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Are all of us foreigners just going to be told to pack up and leave if Reform win?

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Onegingerhead · 26/09/2025 16:03

I might be totally unreasonable here (or not), but please hear me out.
(Bloody) foreigner here — I’ve lived in the UK since 2001. Built my whole life here: house, husband, DC, the lot. Worked the whole time in a field that requires the highest level of qualification.
I’m getting increasingly worried about the talk of Reform winning in 2029. Some even say it could be sooner if Labour are pushed into early elections. This week (as we all heard) our beloved Reform suggested rescinding ILR or even settled status from Europeans. God knows what else they’ll come up with, I honestly wouldn’t be surprised if they went after naturalised Brits next and started revoking citizenship, just to please the voters.
I know a lot of foreign-born women — some married to born-and-bred Brits, some to other Europeans (not always from the same country), some to men from overseas. All sorts of combinations.
So what do you think lies ahead for us? Will we be politely asked to leave, or will things just get so hostile that we’re pushed out anyway? And how likely is it that people who aren’t very white, or who have an accent, will face more discrimination in work?
I’m meeting my foreign friends tonight and we’ll be talking about it. For most of us, moving now would be incredibly difficult. We’re late 30s to early 50s, and starting over in a new country isn’t exactly easy. Some of us are married to men from different countries entirely, and we don’t even speak each other’s languages well enough to get proper jobs there.

AIBU and should think we will actually be allowed to stay?
AINBU sorry but you’d better start planning your move now

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LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 26/09/2025 17:29

I hope not! Flowers I think anyone who has been here more than 10 years, even if they're 'illegal' (like, didn't get their paperwork right or something,) should just be given British citizenship by default.

It's unspeakably cruel to make people leave when they have forged a life here, have family here, have a job here, and have had children born here. I can't imagine why anyone would want to vote for anyone who would do that. (Force people to leave the UK, when they have a life, a job, a home, a family, and friends here.)

Hope you will be OK @Onegingerhead I hope you all will. Flowers

Velvian · 26/09/2025 17:30

DH and I are British and are considering leaving, if somewhere will take us!

Im sorry you are having think about this @Onegingerhead.

Reform and all the flags just give carte blanche to all the rampant racists, mostly male (who I wish we could deport).

I was gutted by the European Referendum result and things have become steadily worse ever since. What a disaster Brexit has been.

IAmThePrettiestManOnMyIsland · 26/09/2025 17:30

Spiritofeden87 · 26/09/2025 17:20

Farage literally said as much in a speech last week. He hates ‘foriners’

Except he hasn't said anything of the sort. Evidence please?

youve987456 · 26/09/2025 17:31

You have just got to look at what is going on in the USA right now and their Make America White Great Again campaign. The same will happen here. Blows my mind when I see non white or foreign born people marching on the streets or saying they will vote Reform, as I have no doubt that once they have dealt with the "illegals" they will be coming for them next. Or maybe at the same time, just as we are seeing ICE doing in America. How "Great" Britain will be when we have groups of masked men without ID rounding people up as they please.

SleepQuest33 · 26/09/2025 17:31

Social care would also collapse!

youve987456 · 26/09/2025 17:32

Also, my husband is foreign born from an English speaking white country, so nobody has ever given him any shit for being here, and he got his passport a few years back as he could see this shit coming.

Cyclebabble · 26/09/2025 17:32

I am a British citizen, but came here from Malaysia many years ago. Ethnically I am Indian. Life is getting harder. I have noted previously about an Auntie being spat at. A cousin's children (British, but brown), 13 and 12 were challenged in a supermarket about where they were from and what they were doing here. Life is getting tougher.

Laura95167 · 26/09/2025 17:32

Honestly, im embarrassed reading about poor people like yourself. I dont think youll need to worry.

Remember everything he said about Brexit and the millions it would pump into the NHS... hes a BSer. And the policy changes etc needed to see that through would be a nightmare. Only thing it will do is stir up feelings of segration.

I dont think you have anything to worry about. But im so sorry you can no feel reassured you're welcome here

Spiritofeden87 · 26/09/2025 17:32

IAmThePrettiestManOnMyIsland · 26/09/2025 17:30

Except he hasn't said anything of the sort. Evidence please?

