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To think if you're that fond/proud of your national flag, you should probably know which way up it goes?

181 replies

Nookfoot · 21/08/2025 15:13

Of all the Union Flags that have appeared, a huge percentage seem to be upside-down.

Now, I agree with the basic sentiment that people should be able to display their national flag if they choose, that flags should be respected. I think it's very sad that the flag has been appropriated by right wing groups/views.

Which ever camp you fall in, if you're going to put it up, put it the right way up. They're really doing the opposite of respecting it other wise!

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Falseknock · 23/08/2025 08:20

CanadianJohn · 21/08/2025 19:19

Flying a flag upside down is traditionally a signal of distress, but it can also serve as a form of protest. Maybe that's what is going on.

You're being too kind they are thick.

Falseknock · 23/08/2025 08:24

Labradorlover987 · 21/08/2025 22:33

Do you not think this kind of smug snobbery pushes people to vote reform?

I dare you to vote them in. As a matter of fact I want you to vote for them. You need to get it out of your system and see your children and grandchildren suffer.

CunningLinguist2 · 23/08/2025 08:26

CanadianJohn · 21/08/2025 19:19

Flying a flag upside down is traditionally a signal of distress, but it can also serve as a form of protest. Maybe that's what is going on.

They are definitely not smart enough for that!

CaptainMyCaptain · 23/08/2025 08:30

Southern25 · 23/08/2025 07:32

When did it become racist to put up flags on lamp posts?

I was in Windsor recently and saw union jacks everywhere? Is the town of Windsor racist because they had Union jacks flying everywhere?

Presumably the council put them up otherwise it is illegal to attach them to council property. I think someone posted a link to the legislation above.

Charlthg · 23/08/2025 08:34

Nagginthenag · 22/08/2025 22:05

Somewhat annoying. Can I just ask, what was so good about the UK coming out of the EU, and what it is about Reform that you think will sort the countries' woes?

What makes you think I voted to leave or I vote reform.

And what difference does it make whether Reform will or won’t sort out country’s woes.

None of the is relevant to the fact that when governments constantly go against an issue that is important to people and then a vocal minority call those people ‘thick’, then you get pushback. Severe pushback. Like Brexit.

Was Brexit a price worth paying for feeling morally superiority about immigration, knowing full well that people vote against mass migration and better illegal immigration controls over and over again?

Howmanycatsistoomany · 23/08/2025 08:44

Agree OP. Our neighbours in Yorkshire, a pair of teachers, installed a honking great flagpole in their field and proudly flew the Union Jack upside down for years. A Polish delivery driver asked me once why it was upside down 😂

MiloMinderbinder925 · 23/08/2025 08:49

Charlthg · 23/08/2025 08:34

What makes you think I voted to leave or I vote reform.

And what difference does it make whether Reform will or won’t sort out country’s woes.

None of the is relevant to the fact that when governments constantly go against an issue that is important to people and then a vocal minority call those people ‘thick’, then you get pushback. Severe pushback. Like Brexit.

Was Brexit a price worth paying for feeling morally superiority about immigration, knowing full well that people vote against mass migration and better illegal immigration controls over and over again?

People don't vote against mass immigration. Immigration went through the roof under the Tories and they were in power for 14 years.

Brexit was an exercise in ignorance. People believed whatever they were told eg 350m to NHS, EU is responsible for everything wrong with the UK, exiting the EU means no immigration etc All lies swallowed hook, line and sinker.

Instead of taking responsibility, the same people are doing it all over again and continue to blame others for their willful ignorance. Farage is in the paper again talking about mass deportation and coming out of the ECHR. Coming out of the ECHR won't stop people coming in boats and asylum seekers aren't responsible for everything wrong with the UK. Mass deportation isn't possible.

This is all easily verified and the information is there if you look just like the Brexit lies. However people believe whatever Farage tells them and if you challenge them, they tell you that you're responsible for why they vote Reform.

Southern25 · 23/08/2025 08:51

Nagginthenag · 23/08/2025 07:49

I know this is purposely disingenuous, but yes, totally the same, a town steeped in royal history, visited by millions of tourists. Flying flags there is exactly the same as suddenly hanging 100s of cheap nylon flags half way up lampposts, secured by cable ties, in towns and villages where the inhabitants boast of their support for reform UK and 'taking back control' (of what, I'm never sure).

In the USA it’s very common and has been for years for people to put up a flag. They are aren’t branded racist for doing so -infact people there are proud to be American . There would be outrage if the US flag wasn’t allowed to be displayed in the US.

It’s the opposite in the UK where unfortunately some people see it as divisive to have a flag here. We’re also encouraged to not feel proud to be British here, like we shouldn’t celebrate it.

The SNP is a nationalist party, the name is in their title and they have the Scottish flag associated with their political party. Yet no one ever says the SNP is racist..

