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I couldn’t sleep last night, worrying about a Reform government

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Cluborange666 · 01/08/2025 09:15

I am really worried. I think they’ll wreck the economy. I’ve got a few years left to pay off my mortgage from my job that deals with immigrants. I don’t want our pensions to tank. I don’t want my sons’ lives to be messed around. I worry about more racism, the more ‘voice’ that Reform get. I live in a very multicultural city and non-white people tell me that they are experiencing more overt racism. It makes me feel very insecure about the future.

wish Labour would do more to show that they are on the side of ordinary people as I think that’s what is driving this (I’m a Labour voter). I don’t think the creation of Your Party will help, just give Reform more advantages.

Sigh. Happy to be told I’m unreasonable as I think the future looks bleak.

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twistyizzy · 02/08/2025 12:00

TruckDiver · 02/08/2025 11:57

So I'm going to say exactly the same thing about Farage as I said about Johnson.

The fact that people feel insulted by the "metropolitan liberal elites" and alienated from a Labour party dominated by them is absolutely understandable (although I would dispute the idea that the abuse and insult is all, or even mostly, one way).

The fact that they think Farage is the answer to this, because he's really got their their back, speaks their language and is going to raise them up at the expense of those elites, is absolutely fucking batshit insane. It's a tragic combination of gullability, desperation and lack of critical thinking.

You can be insulted by that if you want. It's the truth.

"Tragic combination of gullability, desperation and lack of critical thinking" I feel exactly the same about some Labour voters.

EasternStandard · 02/08/2025 12:01

TruckDiver · 02/08/2025 11:57

So I'm going to say exactly the same thing about Farage as I said about Johnson.

The fact that people feel insulted by the "metropolitan liberal elites" and alienated from a Labour party dominated by them is absolutely understandable (although I would dispute the idea that the abuse and insult is all, or even mostly, one way).

The fact that they think Farage is the answer to this, because he's really got their their back, speaks their language and is going to raise them up at the expense of those elites, is absolutely fucking batshit insane. It's a tragic combination of gullability, desperation and lack of critical thinking.

You can be insulted by that if you want. It's the truth.

I don’t think so. There’s a problem, people are aware of it and politicians are mostly telling them they are extreme. Of course that won’t work and make people angry.

Do you like Corbyn’s party, Reformers like and trust him more than they do Starmer.

TruckDiver · 02/08/2025 12:03

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 02/08/2025 11:54

I grew up in a Labour household, under Thatcher in a northern town. The amount of trust capital that Labour had to burn through to have me switch to Conservatives was phenomenal.

But you know when a party tells you that you are a bigot for knowing the nature of your own sex is routed exclusively in biology that they are capable of lying and gaslighting without any shame of hypocrisy. And now they are telling you that they can grow the economy by hobbling businesses, that they'll curb illegal immigration as the open the doors wider, that they'll start a house building extravaganza...and then bield fewer than in covid.

Once you can get people to repeat the absurd, they'll swallow fucking anything.

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So which of those things that you've listed do you think the Conservatives did better?

Goldenbear · 02/08/2025 12:03

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 02/08/2025 11:54

I grew up in a Labour household, under Thatcher in a northern town. The amount of trust capital that Labour had to burn through to have me switch to Conservatives was phenomenal.

But you know when a party tells you that you are a bigot for knowing the nature of your own sex is routed exclusively in biology that they are capable of lying and gaslighting without any shame of hypocrisy. And now they are telling you that they can grow the economy by hobbling businesses, that they'll curb illegal immigration as the open the doors wider, that they'll start a house building extravaganza...and then bield fewer than in covid.

Once you can get people to repeat the absurd, they'll swallow fucking anything.

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Yes but that is list of how Labour lost your vote.

What specific Reform policies have made you think you'll vote for them? What are they going to do about poverty for example, which, considering the country is experiencing levels of wealth inequality last seen in the Victorian era, surely you'd agree this is something a political party should be addressing?

Catsandcheese · 02/08/2025 12:04

TruckDiver · 02/08/2025 11:36

@Catsandcheese Reform are a one trick pony, if people want to support them and the clowns manage to form a government, a year in they will all be like I am soooooo disappointed in this shit show, they’ve wrecked the economy and omg how many small boats have arrived today!

