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To ask those who are not white brittish how they feel about the flags?

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PicaK · 18/08/2025 13:32

Birmingham and Tower Hamlets are having St George England flags put up by privately funded groups.
I'm horrified by the implicit racism. I've seen a lot of white people applauding this and "time we took back the country" comments.
I haven't seen many non white people commenting. My feel is that they are too intimidated to do so. Am I right? Or is it indifference or is it that you're dealing with racism on a daily level and this is just one more thing.
Please don't post if you're white.whatever you feel about the flags. I want to hear on white viewd

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SquishedMallow · 19/08/2025 00:46

Dangermoo · 19/08/2025 00:37

I'm embarrassed for that poster.

It's utterly shocking isn't it ? I'm literally aghast at this thread 😱

What a terrifying and enlightening example of people trying to be so unracist that they're being terribly racist.

So far we've learnt : that the British flag is by unconscious default (got to be unconscious as she's not even aware of it !) only for white Brits. And has made some baffling assumption that black and brown British people may be somehow offended by it ?? It's like a little Britain sketch !!! She's basically just said black and brown people can't be British!!!!!!

Reminds me of an episode of 'the office ' where David Brent tries so hard to prove he's unracist then proceeds to say the most ignorant and racist stereotypes!

Justchilling07 · 19/08/2025 01:57

MavisandHetty · 18/08/2025 18:01

Well I think this goes to the heart of the question.

For you, patriotism is a bit of fun. Sports, coronation and royal wedding, all the good stuff.

For those of us who have been at the receiving end of physical and verbal abuse in the name of that flag, there's no fun at all. The opposite, in fact. It strikes fear and worry. It makes us scared to show our faces in our own country when - and I'm going to allow myself to be really vicious here - I, with my flawless educational record and not a parking ticket to my name, who has contributed more in taxes and good deeds and charitable acts to people of all colours in the UK than the thugs less than half my age but with a million times more aggression shoved in my face and up my skirt and spat down the back of my head on the way home from work one day 20-odd years ago pretended to in the name of St George. That's what English patriotism means to me. I don't have the luxury of seeing it as "just a bit of fun". There's nothing fun in it.

You are being judgmental and putting yourself on a pedestal.I’ve also been assaulted, l just don’t tar everyone with the same brush, because of it.That isn’t what English patriotism means, thuggery and violence, this is in the minority, it’s not acceptable, but it’s also not common place.It happened to you once, 20 odd years ago, it’s not fair to judge, everyone, who’s proud to be English in the same way.

Trendyname · 19/08/2025 02:21

Worralorra · 18/08/2025 13:54

Do you also question what it feels like to white British people, to have flags of other nations flown with pride in theUK, while they are somehow expected to hide theirs as if they are ashamed of it? Indeed, councils have been removing the St George flags wherever they find them, while at the same time refusing to remove Palestinian flags, which could be causing offence to the many Jewish people who have lived in this country for generations.
Once you start banning one flag (and that the flag of the Country it is actually situated in) then you may as well ban all flags. If that’s not practical, then none should be banned.

I am brown. I agree with this poster.

Trendyname · 19/08/2025 02:59

HennyPenny27 · 18/08/2025 14:35

Non-white Brit here, if I’m allowed to have a voice, my thoughts are... Unless it gets reclaimed, it immediately makes me think of angry skin-heads. It gives me slight chills, in the same way looking at a US confederate flag makes me think of white supremacists.

I think English people have a very weak understanding of their history and their ancestors antics globally, so am weary of what they want to take pride in…

I am brown but I think it’s bit unfair to presume British have nothing to be proud of and only contribution was colonialism. There have been a lot of important scientific and medical achievements coming from the community. There is rich history of literature and arts as well. I don’t think every person alive 200 years ago was coloniser. A lot of meaningful charities were started here including related animal welfare. In recent times, UK was one of the few countries to be able to come up with Covid vaccines and it was the most affordable, also a lot achievement in cinema, tv and Olympic Games especially Paralympics. I find it sad that many British put down their own country.
We don’t say there’s nothing in Germany for its people to be proud of because of Nazi history. Some of their iconic brands had links with nazi but they are popular globally today. Not sure why UK should be treated differently.

R0ckandHardPlace · 19/08/2025 06:51

FallingIsLearning · 19/08/2025 00:40

True. I wasn’t trying to say that.

What I meant was that the union, Scottish and Welsh flags don’t feel like they have the same connotations as the St George flag may sometimes have.

