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Sick of hearing about "bits"

292 replies

HelloDenise · 20/09/2025 01:11

I'm fed up of reading about people going to B&M, Home Bargains, Next, M&S, the pound shop or wherever to get some autumn .... BITS!

Throws, pumpkins, candles, cushions, foliage, wreaths and garlands ARE NOT BLOODY BITS! They're whole, substantial items, not bits of items .

Where the hell did this come from? Or should I be on Pedants' corner?

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Snugglepie · 20/09/2025 11:15

Someonelookedatmypostinghistorysoichanged · 20/09/2025 01:13

love autumn to bits 😂

Me too 😂 why do people care what others do. Don't like it don't buy it lol

NewMrsF · 20/09/2025 11:18

When I say ‘bits’ I mean nothing in particular, so I’m undecided and will just pick up what I fancy.

HelloDenise · 20/09/2025 11:19

Snugglepie · 20/09/2025 11:15

Me too 😂 why do people care what others do. Don't like it don't buy it lol

The thread isn't complaining about people buying decor. I buy autumn decorations. I just don't call them bits because they are, you know, whole items.

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RhaenysRocks · 20/09/2025 11:19

Lifeinthepit · 20/09/2025 09:04

Personally I'd get that lass sat round a table and get some lamb chops down her neck. No more bits for her.

She hasn't eaten a lamb chop for about ten years. And one adult plus two teens with different schedules means sat round a table only happens about once a week. But thanks.

LizzieLazzie · 20/09/2025 11:24

‘Bits’ makes me think of genitalia too. I hate the phrase ‘picky bits’ - think it means beige-type food, crisps etc? No idea where it came from but it conjures up people picking their ‘bits’ to me - gross!

AliceMaforethought · 20/09/2025 11:27

Snugglepie · 20/09/2025 11:15

Me too 😂 why do people care what others do. Don't like it don't buy it lol

Because the planet is drowning in this tacky tat.

stovokor · 20/09/2025 11:28

ThreePointOneFourOneFiveNine · 20/09/2025 09:52

Surely it’s just a shortening of “bits and pieces”, which means an assortment of small items. Language is fluid, words change meaning over time.

If you read Lady Chatterly’s Lover you’ll come across a paragraph that contains the c word about six times. It does not mean the same thing it does today.

I hate to break it to you, but the c word means exactly the same in Lady Chatterly’s Lover as it does today. Hence the book was banned. You have filthy taste in books 😉

AliceMaforethought · 20/09/2025 11:28

LizzieLazzie · 20/09/2025 11:24

‘Bits’ makes me think of genitalia too. I hate the phrase ‘picky bits’ - think it means beige-type food, crisps etc? No idea where it came from but it conjures up people picking their ‘bits’ to me - gross!

It brings up disgusting mental images, doesn't it!?

AliceMaforethought · 20/09/2025 11:29

stovokor · 20/09/2025 11:28

I hate to break it to you, but the c word means exactly the same in Lady Chatterly’s Lover as it does today. Hence the book was banned. You have filthy taste in books 😉

Of course it does. How on earth did that poster manage to read Lawrence and yet be sub literate? Astounding.

thetemptationofchocolate · 20/09/2025 11:36

Bjorkdidit · 20/09/2025 07:18

I can cope with 'bits', I'd use it as shorthand for a top up shop, or doing a few easy to accomplish tasks at work or home, 'get some bits done' so I could avoid the big things I should be doing but feel like I've accomplished something.

I get murderous rage when podcast I listen to tells people to 'slide into their DMs' when wanting listeners to message them so much that I try to anticipate them saying it so I can skip forward 30s.

But my favourite ever 'picky bits' thread on here was this gem:

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/4130691-To-want-to-go-to-Markies-for-picky-bits

Because it had everything, it was like someone had typed 'write an OP that will cause the most outrage on MN' into ChatGPT years before anyone even knew about it's existence. Horror, at the phrase 'picky bits', faux ignorance of the use of 'Markies' as shorthand for M&S, class and regional snobbery and to top it all, it was during COVID times so arguments about whether browsing a supermarket for non essential groceries as a bit of a treat was allowed during lockdown.

