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Which country will you move to if Reform win next election?

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Krenonges · 15/09/2025 20:21

Faced with the prospect of NHS being sold off, ICE-style immigration raids and deportations, emboldened bigots, changes to the school curriculum, public services dessimated, leaving EHCR, I honestly think I'll have no choice but to leave. I don't want to but I couldn't bring DC up in fascist state.

Luckily my DH, DC and I are all dual nationals of an EU country so we have an escape route if needed and this country goes to the dogs.

Where would you go?

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Jumpingthruhoops · 16/09/2025 22:50

Coolasfeck · 15/09/2025 22:08

Haven’t read the whole thread but DH and I have been having serious conversations around this. I wrote about it on another thread. DH and the kids are dual nationals so we’d move to his home country.

Farage is the reason we have the boat issue (Brexit) and the country is broke, yet the media particularly the BBC are obsessed with him so he’s doing is same old Pied Piper routine. Rather than being able to focus on improving the country, the government is fully focused on boats as a result.

I was watching interviews with some of the attendees at Saturday’s march, one guy had on a USA hat and Israeli flag. The interviewer asked him what the USA and Israel have to do with being patriotic to Britain and he couldn’t form a coherent sentence let alone explain. These are the people we’re supposed to listen to and the voters the main parties are chasing. It’s absurd.

If Reform get in the country is finished.

He couldn’t form a coherent sentence let alone explain.

So, much like the radical left, then, when ask to define what a woman is!?

OneFunBrickNewt · 16/09/2025 23:08

1one · 16/09/2025 20:22

All I saw were people busy pissing in the street, fighting with the police and yelling at women to 'get your tits out.'

Are you talking about the Notting Hill Carnival?

Nope, I'm very much talking about the Far Right anti-migrrant march that took place at the weekend.

This doctor explains it well:
Written by a doctor at St Thomas' Hospital, London after the Tommy Robinson march on 13/9.
‘I was the anaesthetic consultant on call at St Thomas’ Hospital yesterday. It is on the south side of the bridge that these racists marched over for 5 hours; right under the windows of the hospital chanting their hateful, vitriolic, violent slogans.
It was not lost on me that in our emergency handover meeting of around 15 people at 8am, I was one of only two white British members of staff. The NHS would collapse without the remarkable work that colleagues who are immigrants and the children of immigrants do.
This “protest” was not peaceful as we know. Many broke through what were pretty puny barriers to get into the hospital grounds. Security (all non-white and being incredibly measured) had to fend them off at the main entrance. No police. No other help. Lots of very scared non-British workers inside the building. Lots of the staff on duty with me were really scared about getting home safely. Many booked rooms in the nurses’ accommodation overnight because they didn’t dare leave. I drove several to nearby stations to avoid what was by 5pm an intimidating, abusive, drunken rabble.
Our chief exec sent a weak email on Thursday saying, effectively, everyone is valued in our hospital. She was nowhere to be seen on Saturday.
Colleagues and I are going to write to her to say that the Trust’s response before and on the day was wholly inadequate but I also think NHS leaders and the government need to denounce the overtly racist elements of the march (i.e. most of it) and publicly support non-British NHS workers. They must stop equivocating for fear of offending a group of the electorate that they foolishly think might vote for them, and take a damn stand. They are leaving a vacuum for the radical right; either fight or step aside and let someone else try to save the soul of the country.
I was shocked to see lots of families with their teens proudly marching. People need to get involved and counter this appalling rhetoric. It’s completely disgusting. We need to try to understand why they believe the far right’s lies, counter those lies and offer a genuine alternative for ordinary people otherwise we will be in the US’s shoes with Farage at the helm. I will do whatever I can to help in this cause but it is urgent. Labour are not doing anything effective. Those groups/parties planning to provide an alternative need to get their A’s into G and start campaigning loudly. Farage spent the summer holding weekly press conferences while the government went on holiday.
I felt embarrassed to call myself British in front of my incredibly brave but distressed colleagues yesterday. I’d welcome everyone’s view about the most useful steps that I and others who are equally appalled by yesterday and the rise of the far right here can most usefully do to fight back.
Wishing everyone a peaceful evening. ’

Jumpingthruhoops · 16/09/2025 23:12

OneFunBrickNewt · 15/09/2025 22:56

Well you don't know me, not sure what I've done for you to want me to leave...!
If just thousands of people like us left- an experienced, decent state school teacher and an experienced, senior NHS clinician- due to not wanting to live under a far-right government, that's not great for the country.
Would be ironic if Farage had to bring in some immigrants to replace highly skilled professionals emigrating....

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Wouldn't be ironic at all. People have literally ZERO issues with those migrating to the UK, working hard, paying taxes and doing their level best to assimilate into British culture. Why on earth would we?

