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Reform voters may not be racist but they are at least dangerously naive

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ChocolateMagnum · 29/09/2025 08:00

AIBU to accept that some Reform voters may not actually be racist, but to be pretty certain that, if they're not, they are at the very least dangerously naive?

I thought we all got taught at school about how fascism took over in 1939s Germany? And there's so much out there at the moment showing why we are at a dangerous turning point in history again.

Why is it that the so-called non-racist Reform voters not see that they are aligning themselves with a covertly racist and fascist-leaning party and that their support risks tipping the balance towards a fascist dictatorship in the UK?

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Absentosaur · 29/09/2025 12:55

TorroFerney · 29/09/2025 12:41

why Are you pretending you don’t know? It’s really odd not to acknowledge what goes on. Your attitude is what will get reform elected, can you not see that?

@TorroFerney don’t worry about it. You’re talking to a brick wall as you’ve just seen evidence of (as have we all). It’s another reason Reform are becoming more popular with many people, including ex Labour voters, ex Tories etc. 🤷‍♀️

MaidOfSteel · 29/09/2025 12:56

DoinFineIThink · 29/09/2025 12:42

Where has that poster said anything about you personally in that post you're quoting of theirs, and how you voted?! Why take it so personally if it doesn't apply to you?
This whole discussion/debate is so stupid as you can't say anything or call anything out without someone going ", are you calling me a racist?" or some such crap.
If you are, at least own it. If you're not, cool, it doesn't apply to you then does it

You’re doing it, too.

And when Reform get in, it’ll be people like you who I’ll be blaming.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 12:59

EasternStandard · 29/09/2025 12:18

Macron is out first. If what you’re saying re ‘undesirables’ will happen then it’s Labour still in not delivering mode.

What on earth makes you think Reform will be able to deliver where Labour can't?

Farage famously can't even be arsed to go to meetings.

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 29/09/2025 13:00

PandoraSocks · 29/09/2025 11:19

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Ah does this apply to the other pictures then.

EasternStandard · 29/09/2025 13:03

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 12:59

What on earth makes you think Reform will be able to deliver where Labour can't?

Farage famously can't even be arsed to go to meetings.

You keep responding to things I haven’t posted. If Macron is out and we get a flood of what you call ‘undesirables’ it will be Starmer who is still in.

If that happens it will impact votes for our GE.

Bumblebee72 · 29/09/2025 13:03

ChocolateMagnum · 29/09/2025 12:54

I agree entirely. However, not acknowledging the risk of an end to democracy of Reform getting in is naive.

I think abolishing the undemocratic house of lords and replacing it with a democratically elected second house, and referendum on PR would enhance democracy. Both of these are resisted by Labour and the Tories as they mean a two party system is more likely.

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 29/09/2025 13:03

BundleBoogie · 29/09/2025 11:20

Europe was being used as a route into this country by people from those Islamic countries. But as we were part of the whole, we couldn’t control our borders at all.

Now we at least have the possibility of control if our government took it.

So why don’t they or are they deliberately not doing so.

Here4the · 29/09/2025 13:05

@AxMxPfan thank you for sharing your experience. I don't agree with all your conclusions but you've given me something to look into.

I worry that the people with the least privilege here are the ones who both feel negative effects first and are not listened to when they speak about them.

DoinFineIThink · 29/09/2025 13:05

MaidOfSteel · 29/09/2025 12:56

You’re doing it, too.

And when Reform get in, it’ll be people like you who I’ll be blaming.

🙄

StandFirm · 29/09/2025 13:06

AxMxPfan · 29/09/2025 12:46

OP, I feel exactly as you do. I fear fascism, the erosion of democracy and the decline of our culture… with the twist that I 💯 agree with Reform and believe that people with opinions like yours are the ones being naive. Let me explain why.

I am from Turkey and am from a religious minority group there. In 1993, Islamists attacked and burned down Madimak hotel in Sivas province, killing 37 young intellectuals from my religion who were gathered for a special event. Turkey is a country riddled with sectarian violence and religion plays a big role in this. Christians, Jews and Alevis have managed to live side by side in peace and the Sunnis haven’t. They see us as infidels and constantly seek to gain dominance over us and they have succeeded.
In 1923, Ataturk created the Turkish Republic and one of its tenets was the separation of mosque and government. In fact, it forced modernisation on every citizen by suppressing religion in the hope that people would become secular. It worked for a while but eventually, secular families ended up having fewer children (2-3) from the 60s onwards with the introduction of the contraceptive pill and greater urbanisation. Rural extremist/conservative Muslim families had on average 7 children and their numbers ballooned. They started using democracy to gain national power and in 2002 became the ruling party after years of having Erdogan in the position of Istanbul mayor. They relentlessly pursued power by pretending to be meek and moderate when they were a political minority. When they came to power, they wooed voters with economic growth and development and intimidated secular Muslims by reminding them that they were Muslim first and foremost. They created divisions and polarised the population. When I went to live there in 2010, it was a fragile democracy/anocracy but now Erdogan has consolidated so much power that it’s not even an anocracy, it’s practically a dictatorship. With so much power, they then plundered the country and were very corrupt. Now, the economy is in tatters, with ridiculous inflation decimating people’s incomes.