OMG he literally said Eastern Europeans are eating swans this week! He’s a racist cunt!

news.sky.com/story/royal-parks-responds-to-farages-claim-that-swans-are-being-eaten-by-eastern-europeans-in-the-uk-13437205

IAmThePrettiestManOnMyIsland · 26/09/2025 17:33

Timelineuk · 26/09/2025 17:26

Some people never learn what these corrupt liars say and what they really mean. Have any of you ever studied Orwell double speaks thought not and it shows

And some people seek hidden meaning where there is none and pass it off as fact.

BellaBallerina2 · 26/09/2025 17:35

I have settled status and I don’t want to be a British citizen particularly. If the far right get in, I don’t want to live here anymore anyway. My children have dual nationality so I guess I have to leave British DH to fend for himself.

What I do worry about is not leaving in time and not getting deported, but be denied access to state pensions and the nhs in my old (and sick) age, despite having paid into the system for 3 decades as a higher rate tax payer and never bothered the nhs as I have private healthcare.

I think everyone should worry but this will be the Turkeys voting for Christmas again. There are too many turkeys on the U.K. who just cannot connect the dots well. Farage and Trump are very clever. They know exactly how to appeal to the turkeys.

Pebbles16 · 26/09/2025 17:35

Westfacing · 26/09/2025 16:41

I had this discussion with my Malaysian friend who has lived and worked as a nurse in the UK for 50 years, recently retired.

She said that Malaysia doesn't allow dual-citizenship and if you take out another citizenship you have to renounce your Malaysian one (how they find out I don't know but that's another matter).

All these decades she's been happy with Indefinite Leave to Remain.

I suppose it's like British people who retire to Spain they wouldn't want to give up their UK citizenship.

I can't see the UK going down the road of mass deportations... but the threat of it must be very unsettling for people who have made their lives here, legally, for decades.

My PILs have been here for 60+ years, never wanted to give up their birth citizenship and have contributed all their UK taxes etc. They've already had to go through hoops post Brexit although they've had ILTR since "forever".
They are likely to die before such nonsense regulations go through but it doesn't stop them worrying which (at their age and state of health) they do not need.
Let's hope this country wakes itself up before 2029.

IAmThePrettiestManOnMyIsland · 26/09/2025 17:36

Xiaoxiong · 26/09/2025 17:29

I'm naturalised here too, having jumped through all the hoops and paid untold thousands to get naturalised.

If Farage decides to retrospectively cancel people's ILRs, that will mean everyone reapplying for whatever replaces it (I think they are proposing a 5 year visa). And if the criteria are stricter, then a lot of those people might not qualify under the new regime. What do you think will happen to those people @IAmThePrettiestManOnMyIsland

Indeed some people will most likely not meet the criteria.

sosorryimnotsorry · 26/09/2025 17:40

We need to be far far more vocal in calling all this right wing 🐄 💩 out. Starmer and the rest of labour need to pull their fingers out and take back control of the narrative here. Farrage needs calling out on every single lie constantly and publicly.
It’s no use saying “it’s 4 years away don’t worry about it”.
NO. It needs calling out NOW every day relentlessly.

Buttercupflowers · 26/09/2025 17:40

To clarify what ILR is -

While holders of certain visa types, such as visitors or short-term students, will be expected to eventually return home, some categories of limited leave may lead to settled status in the UK. Settled status gives the holder permission to stay in the UK on a permanent basis. This is known as indefinite leave to remain (ILR).
Note that ‘settled status’ with ILR is different to the EU settlement scheme for EEA nationals in the UK.
Individuals with ILR are not subject to immigration restrictions in the UK. You can leave and enter the UK at will. ILR does not expire, unless you have been absent from the UK for more than two years.
If you hold ILR status, you may also become eligible to certain entitlements, such as welfare benefits and tax credits. The exception is if your right to remain was awarded as a result of another person formally agreeing to maintain and accommodate you. In this case, you will be excluded from some benefits for five years.

Pebbles16 · 26/09/2025 17:43

Velvian · 26/09/2025 17:30

DH and I are British and are considering leaving, if somewhere will take us!

Im sorry you are having think about this @Onegingerhead.

