Pressured into having a baby by older partner

[courtneyk92]

I've been seeing a 45 year old man, I am a 32 year old female. He looks after me so well. I've been dating him since 2023, and just these last few months gotten serious where we've moved in together. He has 3 grown children, all 20+ (had them young). I have a 8 and 6 year old who he adores. He really wants more kids, since he met me he has said "every single day I vision what our children will look like" , "my dream is to have a baby with you", "are you prepared to give me a baby", " I want lots of babies with you" and just begs me for a baby constantly. to the extent he keeps taking the Condom off.. and purposely ... inside me and I keep taking the morning after pill and its making me so sick. I feel so pressured because he gets moody if I say no :( any advice ?

If this is true then you are obviously in an abusive relationship even though you say he treats you well he doesn't respect you as an individual he sees you as a breeding machine.
Leave him.

Me and another poster pointed out yesterday that this post was obviously fake I got a rude reply stating "it's comments like this which cause women to think they won't be believed" or something like that, and our posts got deleted. Looks like everyone else is now cottoning on to the obvious.

100% this. ⬆️ He's actually abusing you!! Why the hell are you continuing to have sex with him? Why are you allowing him to remove the condom, mid-sex & then continue? 🤷‍♀️

This and what you originally posted are horrifying different.

I hope to fuck you leave this man. He’s a rapist, a criminal and a frightening predator. Are you vulnerable, OP?

Why do you think you should be blaming the victim for her rapist stealthing her? I mean, come on.

What on earth are you expecting people to advise you to do? Have a baby with your rapist DP and it will probably all work out fine? No. This is another situation of 'any man is better than no man'. It's depressing.

That is rape
Please get as far away from him as possible

Why can't you use another method of contraception like the implant or injection as well as condoms. Though it's more important that you kick him out now, do you own the property?

What am I reading? You need to get out immediately. This is disturbing.