Teacher asked who chose the pink bottle....

[Caszekey]

Ok, so it's more aibu to allow / encourage this behaviour.
Fairly identifiable so here goes.
5 year olds twin boys, both have long hair like their Dad which I put up for school. Ones favourite colour is pink. Both adore Frozen so wanted the dress up dresses (Kristoff is a minor character). Last WBD they dressed as Goldilocks and Red Riding Hood (bear, wolves are minor characters). School have jokingly passed comment previously about pink bobbles etc but today I was asked, incidentally, if I chose the pink bottles or them, do I pick costumes etc.
I don't know if she's curious or implying I'm doing something wrong but it's got me second guessing

The choices are child led and I reckon they'll age out of them but I don't want to pull the "boys don't do that" line when girls have so much fun.

So aibu to allow them to pick so freely ? We've not yet encountered a request for a dress for general living, just they like to be Princesses!

Do you havr a daughter op?

They've already chosen the slinky dog from Toy Story - wish me luck!!

My 14 month old DS is currently wearing a pink babygrow with cherries on it. I bought it for him. He's also wore tights last winter to keep his legs warm. I draw the line at skirts/dresses, but think purple and pink are fine colours to wea6. (I bought him a set of 'girls' leggings because they were pink, yellow and green, instead of dark blue, lighter blue and beige for the boys.) I find it annoying that boys' clothes are so dreary in the shops I go into.

My boys also loved dressing up in princess outfits (probably ageing out of that a bit now) but still love pink, sparkly stuff and jewellery. They have had a couple of comments from people in their class but they haven't been bothered by that.