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Which country will you move to if Reform win next election?

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Krenonges · 15/09/2025 20:21

Faced with the prospect of NHS being sold off, ICE-style immigration raids and deportations, emboldened bigots, changes to the school curriculum, public services dessimated, leaving EHCR, I honestly think I'll have no choice but to leave. I don't want to but I couldn't bring DC up in fascist state.

Luckily my DH, DC and I are all dual nationals of an EU country so we have an escape route if needed and this country goes to the dogs.

Where would you go?

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JustSawJohnny · 16/09/2025 00:17

sharlink · 15/09/2025 20:39

So are you all saying you would prefer Labour to stay in ? I'll be voting for reform.

They may seem ineffectual right now but that's better than private health care, decimated food standards, removal of workers rights, slashing of maternity/paternity leave etc.

Reform are Tories on acid.

The only people who would benefit are the mega rich.

theDudesmummy · 16/09/2025 00:20

I already left, directly because of Brexit. Went to Ireland.

sleepwouldbenice · 16/09/2025 00:28

Renoonabudget · 15/09/2025 23:59

To answer your question though OP, I won't move. I can't afford too, our careers are established (although not mumsnet level salaries 😬) and UK based, we have elderly parents and young children settled at school. But mostly I do actually love my country and would want to stay and make it better, fight inequality not pack up and give up. I think anyone who is genuinely worried to the point of considering emigrating needs to get politically active and proactively fight Reform. And I don't think the grass is greener, the right are rising across the globe as the super rich get richer and need footmen and scapegoats to keep it that way.

I do believe Reform are a credible threat, Farage is incredibly well funded and his message is amplified by the BBC and obviously GBN where he has his own constant media presence to deliver an unchallenged message. He's clever enough to distance himself from Tommy Robinson so that he has plausible denibility that he's not the Neo National Front (but Robinson et al will spread the word regardless as Farage is the most mainstream anti immigration party and a good starting point)

The news of the Sikh girl being raped and told to go back to where she came from in broad daylight and Elon Musk talking at far right rallies asking for action has really made me realise that things in this country have now tipped over into the sinister. I am so worried, but I need to stay and fight for what's right. I also worry that the environment has just been completely knocked off the agenda too, as a human race we need to come together but we're really been torn apart and everyone is so angry and suspicious of each other. I want to be optimistic again.

I agree. The headlines for weeks have been the same ongoing message of hate.
I really have no issue having sensible conversations about immigration and funding for it. But not this hate
And the environment! Jesus the irony of them dismissing the credibility of climate change, which in the end will make the current level of immigration seem minute.
And brexit, and anti vax rhetoric at a party conference ffs

OonaStubbs · 16/09/2025 00:29

If immigration is such a key issue that is going to win the election for Reform, the only thing they have, why don't Labour change tack?

Choppychop · 16/09/2025 00:32

I’ll be moving back to Australia if I start to feel really uncomfortable or super lonely as my entire family live there and I have dual citizen ship.

HelenaWaiting · 16/09/2025 00:33

Canopop · 15/09/2025 20:40

For what reasons?

There's only one reason to vote Reform. It's called "being a fascist."

Tryingtokeepgoing · 16/09/2025 00:38

Krenonges · 15/09/2025 20:43

Why does everyone think if you don't like Reform then you love Labour???

No I don't like Labour, they're a terrible disappointment, there are no decent parties anymore apart from some of the smaller ones

Labour are a lot more than a disappointment. They have been catastrophic for the UK , in only a little over a year. They are in no small part to blame for the rise of Reform because they continue to ignore what actually matters to voters. I’m in Korea at the moment, and even here when chatting to locals Starmer is recognised as useless 😂

I predicted that this Labour government did not understand the issues or what it was doing, so despite not having another passport decided to move shortly after they were elected. There’s a lot of scaremongering about moving elsewhere in the EU being difficult post brexit, but as long as you have money you are welcome in many places, unlike in the UK now.

Renoonabudget · 16/09/2025 00:39

OonaStubbs · 16/09/2025 00:29

If immigration is such a key issue that is going to win the election for Reform, the only thing they have, why don't Labour change tack?

Every time Labour pander to the anti immigration rhetoric it bolsters Reforms position. Anyone who's main voting concern is immigrants is never going to vote Labour over Reform on the issue so if Labour have any chance of gaining back ground they need to change the bloody conversation and stop legitimising the hate as they are losing the left and not winning the right.

Labour should concentrate on issues that people voted them in for, decent well funded public services, being able to live comfortably on a full time wage and stop with the failed austerity shite!

