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To think that Brooklyn Beckham

234 replies

Thomasina79 · 27/08/2025 21:01

Is one spoilt entitled brat who has broken his parents hearts, not that I am a great fan of the Beckhams, at least they have worked all their lives and would not betray their parents!

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Shelteringfromthestorm · 28/08/2025 09:10

I avoid reading about him, but sometimes he just pops up.

He's the same age as my eldest son, and it breaks my heart as my son is severely disabled and non verbal.
I was blissfully unaware of what the future held when pregnant as a young mum back in 1999. I was excited to follow Victoria's pregnancy in the media, being pregnant myself.

I don't resent Brooklyn, but it does make me think about my own son and what decisions he might have made if he had had the opportunities. I'm not talking about the fame, just normal every day life that my son will never experience.
I love my son just as he is, but my heart breaks for him at times. It's like a "jump scare" when I see other men of his age.
I try to avoid them, but when they are in the media it's not always possible.

Tubs11 · 28/08/2025 09:14

It's impossible to know what's going on and why so yabu

Sweetbeans · 28/08/2025 09:14

I doubt Peltz's family resemble normality 😅

Ballardz · 28/08/2025 09:15

pizzaHeart · 27/08/2025 21:57

Aaa thank you!

its bad that he’s needed to renew his vows already (who is so thick that can’t keep his wedding vows for such a short period) but to exclude so openly his parents and siblings looks really rude whatever their disagreements are.
He clearly wants to be a new Harry.

Wants to be a new Harry?

Gosh Harry really does live rent free in the heads of some people.

Sweetbeans · 28/08/2025 09:16

Poor BB. All the nasty comments about him. He's a human being at the centre of this and hasn't done anything vaguely harmful. So his photography book was naff. He won't ever be a michelin chef. Who cares? Why are people so bitchy?

Lobelia123 · 28/08/2025 09:17

ImGoingUpstairsToTakeOffMyHat · 27/08/2025 21:18

I’ve semi-followed what’s happening and can probably summarise as follows:

One spoilt brat living off mummy and daddy married another spoilt brat living off mummy and daddy. Then, rich people problems happened.

The end.

I think this happens more often in those high income circles than we realise - its not possible or considered that the fairly normal but not exceptional children get a 'regular' job. For example ages ago I was reading Joan Collins' rather fun and fabulous book My Unapologetic Diaries, and it kind of becomes apparent in her entries that even though her children were at the time of writing adults (and even approaching middle age!) that she was supporting them financially. You really feel the pressure in her diary entries that she feels to keep working and keep all those financial balls in the air and take care of everyone. And she while wealthy with a wonderful income, is not nearly as well heeled for example as the Beckhams.

Midnights68 · 28/08/2025 09:23

I think it must be a bit hard for him - his dad’s super successful, his brothers have at least managed to carve out careers in modelling and football (if not as successful as their dad’s), and he, despite every opportunity, hasn’t made even a moderate success of anything - in fact has been roundly ridiculed.

His only real achievement is managing to marry a very rich and very attractive woman.

stardrops1 · 28/08/2025 09:25

I am reading “House of Beckham” by Tom Bower and if even a part of it is true, it sounds like a deeply unhealthy environment Brooklyn grew up in. As someone who is also estranged from seemingly lovely parents, nobody from the outside can really know what goes on behind closed doors in a family. I think he must have seen a lot as a child with DB’s affairs and so on. Good for him if he has decided to step away - it’s not often a decision taken lightly.

Phatgurslyms · 28/08/2025 09:29

Midnights68 · 28/08/2025 09:23

I think it must be a bit hard for him - his dad’s super successful, his brothers have at least managed to carve out careers in modelling and football (if not as successful as their dad’s), and he, despite every opportunity, hasn’t made even a moderate success of anything - in fact has been roundly ridiculed.

His only real achievement is managing to marry a very rich and very attractive woman.

His issue is that he keeps trying to make something of himself, which is admirable. His siblings seem happy to toe (tow?) the Beckham line.

Friends of mine who have very wealthy parents never seem able to break free of them because of the impossibility of replicating the parents success. The parents wield enormous power as the children live in fear of being “cut off”.

BB has found the perfect solution: break free by marrying into an even wealthier family.

AliceMaforethought · 28/08/2025 09:34

Christmasbear1 · 27/08/2025 22:09

Yeah I find it bizarre these celeb children are privately educated but not very clever. What do they teach in these schools? My sibling was privately educated but they had pupils from all backgrounds including some celeb children and very poor. They were all very clever. I think some private schools exist because rich people don't want them mixing with the poor but they don't actually care about their education because they've so much money anyway.

what do the other beckham children do?

