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Sick of the lie 'It's just illegal immigrants people don't like.'

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Slightyamusedandsilly · 26/09/2025 22:08

This is just not true.

Reform, the flag flyers and protesters are racists. All of this 'It's just the illegals we want gone.' is a lie to excuse their racism.

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GCAcademic · 26/09/2025 22:10

Totally agree. Loads more flags have gone up round here since Farage said he wanted to rescind ILR.

WhyamIinahandcartandwherearewegoing · 26/09/2025 22:11

I think it’s the speed and scale of change in communities that unsettles some people. It’s a lot more nuanced than just calling people who don’t like this change racist - that’s not helping persuade them to your side of the argument.

Octavia64 · 26/09/2025 22:12

Erm, no.

it’s possible to have a conversation about immigration without being racist.

some of them will be racist but it’s not a given.

DarkLion · 26/09/2025 22:14

Yes it makes me so angry! My partner is an overseas worker, we’re both nurses and he pays more tax than most of us, he works here legally, providing a better life for his family back home and has come from genuine hardship and is too afraid to go outside to get food shopping tomorrow because again most protests in our city and is afraid he will be targeted from people thinking he’s an illegal immigrant due to the colour of his skin. He’s an honest hard working person who’s working damn hard for what he has

GoodTimesNoodleSalad · 26/09/2025 22:14

People are allowed to dislike the speed and scale at which their culture and communities have changed. You can’t force people to like these things, you know.

swingingbytheseat · 26/09/2025 22:14

Yeah it’s like we’ve rolled back to the times of the skinheads, sickening

BeHappySloth · 26/09/2025 22:14

WhyamIinahandcartandwherearewegoing · 26/09/2025 22:11

I think it’s the speed and scale of change in communities that unsettles some people. It’s a lot more nuanced than just calling people who don’t like this change racist - that’s not helping persuade them to your side of the argument.

I concluded a long time ago that it isn't possible to persuade racists not to be racist. Pandering to them just encourages them. Better to call it out for what it is.

Uggbootsforever · 26/09/2025 22:15

I’m concerned about immigration. I’m not racist, I’m part of a happy multicultural family.

Our country is far too small to keep allowing net 900,000 immigration every year. I value green spaces, food security, a lower flood risk, wildlife, clean air. I don’t want the country ultimately becoming a large city state with the odd park where gardens are for the rich, and I don’t think we are obliged to do so in order to accommodate people from other countries who feel it is their right to live here. We need farmland, importing more and more produce is hideous for the environment and leaves us vulnerable. Our roads and infrastructure are barely coping as it is, and we’ve killed off hundreds of species of native wildlife due to pollution and a lack of habitat.

It’s about so much more than politics and skin colour. In fact those things barely register with me.

Plastictreees · 26/09/2025 22:15

BeHappySloth · 26/09/2025 22:14

I concluded a long time ago that it isn't possible to persuade racists not to be racist. Pandering to them just encourages them. Better to call it out for what it is.

This. Although the racism denial is off the charts atm as well.

”I’m not racist but… (insert racist thing)” 🙄

GoodTimesNoodleSalad · 26/09/2025 22:16

BeHappySloth · 26/09/2025 22:14

I concluded a long time ago that it isn't possible to persuade racists not to be racist. Pandering to them just encourages them. Better to call it out for what it is.

But - nothing happens.

You’ve accomplished nothing. Your calling them names won’t change their feelings on the subject, will it?

Jollyjoy · 26/09/2025 22:17

I think it’s a mix. Lots of racist people, and lots who are not, who need to be able to ask the questions about immigration and if they want it at current levels. I personally feel we benefit from immigration far more than we lose. But I understand people having concerns when the nhs is already so stretched, etc and disagree with those that try to silence them.

JollyGreenCompliant · 26/09/2025 22:18

Completely agree.

The thing I don’t get about racists is their unwillingness to own it - they all deny being racist. They don’t even have the balls to admit it.

Plastictreees · 26/09/2025 22:20

JollyGreenCompliant · 26/09/2025 22:18

Completely agree.

