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Are all of us foreigners just going to be told to pack up and leave if Reform win?

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Onegingerhead · 26/09/2025 16:03

I might be totally unreasonable here (or not), but please hear me out.
(Bloody) foreigner here — I’ve lived in the UK since 2001. Built my whole life here: house, husband, DC, the lot. Worked the whole time in a field that requires the highest level of qualification.
I’m getting increasingly worried about the talk of Reform winning in 2029. Some even say it could be sooner if Labour are pushed into early elections. This week (as we all heard) our beloved Reform suggested rescinding ILR or even settled status from Europeans. God knows what else they’ll come up with, I honestly wouldn’t be surprised if they went after naturalised Brits next and started revoking citizenship, just to please the voters.
I know a lot of foreign-born women — some married to born-and-bred Brits, some to other Europeans (not always from the same country), some to men from overseas. All sorts of combinations.
So what do you think lies ahead for us? Will we be politely asked to leave, or will things just get so hostile that we’re pushed out anyway? And how likely is it that people who aren’t very white, or who have an accent, will face more discrimination in work?
I’m meeting my foreign friends tonight and we’ll be talking about it. For most of us, moving now would be incredibly difficult. We’re late 30s to early 50s, and starting over in a new country isn’t exactly easy. Some of us are married to men from different countries entirely, and we don’t even speak each other’s languages well enough to get proper jobs there.

AIBU and should think we will actually be allowed to stay?
AINBU sorry but you’d better start planning your move now

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titchy · 27/09/2025 13:31

Twiglets1 · 27/09/2025 13:16

UK allows dual nationality with Spain

Yeah but Spain doesn’t. So if you’re Spanish, living here legally on a visa, you get ILR, you’d have to give up your Spanish citizenship in order to get a UK passport.

marshmallowmix · 27/09/2025 13:41

If Labour don’t get a grip on the mass uncontrolled immigration numbers then Reform will be in…according to polls they will be in government…it’s highly likely now Farage is on course to be PM.

750,000 net migration last year that is more people than most cities and not sustainable…so yep something has to give….i think it’s the Boris wave they are going after and illegals but who knows…they want to clear the decks.

Chiseltip · 27/09/2025 13:44

Will this affect Irish citizens, will they be forced to leave too?

Twiglets1 · 27/09/2025 13:44

titchy · 27/09/2025 13:31

Yeah but Spain doesn’t. So if you’re Spanish, living here legally on a visa, you get ILR, you’d have to give up your Spanish citizenship in order to get a UK passport.

If you are a UK national wishing to become a Spanish citizen you will need to renounce your British citizenship.

But the UK allows for dual citizenship in Spain and Britain.

https://total.law/uk-to-es/citizenship/dual-citizenship-spain/#:~:text=It%20depends.,citizenship%20in%20Spain%20and%20Britain.

Spain Dual Citizenship: A Guide for British Nationals | Total Law

If you are from the UK or a non-Ibero American country, then it is unlikely that you will qualify for dual citizenship in Spain. Learn more about eligibility criteria.

https://total.law/uk-to-es/citizenship/dual-citizenship-spain/

Digdongdoo · 27/09/2025 13:47

marshmallowmix · 27/09/2025 13:41

If Labour don’t get a grip on the mass uncontrolled immigration numbers then Reform will be in…according to polls they will be in government…it’s highly likely now Farage is on course to be PM.

750,000 net migration last year that is more people than most cities and not sustainable…so yep something has to give….i think it’s the Boris wave they are going after and illegals but who knows…they want to clear the decks.

Net migration last year was more like 450k wasn't it? What's the source for your 750k?

Twiglets1 · 27/09/2025 13:48

Chiseltip · 27/09/2025 13:44

Will this affect Irish citizens, will they be forced to leave too?

Ireland is part of the EU so no. This proposal to allow people to be deported who don't have 5 year work visas is aimed at non EU citizens.

AngelicKaty · 27/09/2025 13:49

CallMeEvelyn · 27/09/2025 12:43

And actually, @AngelicKaty one more thing - you stating I was supposedly offensive when it is down to the language structure of the English language itself and you could have very easily gathered from my posts that was blatantly not the case is offensive.