Why would they be clever? Neither David nor Victoria are. David is talented at football and Victoria is good at business, but neither of them are what you'd call bright.

Odonje · 28/08/2025 09:36

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Odonje · 28/08/2025 09:40

LoudSnoringDog · 28/08/2025 02:17

I watched a video of him making tomato pasta on Instagram yesterday. Was like watching a year 7 kid do their first home economics class. He was SLAUGHTERED in the comments and justifiably so. He has zero talent and is living off Brand Beckham. That’s not his fault of course but he needs a wake up call.

Remember his beans on toast “recipe”? I often wonder if the kid is trolling the world. Nobody can be that stupid and clueless.

WorriedMum14679 · 28/08/2025 09:44

When I'm bored and need a good laugh, I love to look at his photo book with the elephant photo. Gets me in hysterics every time. But also loved when he did that one day kitchen and got really wild, bad reviews. Nepo babies at their finest!

Odonje · 28/08/2025 09:47

”everyone is good at something - except Brooklyn Beckham”

ill give it another year before his wife dumps him for someone not as useless. She never looks happy with him. He’s serving a purpose, that’s all.

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 28/08/2025 09:48

I can only imagine what it must be like to be a child of very famous parents but to not have any particular talents of your own. The focus of the media is upon you constantly, you can sell your wedding for millions to the press and... then what? What do you do all day? You don't NEED to work, you have money to do whatever you want but...what do you DO? Especially when the press is there to take photos of you doing nothing in particular.

I think utter boredom must kick in. He's probably in therapy and, like a lot of his generation, he's beginning to either see his childhood clearly or reimagine it in a form that the therapist can deal with.

JoeTheDrummer · 28/08/2025 09:51

bumbaloo · 28/08/2025 07:09

They really didn’t. Brand Beckham was built if D&V and whatever you think of them, they are grafters. David obsessively practiced since childhood and Victoria pushed and pushed for her career

I agree that D&V worked hard, but I also agree that they’ve constantly used the kids to market themselves. Other celebrities have managed to bring up their children with privacy, and to give them as much a normal life as possible, whereas D&V have pushed theirs into the limelight since they were babies. Poor Harper is often pictured on their Instagram page in her school uniform, wearing a swimming costume, marketing her mum’s make-up etc, but she’s too young to consent to this, or to appreciate the possible consequence of such a huge invasion of her privacy.

Kago2790 · 28/08/2025 10:02

Not being very talented puts him in with 99% of the population. His dad was a very talented footballer, seldom do footballers kids become top level players. His mum was blessed with good looks I suppose but got lucky really with the spice girls.

I cannot blame the kid for being average ability.

LoudSnoringDog · 28/08/2025 10:05

on the subject of kids of famous people having normal jobs- Gordon Ramseys son is a royal marine. He was treated very much the same as every other marine on training

x2boys · 28/08/2025 10:07

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Then you don't understand special needs
Being not especially intelligent doesn't equate to having special needs
Hrs a man whose Been brought up in the limelight to beleive he's a he Has the world at his feet
Unfortunately he's pretty average and has no discernible talent but thst doesn't mean he has special needs far from it.

awakeandasleep · 28/08/2025 10:12

smallpinecone · 27/08/2025 21:40

He does seem very gormless, but I feel very sorry for him… he seems to have few skills or ambitions and no real ability to make a living or carve his own niche in the world.

This is very common when their parent's are so successful. It is hard to step out from under their shadow. I have watched lots of documentaries about famous household names and their DC have many mental health problems and really struggle and that's without being thrust into the limelight.

1457bloom · 28/08/2025 10:16

Just because you have had a privileged background and have successful parents doesn’t mean you will be talented, it’s unfair to criticise Brooklyn.

CoffeeLipstickKeys · 28/08/2025 10:17

It’s a non story. Gossipy media reporting and dullards who ingest any story and regurgitate it as if fact
Fwiw you have no idea how Victoria and David relate to their son, or their own parents or if there has been any betrayal
Your ire is misplaced

Sweetbeans · 28/08/2025 10:18

Midnights68 · 28/08/2025 09:23

I think it must be a bit hard for him - his dad’s super successful, his brothers have at least managed to carve out careers in modelling and football (if not as successful as their dad’s), and he, despite every opportunity, hasn’t made even a moderate success of anything - in fact has been roundly ridiculed.

His only real achievement is managing to marry a very rich and very attractive woman.

And good for him!

Falseknock · 28/08/2025 10:18

GinsBond · 27/08/2025 21:02

Maybe stop reading the Daily Mail?

Just a thought

Is that the only paper you read? Brooklyn is in most of the newspapers not only in the Daily Mail.