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AIBU to think that racism is getting a lot worse of late.

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AliceMaforethought · 20/08/2025 18:13

Just read this awful story in the Guardian. Awful and makes me feel so angry and so unsafe as a half Black woman.

https://www.theguardian.com/world/2025/aug/20/family-in-fear-after-tommy-robinson-shares-video-of-black-man-with-white-granddaughters

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ThatWaryOchreQuoter · 25/08/2025 18:42

pointythings · 25/08/2025 18:35

But nobody has. You're just twisting it that way. What we're saying is that when set against all the other issues a voter considers when deciding how to cast their ballot, people consider a wide range of issues and will vote for the party that best promises to address those. And in 2024, that was not Reform, nor was it the Tories.

We are now 1 year and a bit into a 5 year Parliament, so let's see how things go. And meanwhile, it would be nice if we had a lot less of the sweeping statements about 'what immigrants are like', because yes - that's racism.

Thank god for that, it was getting weird. Ok well if you accept the majority are against mass immigration, do you also accept that maybe stopping mass immigration and controlling it to be tens of thousands for a few years might also reduce tensions around all immigration? Or do we really need all this flag waving nonsense and a Reform Government to get it done.

ThatWaryOchreQuoter · 25/08/2025 18:44

MiloMinderbinder925 · 25/08/2025 18:41

I do not believe that the level of immigration we have is sustainable. You have to wonder at people's intelligence if they continue to vote for a party doing the alter opposite of their election promises. Immigration wasn't in the 10s of thousands for 14 years.

Then again, people continued to vote for them after Brexit.

Would you give me a straight answer please, do you really think the majority are in favour of mass immigration?

ThatWaryOchreQuoter · 25/08/2025 18:46

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suburburban · 25/08/2025 18:47

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 25/08/2025 18:38

The only "fact" that remains is that the majority of the UK electorate simply didn't care enough about the issue of immigration to vote for the party that made it their no.1 issue at the last election.

I do understand that this information may be difficult for you to believe if you typically surround yourself with lots of rabid Reform supporters and you assume that everyone else is as racist as they are. But the fact remains that the electorate did not choose to prioritise the issue of immigration at the last General Election.

Trouble is neither main party solves this issue so what can you do.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 25/08/2025 18:47

ThatWaryOchreQuoter · 25/08/2025 18:44

Would you give me a straight answer please, do you really think the majority are in favour of mass immigration?

I've given you an answer just not the one you want.

A. The majority continued to vote for mass immigration for 14 years.
B. Nothing was done by the Tories to reduce immigration eg investment in the British workforce.

If the majority vote for it, what does that say?

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 25/08/2025 18:47

ThatWaryOchreQuoter · 25/08/2025 18:44

Would you give me a straight answer please, do you really think the majority are in favour of mass immigration?

The nation has never had actually had a referendum on that specific question, so nobody can provide a definitive answer. What we do know is that the vast majority of voters have rejected the self-styled anti-immigration parties at successive elections. So we can deduce from that fact that not all voters are frothing about this issue quite as much as some posters would have us believe.

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 25/08/2025 18:49

suburburban · 25/08/2025 18:47

Trouble is neither main party solves this issue so what can you do.

You could have voted for a party that was promising to solve it. Perhaps you did.

But most people chose not to.

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 25/08/2025 18:51

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No, I'm not mentally ill. It's perfectly possible to discuss immigration without being racist. If you are not actually racist.

suburburban · 25/08/2025 18:56

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 25/08/2025 18:49

You could have voted for a party that was promising to solve it. Perhaps you did.

But most people chose not to.

If you read my post earlier I stated I didn’t want to vote for reform but it doesn’t mean I’m happy with the unsustainable situation that is occurring in the UKHmm

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 25/08/2025 19:00

suburburban · 25/08/2025 18:56

If you read my post earlier I stated I didn’t want to vote for reform but it doesn’t mean I’m happy with the unsustainable situation that is occurring in the UKHmm

So why didn't you vote for Reform, then?

Was it because you cared about other issues more than you care about immigration?

Or was it because you considered Reform to be too extreme, notwithstanding your concerns?

suburburban · 25/08/2025 19:01

Both really and I don’t think reform is the answer

ThatWaryOchreQuoter · 25/08/2025 19:03

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 25/08/2025 18:51

No, I'm not mentally ill. It's perfectly possible to discuss immigration without being racist. If you are not actually racist.

What on earth does saying the majority of the U.K. are against mass immigration have to do with me being racist? Honestly, it’s impossible to talk to you.

ThatWaryOchreQuoter · 25/08/2025 19:04

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 25/08/2025 18:47

The nation has never had actually had a referendum on that specific question, so nobody can provide a definitive answer. What we do know is that the vast majority of voters have rejected the self-styled anti-immigration parties at successive elections. So we can deduce from that fact that not all voters are frothing about this issue quite as much as some posters would have us believe.

Would you give me a straight answer please, do you really think the majority are in favour of mass immigration?

ThatWaryOchreQuoter · 25/08/2025 19:05

MiloMinderbinder925 · 25/08/2025 18:47

I've given you an answer just not the one you want.

A. The majority continued to vote for mass immigration for 14 years.
B. Nothing was done by the Tories to reduce immigration eg investment in the British workforce.

If the majority vote for it, what does that say?

Ok, are you saying the majority of the U.K. are in favour of mass immigration?

Yes/No

Why is this such a struggle for you guys?

MiloMinderbinder925 · 25/08/2025 19:07

ThatWaryOchreQuoter · 25/08/2025 19:05

Ok, are you saying the majority of the U.K. are in favour of mass immigration?

Yes/No

Why is this such a struggle for you guys?