You really need to stop mindlessly lapping up what the MSM wants you to believe.

Sherbs12 · 16/09/2025 23:16

SamPM · 16/09/2025 22:49

Please explain what the Trump/Vance debacle was. And also why Brexit is a disaster. Thnx.

I can’t tell if this is satire or not, but here it goes…

Brexit negatives: time-consuming and costly barriers for trade; losses in freedom of movement for leisure, education and business; the admin of attempting to axe/adapt close to 7,000 EU laws…think the Tories stopped at 600; given so many are concerned about immigration, net migration increased massively from 2020 onwards, particularly from non-EU countries (and ended the Dublin Regulation which allowed the UK to return some asylum seekers to EU countries without considering their claims) and also the huge cost - figures in photo below. I might well add to this the divisive rhetoric and misleading campaign to leave (remember Boris and his NHS investment bus), plus the political turmoil that followed with Cameron’s resignation, which ultimately led to Johnson and his Brexit deal, which he later admitted was awful. I’ve probably missed a few things.

And the Trump/Vance debacle was what took place at The White House when they attacked Zelensky in a full media circus from everything to his clothing, to suggesting (incorrectly) that he was responsible for the war and risking WW3. There was endless MSM and social media coverage, so should be very easy to find.

Which country will you move to if Reform win next election?
OneFunBrickNewt · 16/09/2025 23:19

Jumpingthruhoops · 16/09/2025 22:45

This. With bells on! 👏 👏

What shows that they are clearly racist is that they invited a woman who pleaded guilty to inciting racial hatred- and let's be really clear about what she wanted to happen- she was inciting others during a race riot to burn down migrant hotels with migrants in them. She wanted to BURN human beings alive- just because they are migrants. And Farage invited her to speak at their conference as a star speaker.
There were black police officers under apartheid South Africa- doesn't mean that the system wasn't racist. Be under no illusion that the Far Right is on the march in the UK (literally on Saturday), led by a tax-dodging hypocrite who doesn't care about the normal person.

chaosmaker · 16/09/2025 23:23

Reform will rip themselves apart pretty fast when they realise they don’t know how to get anything done. Just look at the councils they are failing to run. They are mad as a box of frogs.

They have already cost us around 25k for each one of their councillors that has quit or been sacked.

RigIt · 17/09/2025 00:19

smallpinecone · 15/09/2025 21:29

I have an Irish passport and could go if I wanted to. I’d hardly expect them to welcome me though, why on earth would they?

Any British Citizen can go and live in Ireland (and vice versa). You don’t need an Irish passport. We are both part of the Common Travel Area so are effectively treated as we are citizens of each other’s countries for a lot of things: residency, benefits, healthcare etc.

RigIt · 17/09/2025 00:22

shuggles · 15/09/2025 21:46

You can walk into Ireland if you like because of the common travel area, and the complete absence of border controls at the land border between UK and Ireland.

But having a British passport doesn't give you any rights in Ireland, and it doesn't give you a right to work there or access healthcare.

That’s not correct, you do have a right to work there and access benefits and healthcare (and Irish Citizens can do the same here).

https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/common-travel-area-guidance

“Under the CTA, British and Irish citizens can move freely and reside in either jurisdiction and enjoy associated rights and privileges, including the right to work, study and vote in certain elections, as well as to access social welfare benefits and health services.”

Common Travel Area: rights of UK and Irish citizens

Information for UK and Irish citizens on their rights under the Common Travel Area arrangements (CTA).

https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/common-travel-area-guidance

RigIt · 17/09/2025 00:27

Don’t worry thought Irish peeps, in reality the vast majority won’t up sticks and move countries, however much they might want to. People need either a very very big stick or a huge incentive to uproot their whole lives and move away from what they know and their communities and wider family so unless things get REALLY bad, I don’t see a big rush to move to Ireland happening. It’s hard to emigrate.

TeenagersAngst · 17/09/2025 06:58

Sskka · 16/09/2025 21:55

Haha, lovely to see that old classic in 2025.

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Such a shame that understanding actual facts is seen as a joke. Explains the mess our higher education system is in.

Boomer55 · 17/09/2025 06:59

Krenonges · 15/09/2025 20:21

Faced with the prospect of NHS being sold off, ICE-style immigration raids and deportations, emboldened bigots, changes to the school curriculum, public services dessimated, leaving EHCR, I honestly think I'll have no choice but to leave. I don't want to but I couldn't bring DC up in fascist state.

Luckily my DH, DC and I are all dual nationals of an EU country so we have an escape route if needed and this country goes to the dogs.

Where would you go?

Nowhere. None of this will happen.

