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To not like dogs

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lookpar · 12/08/2025 09:09

Awkward subject, but I recently was in a social group and everyone except me was bonding over their love of dogs and I just knew I had to keep quiet but of how socially unacceptable it is to dislike them.

I’m not scared of them, I haven’t had any majorly horrible experiences to make me hate dogs. I just simply don’t like them. I would never find a dog cute, I think they make your home smelly and dirty, having to walk them and look after them just seems like a form of personal torture I don’t know why anyone would want that. But I could NEVER say that thought out loud I would be crucified!

Also, another thing I’ve noticed is, it’s a certain demographic of people who seem to be obsessed with their dogs, people without kids, or older people whose kids have moved out. I may be wrong but it’s like this need to mother something/someone.

But anyway, I know dog lovers will come for me that’s fine I just genuinely want to know, why is it such a problem for dog lovers when someone else doesn’t like them?

I have kids, and when someone says they don’t want kids or don’t like them I don’t then judge them and start scrutinising them, I sort of agree lol! (Obviously love my own)

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LizzieW1969 · 17/08/2025 17:30

sandybeaches74 · 12/08/2025 21:07

My opinion is that people who don’t like animals have something a bit wrong with them but 🤷‍♀️

No, not at all. No one has to like animals, as long as they’re not cruel to them. I’m a cat lover, with 3 cats, and I actually like dogs (though I wouldn’t have one as I see them as too much of a tie).

But I don’t understand the antagonism towards people who do like dogs and choose to own them; as long as they have their dogs under control and they don’t jump up at me I don’t give them a second thought.

BlogZilla · 22/08/2025 20:46

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OonaStubbs · 22/08/2025 20:59

I don't think there would be a 15 page thread if someone said they didn't like rats, or bats or pretty much any other animal.

JackGrealishsBobbySocks · 22/08/2025 21:02

Why not? Thoroughly loveable little creatures.

Issahotone · 22/08/2025 23:56

It’s daft how not liking dogs specifically is equated to not liking animals.

My ex was a vegan as he believes farming practices is cruel to animals , and much like me he loves wild animals, but has no time for dogs. You try telling him he’s less of an animal lover than you while you chomp on meat lol

If someone didn’t like elephants or tigers or sparrows or snakes no one would make such a big deal out of it and claim There’s something wrong with them. Absolute nonsense.

I wouldn’t be cruel to a dog and would report anyone who was abusing their dog - but I just don’t like them around me at all.

TheaBrandt1 · 23/08/2025 06:50

I don’t dislike them just indifferent I don’t want them everywhere I go and the barking gets on my nerves.

So many of my friends love their dogs and we are pretty like minded about everything else so wonder what’s wrong with me!

HangryLikeTheHulk · 23/08/2025 16:55

We were having a picnic today with a fire, cooking on the fire. Two different dogs came hurtling over scaring the shit out of my kids. I stood up and walked directly at the dogs and chased them off. So annoying.

JackGrealishsBobbySocks · 23/08/2025 17:05

That happened.

vodkaredbullgirl · 23/08/2025 17:27

HangryLikeTheHulk · 23/08/2025 16:55

We were having a picnic today with a fire, cooking on the fire. Two different dogs came hurtling over scaring the shit out of my kids. I stood up and walked directly at the dogs and chased them off. So annoying.

Yeah right

OonaStubbs · 23/08/2025 17:28

Where can you go nowadays that is 100% guaranteed to be dog-free? It seems like nowhere is safe.

vodkaredbullgirl · 23/08/2025 17:30

OonaStubbs · 23/08/2025 17:28

Where can you go nowadays that is 100% guaranteed to be dog-free? It seems like nowhere is safe.

Stay at home 😂

YeOldeGreyhound · 23/08/2025 18:00

vodkaredbullgirl · 23/08/2025 17:27

Yeah right

Yeah, assuming they were in a public place. They had a fire on the go? That is more idiotic.

Onleemoi · 23/08/2025 18:11

I despise people who light fires in public.

HangryLikeTheHulk · 23/08/2025 18:15

YeOldeGreyhound · 23/08/2025 18:00

Yeah, assuming they were in a public place. They had a fire on the go? That is more idiotic.

There are organised fireplaces. They even supply the wood !

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Onleemoi · 23/08/2025 18:42

So controlled then? Like dogs on leads?

So entitled.

vodkaredbullgirl · 23/08/2025 19:28

HangryLikeTheHulk · 23/08/2025 18:15

There are organised fireplaces. They even supply the wood !

Where is that?

HangryLikeTheHulk · 23/08/2025 19:29

vodkaredbullgirl · 23/08/2025 19:28

Where is that?

Switzerland

JackGrealishsBobbySocks · 23/08/2025 19:37

Liar liar pants on fire

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HangryLikeTheHulk · 23/08/2025 19:42

JackGrealishsBobbySocks · 23/08/2025 19:37

Liar liar pants on fire

I used a representative photo of the kind of place we were at. I don’t share personal photos on the internet.

JackGrealishsBobbySocks · 23/08/2025 19:43

Or true stories. Very wise.

HangryLikeTheHulk · 23/08/2025 19:45

JackGrealishsBobbySocks · 23/08/2025 19:43

Or true stories. Very wise.

It was perfectly true. Chased off the annoying dogs. Here’s a crop of our actual picnic.

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Zingzoomyzingy · 23/08/2025 19:48

Look at that face. 🐾❤️

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JackGrealishsBobbySocks · 23/08/2025 20:03

HangryLikeTheHulk · 23/08/2025 19:45

It was perfectly true. Chased off the annoying dogs. Here’s a crop of our actual picnic.

Lmao! If that were the case, why would you crop out the marauding dogs?

Absolutely no one believes your little story, you sad sack.

ShowMeTheSushi · 23/08/2025 20:07

HangryLikeTheHulk · 23/08/2025 18:15

There are organised fireplaces. They even supply the wood !

I see you went for the ‘premium licence’ picnic experience. Did the imaginary dogs charge before or after you downloaded the iStock photo? 😂

HangryLikeTheHulk · 23/08/2025 20:14

JackGrealishsBobbySocks · 23/08/2025 20:03

Lmao! If that were the case, why would you crop out the marauding dogs?

Absolutely no one believes your little story, you sad sack.

I didn’t take any photos of the dogs as I was chasing the annoying pricks away.

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