Clearly I don't fit into your landscape of a perfect immigrant who never dares to criticise anything, after all shouldn't we be grateful to even exist? There's a clear undertone to your unfounded accusation and to multiple other posts from other posters on this thread which is either deliberate or completely tone deaf. I have no intention of arguing with you or them, if I'm not a "good immigrant" in your eyes because I am honest about things unlike many Britons who prefer to ignore or deny them because they don't like discomfort, then so be it. I'm signing off now - wishing you well too, genuinely, not condescendingly.

Dear God, "good immigrant"? I understand that your personal experience of how you have been treated, pre and post Brexit, by some people has been appalling, but now you seem to be claiming that all British people resent you - even when I've gone to great lengths to explain my viewpoint, which chimes with yours regarding my fears about the direction this country is moving in and what harm Farage is doing (and could do further). The 48% of us who voted for Remain evidently don't resent foreigners at all, yet you're determined to believe we do. Maybe you should examine your own xenophobia.

Onegingerhead · 27/09/2025 13:55

@AngelicKaty
I’ve read your whole post and just wanted to thank you in particular for your balanced views and polite discussion.
I’m grateful to everyone who’s commented, but I can’t realistically reply to each person — I don’t want to end up over-representing myself on the thread.
As for the next GE in 2029, I completely agree the Lib Dems need to be far more vocal now and given more airtime. They’re the only party with a real chance of drawing voters away from Reform.

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Timeforabitofpeace · 27/09/2025 14:00

@OnegingerheadIts fucking bonkers. Please don’t leave the rest of us with those loonies!

titchy · 27/09/2025 14:01

Twiglets1 · 27/09/2025 13:44

If you are a UK national wishing to become a Spanish citizen you will need to renounce your British citizenship.

But the UK allows for dual citizenship in Spain and Britain.

https://total.law/uk-to-es/citizenship/dual-citizenship-spain/#:~:text=It%20depends.,citizenship%20in%20Spain%20and%20Britain.

Oh dear God…. If you are a Spanish national, you have to give up your Spanish citizenship in order to become a UK citizen. So a Spanish national with ILR living in the UK will have to reapply every five years for ILR, and hope they don’t get refused. Or become a UK national, but given up the passport of their home country.

Would you want to do that?

CallMeEvelyn · 27/09/2025 14:01

AngelicKaty · 27/09/2025 13:25

So you (personally) didn't take on board anything I wrote then. Great.
The English language may not distinguish between You Singular and You Plural, but had you written "Some British people (instead of "You") made us total scapegoats which has nothing to do with reality. Since at least 2014 many of them (instead of "you"), influenced by Farage, have made us feel unwelcome here and the content online posted about us is measured in millions of disgusting posts." I would not have been offended. I haven't scapegoated or made any immigrants feel unwelcome - quite the opposite - and I'm sure you (personally) know that you could have used the third person (as I've shown above) so as not to appear accusatory to me personally, but you (personally) chose not to.
I can't make my position any clearer about my revulsion for Farage and his ilk than I did in my previous post, but you've chosen to ignore everything I've written. You and I are clearly on the same side, yet you seem determined to argue with me whilst accusing me of arguing, simply because we have a different way of responding to OP's worry. I give up.

So you personally consider it appropriate to single me out for allegedly offensive use of your (British) language against you (personally) which you (personally) misunderstood in circumstances where:

  • my numerous posts on this thread which you either haven't read or ignored clearly show no offense was ever intended against you personally; and
  • after I specifically explained this to you.

You think fit to give me a language lesson on my second language on a public forum after 20 years of me being here AND considering the above.

Clearly I'm not a good enough immigrant for you, shall I apologise for your misunderstanding and repeated unnecessary negative comments against me (personally) and then go pick strawberries for your elevensies? Will I then be pardoned?

TwelvePiecesOfFlair · 27/09/2025 14:01

Twiglets1 · 27/09/2025 13:44

If you are a UK national wishing to become a Spanish citizen you will need to renounce your British citizenship.

But the UK allows for dual citizenship in Spain and Britain.

https://total.law/uk-to-es/citizenship/dual-citizenship-spain/#:~:text=It%20depends.,citizenship%20in%20Spain%20and%20Britain.

Yes. But a Spanish person who gets citizenship in the UK CANNOT then retain their Spanish nationality. So for all the people saying “ just get citizenship”, they need to understand why this is a big deal. You give up your right to live, work, retire in Spain to stay in a country that is making more and more noise about not really wanting you.
Why would anyone put themselves in that position?

