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Reform voters may not be racist but they are at least dangerously naive

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ChocolateMagnum · 29/09/2025 08:00

AIBU to accept that some Reform voters may not actually be racist, but to be pretty certain that, if they're not, they are at the very least dangerously naive?

I thought we all got taught at school about how fascism took over in 1939s Germany? And there's so much out there at the moment showing why we are at a dangerous turning point in history again.

Why is it that the so-called non-racist Reform voters not see that they are aligning themselves with a covertly racist and fascist-leaning party and that their support risks tipping the balance towards a fascist dictatorship in the UK?

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EasternStandard · 29/09/2025 14:11

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 14:09

I am also an immigrant, from the UK to another country.

And the reason it's that way round is because the country I now live in respects our family's right to live together, whereas the UK doesn't.

Are you in France then? Surely you must be concerned about the issues there.

HedwigEliza · 29/09/2025 14:11

Toastandbutterand · 29/09/2025 14:06

It is all kinds of wrong, but some reform voters seem to actively think immigrants should work the shit jobs, pay tax and then just disappear, with no positives to them at all.

Im baffled and have no argument against such supremacist behaviour.

I’ve done it myself.

The positive being that I had several years living in a marvellous place, learned a language, travelled and saw that part of the world, made friends and made money.

I could never have become a citizen, and if I’d been ill or become disabled I wouldn’t have been able to stay, but those were the rules. I certainly didn’t have an absolute right to stay in the country. I could be there if I was working and productive and useful - that’s fair.

JaneEyre40 · 29/09/2025 14:12

Midnightlove · 29/09/2025 14:10

That's not for me to figure out is it

Hahahaha

Bumblebee72 · 29/09/2025 14:12

JaneEyre40 · 29/09/2025 13:52

Idiotic. So goodbye teachers and nurses yeah?

Why don't you think British people are capable of being nurses and teachers?

HedwigEliza · 29/09/2025 14:12

EasternStandard · 29/09/2025 14:11

Are you in France then? Surely you must be concerned about the issues there.

Is this the poster who said on another thread her husband might be stopped at border control in the UK?

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 14:13

Bumblebee72 · 29/09/2025 14:12

Why don't you think British people are capable of being nurses and teachers?

Some of them are. But there aren't enough of them.

Bumblebee72 · 29/09/2025 14:14

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 13:54

I've no idea who they think is going to fill the ever increasing number of vacancies in care homes.

With the people who do not currently work. It is not that difficult. We do not need to import labour in order for Brits to sit at home.

EasternStandard · 29/09/2025 14:14

HedwigEliza · 29/09/2025 14:12

Is this the poster who said on another thread her husband might be stopped at border control in the UK?

No idea but the focus seems to be on here when France has plenty of its own stuff to worry about.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 14:14

EasternStandard · 29/09/2025 14:11

Are you in France then? Surely you must be concerned about the issues there.

I'm much better off here than I would be in the UK.

StandFirm · 29/09/2025 14:14

HedwigEliza · 29/09/2025 14:11

I’ve done it myself.

The positive being that I had several years living in a marvellous place, learned a language, travelled and saw that part of the world, made friends and made money.

I could never have become a citizen, and if I’d been ill or become disabled I wouldn’t have been able to stay, but those were the rules. I certainly didn’t have an absolute right to stay in the country. I could be there if I was working and productive and useful - that’s fair.

Ah but then you knew the rules upfront, right? No one led you to believe one thing and then pulled the rug from under your feet, did they? How can you then propose that's what we do here?

PandoraSocks · 29/09/2025 14:14

HedwigEliza · 29/09/2025 13:49

They had the opportunity to apply for citizenship if they’ve been working here for decades. If not - we have more than enough low earners.

But they didn't need to apply for citizenship due to having ILR.

Do you really not see how unfair it is to change the goalposts retrospectively?

I read a really heartfelt post from someone on here about how it would affect them and how distressing it is for them to suddenly feel not wanted in the country they have settled in and love.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 14:14

Bumblebee72 · 29/09/2025 14:14

With the people who do not currently work. It is not that difficult. We do not need to import labour in order for Brits to sit at home.

Lol, good luck with that.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 14:15

HedwigEliza · 29/09/2025 14:12

Is this the poster who said on another thread her husband might be stopped at border control in the UK?

No.

EasternStandard · 29/09/2025 14:16

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 14:14

I'm much better off here than I would be in the UK.

Great. France isn’t doing so well, do you post about that?