Reform and all the flags just give carte blanche to all the rampant racists, mostly male (who I wish we could deport).

I was gutted by the European Referendum result and things have become steadily worse ever since. What a disaster Brexit has been.

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I would leave in a heartbeat (DH has UK and EU citizenship and I could get mine if "a certain" consulate was ever open). But we have aged Ps on both sides.
Once they go, we're getting the hell out of here. But the conundrum is: where does rampant protectionism and racism not exist?

CharlotteRumpling · 26/09/2025 17:43

sosorryimnotsorry · 26/09/2025 17:40

We need to be far far more vocal in calling all this right wing 🐄 💩 out. Starmer and the rest of labour need to pull their fingers out and take back control of the narrative here. Farrage needs calling out on every single lie constantly and publicly.
It’s no use saying “it’s 4 years away don’t worry about it”.
NO. It needs calling out NOW every day relentlessly.

Royal Parks has denied that migrants eat swans.
We are living in Trumpland. I hope we are not all drinking bleach in 4 years.

OneChirpyAmberShark · 26/09/2025 17:45

I would say that those with ILR should apply for citizenship as soon as possible. Or go to the expense of the 5 yearly visa.

plan4now · 26/09/2025 17:47

IAmThePrettiestManOnMyIsland · 26/09/2025 17:36

Indeed some people will most likely not meet the criteria.

But how does that work in the long run? Take someone like me: higher rate taxpayer, married to a British man (also a higher rate taxpayer), two children born in England with dual citizenship. Have paid taxes here for almost two decades. In contrast have barely contributed in my home country. Eventually though, I will retire and won’t be a higher rate taxpayer/make the proposed higher salary threshold. Are you going to throw people like me out then, despite our huge contribution over decades and decades and our British families?

CatchTheWind1920 · 26/09/2025 17:48

This is worrying me right now too. I'm trying to come back with my German husband and two children. I'm very homesick. It's hard enough getting back because of Brexit, if Reform get in, we aren't coming back (or they'd send my husband home... And we'd go with him).

CharlotteRumpling · 26/09/2025 17:49

plan4now · 26/09/2025 17:47

But how does that work in the long run? Take someone like me: higher rate taxpayer, married to a British man (also a higher rate taxpayer), two children born in England with dual citizenship. Have paid taxes here for almost two decades. In contrast have barely contributed in my home country. Eventually though, I will retire and won’t be a higher rate taxpayer/make the proposed higher salary threshold. Are you going to throw people like me out then, despite our huge contribution over decades and decades and our British families?

Exactly.

nomas · 26/09/2025 17:49

IAmThePrettiestManOnMyIsland · 26/09/2025 17:16

'Under the new plan, the ILR would be replaced by a five-year renewable visa, with stricter requirements, including higher salary thresholds, stronger English proficiency, and a ban on claiming benefits.
Existing holders of ILR would also be affected, as they would lose their settled status and be required to reapply under the new system. Meanwhile, the period required to apply for citizenship would be extended to seven years instead of the current six (five plus one) under ILR.'

Replacing an existing policy with a stricter one does not mean deporting people. Can you provide the quote from Reform that states ILR holders will be deported as you have claimed?

The new face of Hitler.

Buttercupflowers · 26/09/2025 17:50

CharlotteRumpling · 26/09/2025 17:43

Royal Parks has denied that migrants eat swans.
We are living in Trumpland. I hope we are not all drinking bleach in 4 years.

Swans were being killed and eaten by migrants some years ago -

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2115107/Gang-bludgeon-swan-death-nail-covered-stick-eat-luring-ashore-bread.html

and fish were being stolen -

https://www.facebook.com/reel/616850164493012

CharlotteRumpling · 26/09/2025 17:51

By the way the current ILR already bans holders from claiming benefits. Something most people do not know.

DIYagainstMould · 26/09/2025 17:51

certainlycertain · 26/09/2025 17:16

An awful lot of them seem to be mid-process. They are routinely being grabbed from their immigration court hearings. An act first, ask questions later approach.

If you're trying to defend what's happening in the US as setting a standard for here, that's pretty pathetic.

She is American perhaps. Her father is one nationality, her mother from another. Both her grandparents from both sides also. Tell me what is legal about her own superiority

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