Nagginthenag · 23/08/2025 08:54

Charlthg · 23/08/2025 08:34

What makes you think I voted to leave or I vote reform.

And what difference does it make whether Reform will or won’t sort out country’s woes.

None of the is relevant to the fact that when governments constantly go against an issue that is important to people and then a vocal minority call those people ‘thick’, then you get pushback. Severe pushback. Like Brexit.

Was Brexit a price worth paying for feeling morally superiority about immigration, knowing full well that people vote against mass migration and better illegal immigration controls over and over again?

Your post proves the point that others are making though. People shoot themselves in the foot by voting for something that materially harms them and their family, because they don't make the effort (or are too ignorant) to find out the truth. They just want to blame someone else for their own inadequacies and shortcomings, and it's easier to blame the 'other'

Nagginthenag · 23/08/2025 09:01

'The SNP is a nationalist party, the name is in their title and they have the Scottish flag associated with their political party. Yet no one ever says the SNP is racist..'

Not racist, no, but there was a lot of anger amongst referendum no voters at the way the SNP co-opted the saltire as shorthand for support of the yes campaign. So it was very divisive.

In the US, it's not the stars and stripe that causes issues, but the confederate flag is used as a weapon in much the same way the union flag and St George's cross has been in the UK. A certain section of society have used the flags not as symbols of national pride, to convey unity and celebration, but to promote hatred. That's the difference. It would be nice to think the flags could be banners of support, pride and general niceness, but at the moment, they're again being used as weapons, and many do not want to be involved in the sentiments behind the resurgence.

Loadsapandas · 23/08/2025 09:01

@Southern25 I see this notion a lot that people aren’t allowed to be proud or celebrate being British/English.

What exactly are you banned from celebrating and by whom? What would you like to celebrate and how?

I ask because I just don’t see what’s being banned or restricted?

BlackberryMuffinTop · 23/08/2025 09:07

HauntedBungalow · 22/08/2025 22:05

Areas that have been targeted include : Newcastle, Tynemouth, Redditch, Worcester, York, Bradford, Birmingham, Warwick, parts of London (I'm not sure on which parts). Some of these are areas with relatively (for the UK) high numbers of long-standing ie 3rd even 4th generation settled former immigrant populations eg Bradford, Birmingham, others are areas close to where Reform is popular eg Newcastle, Tynemouth.

York's a weird one, very white city , not close to any Reform stronghold, but this weekend is the biggest in the horse racing calendar there so there will be lots of drunk out of town folk around, traditionally it gets a bit fighty at that point. Warwick again, not sure why that's a target, maybe it's easy to get to from other places.

Places where Reform have traction already, there aren't significant flags as yet. Eg hardly any in Gainsborough, Bolton, Hull, Grimsby, just the odd gammon with his own flagpole, none of the lamppost scaling antics in any of these.

Nothing in the surrounding countryside either, around these urban centres or near the urban Reform areas.

I'm in a small seaside town in the south west. I think there's probably a certain type of person everywhere who will jump on this bandwagon. But majority of people will hopefully roll their eyes at it.

Shedmistress · 23/08/2025 09:15

Falseknock · 23/08/2025 08:24

I dare you to vote them in. As a matter of fact I want you to vote for them. You need to get it out of your system and see your children and grandchildren suffer.

As a Leftie I can say that the Labour Party have induced more suffering than I've seen in my lifetime. But we don't call them Far Right even though they took the Tories policies and ramped them up through the roof.

CaptainMyCaptain · 23/08/2025 09:16

Nagginthenag · 23/08/2025 08:54

Your post proves the point that others are making though. People shoot themselves in the foot by voting for something that materially harms them and their family, because they don't make the effort (or are too ignorant) to find out the truth. They just want to blame someone else for their own inadequacies and shortcomings, and it's easier to blame the 'other'

In the run up to Brexit I heard an interview with a lorry driver who was voting Leave. He described how terrified he was with asylum seekers clinging on underneath his lorry going through the channel tunnel. I really felt for him and understood why he was frightened but this had nothing whatsoever to do with Brexit, that was about free movement of Europeans. The problems with lorries in the tunnel seem to have been stopped now which is why the number of people in boats has increased.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 23/08/2025 09:19

Shedmistress · 23/08/2025 09:15

As a Leftie I can say that the Labour Party have induced more suffering than I've seen in my lifetime. But we don't call them Far Right even though they took the Tories policies and ramped them up through the roof.

That's because their policies aren't far right. Here you go:
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Far-right_politics_in_the_United_Kingdom

Far-right politics in the United Kingdom - Wikipedia

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Far-right_politics_in_the_United_Kingdom

CaptainMyCaptain · 23/08/2025 09:20

Loadsapandas · 23/08/2025 09:01

@Southern25 I see this notion a lot that people aren’t allowed to be proud or celebrate being British/English.

