Can’t stop this affair

[HallieConstancex]

I have been seeing a man for over a year and a half. He has a family (partner & 2 children). I’m not here for sympathy, I know I need to let go.

his reasons for not leaving are his oldest daughter has a severe disability so his partner has given up work and he provides everything for them, so can’t just leave.

he knows me better than anyone, yet I know I deserve to be taken out, showed off etc, instead of someone’s secret.

I can’t do no contact, I have to see him every month at work. It’s not a situation where either of us can leave but I won’t get into it as it’s outing. How am I ever supposed to move on when he has to be in my life for atleast another year?

Uttelry self absorbed and selfish. I would tell you to end it, but you deserve eachother. However, sounds like he doesn’t really want you, as he could easily still provide finacially for his current wife and family if he wanted to. He doesn’t. If he ever does end up with you, you’ll likely lose him how you found him. Have some self respect even if you can’t respect others.

You’re not the thread police, you don’t get to decide what people post

So by your standards everyone swearing at op is a betrayed spouse? In that case they are misdirecting their anger then.

So why post if you have a wealth of understanding folk around you and you knew you were going to get harsh criticism? Beggars belief really.

Eh?

You made an accusation against me, I’m asking you how you came to that accusation.

Never been through it have you ?

Floating above us, trailing rose petals.

You deserve to be taken out?! You deserve absolutely nothing when you are knowingly having an affair with a married man who is also a father. You deserve nothing when you are destroying a family. You deserve nothing when you are knowingly doing this to another woman. I know he is too, but you should NEVER have got involved. I have zero sympathy for you and you deserve nothing.

I'll try again using OP's own words. I'M QUOTING OP SO IF MN WANT TO DELETE MY POST YOU'LL ALSO HAVE TO DELETE OP'S POST.

But IS he awful? Yes
.... Yet he probably would leave if his circumstances are different. He wouldn't, he'd just have a different excuse.

I’m honestly open to you telling me I’m being a twat OK
...and that above opinion is wrong and I’ve got rose tinted glasses on. It is, and you do.

Up there on their high horse, dictating what people can and can’t post

Never claimed to be the thread police did I? Calling out vulgar behaviour is exactly what I did. It seems these adults can’t even conduct themselves properly online, I can’t even imagine how they act in real life. Classless.

Never actually answering polite posts despite them being posted 4 times! Honestly, you have to have a filthy mouth around here to get attention! 😁

Clutching those pearls and wafting her rosary while saying hail Mary’s to clear the air of naughty words so as not to offend cheating shaggers

That’s all you do though. Do you understand discourse?

But that’s exactly what you are doing. Derailing the thread with your swearing obsession. Wind your neck in, people’s lives are destroyed by shit like this. If you haven’t experienced it then you have no idea and are in no place to judge.

Oh I dunno, I guess they screw around with married men? Or maybe not.

No I’ve never cheated on my spouse. I’m hoping you’re still not with the cheating husband.

All sorted in an hour from first posting. 🤔

Then you have absolutely no idea

Best ignore the goady attention seeking baiters who get off on getting a reaction.

Exactly.

Oh fuck me. I was doing this age 20. With a man who couldn’t leave his disabled child.

Turns out, the child wasn’t disabled, he was a lying cunt.

Walk away.

It’s a not yet Christmas miracle I tell ye