Isn’t that because those countries are allowed to be patriotic? Flying their own national flag shows they’re proud to be Scottish or Welsh. They object, quite understandably, to flying the Union flag because it’s the mark of a country that has historically oppressed them.

There is no such anti-English sentiment in England. We adopted the Union flag because the English were proud of the Union. It showed us to be more powerful to fly the Union rather than the English flag.

Somewhere along the line the English flag was forgotten and then subsequently hijacked by racists and now, rightly or wrongly, it is seen as a symbol of racism. Non-racist people have moved even further away from the flag because of its filthy connotations and now it feels like an extremely unsavoury symbol.

If there had been some kind of movement to take back the flag from the racists, by ordinary proud English people, it would be a different argument. There hasn’t. It’s interesting that we don’t object to the George cross during the World Cup - it’s a legitimate way to support our team. Outside of major sporting events it feels grubby.

Maybe as a country we need some kind of movement to acknowledge our Englishness, at the same time as recognising that we have been the historic arseholes of the world, which has left us with a shame and embarrassment that makes us fear displaying our love for our country. We need a modern ‘Cool Britannia’ campaign for England, that renounces the Tommy Robinson brigade and extols our national virtues.

Jamfirstest · 19/08/2025 07:17

@Livelovebehappywny does it matter if people are or arnt patriotic? This is so weird. Blind loyalty to a political area you were born into by chance.

is there a need to physically symbolise patriotism? Why?

Underthinker · 19/08/2025 07:39

@R0ckandHardPlace
I think if there was a movement to reclaim the English flag, all that would happen is the kind of people in this thread calling everyone racist would call it racist.

Also I think you overestimate how much England has been "the historic areshole of the world". Like most countries we have a mixed history with both good and bad.

AzurePanda · 19/08/2025 07:44

I’m Australian and am completely delighted that Australia was colonised by the British. The alternatives could have been far worse. A lot of Americans, Singaporeans and many other hugely successful countries feel the same way.

Charlthg · 19/08/2025 07:45

PicaK · 18/08/2025 13:45

I was really hoping to hear non-white views.
There's a group who have decided to put up flags on lampposts without permission. They state this is to celebrate being English and for VJ Day. But in interviews they can't but help lapse into the "getting the country back" diatribe and it shows they are abusing the flag. They certainly werent rushing to put them up for VE Day. There's nothing wrong with the flag itself. But the way it's being used is disturbing. It's every lamppost on long lines of streets. It's heavily reminiscent of nazi flags.

Are you always this hysterical? Or only about flags. Calm down, it’s not healthy.

No the national flag is not racist. It, by definition, represents the entity that is is the nation state, the country that millions of immigrants come over to live in.

Those always falling over themselves to make this country sound racist, are never able to explain why millions of immigrants are so keen to come here.

Cloudymonday · 19/08/2025 07:57

2021x · 18/08/2025 22:10

The quickest route to radicalising someone is to make them ashamed of who they are.

St George’s flag, may means different things to different people, but it is the flag of England and being English is nothing to be ashamed of.

If the flag means something different to you, that’s because it has been co-opted by hate groups to make you feel ashamed. That is wrong, English is a nationality not an ethnicity.

While I absolutely agree with your first point.

English is ethnicity. And nationality.
Definition of ethnicity fully supports that

faffadoodledo · 19/08/2025 08:13

Netcurtainnelly · 19/08/2025 00:16

Flags appeared in our area today.
Whose put them up and is it allowed?
Could the council take them down?

Sadly I think it would hurt precious feelings and there’d be a riot.
i see the Shard has a lovely Union Jack light installation for VJ Day. Beautiful. And moving when you think about it.
All I’ve seen on social media is people screaming to keep it up there. No. It would dilute the commemoration and the reason it was lit.

if we have flags all the flipping time the meaning goes. I love seeing the flag of St George flown on 23 April from our church tower. Every day? No. Pointless

Jamfirstest · 19/08/2025 08:19

@Charlthgof course the reason why immigrants come here can be explained - surely it’s employment, infrastructure and safety. Or in a different order depending on the person.
It’s not a binary thing. High immigration doesn’t equal the county must be perfect and we must be blindly patriotic does it?

TommehTenNamesIsAWanker · 19/08/2025 08:21

Love how many people here are doggedly ignoring the context to this question - the context being that there has been an explosion of far right activism in this country, which has adopted the St George’s flag as a symbol of their movement.

Lighteningstrikes · 19/08/2025 08:25

No I don’t see anything wrong.

You are being overly sensitive.

Namelessnelly · 19/08/2025 08:25

randomchap · 18/08/2025 14:04

Nope, not a me problem.