I grew up in the UK and am grateful for everything in the West but I fear that it will succumb to Islamism. There are already 85
islamic Councils in the UK that ‘advise’ (in the future they would simply dictate) people based on sharia law. Sharia law states that a woman’s testimony is half of a man’s, that adulterers should be stoned, that apostates should be killed…

I don’t think western liberals or lefties can even get their heads around how unbearable it is to live in an Islamic country. Sure, it’s not as bad as North Korea in places like Saudi Arabia or Iran but it’s because people still have the freedom to visit the West and have access to media that connects them to western ideas and thoughts so it’s like having a window that opens whereas North Korea is like living in an underground bunker with an abusive family member with no hope of escape.

There is something fundamentally wrong with Islam and it can never be fixed because it is impossible to reform it due to its own blasphemy laws and customs. In the West, they seek to tie our hands and gag us with the made-up term ‘Islamophobia’. When we criticise it, we are met with anger and hatred from Muslims and a similar reaction from leftists who gaslight us. When we make very compelling, logical arguments against the religion, we’re lied to by ordinary Muslims who practice ‘taqiyya’ to further the cause of Islam. We’re dealing with a slippery eel that refuses to look you straight in the eye and instead attacks and disorients its opponent.

I am betting that this comment will get deleted.

The strange thing is, I’m not against immigration at all. I’m just against immigration from that religion. I voted for Remain because I love Europeans. I have nothing against people from the Far East, Latin America or Africa coming here in the millions and putting a strain on services or bringing their own culture with them… as long as they are not of a religion that wants to destroy the West.

Religion has no place in politics. I think that's what poisons the well invariably. Any form of extremism is loathsome, whatever the religion. But again, Reform is not the solution, just a different poison. The real issue is that large portions of working class areas in the UK have been completely neglected so social cohesion has suffered as a result. We won't solve those issues by revoking the rights of people who are already here. We should focus on making sure society is more secular and our institutions more robust. The disgusting behaviour of the Rotherham gangs for example was handled absolutely terribly. Cowardice all round created a lot of resentment. That's more the issue. We must punish crime wherever it stems from. As for Sharia, of course it has no formal place in the UK, nor should it ever do. It's one law for all. Customs and beliefs should be personal and tolerated as long as they fall within the law of the land. All those ideas are held by mainstream parties. I can't see what Reform would do to improve on social cohesion - what I can see is how they stoke hatred and division. Finally, legal immigration is overwhelmingly from students and overseas workers that we badly need in a number of crucial areas. What should we do to fulfil our needs then? Illegal immigration is a very small % overall.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 13:07

EasternStandard · 29/09/2025 13:03

You keep responding to things I haven’t posted. If Macron is out and we get a flood of what you call ‘undesirables’ it will be Starmer who is still in.

If that happens it will impact votes for our GE.

Yes, OK. Whose votes? Dimwits who think Farage'll fix it?

Like I said, FAFO.

scalt · 29/09/2025 13:07

Nevermind91 · 29/09/2025 09:37

I think one of the problems we have is that nobody in authority is prepared to properly discuss the elephant in the room.. population.
When I was born, the UK population was 55 million. Growing up, I remember gridlocked roads, strikes, demonstrations, overcrowded housing estates, etc, etc..
Now, there are 70 million of us. The only difference to the UK is that more of it is now permanently buried under concrete.
At some point, somebody is going to have to say "enough is enough." People are beginning to dislike their country. We cannot keep building more towns, roads, schools hospitals, etc. They fill up faster than we can build them.
Everyone coming here needs a job, but we now have a Labour government, so unemployment is set to rise (as it does every time they are in office).
Until all sides have a long hard look at the real issue, there is little point voting for any party, thinking they will solve it.
The UK's needs are complex, and cannot be satisfactorily served by any single party.
We are not sliding into fascism, just naively carrying on. Resentment of immigrants is not unique to the UK.