MyrtleLion · 16/09/2025 00:45

MorningLarkEchoes · 15/09/2025 23:03

I’m a life long ‘Tory’ voter. Reform wouldn’t be my first choice, but if it’s a choice between them and Labour then it won’t be Labour I will be voting for.

Thanks for your help in creating this problem. You did a great job.

User21548967 · 16/09/2025 00:54

Crispynoodle · 15/09/2025 23:07

Fingers crossed for a united ireland! No move necessary

I doubt the support is actually in ROI for this despite the 'polls' saying otherwise as the polls are based on ideology primarily. People will vote with their pockets and NI would cost ROI too much financially. It won't happen in our or our children's lifetime.

Trendyname · 16/09/2025 01:05

Namitynamename · 16/09/2025 00:05

Our democracy and liberalism were born out of some really tortuous wranglings over free speech, religious minority rights, voting rights. All the while wars were happening and riots were popping up, dissenters were dissenting and the economy hit various road blocks. I don't like how things are right now but there was never a halcyon age when we were sensible.

There is not one single country where minorities were treated well throughout the history. So rather than saying UK was bad in every way possible in the past, start looking at some of its positive achievements to have a balanced perspective. Nobody can build or improve their country without feeling a bit of love and pride, and a true sense of community. A little bit of collective high esteem is needed.

If you think it’s a country of unethical people, then what do you suggest? To call people from other countries to run the government and make its policies? Unfortunately in other countries, you will never be considered same as a native person. Some people would be nice and friendly but doesn’t mean every stranger will open their arms to welcome you. You know a lot of people don’t like British and even if you feel there is a reason behind it and you are different from an average British, it will require a lot of efforts on your part to get accepted and for them to see you without those stereotypical lenses.

LoveParrot19 · 16/09/2025 01:07

Hopefully you and your like will move to Afghanistan or Iran or maybe Syria. They'd love to have you and your views. Maybe ask yourself why the NHS is broken, but you probably won't want to admit why.
Be honest, you'll never leave the UK.

GetOffMyLan · 16/09/2025 01:27

Portugal

Namitynamename · 16/09/2025 01:31

Trendyname · 16/09/2025 01:05

There is not one single country where minorities were treated well throughout the history. So rather than saying UK was bad in every way possible in the past, start looking at some of its positive achievements to have a balanced perspective. Nobody can build or improve their country without feeling a bit of love and pride, and a true sense of community. A little bit of collective high esteem is needed.

If you think it’s a country of unethical people, then what do you suggest? To call people from other countries to run the government and make its policies? Unfortunately in other countries, you will never be considered same as a native person. Some people would be nice and friendly but doesn’t mean every stranger will open their arms to welcome you. You know a lot of people don’t like British and even if you feel there is a reason behind it and you are different from an average British, it will require a lot of efforts on your part to get accepted and for them to see you without those stereotypical lenses.

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My point isn't that the UK was bad. It's that the things people like about British values - democratic institutions, liberal values etc all evolved during very stressful times. It's not like things were less tumultuous then. And to a large extent they were influenced by riots, and the pushback against them. And by heavy suppression of dissent and the push back against that. And out of that you get people like Mills trying to figure out the arguments for individual liberty and the boundaries of free speech. And things like Catholic emancipation which had a big impact on wider politics and how we think about freedom belief. And the dissenters influence on radical politics and the riots against them.

But I think people imagine a time when people were terribly sensible and had very dry discussions about politics in dusty rooms. There probably was a lot of that. But also a lot of stress and unpleasantness, and tumult. And dickheads like George Gordon getting way too much influence and causing trouble.

Fleetheart · 16/09/2025 02:09

nearlylovemyusername · 15/09/2025 23:44

It's much more than failure of Labour and Tory.

Just look at viral threads here on MN - CK, abortions, immigration, openly far right... do you think it was possible two years ago? this all started in the last twelve months and it's sponsored by those who want to bring Reform in. The first step was to normalise Reform - it used to be a social suicide even in the last GE to say you support Farage. It's not anymore, Reform's been normalised. We're moving to the next stage.

Remember Cummings? he was ultra successful in Brexit campaign (honestly, who cared about Brexit before he started?), he's now masterminding Reform and I have little doubt he'll get them in.

it's beyond terrifying.

I don’t disagree but this time we have the time and hopefully the chance to make things different.

TempestTost · 16/09/2025 02:12

GlastoNinja · 15/09/2025 21:49

Currently looking at Bermuda, we have in demand qualifications but we’re quite old.

If Reform get in I would be devastated and desperate to get away

Not to pick on you, but I do not really understand answers like this.

And I love Bermuda, I have Bermudian family and have spent a lot of time there and would live there in a heartbeat.

