No payment for her 3 naans

[TheAquaCrab]

We all got a curry, to cut a long story short(er).

4 friends in total, including me. Person who hasn’t paid is new to group. All happened last week.

I paid for the takeaway and said it’s fine, just everyone transfer me the money tomorrow when they get a chance.

We were going to share but this particular friend wanted her own. All fine. We still agreed to all go 4 ways, despite her not getting anything to share out, and ordering 3 naans!

Today is Monday and the meal took place last Friday. Still no payment. I reminded her on Saturday and she said she was so sorry, send bank details and she’d send it. So I did.

Still nothing. I messaged again this evening and she left me on read. Messaged friend whose friend she originally was… who said she’s now on holiday! I don’t even remember her mentioning that

We are suppose to be going for an 80s night next month. AIBU not to go if she goes? Told other friend and she said she probably just keeps forgetting

I wouldn’t mind but she asked to take the left over coke bottle and the last of the butter chicken. We all said yes because we were stuffed

Cheeky woman has an amazing figure to boot, so maybe I’m just jealous!

🎵 ...and we all like vindaloo
I'm.going to eat. Two more naans. Than. You. naa naa naa...🎵

I think this is brilliant and is actually still friendly in a way lol.

3 naans and a great figure - console yourself that she’s got a tapeworm.

Jesus how much 3 naans cost?
and you are begrudging her a leftover chicken and Coca Cola?

She owes you £28.00, keep asking her for it until she pays or leaves the friend group.

What or how much she ate is irrelevant. I wouldn’t want to be friends with someone who judged me in that way.

You are NOT being unreasonable. I always make it a priority to pay money owed. If she "forgot" its because she doesn't care enough to remember. Keep reminding her until it becomes embarrassing (for her).

I'd still go on the next night out and when it comes to paying the bill keep your purse in your pocket and tell naan girl to get hers out as it's her turn to return the favour.

She’s taken you for a ride there. Don’t let her keep you at home though. If you both go, text beforehand to ask her to transfer before or bring cash with her on the night if easier, and if she doesn’t, just make a point of saying you want to all pay for your own because you’re still owed from the last trip. And ask when she is going to pay you.

Has she paid yet? I would pay especially with two reminders. You can sort of forgive some if they’ve had a busy weekend but really she’s taking the piss if there’s still no payment.

I wouldn’t miss the event. That’s just make her more comfortable.

Ask her in front of others can she pay your share of the bill when you go out as she still owes you £28

RIGHT?!

"Stacey's naan has got it going on..."

She owes £28. Not something I'd be willing to write off especially as she said she'd pay

I’ve even got a spare username from last time we did it

3 naans plus the rest of the meal she didn’t want to share.

3 naans plus the cost of a meal she didn’t want to share. Can you afford to write off £28 ?

The amount isn't the point anyway.
She's just taking the piss.

Jesus bet you're a right jobsworth ugh!

Over £28?

Can tell you have never been skint!

Why say things are fine if they arent

why say yes to someone taking leftovers if you’re going to complain about it

Please take a naan bread with you on your night out and hand it to her

I like this . ‘You still owe me from last time, rather than pay me back please can you just sort my share now’ , or words to that effect.
alternatively WhatsApp group: ‘thanks everyone who’s paid back , @ Naangrabber, I think it’s only you left now, here’s my deets…, thank you ‘

A group chat about a bit of bread? God help us.

I love your current name, that's nothing short of genius.😁
I wonder if she's a mate jalfrezi Jezebel.😁

That’s the way to go. She can pay for you this time, up to the value of 28 quid. She’ll be there, she’ll have her card (surely?) so what objection could she make?