It's ironic that we also have the hand-wringing about our falling birth rate. Some of us think the world is cruel place to bring children into (one reason of many for not reproducing). Yes, I know, the thinking is that we need more younger people to pay taxes, instead of the elderly who keep living on and on.

Much as I loathe the pair of them, it's notable that Stanley and Boris Johnson have tried to talk about overpopulation as subtly as they could. Stanley wrote in the Telegraph in about 2008 "I cannot understand why nobody is worried about overpopulation". This has long been forgotten, but I've seen it quoted occasionally (and on a sticker on a bus stop, linked to the vaccines - not my thinking!)

And Boris was crucified for saying "I would rather let the bodies pile high than have another lockdown"; he saw it as a convenient way of culling the population, especially the elderly, and "I think we should let it rip a bit". But it was politically unacceptable to say these things, because the narrative was "save lives at all costs".

And Prince Philip said in 1988 "if I am reincarnated, I would like to return as a deadly virus, to do something about overpopulation." Politicians and royals have a habit of letting slip their concerns about overpopulation, which they cannot talk about. If he had died a year earlier, i.e. just before the pandemic, I think his remark would have been quoted much, much more!

Toastandbutterand · 29/09/2025 13:07

Reform have said they will use parliamentary sovereignty to change the law.

They will apply this retrospectively.

Quite apart from any other argument at all, this is fascist.

Swiftie1878 · 29/09/2025 13:08

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 12:03

Brexit means they owe us fuck all and have no incentive to do us any favours.

The same as when we were in the EU then!

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 13:09

Swiftie1878 · 29/09/2025 13:08

The same as when we were in the EU then!

🙄

EasternStandard · 29/09/2025 13:09

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 13:07

Yes, OK. Whose votes? Dimwits who think Farage'll fix it?

Like I said, FAFO.

Whatever. If it makes you feel better to post insults. Don’t you have your own issues in France?

Bumblebee72 · 29/09/2025 13:10

Toastandbutterand · 29/09/2025 13:07

Reform have said they will use parliamentary sovereignty to change the law.

They will apply this retrospectively.

Quite apart from any other argument at all, this is fascist.

Parliamentary Sovereignty is how any government changes the law. Are you saying all UK governments are and have been fascist?

StandFirm · 29/09/2025 13:11

Swiftie1878 · 29/09/2025 13:08

The same as when we were in the EU then!

Not at all! We had a number of data sharing schemes and broader cooperation that made it x100 easier to address cross-border problems. Now it's much more complicated. But Nige in his infinite wisdom and experience as MEP would have known that and explained it to his voters in great detail I presume.

Swiftie1878 · 29/09/2025 13:11

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 29/09/2025 13:03

So why don’t they or are they deliberately not doing so.

They’ve changed tack and are now arriving, undocumented, on boats, and claiming asylum.

For some reason, successive governments seem paralysed in responding to this.

Toastandbutterand · 29/09/2025 13:12

Bumblebee72 · 29/09/2025 13:10

Parliamentary Sovereignty is how any government changes the law. Are you saying all UK governments are and have been fascist?

Retrospectively

EasternStandard · 29/09/2025 13:15

Toastandbutterand · 29/09/2025 13:07

Reform have said they will use parliamentary sovereignty to change the law.

They will apply this retrospectively.

Quite apart from any other argument at all, this is fascist.

You need to say more on this. Parliament oversees / changes laws, that’s their job.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 13:15

EasternStandard · 29/09/2025 13:09

Whatever. If it makes you feel better to post insults. Don’t you have your own issues in France?

People who think it's clever to vote for more Farage are dimwits. They deserve to be insulted.

Bumblebee72 · 29/09/2025 13:15

Toastandbutterand · 29/09/2025 13:12

Retrospectively

You like the way the Labour government retrospectively changed the LGBT laws. How very fascist of them.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/09/2025 13:15

Bumblebee72 · 29/09/2025 13:15

You like the way the Labour government retrospectively changed the LGBT laws. How very fascist of them.

No they didn't.

Toastandbutterand · 29/09/2025 13:16

Bumblebee72 · 29/09/2025 13:10

Parliamentary Sovereignty is how any government changes the law. Are you saying all UK governments are and have been fascist?

This means, reform have said, openly, that if they want to, they can make anyone calling themselves bumblebee72 illegal from tomorrow morning.

Not only that, but they can rule that anyone who has ever called themselves bumblebee72 has always been illegal and they'll ban anyone who has ever called themselves that.

Do you really want to vote for a party that has openly said they will do that?

It is not scaremongering. They have told you they will have the power to do this and they will use it.

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