Notonthestairs · 27/09/2025 14:02

Chiseltip · 27/09/2025 13:44

Will this affect Irish citizens, will they be forced to leave too?

There would be a temporary carve out for EU citizens. Farage intends to renegotiate their position under the Withdrawal Agreement with the EU. Nobody knows how long that might take or what it might consist of.

TwelvePiecesOfFlair · 27/09/2025 14:03

X post Titchy!
Maybe they have it now…?

TwelvePiecesOfFlair · 27/09/2025 14:04

Isn’t there a British/ Irish agreement, long pre dating go the EU? I always thought we could live in either country indefinitely?

ChattyChicken · 27/09/2025 14:11

TwelvePiecesOfFlair · 27/09/2025 14:04

Isn’t there a British/ Irish agreement, long pre dating go the EU? I always thought we could live in either country indefinitely?

Yes since the 1920s

AngelicKaty · 27/09/2025 14:13

Croakymccroakyvoice · 27/09/2025 12:54

And you aren't alone. Partha Kar (a hero of mine as a Mum to a Type 1 diabetic) recently shared some of the comments he had received after sharing a post about positive flag waving. I'll attach pictures (give it a minute) and I was absolutely disgusted.

https://www.england.nhs.uk/author/dr-partha-kar/

Wow. I'm genuinely astonished that such an uplifting post by Partha Kar could be met with such vile responses. "Brown invader" FFS! I'm willing to bet that the knuckle-dragger who wrote that has never considered the impact Britain's invasion colonisation of India had on it and how it could have shaped their people's view of Britain as a second home. Literally, GENERATIONS of people from the Indian sub-continent have contributed to the wealth of the UK and yet still this repulsive racist abuse continues - now fully exposed because they've been emboldened by Farage et al. We can only hope this exposure back-fires on them because there's no uncertainty now - they're in full view.

Twiglets1 · 27/09/2025 14:13

TwelvePiecesOfFlair · 27/09/2025 14:01

Yes. But a Spanish person who gets citizenship in the UK CANNOT then retain their Spanish nationality. So for all the people saying “ just get citizenship”, they need to understand why this is a big deal. You give up your right to live, work, retire in Spain to stay in a country that is making more and more noise about not really wanting you.
Why would anyone put themselves in that position?

Why wouldn't that person be able to apply and gain Spanish citizenship again if they wanted to move back to Spain permanently? Since they are Spanish it wouldn't be a problem apart from the cost

Mjmum10 · 27/09/2025 14:13

Dolphinnoises · 26/09/2025 16:09

It’s hard to say. One of their MPs, Rupert Lowe, is all about the mass deportations. I think it would be too easy to convince yourself that they don’t really mean it. They do.

The most powerful thing you can do is advocate for yourself. Break through the discomfort barrier to remind people in your life that when he says immigrant, he means you and the protect of you having to leave the country. It’s like the Brexit vote, people believed that no-one they knew would be affected

Just to say, although I'm sure someone else has already, Rupert Lowe hasn't been apart of Reform for quite some time. Nigel and Rupert are on bad terms, partially because Rupert doesn't think Nigel is radical enough with his views and his intended plans on immigration. Rupert has suggested reform tried to discredit him by saying he has dementia. So yeah, very different political opinions now.

Most reform supporters don't want hardworking, contributing well integrated people deported. Controlled immigration is the answer, it can't be too radical or too much of a soft approach. Reform has my vote currently

Croakymccroakyvoice · 27/09/2025 14:25

Mjmum10 · 27/09/2025 14:13

Just to say, although I'm sure someone else has already, Rupert Lowe hasn't been apart of Reform for quite some time. Nigel and Rupert are on bad terms, partially because Rupert doesn't think Nigel is radical enough with his views and his intended plans on immigration. Rupert has suggested reform tried to discredit him by saying he has dementia. So yeah, very different political opinions now.

Most reform supporters don't want hardworking, contributing well integrated people deported. Controlled immigration is the answer, it can't be too radical or too much of a soft approach. Reform has my vote currently

Then they shouldn't be Reform supporters since that is now their stated policy.

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/politics/reform-uk-ilr-immigration-policy-nigel-farage-b2831087.html

How Farage’s plan for legal migration could put thousands at risk of deportation

Farage says the plan would save over £200bn – but the figures have been called into question

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/politics/reform-uk-ilr-immigration-policy-nigel-farage-b2831087.html

moderate · 27/09/2025 14:25

CallMeEvelyn · 27/09/2025 09:42

I hear you (and agree with you on the other matter you mentioned).