That would be fine if it were true (well, not fine exactly but at least self correcting). But in reality most people are not that rational or flexible and don't tend to evaluate things that way. Once they're invested in an ideology or solution it's easier for them to believe excuses and blame God knows what outside influences for its continued failure, than to seriously consider they may have been wrong. Just look at Brexit, or Trump (or, for political balance, how long it took western communists in the 1960s and 70s to acknowledge the failure of the USSR).

If Reform come into government and royally fuck everything up it will be the fault of the woke left. And immigrants.

No if Reform get to form a government it will be the fault of the people who voted for them.
I don’t believe somebody who normally votes labour because their view is a sort of centre/left outlook would ever vote to the right.
I have occasionally voted green when unhappy with the Labour Party of the day. They at least have a left wing ideology so that’s where my protest vote would go.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 02/08/2025 12:04

Quirkswork · 02/08/2025 11:26

They are currently top of 80 polls.

I'm sure they are. They still have to win over 300 seats to get into power.

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 02/08/2025 12:08

I think the economy was beginning to improve under Rishi, I think a deterrent for migrant crossings was more effective than an imaginary elite gang busting team. It wasn't that I thought they had all the answers, just that they had the better manifesto and they hadn't demonstrated themselves capable of gaslighting members of their own party because they would fall in line about gender discourse.

I hadn't predicted Labour would be as bad as this though, this is dreadful.

Goldenbear · 02/08/2025 12:11

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 02/08/2025 12:08

I think the economy was beginning to improve under Rishi, I think a deterrent for migrant crossings was more effective than an imaginary elite gang busting team. It wasn't that I thought they had all the answers, just that they had the better manifesto and they hadn't demonstrated themselves capable of gaslighting members of their own party because they would fall in line about gender discourse.

I hadn't predicted Labour would be as bad as this though, this is dreadful.

But you still haven't said what policies Reform have that has swung your vote? If they formed a government (terrifying prospect) why would the UK be, "Somewhere over the rainbow"?

PandoraSocks · 02/08/2025 12:14

@ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera I agree that Labour are pretty dreadful in many ways so far. I still won't be voting for Reform though.

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 02/08/2025 12:19

PandoraSocks · 02/08/2025 12:14

@ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera I agree that Labour are pretty dreadful in many ways so far. I still won't be voting for Reform though.

Nor will I, but I won't be insulting those who do vote for Reform nor will I be ignoring the Labour mess while their supporters make bogeymen out of these othered voters.

TruckDiver · 02/08/2025 12:20

twistyizzy · 02/08/2025 12:00

"Tragic combination of gullability, desperation and lack of critical thinking" I feel exactly the same about some Labour voters.

Yep, I agree.

So where do we go from here? We can double down in our tribes and hurl insults back at the ones we feel are insulting us, and emotionally or reflexively support the policies that various politicians put to us to assauge that sense of insult. Or we can sit down and analyse those policies, and the actual position and agenda of the politicians promoting them, and proceed accordingly.

Farage is a privileged multi millionaire who wants to see a Britain with a much smaller state and smaller tax regime, particular when it comes to tax on those who already have wealth, like him. When you consider Reform's policies as a whole - including the massive reduction in government revenues, privatisation of healthcare etc. and not just the reduction in immigration which is somehow supposed to make up for it all - the only result can be the destruction of the services upon which many people depend, a greater difficulty for most people to make up the difference in the private sector (due to weaker trade unions, greater deregulation of corporations etc.) and a consequent humungous increase in inequality.

I get that many people are crying out for SOMETHING, and I agree that Starmer's Labour ain't it. But Brexit wasn't it, Johnson's "levelling up" wasn't it and this ain't it either.

ThePhantomoftheEcobubbleOpera · 02/08/2025 12:21

Goldenbear · 02/08/2025 12:11

But you still haven't said what policies Reform have that has swung your vote? If they formed a government (terrifying prospect) why would the UK be, "Somewhere over the rainbow"?

Oh, clearly you have a faulty reformdar.

EasternStandard · 02/08/2025 12:25

TruckDiver · 02/08/2025 12:20

Yep, I agree.

So where do we go from here? We can double down in our tribes and hurl insults back at the ones we feel are insulting us, and emotionally or reflexively support the policies that various politicians put to us to assauge that sense of insult. Or we can sit down and analyse those policies, and the actual position and agenda of the politicians promoting them, and proceed accordingly.