But if you object to stuff like restrictions on immigration, and more conservative worldviews, why Bermuda? They are incredibly strict about immigration, the only way to naturalise is to marry a Bermudian. You can be born there but if your parents are not citizens, neither are you.

They are a pretty conservative society, and there is political corruption there just like other places. The don't have anything like the NHS, you pay for health care, and everyone who can sends their kids to private schools because the public ones are not very good.

Similarly some are mentioning moving to countries in Europe which are also having similar issues with immigration, and which already have health care systems similar to what Farage seems to be proposing.

It just seems like people are saying their leaving for these other places which they are not holding to anything like the same standard.

pollyglot · 16/09/2025 02:21

Why won't someone come over here to NZ and buy my lovely beach house with spectacular sea views, sun and privacy? You can have it for 300k (pounds, that is)

HideousKinky · 16/09/2025 03:25

We would go to Singapore where DH is a citizen

SouthernNights59 · 16/09/2025 03:54

pollyglot · 16/09/2025 02:21

Why won't someone come over here to NZ and buy my lovely beach house with spectacular sea views, sun and privacy? You can have it for 300k (pounds, that is)

Where on earth can you buy a lovely beach house like that in NZ for such a low price??

Alondra · 16/09/2025 04:28

deusexmacintosh · 15/09/2025 22:34

The Irish government needs to restrict passports and automatic citizenship to Brits with 1 Irish parent. Meaning their parent was born and raised on the island of Ireland ONLY. It's getting ridiculous.

My best friend was born in Manchester in the 1990s. both her parents originally from Co. Wicklow. entire family is Irish, she speaks Gaeilge and went to school in Ireland from 4 till 12 before her parents moved back to the UK again. She's an automatic citizen from birth, which makes sense since she's 100% irish.

its ridiculous to be giving passports to someone with 1 Irish grandparent. The Irish government won't even help actual Irish-born Irish diaspora in their 60s/70s still living in the UK to return to Ireland, but welcomes any old middle class British plastic paddy with deep enough pockets!with a granny passport and the money to buy a house!

You'll find the Irish government tightening citizenship laws sooner than you think. It's happening all over Europe. Italy passed new laws this year restricting eligibility of citizenship by descent.

I'm a Spaniard with a permanent residency in Australia, and Spain is another country that keeps tightening citizenship laws. I have 2 Spanish friends that years ago became Australian citizens. They never had a problem renewing their Spanish passport until 10 years ago. The Consulate told them they lost their citizenship (Spain doesn't allow dual passports except with very few countries). They had no problem getting their citizenship back (Spain's allows it). Lots of paperwork and a headache but not much of a problem. The problem was for their adult children. One friend adult child lost the Spanish passport because she was born in Australia at a time her parents became Australians, meaning they automatically lost Spanish citizenship and couldn't pass it. Their adult daughter had no recourse.

For those of you who have the possibility of getting an EU passport, get it. You never know what the future is going to look like, and if you have children, you want to give them as many opportunities as you can.

Wishiwasatailor · 16/09/2025 04:39

@Alondra surely they could apply for citizenship through the ley de memoria they would have to be quick as it shuts in October. My mum and I received citizenship through my grandmother (who married an Englishman so my mum wasn't eligible for Spanish citizenship at the time of birth)

GimmieABreakOr3 · 16/09/2025 04:49

Trendyname · 15/09/2025 22:50

Everyone moving to a secret place 😅

Haha exactly

xanthomelana · 16/09/2025 04:59

Well it seems that if Reform win they’ll solve the housing crisis easily because you’ll all move and free up some much needed housing.

Alondra · 16/09/2025 05:03

Wishiwasatailor · 16/09/2025 04:39

@Alondra surely they could apply for citizenship through the ley de memoria they would have to be quick as it shuts in October. My mum and I received citizenship through my grandmother (who married an Englishman so my mum wasn't eligible for Spanish citizenship at the time of birth)

No. The ley of memoria is very specific and applies mostly to Latinamerican countries and since 2022 Portugal, France and Andorra. It also depends on timing year brackets. It's complicated.

Generally, for most people today it doesn't apply to the majority of adult migrant children if their parents automatically lost their citizenship by becoming citizens of another country. Children from Spanish parents with a Spanish passport NEED to contact the Consulate or get a new passport (it's very cheap) when they become adults at 18. They only have 3 years to do it, after the 3 pass, they lose Spanish citizenship forever.

Maltipoo · 16/09/2025 05:07

pollyglot · 16/09/2025 02:21

Why won't someone come over here to NZ and buy my lovely beach house with spectacular sea views, sun and privacy? You can have it for 300k (pounds, that is)

To which some home reno TV show enthusiast responds; "But does it have Carrara marble countertops and a steam shower in the master bath?"

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