Racism and the far right are on the rise. That's a problem for the whole country.

If you can't see how the flags are being misused to stir up racial and religious intolerance then you are being naive

I know!! Look at all the Palestinian flags being flown everywhere. Maybe we should not let those be flown either right?

DarklingIlisten · 19/08/2025 08:27

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TommehTenNamesIsAWanker · 19/08/2025 08:29

BTW - nobody is banning flags.

The council removes items attached to council property - fences, lamp posts etc, because they will remove all objects attached to council property that they haven’t given permission for. Folks will tie these flags to poles near roads, leaving drivers vulnerable to having them blow off and end up across their windscreens.

TommehTenNamesIsAWanker · 19/08/2025 08:32

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Another poster doggedly ignoring the context, which is that we have a growing, violent far right movement in this country which has co-opted the St George’s flag as a symbol of their values and beliefs.

Dangermoo · 19/08/2025 08:35

@lonelycrab While you're on the hunt for white people attacking police, can you look for the following:

POC attacking police horses, setting fire to the union jack, on a public building, throwing fireworks at police -
You will find that evidence, under the BLM riots and Pro Palestine 'protests'. Nah, you will find every which way to deny that, same as the other posters, who reckons the hard left don't cause trouble. Perhaps I will go and find the photos of that rabble attacking women, at Women's rights events.
How embarrassing to show your own xenophobia and racism, when talking about bigotry.

Dangermoo · 19/08/2025 08:37

TommehTenNamesIsAWanker · 19/08/2025 08:32

Another poster doggedly ignoring the context, which is that we have a growing, violent far right movement in this country which has co-opted the St George’s flag as a symbol of their values and beliefs.

Is that the same far right, who find themselves on the proscribed terrorist list or would that be the hard left?

Evaka · 19/08/2025 08:39

I'm white Irish and St George's flags creep me out. A few homes near me fly them and I go out of my way to avoid. I wouldn't have the same reaction to the Union Jack but generally find flag flying a bit basic tbh.

Sskka · 19/08/2025 08:40

@Underthinker “I think if there was a movement to reclaim the English flag, all that would happen is the kind of people in this thread calling everyone racist would call it racist.”

Exactly. Because these discussions are always and only the English status signalling among themselves.

Q: How you know when someone thinks they’ve outgrown the idea of a limited national community that they didn’t choose, and that they owe obligations to and it owes obligations to them?

A: Don’t worry, they’ll tell you.

TommehTenNamesIsAWanker · 19/08/2025 08:43

Dangermoo · 19/08/2025 08:37

Is that the same far right, who find themselves on the proscribed terrorist list or would that be the hard left?

What? Your question doesn’t make any sense.

We don’t have a significant problem with ‘far left’ terrorism in the UK. We do have a growing problem with far right terrorism.

From a government report. This was published last year. It’s worse this year:

"The threat from Extreme Right-Wing Terrorism is on an upward trajectory, populated by an increasing number of young people and driven by the internet. There are reports that groups and individuals have sought to co-opt the Covid-19 pandemic, using conspiracy theories and exploiting grievances to radicalise and recruit."

CanSeeClearlyNowTheRainHasGone · 19/08/2025 08:49

TheignT · 18/08/2025 14:16

Interesting but she doesn't speak for every non white person.

FFS. This whole board is anonymous and anecdotal.

I am fed up with people taking an anecdote and overlaying their own prejudice on top of it.

I doubt you would have said "she doesn't speak for every non-white person" if the anecdote had been about her finding the flag racist and intimidating.

TommehTenNamesIsAWanker · 19/08/2025 08:50

Dangermoo · 19/08/2025 08:35

@lonelycrab While you're on the hunt for white people attacking police, can you look for the following:

POC attacking police horses, setting fire to the union jack, on a public building, throwing fireworks at police -
You will find that evidence, under the BLM riots and Pro Palestine 'protests'. Nah, you will find every which way to deny that, same as the other posters, who reckons the hard left don't cause trouble. Perhaps I will go and find the photos of that rabble attacking women, at Women's rights events.
How embarrassing to show your own xenophobia and racism, when talking about bigotry.

I don’t think anyone here is justifying violence against anyone or any thing.

And even MI5 don’t report that far left activism is a significant or growing threat in the UK.

The growing threat is coming from the far right, which the GC movement are in lockstep with over trans issues.

BTW - the Pro Palestine protests are protests. Not ‘protests’. Why would you not expect people to be protesting about what’s been happening in that region?

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