Bumblebee72 · 29/09/2025 14:16

JaneEyre40 · 29/09/2025 13:57

And keep people like you who can't use grammar correctly? Can we do a trade? 😂

Classic - can't think of anything intelligent to write - criticise the grammar.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 14:16

EasternStandard · 29/09/2025 14:16

Great. France isn’t doing so well, do you post about that?

On Mumsnet?

I do laugh when I see how the UK media reports on what is going on in France. It's like they desperately need to believe that France is constantly on the verge of collapse.

StandFirm · 29/09/2025 14:18

EasternStandard · 29/09/2025 14:16

Great. France isn’t doing so well, do you post about that?

Do you not believe that British posters who live abroad have a legitimate interest in what goes on in the UK?

MissyB1 · 29/09/2025 14:18

HedwigEliza · 29/09/2025 14:01

They’ll have to, if they want lower immigration. We can’t have it all ways. It’s actually all kinds of wrong that people are happy with the idea of bringing in immigrants as a kind of ‘serf’ underclass, who’ll do the jobs British people don’t want to do.

Well yes I hear your point and its a very valid one, but you can't force people to do a certain job, especially such an important one are caring. Of course massively raising the pay and status of carers might help, but much as I would love to see that, I wouldn't hold my breath!

EasternStandard · 29/09/2025 14:18

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 14:16

On Mumsnet?

I do laugh when I see how the UK media reports on what is going on in France. It's like they desperately need to believe that France is constantly on the verge of collapse.

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Why not? Does it not concern you. Or is it more the politics here that is taking up your interest

Bumblebee72 · 29/09/2025 14:19

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 14:14

Lol, good luck with that.

Restricting immigration drives supply of jobs, restricting benefits drives demand for jobs. This enables the states bill to reduce and stops the country going bankrupt. Seems smarter to me than continually bringing low cost labour in from aboard and keeping people at home on state benefits.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 14:19

Bumblebee72 · 29/09/2025 14:19

Restricting immigration drives supply of jobs, restricting benefits drives demand for jobs. This enables the states bill to reduce and stops the country going bankrupt. Seems smarter to me than continually bringing low cost labour in from aboard and keeping people at home on state benefits.

No I mean good luck with forcing the very small number of unemployed people in the UK to do jobs they don't want to do and are not qualified to do.

marshmallowmix · 29/09/2025 14:20

snughugs · 29/09/2025 08:44

I think a lot of people don’t love Reform, but they have the common sense to realise we can’t be importing the third world and paying for them to be housed and on benefits. That’s the reality, we have either been importing cheap Eastern European labour, who did work but the vast majority were paid top off of tax credits or universal credit or their rent, they were not net contributors once their top benefits were added. Now we are importing from poor from backward countries. Don’t be so complacent to think this won’t seriously cause damage to our country. The poor will be affected the most. A huge amount of Muslims have been imported you won’t be so virtual signalling when women’s rights get eroded in the next 30 years and we become like Iran. What do you think will happen in 20/30 years if we continue like this? Don’t give me they’ll be working my friends work in benefits the women don’t work, have lots of kids and the men do uber for just 16 hours a week they can maximise their benefits. Please tell me where your naivety thinks this will end if nothing is done?

Agree with this !

We have a big problem we’ve imported huge numbers from third world countries who don’t work or they are low skilled so net takers. It needs addressing we are too soft on benefits for non Brits…other countries don’t do this. Hence the mess we are in …the lure of benefits and housing is mad and needs to stop…hence the rise of Reform.

Labour too bothered about the rest of the world instead of focusing on the U.K..

Marshmallow4545 · 29/09/2025 14:20

PandoraSocks · 29/09/2025 11:47

All those things are illegal here. So families coming here would and do accept living under our laws.

There will be a minority who will break those laws, but child abuse is not confined to people of one particular culture, is it?

Of course it isn't but my point is that there are some cultures that would ordinarily condone and encourage things that we as a culture and country condemn and outright ban. It is always going to be extremely difficult to mesh these two cultures and to truly create an integrated country in this context. Even if everyone is living by the rule of law, the underlying values of a country can be threatened by uncontrolled mass migration. If you think about democracy, when another culture becomes the majority then it is possible that they vote in leaders that impose rules that represent their culture and not the native culture. When this comes to important issues like people's rights and freedoms then you can see why people become concerned. It isn't racist to acknowledge this risk.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 14:20

EasternStandard · 29/09/2025 14:18

Why not? Does it not concern you. Or is it more the politics here that is taking up your interest

What exactly do you think I should be concerned about?

EasternStandard · 29/09/2025 14:21

StandFirm · 29/09/2025 14:18

Do you not believe that British posters who live abroad have a legitimate interest in what goes on in the UK?

If I wanted to post that I would have. France isn’t doing too well with its own politics and economy.

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