I'd appreciate it if you stop hectoring me. I've already answered the question.

ThatWaryOchreQuoter · 25/08/2025 19:08

MiloMinderbinder925 · 25/08/2025 19:07

I'd appreciate it if you stop hectoring me. I've already answered the question.

?!? Was the answer yes or no?

Edit: Actually don’t worry, it’s obvious the answer is no you don’t think the majority of the U.K. are in favour of mass immigration. Thanks for the great interaction 🙄

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 25/08/2025 19:08

ThatWaryOchreQuoter · 25/08/2025 19:03

What on earth does saying the majority of the U.K. are against mass immigration have to do with me being racist? Honestly, it’s impossible to talk to you.

That's fine, I will survive if you don't talk to me.Wink

What I actually said is that it might be difficult for you to understand the reality that most voters didn't prioritise concerns about immigration at the last election if you are surrounded by racists for whom that might be the no.1 issue.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 25/08/2025 19:11

ThatWaryOchreQuoter · 25/08/2025 19:08

?!? Was the answer yes or no?

Edit: Actually don’t worry, it’s obvious the answer is no you don’t think the majority of the U.K. are in favour of mass immigration. Thanks for the great interaction 🙄

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Don't ask me again.

ThatWaryOchreQuoter · 25/08/2025 19:14

MiloMinderbinder925 · 25/08/2025 19:11

Don't ask me again.

Given you accept the majority are against mass immigration, do you think it’s time we started listening to them?

SleeplessInWherever · 25/08/2025 19:17

Surely “mass immigration” is subjective anyway. We’ll all have different thresholds.

Might be 10k for someone, 100k for someone else, and absolute zero for others.

Being “against mass migration” will mean totally different things to different people. If you mean in the context of someone thinking zero is the aim, no I’m not against it. If you mean 100million a year, obviously I am.

But you’re asking people to judge whether they’re for or against something completely arbitrary.

pointythings · 25/08/2025 19:18

suburburban · 25/08/2025 19:01

Both really and I don’t think reform is the answer

I agree with this.

If you want an economy where people have the skills to do the jobs that need doing, you need to invest in people. Instead, the previous government cut opportunities for adults to retrain and upskill. They prioritised academic schooling over the practical skills the UK needed - EBACC, anyone? They did nothing to offer businesses incentives to train up and upskill their own staff - instead they focused exclusively on making people richer. They cut SureStart, which prioritised families at risk of crime and unemployment.

If you want an economy that can work with fewer immigrants, you need to invest in your own people. I see nothing in any of Reform's promises that will deliver that.

And if you start mass deportations, the economy will absolutely tank.

Blaming immigrants is not the way to go. Demanding investment, offering businesses tax breaks to train up staff and also employ disabled people by offering hybrid working, jobshares, reasonable adjustments - this is the way to go. We also need root and branch reform of the education system so that we properly value vocational education; not everyone needs Shakespeare and trigonometry. We need to identify those young people whose interests and aptiudes lie in skilled trades and get them on that track early.

But the people currently painting roundabouts don't want any of that. They'd call it hard left and scream about it.

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 25/08/2025 19:18

ThatWaryOchreQuoter · 25/08/2025 19:14

Given you accept the majority are against mass immigration, do you think it’s time we started listening to them?

I think it's time to accept that the anti-immigration party didn't win the last general election. Maybe they will win next time round, only time will tell. But in the meantime, the Labour government would be stupid to dance to Nigel Farage's tune. The electorate did not choose a far right government, so we should not be seeking to enact far right policies.

FirstNationsEnglish · 25/08/2025 19:21

Wishing14 · 20/08/2025 19:36

I think that the majority of people are feeling very lost. It’s not as simple as left/ right, woke/ racist, and people are trying to reduce something that is hugely complex into two camps - you’re in one or the other. You get the big voices at the end of the spectrum. But what about everyone else? I do not think that questioning illegal immigration is racist. I also think there is going to be a tension when you claim that there are many beautiful cultures and identies, black, Asian, Muslim, and so on. Talk about roots and history and traditions and meaning that is part of those groups and people. And then in the same breath say that those who are British and proud of their culture and who want to protect their values and traditions are racist and extremists. This is a clear divide. There are good and bad people from all cultures, races and walks of life. But people should be able to raise concerns about their hometowns changing before their eyes, where their tax money goes, being housed alongside undocumented young men, and so on. To shout racist at everything is to shut down the debate and solves nothing at all.

I agree.

People should be allowed to voice legitimate concerns and screams of 'racist' should no longer shut down the previously quiet voices of concern. Rather than an increase in racism, I think, more, we are seeing people with concerns becoming sick of being dismissed and shouted down, or being made to feel ashamed of, or guilty about, their country's heritage. 🤔

ThatWaryOchreQuoter · 25/08/2025 19:21

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 25/08/2025 19:18

I think it's time to accept that the anti-immigration party didn't win the last general election. Maybe they will win next time round, only time will tell. But in the meantime, the Labour government would be stupid to dance to Nigel Farage's tune. The electorate did not choose a far right government, so we should not be seeking to enact far right policies.

Is stopping mass immigration a far right policy?

MiloMinderbinder925 · 25/08/2025 19:25

ThatWaryOchreQuoter · 25/08/2025 19:14

Given you accept the majority are against mass immigration, do you think it’s time we started listening to them?

The majority voted for mass immigration for 14 years. They got what they voted for. The party of zero immigration got 4 seats.

It's not as simplistic as you think eg hanging flags from lamp posts. In order for immigration to come down, strategies must be put in place to make up the loss in foreign students, care workers, hospitality, agriculture, the NHS, engineering and other areas which need skilled workers.

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