TeenagersAngst · 17/09/2025 07:03

OneFunBrickNewt · 16/09/2025 23:19

What shows that they are clearly racist is that they invited a woman who pleaded guilty to inciting racial hatred- and let's be really clear about what she wanted to happen- she was inciting others during a race riot to burn down migrant hotels with migrants in them. She wanted to BURN human beings alive- just because they are migrants. And Farage invited her to speak at their conference as a star speaker.
There were black police officers under apartheid South Africa- doesn't mean that the system wasn't racist. Be under no illusion that the Far Right is on the march in the UK (literally on Saturday), led by a tax-dodging hypocrite who doesn't care about the normal person.

I don’t think there will ever be a consensus on what LC said in her post because language is subjective. What meets the legal level of incitement? Do you need to give specifics (she didn’t)?

There have been countless death threats issued by trans rights activists towards JK Rowling which are way more specific and ‘inciteful’ and yet no one has gone to prison for those.

We don’t know whether a jury would have disagreed that she incited violence because it never went to trial which I think is a real shame.

Sherbs12 · 17/09/2025 07:10

Boomer55 · 17/09/2025 06:59

Nowhere. None of this will happen.

It won’t happen because you don’t think Reform will get in, or it won’t happen because they won’t follow through on any of their pledges that they’re campaigning on - e.g. leaving the ECHR, mass deportations, etc. because everything the pp listed Reform have referred to.

The emboldening of bigots is well underway (and no that doesn’t mean everyone concerned by immigration is far-right/bigoted).

bumblingbovine49 · 17/09/2025 07:10

sharlink · 15/09/2025 20:39

So are you all saying you would prefer Labour to stay in ? I'll be voting for reform.

Yes I absolutely do prefer Labour to Reform by some considerable margin.

I think Labour could be doing better but I honestly can't see how they are worse than the bunch of Tory incompetents we had for the previous 14 years and I'd rather have them back than Reform in charge . Given my views of that disaster of a Tory government, the fact that I'd take them back any day over Reformreally tells you how much I don't want Reform in government

Bushmillsbabe · 17/09/2025 07:13

Hollyhobbi · 16/09/2025 18:54

We don't have enough houses for ourselves, unless you want to send a load of tradespeople over here to build some?

I'm sure some of those moving would be trades people yes.
Aren't there lots of empty houses following the celtic tiger era - a quick Google shows over 150,000 empty homes across Ireland.

But my main point was that everyone assumes they can just move to Ireland to live and work, when that isn't the case. My husband is Irish so he and our girls could, but I would have to live there for 2 years to be eligible or residency to be able to then work.

Bushmillsbabe · 17/09/2025 07:15

bumblingbovine49 · 17/09/2025 07:10

Yes I absolutely do prefer Labour to Reform by some considerable margin.

I think Labour could be doing better but I honestly can't see how they are worse than the bunch of Tory incompetents we had for the previous 14 years and I'd rather have them back than Reform in charge . Given my views of that disaster of a Tory government, the fact that I'd take them back any day over Reformreally tells you how much I don't want Reform in government

I 100% would take conservatories over Reform. Might not agree with all their policies, but they remain a moderate parry with experience of governing a country, which beats Reform who are all hot air and extremism hands down

CoffeeCantata · 17/09/2025 07:15

TwoTuesday · 16/09/2025 15:33

I'd stay and fight to change things, not run off crying.

So would I. I care about this country.

God, the pathetic, cowardly self-interested, self righteous pps on here.

Good riddance to them - and don’t come crawling back!

Bluelilacbella · 17/09/2025 07:19

Krenonges · 15/09/2025 21:16

I'd stay where you are. Surely Germany of all places wouldn't vote far right again????

The AFD is gaining popularity rapidly (see this weekend’s local election) and may well win overall by 2029. The move to the right is happening everywhere, mainly as a result of too much immigration for too long.

Bluelilacbella · 17/09/2025 07:25

SamPM · 16/09/2025 22:45

I would consider moving back to the UK tbh. Right now the UK is in an absolute mess and needs to be sorted out. Desperately. If you really cannot see that then you must live in one helluva gold plated bubble because the rest of the world can see it.

I agree. Look at all the companies moving out of the UK, investing elsewhere, look at the huge government debt, look at the state of our health care system etc etc The UK is in indeed in a mess and Labour isn’t solving anything imo

Runssometimes · 17/09/2025 07:31

@Bushmillsbabe are you a British citizen? If you are you do have the right to live and work in Ireland as multiple posters have said. Under the CTA.

