these people are real.

They change the argument as soon as they lose, have you noticed?

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 14:32

Marshmallow4545 · 29/09/2025 14:30

It's almost 5% of the working population. It absolutely isn't a small number.

We do need to try and keep a grip on reality when having these debates.

OK, so you think it's a large number.

A large number compared to what?

What do you think would be a small number?

Bumblebee72 · 29/09/2025 14:34

Toastandbutterand · 29/09/2025 14:31

Nothing. I don't think these people are real.

They change the argument as soon as they lose, have you noticed?

In some ways thats better than the Labour strategy of changing the arguement as soon as you win. Who knew that they were going to after pensioners and the disabled and put up employer NI right away. They said there plan was growth.

Coconutter24 · 29/09/2025 14:35

ChocolateMagnum · 29/09/2025 08:54

Can you explain this? What is the 'other side'? And what are they doing that is fascist?

The biggest shock for me recently was Charlie Kirk’s murder, that was done by a fascist

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