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To think MIL should replace DD's hair products?

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comeandhaveteawithme · 09/08/2025 12:40

MIL recently took DD away on Holiday, for which I am of course very grateful.

I packed her a hand luggage backpack and a small suitcase. I obviously put any liquids over 150ml in her suitcase, which I was told would be checked into the hold.

Once at the airport, they decided DD's suitcase was small enough to go on as hand luggage so they didn't bother checking it in.

Subsequently, all of DD's hair products were confiscated and thrown away. She has long, thick hair that can be difficult to manage so I buy her certain products that we've tried and tested that work on her hair, the products total about £20. Also confiscated was a bottle of sun cream that costs £7.

We don't have a lot of spare money, and still have four weeks of the Summer Holidays left to go and need any spare cash we have. I can't really spend an extra £27 replacing these products that were almost full when I packed them and have now just been chucked in the bin. My Summer Holiday plans and budget are very carefully calculated. £27 is lunches for the week.

It is reasonable to think MIL should have bought her new stuff? I'm not going to ask her, but should she have replaced them? or AIBU and should just suck it up because she took her away and treated her?
DH just thinks it's all my fault and seems to think it somewhat amusing that I "still don't know liquid rules at airports" 🙄

OP posts:
notevencharging · 15/08/2025 08:07

FWiW, if I was your MIL and I’d made a decision that led to your DD having her products thrown away, yes I would replace them. The fact that they offered to take her on holiday and paid for the flight is irrelevant.

MistyMountainTop · 15/08/2025 11:33

AnnoyedAsAllHeck · 15/08/2025 07:55

@comeandhaveteawithme This thread had me laughing from the beginning. You got bashed for a totally normal response by the pearl-clutching OCD brigade.
I am glad it worked out and very happy you didn't let them "pick on" you for something that you didn't do. I would not let someone do that to me, either.

And no, one cannot decant mousse, at least the kind you use in hair. Not sure about dessert mousse. Maybe one could decant that, if they really wanted to do so. 😉

But would you want to take 100ml of dessert mouse on holiday? Surely the bubbles would pop and you'd be left with a mess by the time you arrived.

AnnoyedAsAllHeck · 15/08/2025 18:11

MistyMountainTop · 15/08/2025 11:33

But would you want to take 100ml of dessert mouse on holiday? Surely the bubbles would pop and you'd be left with a mess by the time you arrived.

That would depend upon how hungry I was when I was packing......and, of course, if it was chocolate. 😉

TheRagingCrumpet · 20/08/2025 06:28

You did great and I love your writing!

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