Farage is a privileged multi millionaire who wants to see a Britain with a much smaller state and smaller tax regime, particular when it comes to tax on those who already have wealth, like him. When you consider Reform's policies as a whole - including the massive reduction in government revenues, privatisation of healthcare etc. and not just the reduction in immigration which is somehow supposed to make up for it all - the only result can be the destruction of the services upon which many people depend, a greater difficulty for most people to make up the difference in the private sector (due to weaker trade unions, greater deregulation of corporations etc.) and a consequent humungous increase in inequality.

I get that many people are crying out for SOMETHING, and I agree that Starmer's Labour ain't it. But Brexit wasn't it, Johnson's "levelling up" wasn't it and this ain't it either.

I don’t mind assessing policies and will do at the next GE. I even read Corbyn’s statement with interest.

I think they all need to set out their stall and see what happens. Reform might get in, idk

So far there’s an increasing problem motivating more people.

yellowspanner · 02/08/2025 12:25

I voted Reform in the GE and local elections and will do so again .
My worry is whether there will be any evony left by the time they get in which I hope will be at the next GE

TruckDiver · 02/08/2025 12:26

Catsandcheese · 02/08/2025 12:04

No if Reform get to form a government it will be the fault of the people who voted for them.
I don’t believe somebody who normally votes labour because their view is a sort of centre/left outlook would ever vote to the right.
I have occasionally voted green when unhappy with the Labour Party of the day. They at least have a left wing ideology so that’s where my protest vote would go.

Sorry, I keep forgetting that the internet is not a great vehicle for sarcasm.

What I meant was that "If Reform come into government and royally fuck everything up it will be blamed on the woke left. And immigrants. And people will believe it.

twistyizzy · 02/08/2025 12:26

TruckDiver · 02/08/2025 12:20

Yep, I agree.

So where do we go from here? We can double down in our tribes and hurl insults back at the ones we feel are insulting us, and emotionally or reflexively support the policies that various politicians put to us to assauge that sense of insult. Or we can sit down and analyse those policies, and the actual position and agenda of the politicians promoting them, and proceed accordingly.

Farage is a privileged multi millionaire who wants to see a Britain with a much smaller state and smaller tax regime, particular when it comes to tax on those who already have wealth, like him. When you consider Reform's policies as a whole - including the massive reduction in government revenues, privatisation of healthcare etc. and not just the reduction in immigration which is somehow supposed to make up for it all - the only result can be the destruction of the services upon which many people depend, a greater difficulty for most people to make up the difference in the private sector (due to weaker trade unions, greater deregulation of corporations etc.) and a consequent humungous increase in inequality.

I get that many people are crying out for SOMETHING, and I agree that Starmer's Labour ain't it. But Brexit wasn't it, Johnson's "levelling up" wasn't it and this ain't it either.

Starmer is a privileged millionaire too!

SilenceOfTheTimTams · 02/08/2025 12:27

PandoraSocks · 02/08/2025 11:59

That is really interesting.

So you supported Corbyn. You must have been aware of his policies and aligned with them to do so?

You are an intelligent person, I can't believe you just voted for Corbyn-era Labour automatically with no thought at all. Especially given the high profile savaging of him and his policies in the media at the time.

But now you will vote Reform to keep a far more right wing version of Labour out?

Starmer is certainly to the right of Corbyn but in some ways - not all - this is a significantly left-wing government, certainly if you compare it to Blair’s New Labour.

The problem Starmer has is that it’s North London dinner party left, not pit village left.

Starmer is destroying Labour with his stupidity, his woodenness and his appalling voguish politics.

And as a figurehead Starmer has none of the charisma and brains of Blair or Johnson, the genuineness of Brown or Major or Sunak, or the backbone of Thatcher. He’s a weedy little unlikeable man with nothing in his mind apart from misplaced self-promotion and ambition.

EasternStandard · 02/08/2025 12:30

twistyizzy · 02/08/2025 12:26

Starmer is a privileged millionaire too!

This is such a bad way to decide. It’s how we got the ludicrous tool maker nonsense and now Starmer is in.

Corbyn isn’t poor either.

The whipping up of what the spouses do or parents is so trite and unhelpful. Look at the policies. I agree with you.

TruckDiver · 02/08/2025 12:30

Starmer is certainly to the right of Corbyn but in some ways - not all - this is a significantly left-wing government, certainly if you compare it to Blair’s New Labour.

In what ways?