I think there is a line to be drawn in political discourse.

In this case, nobody is bringing an elephant into the room, painting it black and pretending it's a seal (unlike in your comparison).

We are the group that is painted evil and we are trying to tell you why doing so is not factually correct. And why we should not be victims to Farage's rhethoric. We are not a bunch of illegal criminals coming over here stealing your jobs, or worse, benefits, like he would have you believe.

It is bigotry to stir hatred against us using such rhethoric and to misrepresent the facts when they really matter - in a political debate. Because people vote on that basis and they have the right to be informed, not misinformed.

There should also be no space for racism or xenophobia that are illegal - and yet some people on here dress them up as democratic. They are not.

There are plenty of immigration issues in this country. They need to be discussed - factually and respectfully.

The problem you have is you have two major political parties unable to do so for decades. And then a rogue newcomer like Reform - raising some valid issues on the face of it, but spouting many lies and division. The latter cannot be supported.

Another issue is putting all immigrants into one basket. You cannot give valid consideration to this because each group is diverse with completely different background, prospects, abilities and legal status. To label all "immigrants" as bad for even "coming over here" is extremely inaccurate and damaging to all involved and the British people who are deciding on the basis of this misconception, frankly.

Edited

I hear you too. But I think you are somewhat guilty of the broad-brush painting you complain about.

Some of the people voting for Farage et al are just plain xenophobic. But most are simply at the end of their tether with the two main political parties "unable" to address the immigration issues we all recognise.

Unable how? They have simply been unwilling. They remained complacent until support for Reform started to grow. And now they're asking us to believe that they're suddenly "able" to sort this out. It's too little, too late.

moderate · 27/09/2025 14:25

ColourThief · 27/09/2025 10:28

But it’s okay for you and the poster you responded to to spread transphobia?

No.

Racism and xenophobia are not okay, but neither are transphobia and homophobia.
You don’t get to decide if you’re a bigot or not by cherry picking what you think is okay to discriminate against.

I’ve always been inclusive to everyone, I don’t judge, I make a point to step up and strike up a conversation with anyone that I feel may be feeling excluded and uncomfortable.
That goes for everyone, not just those I deem “worthy” of my support.

Edited

I figured someone might be along to make my point for me.

I didn't realise you anyone would achieve it quite so spectacularly.

Congratulations!

AngelicKaty · 27/09/2025 14:28

Onegingerhead · 27/09/2025 13:55

@AngelicKaty
I’ve read your whole post and just wanted to thank you in particular for your balanced views and polite discussion.
I’m grateful to everyone who’s commented, but I can’t realistically reply to each person — I don’t want to end up over-representing myself on the thread.
As for the next GE in 2029, I completely agree the Lib Dems need to be far more vocal now and given more airtime. They’re the only party with a real chance of drawing voters away from Reform.

Thank you OP. I have genuinely tried. I share your fears about Farage and his ilk, but I have to believe we can defeat him and his self-serving aims. It's the only way I can operate - positivity and a determination that, together, we can beat him, preserve our democracy, and restore some respect and decency to our society.
Coincidentally, I live in a constituency that has only ever returned a Tory or LibDem MP and I voted for our current LibDem MP, Danny Chambers, in the last GE. Your thread has prompted me to email him to ask what the party's plans are to challenge the increasingly toxic Reform rhetoric, so thank you for that. 😊
Wishing you all the best for a peaceful and happy future - in the UK! 🙏

AngelicKaty · 27/09/2025 14:35

Notonthestairs · 27/09/2025 14:02

There would be a temporary carve out for EU citizens. Farage intends to renegotiate their position under the Withdrawal Agreement with the EU. Nobody knows how long that might take or what it might consist of.

Farage can "intend" all he likes - Brussels has no intention of renegotiating the Withdrawal Agreement with him.

Buttercupflowers · 27/09/2025 14:37

Croakymccroakyvoice · 27/09/2025 14:25

Then they shouldn't be Reform supporters since that is now their stated policy.

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/politics/reform-uk-ilr-immigration-policy-nigel-farage-b2831087.html

Where does this figure in the Reform Manifesto?

Please note - "Reform UK head of policy, Zia Yusuf did not share how Reform would enforce the policy regarding people with existing ILR"

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