What exactly are you banned from celebrating and by whom? What would you like to celebrate and how?

I ask because I just don’t see what’s being banned or restricted?

I challenged someone I knew on Facebook about this. She was a fellow teacher who had worked temporarily at my school and had commented agreeing with a post complaining that children weren't allowed to celebrate St George's day in school any more. I pointed out that I had done an assembly about St George and my Reception class had made flags earlier that week but she just blocked me.

I know someone who sincerely believed Nativity Plays were now banned in schools when I had done one every year of my working life.

Falseknock · 23/08/2025 09:24

Shedmistress · 23/08/2025 09:15

As a Leftie I can say that the Labour Party have induced more suffering than I've seen in my lifetime. But we don't call them Far Right even though they took the Tories policies and ramped them up through the roof.

Kier Starmer is not a leftie he is centre left. The Tories wiped out the money and starved the services. It will take them a few years to sort out the mess. The tax loop hole for the rich will end next year April when inheritance tax on farmland kicks in.

Lockdownsceptic · 23/08/2025 09:36

Loadsapandas · 22/08/2025 22:54

Brexit was pretty much an own goal for them wasn’t it?

‘Don’t call me thick or ill do irreversible damage to the country and reduce all of our living standards.’

Because I don’t see any of the sun lit fucking uplands that they promised us?

They’ll come.

Lockdownsceptic · 23/08/2025 09:37

Falseknock · 23/08/2025 09:24

Kier Starmer is not a leftie he is centre left. The Tories wiped out the money and starved the services. It will take them a few years to sort out the mess. The tax loop hole for the rich will end next year April when inheritance tax on farmland kicks in.

And your food prices will go up because farmers will have to stop farming.

Shedmistress · 23/08/2025 09:39

Falseknock · 23/08/2025 09:24

Kier Starmer is not a leftie he is centre left. The Tories wiped out the money and starved the services. It will take them a few years to sort out the mess. The tax loop hole for the rich will end next year April when inheritance tax on farmland kicks in.

He isn't Left at all.

Not in the slightest. You should be able to see it by now.

And the 'richness' of farmers, isn't 'richness' in any way. The 'richness' is in the land they farm to grow food and the tools they use to do so. Invesed straight into more seed and animals and feed they buy.

But hey who needs food when you can have solar panels. Yum yum.

Shedmistress · 23/08/2025 09:40

MiloMinderbinder925 · 23/08/2025 09:19

That's because their policies aren't far right. Here you go:
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Far-right_politics_in_the_United_Kingdom

Even the INVENTOR of Wikipedia says 'Don't use Wikipedia'.

Lockdownsceptic · 23/08/2025 09:40

Falseknock · 23/08/2025 08:24

I dare you to vote them in. As a matter of fact I want you to vote for them. You need to get it out of your system and see your children and grandchildren suffer.

What, like they are suffering now do you mean? Or will a strong economy, fiscal responsibility, pride in their country and having a job make them suffer more?

MiloMinderbinder925 · 23/08/2025 09:41

Shedmistress · 23/08/2025 09:40

Even the INVENTOR of Wikipedia says 'Don't use Wikipedia'.

Are you too bone idle to look up your own sources?

Lockdownsceptic · 23/08/2025 09:43

CaptainMyCaptain · 23/08/2025 09:20

I challenged someone I knew on Facebook about this. She was a fellow teacher who had worked temporarily at my school and had commented agreeing with a post complaining that children weren't allowed to celebrate St George's day in school any more. I pointed out that I had done an assembly about St George and my Reception class had made flags earlier that week but she just blocked me.

I know someone who sincerely believed Nativity Plays were now banned in schools when I had done one every year of my working life.

You are not looking in the right place.

Lockdownsceptic · 23/08/2025 09:48

MiloMinderbinder925 · 23/08/2025 08:49

People don't vote against mass immigration. Immigration went through the roof under the Tories and they were in power for 14 years.

Brexit was an exercise in ignorance. People believed whatever they were told eg 350m to NHS, EU is responsible for everything wrong with the UK, exiting the EU means no immigration etc All lies swallowed hook, line and sinker.

Instead of taking responsibility, the same people are doing it all over again and continue to blame others for their willful ignorance. Farage is in the paper again talking about mass deportation and coming out of the ECHR. Coming out of the ECHR won't stop people coming in boats and asylum seekers aren't responsible for everything wrong with the UK. Mass deportation isn't possible.

This is all easily verified and the information is there if you look just like the Brexit lies. However people believe whatever Farage tells them and if you challenge them, they tell you that you're responsible for why they vote Reform.

You don’t do your own message any favours by calling your opponents “thick”