And the issue with housing isn’t about lack of labourers - it’s about planning and infrastructure as well. Ireland’s population has expanded at twice the rate as the UKs and it’s a much smaller country to begin with. The infrastructure outside the main cities isn’t there to deal with huge numbers of people moving about hence, partly why there’s a housing shortage. There’s houses, sure but not all of them are near jobs. Much like here.

and papering the countryside with houses isn’t the solution- poor transport links, overrilance on cars so any increase must causes traffic jams. If everyone drives, nobody moves etc. It’s a smaller country, farming is still an important industry and using non agricultural land is an issue as Ireland is already the most ecologically degraded country in Europe. A few hundred immigrant labourers are not going to fix those challenges

OneFunBrickNewt · 17/09/2025 07:33

TeenagersAngst · 17/09/2025 07:03

I don’t think there will ever be a consensus on what LC said in her post because language is subjective. What meets the legal level of incitement? Do you need to give specifics (she didn’t)?

There have been countless death threats issued by trans rights activists towards JK Rowling which are way more specific and ‘inciteful’ and yet no one has gone to prison for those.

We don’t know whether a jury would have disagreed that she incited violence because it never went to trial which I think is a real shame.

Sorry, but she pleaded guilty. A judge gave her a substantial prison sentence- presumably they would have suspended her sentence or given her a lesser one if they thought - despite her guilty plea- that there were any grey areas or they thought the evidence wasn't clear etc.

I'm a man. If I pleaded guilty to sexually assaulting a woman or a child (well anyone for that matter) and then came out of prison and said I wasn't actually guilty, and that there are grey areas etc etc, I doubt many people would believe me or invite me to a party conference as a start speaker.

Again- it's worth remembering why she went to prison: during a race riot, she called for the burning down of hostels with other human beings inside them- purely based on the fact they were migrants. IE burning people alive based on racist reasons- a pogrom She then pleaded guilty. It's as clear as clear can be.

And if it isn't, google her litany of other racist tweets that demonstate her abhorrent views- views that got her invited to the Far Right Reform party conference.

Humdingerydoo · 17/09/2025 07:34

shuggles · 16/09/2025 21:26

@Humdingerydoo Yes, but I'd rather not live my life constantly waiting for the next terrorist attack to take place.

Don't you live in the UK?

Yes, I do. There are way more terrorist attacks in Israel (whether thwarted or successful) than in the UK though. Car rammings, stabbings etc. So I have no interest in living there.

If you haven't heard about these frequent terrorist attacks, that's because they rarely make it onto the news.

sanluca · 17/09/2025 07:49

Crikeyalmighty · 15/09/2025 21:02

Netherlands - have visa application in already using our self employed current business status . Tough criteria but we fit it . We lived in Copenhagen 2020 to 2022 and came back due to elderly relative reasons so have done it before - we would have gone to Sweden but need £40k just lying around for a year as non EU , plus current business and we can’t do that - business wise it’s better for us anyway

Seriously not going to be any better than the UK and Farage. I actually think Geert Wilders will win even more in the election in October even though the guy has already made two governments fall and this one even twice! His party is also a one man party. But people still vote for him as the left is just not an alternative. All they do is talk about issues far away and nothing about the massive housing shortage or failing healthcare. And stop calling people bigots if they have a different opinion or different priorities!

Just like other European countries, all moving to the right, all for similar reason: not immigration perse, but refusing to even listen to what the part of the electorate is trying to tell them.

TeenagersAngst · 17/09/2025 07:58

OneFunBrickNewt · 17/09/2025 07:33

Sorry, but she pleaded guilty. A judge gave her a substantial prison sentence- presumably they would have suspended her sentence or given her a lesser one if they thought - despite her guilty plea- that there were any grey areas or they thought the evidence wasn't clear etc.

I'm a man. If I pleaded guilty to sexually assaulting a woman or a child (well anyone for that matter) and then came out of prison and said I wasn't actually guilty, and that there are grey areas etc etc, I doubt many people would believe me or invite me to a party conference as a start speaker.

Again- it's worth remembering why she went to prison: during a race riot, she called for the burning down of hostels with other human beings inside them- purely based on the fact they were migrants. IE burning people alive based on racist reasons- a pogrom She then pleaded guilty. It's as clear as clear can be.

And if it isn't, google her litany of other racist tweets that demonstate her abhorrent views- views that got her invited to the Far Right Reform party conference.

At the time Ricky Jones was cleared, I heard plenty of discussion that had Lucy Connolly’s case gone to trial, she may well have been freed. The public’s bar for imprisoning people for their words is very high.

But as we know she pleaded guilty because she thought that would help her situation. So we’ll never know.

EasternStandard · 17/09/2025 08:02

usernamealreadytaken · 16/09/2025 22:30

You can’t bear the thought of living under a right wing government which you think will privatise the NHS, so you’ll move to a country that was literally run by Nazis and where the actual far right is on the rise, which has a privatised healthcare system? Make it make sense!

People seem to be listing countries with a different healthcare model and stricter borders or lax ones with the same issues as here, so the same thing as proposed.

With the added bonus of the effort of emigrating and facing any backlash there.

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