Edited

'Slide into my DMs' creates a different picture in my mind. In the Olden Days, DMs used to mean Doc Marten boots.

TheMintReader · 20/09/2025 11:51

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HÆLTHEPAIN · 20/09/2025 11:54

It makes me laugh when people say it’s just tat that will get chucked in landfill. I mean, yes some/a lot of it probably will. But I bet the people posting aren’t perfect in their environmental/ethical efforts either.

thisfilmisboring123 · 20/09/2025 12:00

HÆLTHEPAIN · 20/09/2025 11:54

It makes me laugh when people say it’s just tat that will get chucked in landfill. I mean, yes some/a lot of it probably will. But I bet the people posting aren’t perfect in their environmental/ethical efforts either.

I was about to this.
Who says ‘bits’ means plastic tat?

I think I might say bits but I’m honestly not sure.

I often go to the likes of B&M or Home Bargains for my cleaning products and generally don’t have a list but often come out with ‘bits’ that I didn’t necessarily go looking for.

MB34 · 20/09/2025 12:02

You have an issue with the word...I have an issue with the whole action of it. Why do you have to go out on a special trip to buy Autumn "bits".
If you're out shopping anyway and see something you genuinely like, by all means buy it.
When society is so wasteful and especially with a COL crisis, to buy a whole load of new decorations for a particular season/day is just wasteful. (Same as when people buy new kitchen items when they're changing the colour scheme every other year)

That is just my opinion though and I know it may be unreasonable - its up to other people what they spend their money on.

HelloDenise · 20/09/2025 12:03

This reminds me of that Tom Grennan song about a little bit of love. I can't work out what a little bit of love actually is but it sounds annoying. Bits, bytes

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Keenovay · 20/09/2025 12:04

It's cosy and twee and makes me shudder. I assumed it must be an English turn of phrase on here. We Scots might say "Just picking up a few things" or "I need some bits and pieces" however even the latter gets some side eye from me as it's borderline twee.

But BITS in isolation? Never! [Reaches for Braveheart warpaint]

VictoriaEra · 20/09/2025 12:06

Completely agree. The ubiquitous bits give me hives. Even worse if people ‘grab some bits’.

FateAmenableToChange · 20/09/2025 12:15

Indeed, would more accurate to describe it as plastic landfill.

Keenovay · 20/09/2025 12:18

Also dislike the trend of "bakes" as a noun. They're cakes not bakes - stop trying to make them sound cool and insouciant. I am aware of tray bakes of course, but these should be referred to by their full name. I blame Bake-Off.

Mokel · 20/09/2025 12:24

Plus the American ‘math’ is coming more common it’s MATHS!!!

Lifeinthepit · 20/09/2025 12:26

RhaenysRocks · 20/09/2025 11:19

She hasn't eaten a lamb chop for about ten years. And one adult plus two teens with different schedules means sat round a table only happens about once a week. But thanks.

Don't worry. Just teasing you. I'm not really from Yorkshire.

CalzoneOnLegs · 20/09/2025 12:42

@Mokel and it is usually referring to Arithmetic anyway rather than Mathematics

vickylou78 · 20/09/2025 13:17

Isn't just a shortening of bits and bobs? Or bits and pieces? I think it's appropriate for b&m as I definitely walk out with a load of bits and pieces when I only intended to buy loo roll!

Owly11 · 20/09/2025 13:19

AliceMaforethought · 20/09/2025 09:04

Another silly, mindless buzz phrase.

Wow you must move in different circles from me - I haven’t heard anyone say bits and bobs for years. To me it’s a very old fashioned phrase.

HelloDenise · 20/09/2025 13:22

vickylou78 · 20/09/2025 13:17

Isn't just a shortening of bits and bobs? Or bits and pieces? I think it's appropriate for b&m as I definitely walk out with a load of bits and pieces when I only intended to buy loo roll!

Isn't there a carrier bag that proclaims "I can't be trusted at B&M"?

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