Catsandcheese · 02/08/2025 12:36

TruckDiver · 02/08/2025 12:26

Sorry, I keep forgetting that the internet is not a great vehicle for sarcasm.

What I meant was that "If Reform come into government and royally fuck everything up it will be blamed on the woke left. And immigrants. And people will believe it.

I am sorry 😀, totally misunderstood.

Of course you are correct. They will need to blame somebody, because unfortunately what Reform propose is unworkable without massive spending cuts which will make austerity look like a walk in the park.

There is a part of me that would like to see them win just to prove the point but as we see from Brexit the voters for that still believe it’s a good idea despite overwhelming evidence to the contrary.

i am pleased to see Starmer trying to rebuild our relationship with the EU, if we remove trade barriers we may see the growth that we need.

Trump’s seesawing on tariffs however is playing havoc globally, stock markets falling and rising on his whims, he and his friends will be rubbing their hands together with glee at the billions they are making. At the expense of other countries’ economies.

SilenceOfTheTimTams · 02/08/2025 12:37

TruckDiver · 02/08/2025 12:30

Starmer is certainly to the right of Corbyn but in some ways - not all - this is a significantly left-wing government, certainly if you compare it to Blair’s New Labour.

In what ways?

Tax policy. Trade union rights. A lack of any real willingness to tackle out-of-control welfare (Blair spoke out about that recently). Energy policy. Israel. Until the Supreme Court put the mockers on it, trans rights.

There are other things. But you can look them up yourself.

EasternStandard · 02/08/2025 12:38

Catsandcheese · 02/08/2025 12:36

I am sorry 😀, totally misunderstood.

Of course you are correct. They will need to blame somebody, because unfortunately what Reform propose is unworkable without massive spending cuts which will make austerity look like a walk in the park.

There is a part of me that would like to see them win just to prove the point but as we see from Brexit the voters for that still believe it’s a good idea despite overwhelming evidence to the contrary.

i am pleased to see Starmer trying to rebuild our relationship with the EU, if we remove trade barriers we may see the growth that we need.

Trump’s seesawing on tariffs however is playing havoc globally, stock markets falling and rising on his whims, he and his friends will be rubbing their hands together with glee at the billions they are making. At the expense of other countries’ economies.

That is a silver lining from the Labour win at least. The gap between expectation and reality.

TruckDiver · 02/08/2025 12:39

EasternStandard · 02/08/2025 12:30

This is such a bad way to decide. It’s how we got the ludicrous tool maker nonsense and now Starmer is in.

Corbyn isn’t poor either.

The whipping up of what the spouses do or parents is so trite and unhelpful. Look at the policies. I agree with you.

Yes and no. Like it or not, people are influenced by PR and image. In many cases much more than they are by policies.

So when politicians try so hard to project an image that makes people think they're "on their side" - whether it's Johnson the good-natured bumbler with the funny hair, or Farage the ordinary bloke down the pub with the cigar and pint - it's reasonable to point out that what those politicians are aiming to achieve probably has to do with something altogether different than most people's best interests. And then have that in mind as you examine the policies.

I'm going to respond differently to Farage talking about what's good for working people than I am to Mick Lynch doing it.

Catsandcheese · 02/08/2025 12:39

EasternStandard · 02/08/2025 12:38

That is a silver lining from the Labour win at least. The gap between expectation and reality.

What do you mean?

EasternStandard · 02/08/2025 12:47

TruckDiver · 02/08/2025 12:39

Yes and no. Like it or not, people are influenced by PR and image. In many cases much more than they are by policies.

So when politicians try so hard to project an image that makes people think they're "on their side" - whether it's Johnson the good-natured bumbler with the funny hair, or Farage the ordinary bloke down the pub with the cigar and pint - it's reasonable to point out that what those politicians are aiming to achieve probably has to do with something altogether different than most people's best interests. And then have that in mind as you examine the policies.

I'm going to respond differently to Farage talking about what's good for working people than I am to Mick Lynch doing it.

Me too but probably not in the same way as you do. I can’t stand ML.

That’s politics to an extent, how they come across does count. But the tool maker stuff was sheer nonsense and I can’t believe people actually bought into it.

The media rounds on Sunak’s wife damaged his standing and totally unrelated to policy.

We ended up with Starmer which is suboptimal.

I actually think Corbyn is looking better than before PR-wise. He won’t get in power but he and his party could get quite a few votes.

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