The thing I don’t get about racists is their unwillingness to own it - they all deny being racist. They don’t even have the balls to admit it.

Yes they take great offence to it, lots of huffing, puffing and protestations.

If you don’t want to be called a racist, don’t be one.

BeHappySloth · 26/09/2025 22:20

GoodTimesNoodleSalad · 26/09/2025 22:16

But - nothing happens.

You’ve accomplished nothing. Your calling them names won’t change their feelings on the subject, will it?

No, but wasting my time trying to reason with them won't accomplish anything either. So what's the point?

swingingbytheseat · 26/09/2025 22:20

BeHappySloth · 26/09/2025 22:14

I concluded a long time ago that it isn't possible to persuade racists not to be racist. Pandering to them just encourages them. Better to call it out for what it is.

To anyone who feels that sting of shame when they’re called a racist.
It’s okay to feel hurt, angry or frustrated about your life situation.
But it’s not the fault of everyone who isn’t white.

GoodTimesNoodleSalad · 26/09/2025 22:21

Plastictreees · 26/09/2025 22:20

Yes they take great offence to it, lots of huffing, puffing and protestations.

If you don’t want to be called a racist, don’t be one.

Some people are just past caring about the name calling.

Plastictreees · 26/09/2025 22:22

GoodTimesNoodleSalad · 26/09/2025 22:21

Some people are just past caring about the name calling.

People aren’t ‘past’ racism.

BuffetTheDietSlayer · 26/09/2025 22:22

GoodTimesNoodleSalad · 26/09/2025 22:16

But - nothing happens.

You’ve accomplished nothing. Your calling them names won’t change their feelings on the subject, will it?

Oh well. Racists don’t mind creating an atmosphere of fear, of creating the conditions where people are violently attacked based on skin colour. I’m sure they can deal with being called a few (very accurate) names online.

GoodTimesNoodleSalad · 26/09/2025 22:22

Plastictreees · 26/09/2025 22:22

People aren’t ‘past’ racism.

Past caring if they’re called names, is what I said.

EmeraldRoulette · 26/09/2025 22:22

JollyGreenCompliant · 26/09/2025 22:18

Completely agree.

The thing I don’t get about racists is their unwillingness to own it - they all deny being racist. They don’t even have the balls to admit it.

Key point here is "how are you defining racist?"

I tend to think of racist as being the hard-core ones of my childhood, who wanted me to leave the country because of the colour of my skin. I think we're calling them ethno nationalist now.

as opposed to the civic nationalist type. I realise that some people think the latter are just pretending.

Other people will have different definitions

Some of those definitions make me and my mum racist. I think we've both just accepted the fact that Keir Starmer probably thinks we're far right racists.

I keep thinking back to Gordon Brown and that lady in Rochdale and how different things could've been if people weren't shut down all those years ago.

Desdemonadryeyes · 26/09/2025 22:23

No problem with anyone coming here to work.

It’s the boat migrants that concern me.

And all the reasons people want to come here rather than stay in France.

And the mass emigration from countries who need these people to improve their own economies.

And the traffickers who make so much money.

The list is endless.

You’d probably call me racist.

Plastictreees · 26/09/2025 22:24

GoodTimesNoodleSalad · 26/09/2025 22:22

Past caring if they’re called names, is what I said.

Lots of racists get very angry when being called a racist, so they certainly seem to care a lot otherwise they wouldn’t get so angry.

BeHappySloth · 26/09/2025 22:24

GoodTimesNoodleSalad · 26/09/2025 22:21

Some people are just past caring about the name calling.

It isn't name calling, it is simply calling it out for what it is. We know that lots of people don't care. That is really beside the point. Some things need to be said anyway.

nomas · 26/09/2025 22:24

Yep, it’s the new ‘Oh, we don’t mean you’.

And when BAME people naturally withdraw into their own communities for a sense of safety, they’re accused of not integrating.

Plastictreees · 26/09/2025 22:25

BeHappySloth · 26/09/2025 22:24

It isn't name calling, it is simply calling it out for what it is. We know that lots of people don't care. That is really beside the point. Some things need to be said anyway.

This poster is very transparent.

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