Thinking is weird my friend wants my man to help her move out with driving her stuff and putting stuff in her new home?

[Tommelige]

Im very sure i will prob get lots of different opinions on this.
to begin with we been togheter for 3 years my partner knows her trough me and he only have meet her trough some parties we have been hosting. So they don’t have each other on socials either. Last party my friend was hinting that she will move out from her parents house soon and looking for someone to help her move out, felt like she was kinda hinting that to my partner since she was looking at him. But its not like people in her family don’t drive at all. I felt a bit weird why she wants my partner to help in this. Another friend told me that some girls are like that when u get a man, they also expect your man to help them and do things for them because ur their best friend.

Yes, I’ve lost count of how many friends we’ve helped move house down the years. And for years there were lots of decorating parties. I got quite goood at cutting in, ever after a couple of drinks.

Don't think it's strange, she clearly needs help with moving, and is trying to ask without asking...

My husband would help my friends, neighbours if they needed anything, without us even thinking about it.

Perhaps ask her if she needs help...

It's 'thought', ''dude' and are you aged about 16?

Why would your partner not help your friend move? And you, of course? She's your friend.

Irish I thought.

OP, asking friends to help with a move is completely normal. I'm not sure why you think it's so strange. You sound a bit insecure in your relationship?

Does your boyfriend have access to a van? That would make much more sense.

AHH this is so awkward, but anyway...🍿.

Is it what people do?

I’ve always hired movers.

I don’t understand how people think you are being unreasonable.

No, your friend is not entitled to your sexual partner moving her out of her parent’s house.

😂😂😂

Omg I did too & thought that's not fair on Grandma 🤦‍♀️ 😂

Both you and your partner should offer to help her.
We have done this many times, to help close friends.

🤡

Does he have a large van or car? She probably just wants free help moving. My husband helped my best friend move because she can’t drive and he can.

If that were me I wd just hire a man with a van.

Are you competing with the Op for the weirdests post(s)?

The snobbery on here! Is this forum only for middle aged women with perfect English? All ages and backgrounds are welcome as far as I know!

Creative writing tips. 😂

People kept talking about decorating parties so I thought I'd try it once. I invited half a dozen friends to my new flat, provided snacks & drinks, and tried to get them decorating. They were horrified - apparently, they'd thought it was just a little housewarming party and I was trying to be different with the 'decorating' part It was quite embarrassing.

I ended up doing the bloody decorating myself, as usual.

Why are you typing with an Irish accent?
Just ignore the hints if neither of you want to help - or be nice and say you'd both be delighted to pitch in.

Or a Nan with a van. Might be a gap in the market there.

I’m sure I’ve seen something like that on dragon’s den

Yes it’s normal to ask friends to help with stuff like that and presumably your bf would be quite strong so from a practical perspective handy in a move

I'd find it odd if she asked her friend's boyfriend to help rather than her friend (you) or both of you together. But perhaps she has the kind of furniture that can only be lifted with a penis.

It's probably because I'm getting old, but my penis isn't up to the job any more.

It might be able to rummage through the cutlery drawer, but it's definitely not helping you down the stairs with a sofa

Or a nun with a gun if it's a rough area.